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The Gift of an Ordinary Day is an intimate memoir of a family in transition-boys becoming teenagers, careers ending and new ones opening up, an attempt to find a deeper sense of place, and a slower pace, in a small New England town. It is a story of mid-life longings and discoveries, of lessons learned in the search for home and a new sense of purpose, and the bittersweet ...more
Hardcover, 320 pages
Published September 7th 2009 by Grand Central Publishing (first published August 20th 2009)
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Sep 28, 2009 rated it it was ok
Shelves: first-reads
I didn't love this book... I felt like there were some great insights and thoughts, but I also felt that it was way too long and that she rambled a bit. She would make the same point over and over using different words or thoughts... honestly, it was like reading an insanely long blog post. There was a story line hidden in the meandering thoughts, but it was hard to keep track of as she jumped from past to present so often.
There were some good things. But not enough for me to like the book or
Jan 10, 2011 rated it it was amazing
As a mother, I felt this was the best book out there that has been written, regarding the truth of being a parent. Katrina Kenison does a wonderful job of laying it all out there in the wide range of emotions; some are painful, beautiful, endearing and some are just plain as raw as they can be described. While reading this book there were times that I became jealous, because this woman did what I have always felt needed to be done; she took the control over her life and her family's that needed ...more
Lara Van Hulzen
Feb 11, 2012 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: favorites
On the precipice of having one son in high school and the other in middle school, Katrina Kenison decides that maybe its time for the family to make a change. On the cusp of mid-life, she feels a tug for a simpler life. A smaller house, more open space, and the ability to focus on the next phase of life, one that entails mothering young men instead of little boys.

However, when she and her husband decide to sell their home, move to a small town in New England and renovate an old farmhouse, life
Jul 05, 2009 rated it it was amazing
I picked up this book expecting a ho-hum collection of musings on the meaning of motherhood, the need to grab on to the present, and the desire to have just one more "ordinary" day with your offspring. What I got was so much more. In the hallowed tradition of Anne Morrow Lindbergh's "Gift from the Sea," Katrina Kenison offers readers a glimpse of the world we wish we could capture on our own; one in which each day and each moment is treasured like the most valuable of jewels and described in ...more
Mar 12, 2010 rated it it was ok
This book took a looooong time to get through. As I thought of why, I can only guess it's because of the writing style. Kenison is very 'thoughtful' in the way she puts things, so I could only read a few pages before being saturated.

There were a few 'long-stretch-reads' I was able to accomplish and that got me through the book. I asked myself a few times why I was still reading it, why I didn't just take it back to the library unfinished? Well, the 2 or 3 real 'glimpses' I was awarded made the
Oct 28, 2009 rated it really liked it
My daughter came home from school last spring and told me that the salutatorian at a nearby high school had missed being valedictorian because she had taken orchestra, which is not officially an honors class and therefore not worth 5 points on a 4 point GPA scale. True or not, my daughter internalized this story and wondered aloud if taking band and art this year would hurt her life prospects. As someone with no torians to her credit, I told her that I hoped she would take band and art every ...more
Dec 23, 2009 rated it it was amazing
Wow. This book was an excellent but wrenching read for me right now. I loved Kenison's earlier book, Mitten Strings for God, and loved how it reminded mothers to focus on the moments while parenting young children. How much more we need the lessons in the teen years and while we are struggling to learn how to parent almost-adults who are about to leave. I identified so strongly with the emotions and the feeling of impending loss that I cried all to often during this book.
A few quotes that were
Aug 21, 2012 rated it really liked it
A must read for any mother who loves mothering her children, and who struggles daily with loving them enough to prepare them to one day leave home. This book provides great encouragement to parents who want simply to raise their children up to be who they are intended to be, not what prevailing society thinks our children should be.

So often it can be hard to escape societal noise about what "should" be important to us as parents, and to decide for ourselves what truly matters as it relates to
Anne Mcarthur
Sep 27, 2014 rated it it was amazing
I feel like I've come full-circle with Katrina Kenison. I read "Mitten Strings for God" when my children were younger. Now with one out of the nest, one nearly there and mid-life staring me in the face, I read this beautifully written book. As much about mid-life as nearly-grown children, her words spoke to the places in my heart having similar struggles with mid-life and what's next. The journey towards the end of high school and college searching made me smile in solidarity and anticipation.
Rebecca Young
Feb 28, 2013 rated it it was amazing
LOVE her writing. This is a book I will be giving to SO many of my friends for a gift. Each day I took it to the gym, I would ALWAYS end up getting off my machine and running to grab a pencil at the front desk because I had to mark something.

Her writing is very soothing and calming to me. She has a way of speaking about the changes in life, that just reassures the reader that things will be ok. That we don't have to push and pull and worry so much. We can TRUST that life will work itself out,
Dec 10, 2009 rated it really liked it
This book is so lovely. I read the author's first book Mitten Strings for God (about life with little children) when I was postpartum with baby #4. It affected me greatly, by planting a seed in my mind to stop watching TV and listening to news on the radio in the morning. Now this book, the sequel, is about the author with children who are teens. How fitting for me to read it now that my oldest are up there too and I was postpartum again, this time with baby #7. (I was disappointed to read in ...more
Dec 30, 2011 rated it liked it
Shelves: biography
It was interesting enough to keep me reading to the end but I don't think I'll recommend it highly. Her earlier book had much food for thought about a mother's efforts to simplify and slow down a hectic life with younger children. This book read more like a mother goes off the deep end in anxiousness about time and location angst as her children become teens and it takes her three years to come to grips with her anxiety and to remedy the upheaval it has created. She's aware and articulates, by ...more
Jan 05, 2011 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: memoir
I bought this at my 4th grade son's Scholastic Book Fair in December 2010, for myself. I read it over Christmas vacation and savored all the lovely, true parts she mentions that come with being a wife and a mother. I read slowly so that I could drink in every moment and feeling the author shares with her reader. It was wonderful to connect with her on many levels. I too left the city for the country with my husband, children and pets, and have never regretted the decision and choiced we've made. ...more
Dec 02, 2010 rated it liked it
I would have given the first half of this book four stars. I felt inspired by Kenison's forging through large changes in her life with confidence and some degree of optimism. I feel the older I get the more frightened of change I become. She helped me to think outside of that fear for a moment.
Later in the book Kenison's writing became too monotonous - writing ad nauseam in a self assessment, minutiae laden, universal truth sort of way. Too many pages that said the same thing again and again.
Aug 22, 2018 rated it liked it
I loved the title of this book more than the book itself. I found some points profound, and other parts of the book seemed repetitive. This definitely could have been a shorter book . Kenison writes about her life; her boys growing up, her impulsive moves, friends she meets, struggles her family goes through. And weaves in thoughts throughout about appreciating the smaller things in life,, taking time to savor each moment. She talks about simplicity, paring down, slowing down, but I couldn't ...more
Lenore Diviney
Aug 07, 2015 rated it really liked it
Great Read!!! While two of my favorite take-aways were actually quotes by others Katrina shares a side of herself we all know as mothers.
Tricia Howard
Apr 11, 2018 rated it liked it
It took me 9 months to read this book. Partly because it was verbose and at times it seemed to ramble on but also every emotion the author expressed I am feeling as I have a senior in high school and an 8th grader. I could identify with every emotion expressed and sometimes I would have tears in my eyes and just couldn't continue. The author has a gift with words and writes beautifully. I would have loved to have given it 5 stars but it wasn't quite there for me.
Jun 23, 2013 rated it really liked it
Another gem by Katrina Kenison, though I like Magical Journey a little better. This is a book about a time in her life when many changes were happening, her boys were growing up fast and she discovered that, in her words, "The memories I find myself sifting through the past to find, the ones that I would now give anything to relive, are the ones that no one ever thought to photograph, the ones that came and went as softly as a breeze on a summer afternoon. I has taken a while, but I know it now- ...more
Apr 06, 2018 rated it it was amazing
This is the second time I have read this book. I knew I needed to pick it up again because it's about how life and motherhoold continue to change as adolescent children become adults. It's a perfect read for any of you who, like me, are constantly reinventing ourselves to make sure that we are doing right by our growing kids. Feels appropriate that I finished it today as Jude and I are spending the day in Boston on his first college tours. I couldn't recommend this book more. Be warned: it can ...more
Teresa Staton
Feb 25, 2017 rated it really liked it
What an enjoyable, quiet read! As a mother of four kids, the oldest being 11, I value the wisdom of those farther down the mothering path. In this memoir, Kenison, a mother of two teenage sons, writes about a time in her family's life that included a drawn-out move, a child applying and eventually transitioning to college, raising teenagers, and trying to find identity amidst the changes. Kenison is authentic about mistakes and struggles; I never felt like she was putting on a pretty face, and I ...more
Dec 02, 2010 rated it it was amazing
Alright, so I'm only 10 pages into this book and already feel a kinship with the author - now if I could only express myself so eloquently, ahhh, the dream of becoming a writer . . .

I connected immediately with this book and wanted to share a portion from the introduction: "And so I offer the story of my midlife searching and mothering over the course of five unsettled years, in the hope that other mothers will recognize aspects of themselves in these pages and remember that, unique though our
Erin Riley
Oct 19, 2017 rated it it was amazing
One of my favorite books of all time. Couldn't stop reading it. Finished it. Read it again. Simple and pure.
Feb 01, 2014 rated it it was amazing
A few months before my grandmother died we were talking one day on the phone about the fact that my life was crazy and we were trying to find a house to buy. Grandma lived a pretty simple life on a beautiful farm in the country. The one place you can go to leave your cares behind, eat well, and relax in the beauty of nature. Long country road walks and hikes through the woods, daily views of the wildlife, and the songs of birds in the trees that sound exactly like something you would overpay for ...more
Feb 20, 2011 rated it really liked it
I have been a fan of Katrina Kenison since Mitten Strings for God. This book(The Gift Of an Ordinary Day)took me almost a year to read. Not because it was boring or anything negative, but because of where I was in my life. I would pick it up frequently though, never going for more than a few weeks between readings. The premise of the book is that her boys are getting older, and heading towards leaving home. She describes with such power and simplicity the feelings that those changes bring to a ...more
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Mar 10, 2011 rated it really liked it
Shelves: adult
Katrina Kenison's in depth (perhaps too lengthy?) look at what it is to parent nearly grown sons, how to fashion a life worthy of living in midlife, and to live in harmony with those around her spoke to me from page one. Though admittedly a bit long and repetitive, I found myself sticky noting too many pages for the sheer beauty of the words.
Slow down. Enjoy. Don't over parent. Be in the moment. Seek who you are.
I needed to read this book.
Your children are not your children.
They are the sons
I loved Katrina Kenison's previous book, Mitten Strings for God (such an unfortunate title for marketing purposes - it wasn't really about God so much as a spiritual, deliberate way of living), which she wrote when her kids were young, about living less-scheduled days with less hurry. That book, along with Simplicity Parenting, are probably the two books I'd put on my "this is how I want to parent" shelf.

So I jumped to read this book, which she wrote some years later. It is a bit more unsettled
Caroline Roberts
Aug 08, 2012 rated it it was ok
Kenison does go on a bit - saying the same thing in 5 different ways, but as mum who is the same age as the author with three teenagers I did find myself brimming up on several occasions and identifying with her thoughts and feelings. It made me feel guilty for not being the 'Supermum' she seemed to be (although part of me was thinking 'you need to get out more love and stop living your life through your children!') nostalgic for the days of cutting and sticking and sad that I didn't make the ...more
Nov 28, 2009 rated it really liked it
Shelves: non-fiction
If you like sentences like "Contenment and grace may be two sides of the same coin." or "One reason I am happy here is because I've decided to be." or Mend the part of the world that is within your reach.", you will probably like reading The gift of an ordinary day.

Katrina Kenison decides to leave the hectic world of suburban Boston for the simple life in rural New Hampshire, dragging her 3 "men", sometimes kicking and screaming, with her. When her long time book editing job ends, and she finds
Feb 22, 2015 rated it liked it
I found it hard to decide on a rating for this book. On the one hand, I found the writing style maddening -- it was extremely repetitive and went back and forth in time frequently for no apparent reason. I was so frustrated with it that I put the book down twice, intending to quit it completely. But I don't like to leave things unfinished, so I picked it back up...and ended up loving the book's message, which seemed to be:

- See your children for who they are and support them in being themselves.
Nov 17, 2009 rated it really liked it
This book grabbed me as the premise was a mother watching her children become teenagers and eventually college bound. That is many years off for me, but this passage caught my attention and held it throughout the book:

"It seemed to me during those early years of child raising that my sons' childhoods would go on forever. I couldn't imagine any life other than the one that consumed me right then, a life shaped by the joys and demands of raising young children."

What the author conveys is that it
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