Zaljubljen u Rim: Ljubavna afera sa Večnim gradom

by Mark Tedesco, Žermen Filipović (Translator)

„Odupirao sam se, ali me je iznova privlačio. Nisam dolazio, ali me je prizivao. Povukao sam se, ali me je proganjao. Čak sam ga i odbacio, ali me nije napustio...“

Zaljubljen u Rim spada u one retke knjige posle kojih biva jasnije zašto se toliko ljudi zaljubilo u Večiti grad burne istorije i velikih promena, uprkos svim njegovim nedostacima. Ovaj putopis je podeljen na poglavlja u kojima čitalac aspekte umetnosti, kulture, istorije i sadašnjosti doživljava očima pisca i stanovnikâ Rima, prošlih i sadašnjih, i tako postaje deo magičnog sveta gde mesta, spomenici i umetnici oživljavaju sa svakom pročitanom stranicom.

Putovanje započinje tako što čitalac prati autora koji, stojeći otvorenih usta ispred Mikelanđelovog Mojsija, gotovo da čuje kako umetnik viče na svoje delo: „Progovori!“ Odatle započinje odiseja čuda: šta je pozadina priče o Fontani di Trevi, o onoj steni usred Foruma, o sveštenicima i časnim sestrama kojih ima posvuda, o svemu na šta čovek nailazi i čemu se divi, gde se turisti fotografišu.

Autor i čitalac potom nastavljaju da istražuju život na trgovima, druže se sa uličnim izvođačima, doživljavaju istoriju svim čulima, lutaju Rimom, posmatraju strance, otkrivaju jedinstvena mesta gde se dobro jede, razgovaraju sa Rimljanima, istražuju kuće Nerona, Avgusta i Livije, susreću duh Karavađa i ćaskaju sa iseljenicima…

Ovo delo predstavlja virtuelni obilazak magičnog grada koji očara svakoga ko stupi na njegove istorijom bremenite ulice.

Genres: Travel

200 pages, Paperback

Published January 11, 2022

About the author

Mark Tedesco is a writer and educator who divides his time between California and Italy. He lived in Rome for eight years and is passionate about crafting stories that connect the present with the past, exploring universal human desires reflected in relationships, events, culture, and history.

Mark has written in various genres, including travel writing, historical fiction, memoirs, self-help, and children's fiction. Some of his notable works are "That Undeniable Longing," "I Am John, I Am Paul," "Lessons and Beliefs," "The Dog on the Acropolis," "Stories from Puglia," and his book about Rome, "She Seduced Me: A Love Affair with Rome." His most recent work, "Onward: A Life on a Sailboat," features adventure stories in which the protagonist learns valuable life lessons in each locale he visits.

In addition to writing, Mark is a dedicated educator who enjoys sharing his passion for history, literature, and the unique stories of individuals with his students. Recently retired, he loves to travel, and Rome holds a special place in his heart, as he believes countless untold stories are waiting to be discovered there.

Reviews

[S.C. Farrow · Rating 5 out of 5]

If you’ve ever wanted to travel to Rome but haven’t been able to make the journey, this book is sure to satisfy some of that wanderlust. Part memoir, part history lesson, the author seamlessly traverses the modern city and the ancient via vibrant description and a genuine passion for Italy’s legendary capital. The author is not only passionate about this city, but he is knowledgeable and regales us with interesting facts and information.

From start to finish, the text is a relaxed and romantic literary tour, not to any of the usual tourist hotspots, but rather to the author's favoured places tucked far away from the well-known tourist track. Along the way, the author stops to chat with some of the locals, which gives fascinating insight into the daily lives of the people who call Rome home.

[Lori · Rating 5 out of 5]

Content Rating: 16+
Genre: Travel
Published: Expected Publication, November 28, 2020, by Dixi Books Publishing

See my full review onhttps://pageturnerreviews.home.blog/2...

She Seduced Me: A Love Affair with Rome, written by Mark Tedesco, is truly a beautiful book to read. Tedesco takes the reader to little-known places in Rome, and he brings these places to life with his charming writing style. If you're looking for your typical boring travel book, you have come to the wrong place. She Seduced Me is a book filled with Rome's rich history, art, and its fabulous eateries, written by a man who, through his words, the reader senses he truly loves this city. He will take you to out of the way places within Rome that you might not find on your own. You may ask me how I know this, well, I spent ten days in Rome a few years ago and did not go to one of the places he so alluringly describes in this book. Tedesco not only shares his love of Rome, but he also shares the people of Rome.

"If I had to come up with one word to describe Rome, in fact, it would be "magical."

Tedesco gives Rome a voice, not just his own, but the people of Rome, whether they are a native of Rome or the ex-pats flocking to Rome looking for more out of life. Tedesco has done his homework; he has taken the time to interview people from all walks of life for this book. From the artists and street performers who are struggling to survive. To the Romans who have lived in Rome all their lives to the ex-pats taking the chance of a lifetime by moving to Rome.

"The soul of Rome lies not only in its buildings and stories but especially in its people."

One of my favorites is the story of Stefano. It had me shaking my head and having a good laugh. Not at Stefano, but Tedesco. I love that he can honestly look at himself, making this book all the more delightful. She Seduced Me has made me realize that I have missed out on the little gems written in this book, Like the notorious 64 bus. Tedesco briefly writes about Americans in Rome, and he indeed described them perfectly. As one of those Americans, I was reading this book, and it made me realize I will go back to Rome with this book to help guide me to experience Rome, to slow down and sit at a café with a coffee and do some people watching of my own.

She Seduced Me is not a book to be rushed through, but a book to be savored, a book to leisurely read, embrace, and experience. It doesn't matter if you have been to Rome or planning to go in the future; this book captivates the reader by immersing you in all things Roman, and I highly recommend She Seduced Me: A Love Affair with Rome.

*I kindly received this book from Mark Tedesco and Dixi Books Publishing. I was not contacted, asked, or required to leave a review. I received no compensation, financial or otherwise. I have voluntarily read this book, and this is my honest opinion.

**Please note the quotes in my review are subject to change once the book is published.

[Tripfiction · Rating 4 out of 5]

This short volume about Rome is effusive and the author is clearly passionate about the city. He is keen to introduce his readers to Rome from a variety of different perspectives, delving under the facade of the city, drilling down to its real heart.

Each chapter offers a unique insight into history, culture, people’s lives and religion. The author first went to Rome as a seminarian in his late teenage years. This enabled him to gain understanding of the religious ley lines of the city and from there he goes on to build his book, referencing his 8 years of personal experience living in the city.

He conveys very well the polar opposites of dis-ease and acceptance, how the modern city has to accommodate the ancient ruins that each year attract millions of tourists. He interviews locals and foreigners who have been drawn to the city, and across several chapters he poses questions to delve deeper into the people, their psyche and the city. There are several interviews, some of which are quite insightful, others offer one sentence responses. At some level it somehow reminded me of dialogue one might experience in a foreign language class.

He quips about Bus 64 which runs from Termini Station to the Vatican and seems to be a magnet for light fingered thieves and for those who want to hone their skills in frotteurism. He visits Nero’s Domus Aurea, which has been buried for centuries beneath rubble, and has been excavated to reveal a colossal palace complex, erected after the great fire of Rome in 64AD. I visited a couple of years ago and his descriptions beautifully took me right back.

He ponders what life might have been like for two Roman Senators, whom he names Titus and Flavius and imagines the conversations they might have had in the Baths of Caracalla (built 212-216AD), chatting as they move through the Caldarium pool, the Tepidarium, culminating in the cold waters of the Frigidarium, (typical of Roman bathing rituals). He gives them voices of the time, gossiping about other senators, what exercise they may take and discussing their choices of food for their next meal (much food was laced with Garum, a fish sauce made from fermented fish – thankfully no mention of mice, however!!! 😉).

He introduces his readers to favoured restaurants, one of which Tripadvisor describes as “Elegant, French fine dining restaurant with a frescoed ceiling, run by nuns who sing every night“. Both have great reviews but you will have to buy the book in order to find out what they are called (I have made a note of them for my next visit)!

The book is a really nice way to get a feel for the complexity of the city. The writer behind the book is, however, a bit of a enigma – he starts out clearly with a strong religious disposition but that seems to fall by the wayside. He comes to the city in later years in the book with his male partner and there is a chapter where he and Ted observe and comment on the other visitors they see (ok, they gossip) and they ruminate on why Americans stick out so much when they are travelling in Europe. Because the book is a collection of very personal observations and experiences, I guess it felt like the proveribial elephant in the room that the writer gave away so little of himself, yet dropped in the odd very deeply personal element. I was intrigued to know more!

The book could – I feel – have benefited from a more robust editing hand to make the collected stories feel more cohesive. There is quite a mix of writing styles which, in many ways, is actually very charming but in others can make the rhythm of reading feel a little jarring – at times it is light-hearted, at others it is informative and on point, occasionally didactic. It was sometimes difficult to know whether the author was in ancient or modern Rome. There were some typos and the use of AD / CE and BCE was not consistent – these issues can all be remedied when the book is reprinted.

Overall this collection of observations will prove a varied introduction to anyone who wants to learn to negotiate the Eternal City. You really cannot overlook the author’s love of – and passion for – the city in his writing, it just bubbles through the text; he absolutely carries the reader with him.

[Amy Dal · Rating 4 out of 5]

Jako lijepo žanrovski osvježenje je bilo pročitati ovaj putopis. Autentično, slikovito opisan Rim.

[Julie Barrett · Rating 5 out of 5]

She Seduced me: A Love Affair with Rome by Mark Tedesco
Had gotten a few links to youtube videos about this book and it won me over. Might've been just the authors voice himself but he paints a Van Gogh for me with words he uses.
Was memorizing with the author himself narrating, stopping just for a few seconds at parts you could reflect on before he continued. Captured my attention i had to listen several times. Knew I really wanted to read more.
Lights up the whole place as if I am there. Very magical, mystical, captivating, tears in my eyes when I knew I was at the end...you can see/hear the smile on his face with words as he describes his most treasured scenes.
Links listed below:
video chapter 1 https://youtu.be/EnYIiZ6_yxQ
video chapter 2 https://youtu.be/q_Mqnciw0_Y
video chapter 3 https://youtu.be/YbUzJrLXEI8

Book starts out with the author's bio, list of chapters and short intro about Rome and how it affected the author.
The characters, he brings to life as if they are doing their dancing in front of you. Love people watching and guessing what their jobs are or what country they are from.
So much history in this book. Love hearing of the underground sanctuaries and never knew they existed there. Shops are very colorful with the products they sell.
Love how the interviews are done and the groups they are with at the time. So much history is also included and explained how it plays a part in the chapter.
I'd like the author to answer the same questions, just so you'd get a more detailed description of his feelings and dreams.
Food, oh just YUM! Love that the chapters are so short but they are packed with so much you might want to read them a few times over.
Especially love getting lost and the adventures and things that are found.
Funny things like hidden gems are included also, like cowboy hats! Find a bunch more for yourself, you'll feel as if you hit the jackpot of diamonds, rubies, pearls and sapphires.
Conclusion about Rome, acknowledgements and bibliography end this book.
Received this review copy from the publisher and this is my honest opinion.

[Joy Norstrom · Rating 5 out of 5]

Twelve years ago we ventured to Rome. Carrying along our two-year-old child was ambitious and perhaps ballsy. We’ve always looked back on that experience pleased we were able to see and experience as much as we did, given our young co-traveller.

This is a book to be savoured. Tedesco’s passion for Rome and her people is woven throughout the narrative. My favourite parts were the interviews with Rome’s citizens from all walks of life.

The author’s beautiful and impassioned descriptions had me looking up street performer’s websites, searching images of ancient sculptures and ruins. For paintings by the likes of Caravaggio and Raphael. After one particular chapter I even took a virtual tour of Nero’s Golden palace.

What I learned: I spent a week in this city and never got beyond the most common tourist sites! Now I MUST go back.

And maybe this isn’t surprising. The author writes, “The city will eventually beckon them back because she is a jealous lover and does not want to be forgotten by those she has seduced.”

She Seduce Me: A Love Affair with Rome is perfect reading for history enthusiasts, travel lovers and anyone stuck in a pandemic and dreaming about destinations far beyond their four walls.

[Jeff Bailey · Rating 5 out of 5]

She Seduced Me: A Love Affair with Rome, by Mark Tedesco touched the wonderer in me in a big way. One of the things that I liked most about James Mitchener was his attention to backstory, the people, and locations. He always told more than the story he was narrating. Tedesco does the same, only it was his story that was being told. Having Mark go into depth about the history of the people, the art, and the splendid architecture of Rome made his story about his living in Rome for eight years all the more real. His was an emotional journey and he related it with style. I would have gladly read another few hundred pages if I had the chance. This combined story, travel log, adventure was right up my alley. I will read more of his books. I’ve already bought The Dog On The Acropolis and will start it as soon as I have a few minutes. I highly recommend that you let Mark Tedesco take you an emotion filled and truly touching trip through the backstories of Rome with She Seduced Me: A Love Affair with Rome. I predict that you won’t regret it. The opinion of Jeff Bailey, author of Not On My Watch.

[Susan Bocock · Rating 4 out of 5]

Having visited Italy many times, including numerous stays in Rome, I enjoyed the author’s perspective on this enticing city.

She Seduced Me: A Love Affair with Rome is a well researched and well written non-fiction book about some of the intricacies and idiosyncrasies of the Eternal City. I was taken to places I have been, on several occasions in some cases, yet through Tedesco’s words I saw them from a whole new perspective. With a focus on the historical, religious, and cultural undercurrent around which the city evolved, the author takes us on a virtual tour of Rome, from the underground world of the catacombs to present day street life. His years spent in Rome and his education in the seminary, coupled with his experience as an educator give the author the insight to cover the topics he choses in a way that is both historically accurate and insightful, in some cases filling in the blanks for readers and at other times letting us use our imagination to wonder what the real stories were behind the city’s riches and the never ending flow of life in its streets. He adds depth by sharing the perspectives of expats, street performers, and born and raised Romans, some who have lived in the US and can speak to the differences they see. Definitely a worthwhile read for those with an interest in the stories below the surface of the city ( literally and figuratively) whether planning a visit to Rome or simply wanting to enjoy it from afar.

[Ajla · Rating 4 out of 5]

Gonna visit some of the places mentioned for sure!

[Patrizia Zampieri · Rating 5 out of 5]

How important is to read a book before travelling? No matter if you have lived in a place or you’ve just toured it for a few days: it definitely IS!

I visited Rome many years ago, and was on the point to return to see the latest Raphael’s exhibition, sadly all fell apart because of the Covid crisis. So I forgot about it, until a surprise came in form of this book to read.
As a blogger devoted to discover Italy step by step, I agree the word seduced suits very well, no doubt Italy is a special country with hidden gems. Only I did not expect the story could capture my interest on a much deeper level.

I realized I was following Mark’s steps as if I were there myself too, at historical sites, at a special dinner, interviewing some locals; I could imagine the two senators spending time at the bath, something I’ve always found hard to reach; and what can those frescoes still say about emperors? I feel encouraged to go there in person one future day!
I especially appreciated all the parts concerning art and the sacred, the essence of a message I myself am learning from the art of Michelangelo and Leonardo while living in Florence.
The chapter about Caravaggio makes me now want to return to the Uffizi, too!!

If I had to choose among the many options in travel literature, this is the kind I would strongly recommend. A good story that invites you to take the chance of a more meaningful experience, an experience that can really light up your heart. After all, what a good traveller always search for is a touch of life, isn’t it?

And in a city like Rome, controversial as well as enchanting, life calls you inevitably to set aside your tourist-self a little, and be open to know the new, the different, to listen, to observe… these are all attitudes we should adopt more, I believe.

I’ve found this book simply an excellent work, fluent in narrative with engrossing atmosphere, and I hope that many more will follow.

[Tina Gordon · Rating 4 out of 5]

Cities have genders. They are either masculine or feminine in appearance and spirit. Paris is the epitome of a feminine city. Her architecture is curvaceous, sensual, and attractive. Most Italian cities are masculine and Bologna is the most masculine city I have ever seen with its art and architecture solely reflecting men. Rome is a close second. According to the title of this charming book, Mark Tedesco thinks Rome is a she. Since his book is chockablock with facts, anecdotes, and folklore about this magnificent city, I will not argue the point. Besides, it’s a great title.

The best chapters relate historic anecdotes that are fascinating. This reads like a specialized tour you can follow just as Dan Brown’s Da Vinci Code once revealed points of interest that weren’t found in traditional guide books. Here you can discover locations such as Ostia Antica, which held the ruins of Ostia’s ancient Roman port city. The Priscilla catacombs and the Greek Chapel are two others with stories I hadn’t previously known.

Tedesco is at his best when he is describing places and people from history. He has a talent for putting himself in the time period and he takes the reader along with him. His interpretations are lively and he makes you feel as though he was there and knew how it felt. Rome and Catholicism are inextricably woven together. Some of the best material describes facets of the church and descriptions by Romans as to what living in Rome means to them.

This book is like antipasti, the starter of an Italian meal. It will whet your appetite to dig deeper and find out more about the people and history of Rome. It will immerse you in Roman culture for a few happy hours until such time as we can all safely travel once again.

[Susan Stephens]

If you’ve ever wondered if there was anything to the magnificent structures in Rome other than their immense beauty, this book is for you. With just the right blend of history and modern-day bravado, Mr. Tedesco paints a sumptuous portrait of just why many of us are obsessed with Rome.

Despite the drabness of a building, you are virtually guaranteed that there is a unique tale to each and every thing in this ancient city. And the stories do not end with the buildings…it is an intimate account of life in Rome, spanning nearly all proverbial walks.

Well-written and inspiring, this is equal parts a personal travel narrative, a history lesson, and an on-the-ground reporting of the gritty glory of Rome. An all-together engaging read, and almost required reading if you are an American traveling to Rome.

[Jay Grossi · Rating 5 out of 5]

I just finish reading Marco Tedesco’s wonderful book on Rome She seduced me, a love affair with Rome, and I enjoyed it very much. First of all, since I have not been able to go to Rome since the summer 2019 due to the Covid crisis, reading it was like spending some time there again. And like the author of the book, when I am in Rome, I love to walk around and explore this great city!
I really liked the interviews of the people living in Rome; I found them very interesting and informative, and it is something I have not found in other books on Rome.
I will definitely go those restaurants he mentioned in detail in book! I have spent much time Rome over the past fifteen years, I did not even know they existed!
I also liked very much his sense of humor, and his self-deprecating humor. And he did this without denigrating the Romans and Italians he met, and if fact, he shows how much he loves them and their culture.
I also enjoyed the fact he also talks about less noted sites of Rome (especially for many Americans), such as the Museo Altemps and Ostia Antica.
The author talks about his taking the Italian language tour of Domus Aurea because the English tour was all sold out; the same exact thing happened to me. The lady at the counter asked if I could take the tour in Italian, and I responded to her that I was speaking in Italian.
I short, I highly recommend She seduced me, a love affair with Rome to both seasoned travelers to Rome and to those who wish to take their first trip to the Eternal City!
Jay Grossi

[Robert Tellier · Rating 5 out of 5]

A superb read for those wishing to discover Rome's hidden gems, with a touch of history included. A must read for those traveling to this historic city in Italy.

[Francesco Cristadoro · Rating 5 out of 5]

Come un Romano di “almeno sette generazioni” non potrei presentare Roma, i romani e le arti, nuove o moderne, meglio di come ha fatto Lei con il suo capolavoro. Questa e` la “ Roma” dove sono nato e cresciuto e, naturalment sempre innamorato.
Grazie per uno stupendo lavoro.

[Conny Vischer · Rating 4 out of 5]

While I read the book I found myself being in Rome, not in Switzeland where I read the book, seeing all the places with the eyes of the author. I learned some interesting things about history of Rome. Thank you for all these details!

[Brett Wilson · Rating 5 out of 5]

“She Seduced Me” Seduced me!

With a sense of wonder and awe, and intimacy and respect, along with a generous dose of good-natured humor, Mark Tedesco boils his fascination and love for Rome down to one word – “Magical!”

Blended with a sense of ease, and the familiarity of a good friend, (who happens to be a historian sitting on the bus beside you), history never felt so welcoming, entertaining and enjoyable.

Story after story is skillfully told, filling each page with lavish details of the places that embody the history of Rome; from the treacherous betrayal and murder of Julius Caesar, to the preservation and tale of the manger where the Christ Child once lay, to the mystery of the whereabouts of St. Peter’s bones deep beneath the famous Basilica that bears his name. Tedesco insightfully declares,

“Rome teaches that it is the story that matters and that beyond
the tasks and responsibilities of life, there is a greater context that
gives meaning to the fabric of human existence.”

Deftly using the full array of senses, She Seduced Me presents the sights, sounds, aromas, feel, and even the taste of this sensuous city. Street performers, fire dancers, flamethrowers, painters, and musicians, dance before your eyes, filling each page with color and beauty and meaning. You’ll swear you have been there in person.

Displaying an honest, heartfelt approach, Tedesco tenderly shares stories of serving the homeless with Mother Theresa’s nuns at St. Gregorio’s, and encounters with ordinary folks, as well as weird characters on the streets, chapels and buses of the “Eternal City”.

Not only does this book take you on a journey through Rome, past and present, but it offers you tips on “how not to be identified as an American tourist”. (Hint: ditch the loud voice, baseball cap, shorts, white socks, and university T-shirt. But keep the smile. It will give you away, but it’s authentic).

Thanks to Mark Tedesco’s passion and masterful gift of “tour guiding”, one need not make a trip to Rome to feel the draw of her mysterious spirit where the ancient past kisses the modern world. Seasoned with spiritual overtones, She Seduced Me leaves the reader with the thrill of adventure and a profound sense of peace of having been on a pilgrimage.

But reader beware! With each turn of the page, her magic will surely seduce you too…

[Luca · Rating 5 out of 5]

Mark Tedesco è uno scrittore ed educatore che risiede in California. Ha vissuto in Italia per otto anni. Il suo libro “She Seduced Me: A Love Affair with Rome” racconta dell’amore di Mark per la città di Roma, attraverso intrecci di storia antica, avventure personali e interviste, a cominciare dal suo seminario a diciannove anni e la sua prima visita entusiastica a San Pietro in Vincoli. Mark cammina tra i monumenti ripercorrendo la storia con la sua immaginazione, ci accompagna come un amico raccontandoci in maniera avvincente i segreti e le leggende della Chiesa, della Roma degli imperatori, o ipotizzando delle conversazioni tra i senatori nei bagni pubblici. Scopriamo con lui il luogo dove Cesare è stato accoltellato da Bruto, la chiesa sotto cui era sepolto Nerone, i monumenti dei papi nel Rinascimento, realizzati da Bramante, Michelangelo e Raffaello. Entriamo nella Domus Aurea dove Mark si chiede le motivazioni che abbiamo portato Nerone a costruirla, riviviamo sul Palatino l’amore tra Augusto e Livia e poi osserviamo i dipinti di Caravaggio da cui si rievoca il fuoco interiore che il pittore esprimeva nell’arte come nella vita. Mark studia sociologicamente anche la Roma di oggi, distinguendo ironicamente quattro categorie di persone: santi, peccatori, strambi e indifferenti. Ci immergiamo nella vita della città attraverso le interviste alle persone che la abitano, dagli artisti di strada, gli immigrati, oppure chi si è trasferito dal sud o dal nord Italia. Il libro di Mark Tedesco ci fa viaggiare con la mente e con le emozioni per Roma, catturando sia chi già la conosce bene sia chi ancora deve visitarla per la prima volta.

[Robert Saldarini · Rating 5 out of 5]

“She Seduced Me” takes you on an interesting and insightful tour of Italy with author Mark Tedesco as your guide. Tedesco provides insightful descriptions, social histories, as well as commentary that makes you smile in a unique casual storytelling style. Journey with him while venturing down Italy’s streets, wander with him through alleys, and visit interesting sites that never make an itinerary of standard packaged tours. As ask you walk, Tedesco may just introduce you to some locals who share their thoughts about living the Italian life. Also, I can assure you he will find a path that takes you back in time to view cultural life through the eyes of Italians who lived centuries ago. “She Seduced Me” is a great read for anyone who is planning a trip to Italy, loves the Italian culture and its food, or, like me, is simply an Italian-Americans who grew up on stories of Italy told by relatives who came to America as immigrants.

[Anu · Rating 5 out of 5]

Breathtaking

In this book, the author takes the readers to wander through the streets of Rome to explore the glories, hidden secrets and magic of the city.

A book that speaks to the heart. Memorable and brilliantly crafted in an easy to understand format. His writing indulges you with the eternal beauty of the city. It includes footnotes, reference websites and poetry. The author's interviews with street performers and locals were lively and mesmerising. He has an impressive observation of people, places, architecture, paintings and sculptures. Each place has a story to tell. His narrative brings the stories of Rome to life. This book is an invitation to experience Rome in its stories, which give meaning to a monument, a painting, the street performer, the expat, the restaurant owner, and the ghosts of those long dead.

His honest reviews make you want to visit this amazing place and fall in love with the city that educates and enthrals. Highly recommend.

[ROBERTOTAORMINA · Rating 5 out of 5]

IL LIBRO ‘’SHE SEDUCED ME DI MARK TEDESCO, È UN VIAGGIO NELLE STRAORDINARIE AVVENTURE DI UNA ROMA ETERNA, IN CUI IL LETTORE HA L’AUTENTICA POSSIBILITA’ DI DIVENIRE PARTE DI QUEST’OPERA UNICA, DIREI INTRAVOBILE IN ALTRI SAGGI. I TANTI PERSONAGGI NARRATI IN QUESTO LIBRO ALIMENTANO L’AMORE AUTENTICO PER QUANTO DI PIU’ BELLO POSSA ESISTERE NELL’ARTE E NELLE PERSONE.
UN CONNUBIO ORIGINALE ESPRIME UNA NARRAZIONE PIACEVOLE QUANDO SI ENTRA IN CONTATTO CON DEI LUOGHI DESCRITTI IN UNA NUOVA FORMA DI LETTERATURA, OVE SI VUOLE TRASMETTERE I VALORI DELLA CULTURA NELLE PIU’ SUGGESTIVE FORME.
CONSIGLIO LA LETTURA DI QUESTO LIBRO, UN’OPERA CAPACE DI RENDERE QUANTO DI BELLO POSSA ESSERCI NELL’INCONTRO TRA L’ARTE E IL VIAGGIO DI OGNI ESSERE UMANO
ROBERTO TAORMINA. (SCRITTORE)

[Giovanna Orfei · Rating 5 out of 5]

Più che un semplice libro, è il romanzo di una città, Roma, con la sua storia, i suoi abitanti. Ti appassiona talmente che vorresti leggerlo tutto di un fiato! Il punto di vista di un Californiano d'hoc come Mark Tedesco poi, che ha vissuto Roma negli anni '80 e che l'ha amata e assaporata in tutte le sue manifestazioni, aggiunge qualità alla narrazione!!

[Petra Antonini · Rating 5 out of 5]

I was born and raised in Rome and this book made me fall in love all over again with my hometown.
It is beautifully written and you feel as if you were there.
It actually made me emotional.
Loved it!
Thank you for such a wonderful book.

[JAMES W · Rating 4 out of 5]

All roads do indeed lead to Rome. Once here, Mark's journey in and and around the Eternal City makes for an engaging vignette on life lived by Romans and non-Romans alike. Enlivened by his own experiences, this charming book is an unexpected surprise, just like Rome's lesser-known sites and sounds

[Save A · Rating 5 out of 5]

This story is brilliant, full of passion and romance. Rome has just become a magical city and made me want to live in its atmosphere. Many greetings to the writer, Mark Tedesco!

[Thomas Robinson · Rating 5 out of 5]

He Seduced Me

Mark Tedesco's new book (his 7th, if I'm not mistaken) brings him back to his beloved Rome. The book was suggested to me and, to be perfectly honest, I picked it up more as an act of civility than out of real curiosity. "Another book about Rome by someone who spent a wonderful week on holiday here," I thought. "How precious." As a 15-year resident of the Eternal City, I was skeptical.

And I was wrong.

Tedesco's 'wonderful week' was an 8-year stint, and it was no holiday. His view is affectionate, but it is also informed enough to have truly seen the city, warts and all. And he puts this hoary old harlot on full display, allowing her to spin slowly and sensuously, bringing the reader to love her not despite her checkered past and questionable present but rather because of them. He recounts history without turning it into a textbook; he makes suggestions for visitors without making it a travel guide; he discusses art and architecture as an experience rather than as an academic pursuit; he describes the city's inhabitants - with all of their charm and contradiction, their hypersensitivities and hypocricies, their wit and their wisdom - not as a bystander but as an interpreter.

Under Tedesco's clear, tight pen, the city takes on a human face, or better, many human faces. His interviews with street performers, shopkeepers, and restaurateurs constituted my favorite part of the book. Theirs are faces that I have seen since I moved here in early 2006, faces that, because my work is the Historic Center, I have seen many, many times. In almost every case, I knew exactly who he was talking about. While that made it particularly personal for me, the effect will be the same on most every reader. And when they come to Rome, they will recognize some of these people... if they're still around in the wake of this hellish period of pandemic.

One of the elements of Tedesco's writing that I most appreciated was his balance. These types of books tend to do one of two things: gush or ridicule. In each of these cases, it is clear that the writers have understood nothing of this city.

Tedesco does know her, and he loves her anyway! He knows her moeurs and her moods, her inflated idea of herself and her winking 'auto-irony', her hopes, her hardships, her inadequacies, and her sheer stubborn reslience.

And Mark, if you're reading this, look me up on Linked-In so the next time you're in Rome we can share a prosecco and toast this town, which has - perhaps inadvertanly - made space for us!

[Sara Stratso · Rating 5 out of 5]

Book Review by Sally Stratso
She Seduced Me: A Love Affair with Rome
Author: Mark Tedesco

Prior to reading this book, I had expectations of a casual traveler or tourist guidebook. However, She Seduced Me: A Love Affair with Rome, has surprises at every turn and is almost impossible to put down, due to Mark Tedesco’s engaging and captivating writing style. He describes his attachment to Rome thusly: “I resisted, but she drew me back. I stayed away, but she beckoned me. I distanced myself, but she haunted me. I even rejected her, but she did not abandon me.”
Tedesco successfully and inimitably interweaves the genres of memoir and travel to create an unforgettable story of his eight years in Rome. Through his fluid prose and intuitive observations, the author relates how the magical spell of Rome transcends time and distance to influence the hearts and souls of those who are open to its unique culture, found nowhere else on Earth.

Tedesco has written a physical, emotional, and spiritual accounting of not only his personal discoveries of this city, but also narratives of the well-defined characters…emphasizing their diversity yet similarities. As he explains it: “The soul of Rome lies not only in its buildings and stories but especially in its people. As we explore the city’s religiosity, the people in Rome fall mostly into four categories: saints, sinners,
weirdos, and indifferent.” He recounts his various experiences and discussions with both visitors and citizens, relaying his heartfelt affection, respect, and good-natured humor.

She Seduced Me: A Love Affair with Rome is all about epiphanies, and is a delightful composition that explicates its soul and essential being as a bridge between place, time, history, stories, religion, and humanity. I had never especially wanted to visit Rome; now I’m avidly checking plane fares! Because of Tedesco’s competent directions and detailed descriptions, I believe that I could comfortably navigate this fascinating city with only a copy of his book.

As he writes, “Churches with miraculous stories, empty roads at night in the
Roman Forum filled with the whispers of the spirits of Patricians, slaves and plebeians making their way towards the temples, street performers for thousands of years making visitors laugh, smiling tourists and pilgrims who would not want to be anywhere else,
sinners, saints, and weirdos all taking the same strolls down the same roads at the same time. Magnificent. Magical. Fascinating.”

This describes the book perfectly.

[Stuart Aken · Rating 3 out of 5]

Subtitled ‘A Love Affair with Rome’, this short guide to the eternal city is a very personal view of a place very popular with tourists. Having visited as part of a short tour of Italy in September 2018, I was willing to read the book, which was sent to me by the author.
I’m sure this intimate view of the city will find favour with many readers. However, for me, the concentration on the Vatican, the churches, and associated aspects was of little interest, as I’m an atheist and find religion largely distasteful.
Most of the places referred to in the book were actively avoided on our short stay in the city. But we did enjoy the accounts relating to the street performers, of whom we saw few. Their personal accounts brought life to the book. Our secular visit took us to the overcrowded Coliseum, the Palatine Hill, Forum, Circo Massimo, Arco Di Constantino, and several walks along the banks of the Tiber, with crossings of the many bridges, as well as a day trip to Pompeii, which was a place we could have spent many days studying.
I agree with the author’s description of the dirt and general untidiness in the city. We encountered graffiti in many places, and litter from overflowing rubbish bins. The evenings, however, held a certain magic after reasonably-priced food at a local trattoria close to our hotel that was too pricy for evening meals. The visual displays on some of the ruins, accompanied by appropriate music, lent those evening walks a romantic and magical air.
We ate most times at an open-air trattoria where, one evening when a storm erupted overhead, we all helped close-up the tables under the awnings to protect those at the edge of the place from the downpour. That made for a very friendly atmosphere, and we met and chatted with a number of visitors and locals. The food was excellent, and the wine very good.
We dislike cities generally, but it was history that took us to Rome, and we’re glad we visited, but are unlikely to return. The visits to the Trevi Fountain and the Coliseum in particular demonstrated the fact that, in common with many other locations, popularity has rendered the place no longer viable as a destination for those who wish to ‘stand and stare’.
So, for me, this book was an interesting read, but certainly not one to encourage my return. But I recognise many visitors make their visits as pilgrimages to the overblown and hypocritical Vatican, and they would be much more likely to find real value in this book.

[Luca · Rating 5 out of 5]

Mark Tedesco è uno scrittore ed educatore che risiede in California. Ha vissuto in Italia per otto anni. Il suo libro “She Seduced Me: A Love Affair with Rome” racconta dell’amore di Mark per la città di Roma, attraverso intrecci di storia antica, avventure personali e interviste, a cominciare dal suo seminario a diciannove anni e la sua prima visita entusiastica a San Pietro in Vincoli. Mark cammina tra i monumenti ripercorrendo la storia con la sua immaginazione, ci accompagna come un amico raccontandoci in maniera avvincente i segreti e le leggende della Chiesa, della Roma degli imperatori, o ipotizzando delle conversazioni tra i senatori nei bagni pubblici. Scopriamo con lui il luogo dove Cesare è stato accoltellato da Bruto, la chiesa sotto cui era sepolto Nerone, i monumenti dei papi nel Rinascimento, realizzati da Bramante, Michelangelo e Raffaello. Entriamo nella Domus Aurea dove Mark si chiede le motivazioni che abbiamo portato Nerone a costruirla, riviviamo sul Palatino l’amore tra Augusto e Livia e poi osserviamo i dipinti di Caravaggio da cui si rievoca il fuoco interiore che il pittore esprimeva nell’arte come nella vita. Mark studia sociologicamente anche la Roma di oggi, distinguendo ironicamente quattro categorie di persone: santi, peccatori, strambi e indifferenti. Ci immergiamo nella vita della città attraverso le interviste alle persone che la abitano, dagli artisti di strada, gli immigrati, oppure chi si è trasferito dal sud o dal nord Italia. Il libro di Mark Tedesco ci fa viaggiare con la mente e con le emozioni per Roma, catturando sia chi già la conosce bene sia chi ancora deve visitarla per la prima volta.

[Margie Miklas · Rating 5 out of 5]

A wealth of information, a great read, and thoroughly entertaining
Rome is one of those cities in Italy that captures one’s heart, and Mark Tedesco’s love affair with the Eternal City is evident on every single page of She Seduced Me. I’ve visited Rome five different times and written about it, but Mark’s words make me feel as though I’ve just scratched the surface, providing yet another reason (as if I need one) to return to this magical place. He writes from the perspective of having lived in Rome for eight years, and also returning to explore even more. His detailed historical accounts of lesser-known places, like the Rome underground and Mithraic temples fascinate me. I particularly like his use of interviews with ex-pats, immigrants, and locals who grew up in Rome. These are real people with real stories, and like Mark emphasizes, it’s about the people and the stories. His use of humor and personal anecdotes are a nice mix in between the historical content he so artfully describes. I especially enjoyed his chapter on Americans, where he talks about how easy it is for the locals to pick out Americans in the crowd. As one who will travel to Rome again soon, I hope, I will make note of secret places he shares where one can find good food in the company of locals. As a traveler visiting this ancient place in Italy, I can identify with much of his curiosity As a traveler visiting this ancient place in Italy. A well-written book, I highly recommend it to anyone who has been to Rome or is planning on going, A wealth of information, a great read, and thoroughly entertaining. Brava!