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In a world where the husband-wife relationship is good fodder for stand-up comedy, this easy-to-read book offers fresh insight into the inner workings of a “husband’s mind”.

Through humorous nuggets and simple illustrations, this book explains how a husband ‘thinks’, what makes him ‘respond’ the way he does, his ‘reaction’ to certain situations that crop up in married life and what a wife can do to avoid friction and get her own way.

So, all newly married women out there and even those who've been married for years and losing hair thinking about why they forget your birthday, leave wet towels on the bed, don't notice your new hair style, watch TV when you talk to them – pick up this book and laugh your way through marriage! Husbands, it's time to laugh at yourselves!

169 pages, Paperback

First published September 22, 2021

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Rajasekar K.S.

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Profile Image for Avani ✨.
1,917 reviews449 followers
November 15, 2021
Am I married yet? No, but did I thoroughly enjoyed reading this book and laughed out loud for some of the snippets? Absolutely.

We all have always heard how marriages work and the so called husband wife fighting or even simply some forwards on whatsapp and here-&-there.

Well, this book is going to be on something similar where in we see some really good snippets and situations that occur between a husband and a wife.

The illustrations are also very nice and help us understand and enhance the reading process. Well, definitely pick this up as a fun and short read.
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243 reviews9 followers
October 19, 2021
Generally, people always talk about how it's impossible to understand a wife but this book shows us the other side of the coin.
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I often feel that marriage in itself is a very complex thing and then there are the two people getting into it with their own individual complexities. Booooomm!!!
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This book is a guide on understanding your husband better. Wife can read it to know why or how a husband acts in a particular situation and what should she be expecting from her husband. Humour combined with illustrations make these real life situations funny to read, and often you would feel that you have seen this happening within your family too.
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Though the book in itself is quite nice, it did portray husbands as hopeless and that wives should be prepared to do everything on their own or give a proper manual to husbands. After reading the book, I can't say I am looking much forward to get into these marriage situations.
Profile Image for Anu Sant.
126 reviews
October 4, 2022
Very easy read with interesting insights into the mind of the "husband". Hilarious and revealing too. Well illustrated.
Profile Image for The Bookish Elf.
2,893 reviews452 followers
November 18, 2021
Many romantic relationships begin with the question: "What is my partner thinking?" and with good reason. Each person experiences love differently, with their own habits, needs, and reactions to conflict. Fortunately, most people's minds work in predictable ways and respond well to security, attachment, and rituals, making it possible to actually neurologically prime the brain for greater love and fewer conflicts.

In 'How to Read Your Husband Like a Book', Rajasekar KS shares his insights about the little, often overlooked, unexpected actions that make a big difference in your relationship. This book shows you how to create an intimate and joyful union with your partner with simple, positive actions throughout the day. It answers questions, clears things up, displays surprising realities, and just makes it all around easier to understand the men in your life. It was kind of fun and refreshing just for the writing style.

With this book, you can gain an understanding of your husband's brain and establish an understanding of your relationship based on love and trust. Synthesizing research findings on how a husband thinks, what makes him respond the way he does, his reaction to certain situations that crop up in married life and what a wife can do to avoid friction, this book presents guiding principles that can improve any relationship.

Although love is an art and science that's difficult to predict, if you can figure out how you and your partner are wired differently, you'll be better able to overcome any differences you may have. 'How to Read Your Husband Like a Book' is sort of a "linguistics" course designed to teach you how to speak your husband's language. Besides cultivating a sense of humor about your male and female differences, you'll see how to open dialogue with him - and keep it going, frame what you’re saying with masculine interest areas, respond proactively to what your husband shares, and develop thicker skin.

Based on a decade of experience in the matchmaking industry, Rajasekar KS changes the way couples talk to, think about, and treat each other. In this book, he delivers relationship insights that take your marriage from "just fine" to "just the marriage you've always dreamed of." His writing is very personable and he does not beat a dead horse making the same point over and over. There are some obvious differences that mostly everyone knows and the author Rajasekar doesn't dwell on these, but rather focuses his book on those aspects of male personality and behavior that might surprise women. The book is not full of statistics, it is really more of a narrative of his findings from his experience.

Packed with eye-opening research and practical advice, this book will make your relationship better than you imagined. Overall, it's extremely insightful in how husbands think and react differently from wives and how wives should view and react to this difference. I have to say, though the audience is specifically women, I got some good insights into how I react and respond to things which I have to agree with, but maybe didn't quite realize I was doing. I recommend it to any woman or man, if they would like some vocabulary to explain things.
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295 reviews2 followers
October 20, 2021
Book Name: How to Read Your Husband Like a Book

Author: Rajasekar KS

"Tomorrow never comes for him. It's only today, nay only now!"

"How to Read Your Husband Like a Book" by Rajasekar KS is a book humorously talking about men's psychology. It's a short read, and it would take hardly an hour to finish it. The best thing about this book, according to me is the comics present inside the book after every other situation to make it more comprehensible and amusing. This book is perfect for married women's and for those who are going to start their married life.

Kudos! To the author for writing this book, I have always seen people talking about female and their psychology only, but it's rare of the rarest caste that someone talks about men and their psychology. So, I am really glad that the author has taken an initiative. Go ahead and definitely check this book out if you are married or if you are going to start your married life. This is a humorous yet informative book.

"He buries his mistake faster than an ice cream melting on a hot summer afternoon."
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581 reviews69 followers
November 7, 2021
•The book's original and one-of-a-kind cover page perfectly complements the content and title.

•This book is about the most beautiful yet complicated relationship on earth, namely, the connection between a husband and a wife. Even though they will be fighting, they will be trapped with each other. People who recognize this arguing and resolve it with love take their relationship to the next level, but things may sometimes spiral out of hand, leading to divorce. When both parties don't comprehend each other's point of view, these disagreements can get heated. These books are helpful at that time. It provides you an inside look at how Husbands think and get their conclusions regarding many issues in life. It also portrays husbands' diverse responses and reactions to various situations that arise in marital life. The author also discusses numerous things that wives should do to avoid conflict with their husbands.

•Read this lovely book to discover more about your Man's mentality. Purchase your version right away!!

•The book is written imaginatively, and the graphics make it even more amusing and entertaining. It's unique content to read, and readers will like the way it is represented. They will relate to the author's point of view and comprehend the Husband's mind's hard wiring. The book is for any woman who has been married for years yet still has too many heated disputes with her spouse. And for ladies who are about to marry since it will offer them an outline of what they will confront in the following phase of their lives. As a result, they may avoid such tussles and live a life full of love and passion.
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15 reviews
November 20, 2021
In reality, as we specifically, for the most part, understand it where the spouse-wife relationship, for the most part, for all intents and functions is best grub for stand-up parody, this very fairly simple book, sincerely gives new information into the inner things to normally do of a husband's psyche.

Through comical chunks and normally easy delineations, this book clarifies how a husband thinks what mainly virtually makes him react how he does, his response to the type of special situations that truly yield up in wedded life, and what a spouse can usually, in particular, do to actually keep away from grating and mainly get as she would particularly normally pick subtly in a subtle way.

From love bird, cheerfully wedded, to the people who type of for the most part are intending to typically take their marital pledges, their variety of literally is something for all of us, and anybody mainly sort of has something to add to the book.

The creator moreover examines pretty a sort of various things that spouses ought to particularly do to usually hold away from the combat with their husbands, demonstrating it, in addition, depicts spouses form of pretty special reactions and responses to one-of-a-kind instances that variety of clearly emerging in conjugal life, displaying how the creator kind of ordinarily has described his perception in phrases and comprehension of seeing any sort of individual and provides it a good complement with his portrayal, or so they by and large thought, which typically is pretty significant.
58 reviews
October 18, 2021
How to read your husband like a book by Rajasekar, a book strongly driven by both well developed characters as well as a strong, intriguing plot. The cover is very well in line with the plot and I really liked it. The book kept me hooked from the very first page.

The book mainly gives us a detailed analysis of relationships advice for husband and wife on healthy marriage life and to overcome the hurdles faced by them in each phase of their life.

The language is easy to understand. Writing style is so gripping and flowy. This added to a beautiful reading experience. Narration were so vivid that I could not only visualize what ever I was reading but I felt I am listening to the sounds also. In nutshell, was completely engrossed in the book. Though , the book is a work is fiction, but it is so meticulously executed that not even for a second I felt that I am reading fiction. It felt as these are real stories and real pain of people. This makes me draw the conclusion that Author is a skilled story teller.

The best part what I took out from the book was how important it is to know your family and bring up the best in life.
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101 reviews2 followers
October 20, 2021
The author has dedicated this book to all the happy couples who love and care for each other and stay by each other's side no matter how are their differences. Marriage is a very beautiful bond.
The author through this book tried to highlight the answers of most of the wives who are confused about their husband's activities. This book is kind of a shortcut to understanding the man and what are the causes of their specific activity and reasons behind their thought process.

The truth is they don’t think too much. They have just two boxes in their head - “things to do now” and “Don’t open this box”.
I enjoyed reading this book and some points were relatable to what see between my parents' bond. This book is recommended for all the wives and those ladies who are going to get married soon. A pathway to avoid chaos and peaceful life with your husband. I finished reading this book within one sitting. It has also some drawings that make the book look more interesting. The content penned down by the author is very short, specific and crisp. The writing style is elegant. The title is funny but the cover page is very thoughtful. Overall I liked this book.
318 reviews6 followers
November 5, 2021
Relationships are really hard and when I speak about “Marriage” it’s even harder therefore if a person tells you that marriage is easy then he/she is lying.

You want to know why for me as a women marriage is complicated!!!! then you must read this book by author Rajasekar KS who has jotted down many valuable tips and warnings for the bride to be and newly brides..

I certainly agree to many points highlighted by him in his extremely helpful book.
A) God created weekends for him and only for him to rest and relax.
B) To understand your husband, you must know his important family habits.
C) If you don’t ask him for help, he’ll be happy to let you do all the work.
D) He likes you to forget his mistakes and wishes you to pretend like nothing actually happened.

Well !!!! I am a happily married women but certainly I have gone through all these traits in 16 years of my married life. Still, at the end of the day, every relationship consists of two people with different choices, preferences, and tantrums. It’s compromising, debating and conceding and at the same time it’s also a lot of fun if you can inject some humor in your day-to-day life.
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565 reviews15 followers
October 17, 2021
"How to Read Your Husband Like a Book" is a book which explains a husband-wife relationship in a humorous way yet it's loaded with lots of information. In today's life where there're already lots of chaos and after working all day long we all need peace which can only be found in a happy family. And by any chance if there's no understanding between Husband and wife, there can never be peace and it'll always create lots of confusion and ultimately lead to fights.

This book is completely a research based project. Author has researched for almost 8 years to get to know about husband's reaction in different situation. You'll get to know everything you're trying to understand about your husband from a long time and also it's very helpful for the newly Married couple or couple who're going to get married as you'll come to know beforehand everything and you'll live in a happy relationship from the very beginning. I'll recommend this to every couple as it's easy to read and understand even if you're a non-reader.
69 reviews4 followers
October 18, 2021
'How to read your husband like a book ' is a unique book with an insightful analysis of the motives behind marriage and the relationship a husband and wife have in a  healthy marriage. Author here with loads of comical representation had tried to reveal on what goes on a married man's mind and how they think react in various situations to their relationship with their spouse to maintain a happy and healthy relationship.

The ideas that I gained were sufficient to recommend the book. The book here is all about what a husband does in a marital life and how much of effort he puts in into it to keep the strings attached.

This book states up front that the authors intent is to grossly generalize their findings, and they do.
Read the book. It’s short. It’s sparsely written. (Which isn’t to suggest that it lacks depth!) Goofy at times and might as well as entertain you with its cartoons.

One nice but not the best read - looking  forward for more interesting works from the author.

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407 reviews12 followers
October 19, 2021
The cover of this book is beautifully designed and it very aptly gives a glimpse of the content inside. The title is very unique!
The relationship between a husband and wife is a bittersweet one - a perfect blend of arguments and loving moments. There are a lot of books out there about 'how to understand wives' but this is the first book I came across that portrays a different point of view - 'how to understand husbands'.
The very first thing that I liked about the book is the representation. Humour and comedy is indeed a very interesting way to depict an important subject. Through funny illustrations and nuggets, the book portrays how a husband thinks, reacts and responds to situations and what a wife is to do to avoid fall outs.

This is definitely a very refreshing read. The theme is nicely chosen and the narration is absolutely engaging. I loved the illustrations, especially.

This book can actually act as a guide that'll help rediscover the unique bond between a husband and wife, keeping disagreements at bay!

A very enjoyable read. Go for it!
Profile Image for Huda Shadab.
246 reviews4 followers
October 20, 2021
Husband- Wife relationship is like a never ending arguments but also a never ending bond, where as some couple don't make it to the end, they ends up with a divorce.
This book is suitable for every one who are getting married, who are married and who wants to get married.
The author elaborates on how to understand a man's mind how to understand different situations in a married life.
Author points out to every women who always complain to their husband about small things and big things as well
Author first describes a situation of a man then he has also elaborated it with a picture on the next page to understand it more clearly.

Coming to the cover and the title of the book:
Title is indeed funny it showed it to my husband he too laughed at it.
Cover is attractive and goes with the title.

Narration:
Book is like a comic book, with illustration of the situations being described. Narration is simple and funny too I was reading the book and I was like yes that's like my husband does!

It was a fun read for me after a long time I read such a book!

Great job👍
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124 reviews4 followers
October 21, 2021
Book Name - How to read your husband like a book
Author - Rajasekar KS
My Rating - 4.5/5
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Witty, Informational and some good writing

I read this book past week, and can't stop quoting the phrases and incident from the book. This is humours yet informational book about the relationship between Husband and wife. The day to day crises and how to deal with it, the silly outcomes and whereabouts, that what make this piece beautiful.

Relationship of husband and wife is so common and yet it so sophisticated, sometimes it takes ages to figure out whats going on, and sometimes it just a matter of flick. This book also act as a tool to dive deep into the life of an ordinary household and try to tear down the problems and senerios to the basic and talk about how to this relationship can be more meaningful and how can we understand each other more efficiently.

#bookreader #bookoflife #household #husbandandwife #humour #sarcasm #funbook
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161 reviews20 followers
November 16, 2021
The author has characterized his wisdom in words and understanding in relationships, and given it a witty complement with his narration.
Not only has he grasped the content but also through his unique blend of words, humour, and illustrations, made it extremely engaging for the readers.
The misconceptions around the simplicity of a relationship are effectively and practically dealt with. Also, the readers feel one with the narration, the situations and the content being talked about, explained, discussed; this enhances the reading experience.
From newly wed, happily married, to those who are planning to take their nuptial vows, there's something for everyone and everyone has something to contribute to the book, either by understanding the content and implementing it or by implementing the the underlying subtle meaning of certain things in their relationship, and in turn understand their partners.
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313 reviews4 followers
October 17, 2021
Must read book!

Firstly and the most important reason why I like the book and would also like to talk about, is the theme of the book which attracted me the most, the whey author used a comic and a cartoonist way of describing and narrating the story.

This book touches comedies on to a very extent and I would like to recommend this book to every age group. Author's unique way of doing comedy was great i.e. by designing bubbles for what husband thinks and what he utters only due to fear of wife😜!

As I proceeded with this interesting book I just felt as if the author completely lives of the feel and the emotions attached between husband and wife the way the fight the way the argue the way they explain their point in a humorous way, small moments of happiness.

Happy reading
Thank you🖤
199 reviews
October 21, 2021
How to read your husband like a book

In a world where the husband-wife relationship is good fodder for stand-up comedy, this easy to-read book offers fresh insight into the inner workings of a "husband's mind".

Through humorous nuggets and simple illustrations, this book explains how a husband 'thinks', what makes him 'respond' the way he does, his 'reaction' to certain situations that crop up in married life and what a wife can do to avoid friction and get her own way.

So, all newly married women out there and even those who've been married for years and losing hair thinking about why they forget your birthday, leave wet towels on the bed, don't notice your new hair style, watch TV when you talk to them - pick up this book and laugh your way through marriage! Husbands, it's time to laugh at yourselves! Highly recommend to everyone

Happy Reading 📚
119 reviews1 follower
October 17, 2021
The Book is all about the relationship between Husband And Wife. This book is dedicated to all those married couples who love, support and care for each other.
The author of this book "Rajasekar KS '' has been working in the matchmaking industry for 8 years and through this Book he tries to Show How men think and act in different situations.
This book shows the harsh reality of men that might hurt them, but it's true.
When I started to read this book, i tried to relate it with many couple who fight alot but at the same time they love each other soo much.
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Overall it's a very helpful book for the wives to know their husband. Book is short to read and completed within an hour.
Book cover is also attractive. And the comic type cartoons also make this book amazing.
222 reviews2 followers
October 21, 2021
Ever read a comic book??
I personally remember reading TINKLE.

𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝘁𝗼 𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗱 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗵𝘂𝘀𝗯𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲 𝗮 𝗯𝗼𝗼𝗸 by 𝗥𝗮𝗷𝗮𝘀𝗲𝗸𝗮𝗿 𝗞 𝗦 is a special type of comic book with illustrations and hilarious statements specially related to husband and wife.the illustrations are good and reflects what is being said.
Author has exposed some secrets and some psychological aspects of a man.Although at the beginning, the author terms this book as something that can help a woman to understand a man.I found it helpful in the reverse way too.
There isn't much to speak about the book.Because there are just few lines on each page of the book.The paper count is about 160 pages.I would have enjoyed more if this idea is applied to make a book full of illustrations.
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161 reviews2 followers
October 18, 2021
Marriage is a never ending beautiful bond but some couple don't make it to the end and opt for divorce. This book is dedicated to all the couples who love, care for each other, also have some fights but do resolve them, stick to each other no matter what.
This book is like a guideline and talks about how to understand your husband
why activities ??
Their situation and reactions
The concept of this book was really good and interesting and something new to me. The narration was simple, at some points you may laugh and can co-relate to it.
It was short read , Language was good and it was a book with illustration which was amazing .
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36 reviews1 follower
December 29, 2024
Humours book which should be read by all married couples. Though beneath the humour is the difference in way husband’s think vs how there Wife think.

Even though I read the book in Marathi it was really fun to read.
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193 reviews40 followers
January 28, 2026
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3 reviews
February 14, 2022
Super duper read

Way too good!! Reading this was like hitting the nail repeatedly on the head. Bang on with the points and completely relatable.
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3 reviews1 follower
January 5, 2023
Extremely humerous. I am married and i can relate to 90% of the logic in this book. Amazing read!!
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