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Hoping to outpace her grief in the wake of her father's suicide, Marina has come to the small, rural Japanese town of Shika to teach English for a year. But in Japan, as she soon discovers, you can never really throw away your past . . . or anything else, for that matter.
If You Follow Me is at once a fish-out-of-water tale, a dark comedy of manners, and a strange kind of l ...more
If You Follow Me is at once a fish-out-of-water tale, a dark comedy of manners, and a strange kind of l ...more
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Paperback, 384 pages
Published
March 9th 2010
by Harper Perennial
(first published February 20th 2010)
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Would I have adored this book so much if I hadn't been an English teacher in Japan myself? I don't know. All I can say is that it hooked me from the first letter, in which Marina's supervisor chides her for not following _gomi_ (garbage) law. Suddenly I could remember myself trying to figure out if my garbage was -moeru- (burnable) or not, and where to put it, and all the million other ways a foreigner could make mistakes in Japan.
While this book is set in Japan, it's not just about Japan. Nor i ...more
While this book is set in Japan, it's not just about Japan. Nor i ...more

Oh man, I don't know. I wanted to like this story of a young woman coming to teaching English in Japan while struggling with her reactions to her father's suicide, and it's clear Watrous has lived in Japan and has a keen eye for the absurd or interesting detail (the plastic high school slippers, the sweltering teacher's rooms). But having lived here for more than a decade, I reacted to a lot of this book the way one might react to a horror movie in which the cute young teen suggests they all spl
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Officially, Marina goes to rural Japan to teach English for a year. Unofficially, she goes to rural Japan because she doesn’t really know what else to do with herself; she’s just finished college, her father has committed suicide, and when her new girlfriend, Carolyn, decides to go, Marina wants to go too. It’s an escape for her, an identity moratorium in a place where she hopes to leave the bad things behind and move on with her life.
Of course, with her limited Japanese, even basic conversation ...more
Of course, with her limited Japanese, even basic conversation ...more

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Many thanks to Harper Perennial for allowing me the opportunity to review Malena Watrous's "If You Follow Me".
This was my first adult woman lit novel in a very long time. It's a genre I tend to overlook nowadays - though not because I dislike it.
When I first found myself craving novels again, back in my early twenties, "Chick Lit" was all I read. I tore the bookshelves at Border's apart, searching for the next Anna Maxted, Sophie Kinsella, and Helen Fielding. They were books wi ...more
Many thanks to Harper Perennial for allowing me the opportunity to review Malena Watrous's "If You Follow Me".
This was my first adult woman lit novel in a very long time. It's a genre I tend to overlook nowadays - though not because I dislike it.
When I first found myself craving novels again, back in my early twenties, "Chick Lit" was all I read. I tore the bookshelves at Border's apart, searching for the next Anna Maxted, Sophie Kinsella, and Helen Fielding. They were books wi ...more

Attempting to flee her grief after her father’s suicide, 22-year-old Marina leaves bustling New York for the small, quirky town of Shika, Japan. Despite submerging herself in a new culture, a burgeoning career as an English language teacher, and within various complicated relationships both personally and professionally, Marina finds she can’t avoid her past — no matter how ridiculous the present may get.
The more Marina attempts to fit into her new community with Carolyn, the girlfriend she met ...more
The more Marina attempts to fit into her new community with Carolyn, the girlfriend she met ...more

ETA: Okay, nevermind about the never-to-finish categorization. I ended up reading the book in a day due to my work computer getting whacked with issues one after another. The writing is very good, and I was able to enjoy most of the book quite a bit once I started skipping over the lesbian/threesome/pot-smoking/depressed-daddy-flashbacks. I especially enjoyed reading the budding romance between the protagonist and her Japanese supervisor, Miyoshi. The romance was actually very similar to the one
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I thought this book would be great, because of the original plot, but it was boring.
Maybe, this book it's not for me.
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Maybe, this book it's not for me.
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"I am kind of so sorry."
"You have committed a rude."
The use of the above accented English is just one way in which Malena Watrous, debut author of If You Follow Me, transports her readers to Japan where 22-year-old Marina has moved with her girlfriend, Carolyn, to teach for a year. Carolyn and Marina meet each other at a grief support group after Marina's father committs suicide. They are disappointed to find they have been assigned to schools in the Japanese countryside rather than in the city ...more
"You have committed a rude."
The use of the above accented English is just one way in which Malena Watrous, debut author of If You Follow Me, transports her readers to Japan where 22-year-old Marina has moved with her girlfriend, Carolyn, to teach for a year. Carolyn and Marina meet each other at a grief support group after Marina's father committs suicide. They are disappointed to find they have been assigned to schools in the Japanese countryside rather than in the city ...more

One of my favorites. Love learning about what it's like to live abroad.
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The Short of It:
Reading If You Follow Me, is like taking a cool sip of water on a hot summer’s day. It’s refreshing and bold and filled with vivid, colorful characters.
The Rest of It:
I was rather surprised by this one. I expected it to be a “fish out of water” story, and to a degree, it is but there’s much more to it than you would expect. It’s light and airy in one sense, but it deals with some heavier themes and Watrous manages to take all of these elements and roll them into a nice little pac ...more
Reading If You Follow Me, is like taking a cool sip of water on a hot summer’s day. It’s refreshing and bold and filled with vivid, colorful characters.
The Rest of It:
I was rather surprised by this one. I expected it to be a “fish out of water” story, and to a degree, it is but there’s much more to it than you would expect. It’s light and airy in one sense, but it deals with some heavier themes and Watrous manages to take all of these elements and roll them into a nice little pac ...more

When a friend told me about this book it seemed eerie; what’re the odds someone would write a book about a girl whose father commits suicide her senior year of college and she joins the JET program to teach in Japan to avoid having to face impending future decisions? Hell, the main character even got placed in a rural town not too far from me. So yeah, I was pretty intrigued by the book that may or may not be my own biography… Ok, I’ll try not to get too carried away. There were plenty of differ
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The first thing I noticed about this book was how beautiful it was. But it is a truly gorgeous book -- matte spring green cover, a women in mosiacs, and it smelled exactly like a treasured, well-made & well-loved book does. The matte cover is a pleasure to hold and touch.
Yes, it's amazingly petty, but the multisensory experience was apropos for a book that is so immersive. Watrous' detailed characters, evocative prose & well-researched setting left the mark of a truly good book -- when my readi ...more
Yes, it's amazingly petty, but the multisensory experience was apropos for a book that is so immersive. Watrous' detailed characters, evocative prose & well-researched setting left the mark of a truly good book -- when my readi ...more

I thought that this is a great book to read if you are thinking of going to Japan and especially if you are thinking about living there. It is about two women who go to Japan to teach English to Japanese students. Mariana is going to escape the pain and grief of her father's death and Carolynis going because it was her idea in the first place. Mariana does not speak or read Japanese, so it is a real culture shock when she and Carolyn are placed in rural Japan in small town. Mariana is placed in
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I really wanted to like this because it was written by a friend of a friend of mine. But I didn't connect with the protagonist (aka the author), who taught English at the local vocational school in a remote Japanese town right out of college. There's lots of drama (how can there not be when you're in your early 20s!), misunderstandings (Japanese/American culture clash) and introspection (letting go of a tragedy). The theme of each chapter is a Japanese vocubulary lesson -- slightly clever, but d
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I wish I could go back in time to a time before I read this book so I could read it for the first time again. That is how much I loved this book.
I loved everything about it. All the characters felt real to me, the writing was wonderful, the story was phenomenal. I loved the metaphor of garbage/baggage/letting go throughout the book, and especially how the author didn't bang the reader over the head with it. ...more
I loved everything about it. All the characters felt real to me, the writing was wonderful, the story was phenomenal. I loved the metaphor of garbage/baggage/letting go throughout the book, and especially how the author didn't bang the reader over the head with it. ...more

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Thank you goodreads First Reads! This is one of the best books I've read in a long time. Marina, an American in Japan teaching English in the most unusual ways, is sort of a fish out of water as she tries to assimilate to all the rules and social mores of the Japanese. At times very sad and other times it made me laugh out loud.
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This was a very funny and at times a very sad book about a young American girl teaching English in rural Japan. It is also a strange love story that I really did not pick up on until half way through the book! I especially liked the letters that Marina receives from her supervisor, Miyoshi, telling her of her American mistakes. I enjoyed this novel from the very beginning to the very end!

all 350 pages of this didn't take me a full workday.
for me, two stars on this type of book is completely forgettable, just readable enough; one star would be eat,pray,love and that sort of oprahesque drivel. this was just barely better. ...more
for me, two stars on this type of book is completely forgettable, just readable enough; one star would be eat,pray,love and that sort of oprahesque drivel. this was just barely better. ...more

3.7/5.0. the "fish out of water" Japan expat story has been done, very many times. I can't award a full 4/5 stars for a cliched work. but, on the other hand, there is skill, there is fluency in the work that does not permit the 3.0.
like Watrous, I graduated Columbia University and went to Japan on the JET Programme. I am happy to see a classmate and colleague succeed in the literary world. Watrous did the Iowa Writers' Workshop, too, which is where a certain polish is added to the work I believe ...more
like Watrous, I graduated Columbia University and went to Japan on the JET Programme. I am happy to see a classmate and colleague succeed in the literary world. Watrous did the Iowa Writers' Workshop, too, which is where a certain polish is added to the work I believe ...more

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Not something I would have picked up, but having taken online courses from the author induced me to read it. This is a story of a young woman who experiences frustration, confusion, mixed emotions, friendship, and finally love in a foreign culture. This is done with humor and beautiful subtilty throughout. Great art.

So.. This was readable but I'll only read it this one time. It was that interesting. Just remind me to never live in Japan. Most of it was interesting, parts of it I couldn't wait to get through from boredom. I slogged through it and came out on the other side.
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3.5/5. I'm not sure how I stumbled upon this book (I think maybe it was in a Goodreads blog post a while ago?), but I'm glad I did.
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Read it sometime in 2015. If I reread it, I'll write a proper review.
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Learning more about Japanese culture was the highlight of this book. The story didn't ever grab me although there were a few chuckles here and there.
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Malena Watrous is a writer and an instructor of creative writing. Her first novel, If You Follow Me, won the Michener-Copernicus Award and was a Lambda finalist. She co-authored a cookbook, My Mexico City Kitchen, with Gabriela Camara. She has taught workshops in both fiction and nonfiction at Barnard College and USF, and currently works as a Lead instructor for Stanford’s Continuing Studies Onlin
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