He Loves Me: The Matchmakers' Guide to Dating Again and Attracting the Man of Your Dreams

by Nancy Gold Zimmer, Barbara Black Goldfarb

This essential step-by-step guide to modern dating teaches you the most powerful and time-tested matchmaking secrets to meet, attract, and keep the man of your dreams!

Award-winning matchmakers Nancy Gold Zimmer, PhD, and Barbara Black Goldfarb, MHA, have cracked the relationship code and share three decades’ worth of the real secrets to what makes men tick—what they truly desire, what makes them run for the hills, and what makes them fall madly in love.

On your own, the modern dating scene can be a nightmare, but He Loves Me is the only dating guide you’ll ever need to make re-entering the dating world a fun, easy, successful process! With these proven tools you’ll easily find love with the right man.

In He Loves Me, you will learn how to

- meet quality men both in person and online—and spark their attraction so they’re excited to take you out;

- spot red flags and date smarter to avoid wasting time on people who just aren’t right for you;

- harness your amazing qualities, silence your inner critic, and find the confidence you need to attract a worthy man.

He Loves Me is brimming with proven matchmaking secrets to help you cut through the nonsense of dating and find your perfect partner—for now and forever.

Genres: Self Help, Nonfiction

184 pages, Paperback

First published September 14, 2021

Reviews

[Kimberly · Rating 1 out of 5]

Somehow I won this book in Goodreads Giveaway that I didn't enter. Glitch in the Matrix? Well, since they gave me the book, I figured I would give it a read. And I regret that immensely, since it was a humungous load of bullshit. Full disclosure: I'm not even single.
From calling people "born-again daters" to waffling on about how you shouldn't have opinions when decisions need to be made because the manly man wants to do that so just shut up and let him and using the gag-inducing phrase "alpha male," I'm going to come out and say it: this book fucking sucks. As a bonus, the "true stories" of the clients sound completely fictional.
Give this one a miss. You can find all the intelligent information contained within in the average dating blog in a much shorter and less cringeworthy format.

[Kay · Rating 2 out of 5]

I ironically won this book right before I went on a first date after several years, and found myself disappointed (with the book). This book gave good advice, if you fit in the small demographic it felt aimed towards. I felt like you needed to be a successful, submissive woman, ready to cater to the man to make him comfortable the entire time. This advice is very narrow minded in my opinion and I didn’t follow these rules, but my date still worked out great. Would not suggest.

[Melissa · Rating 2 out of 5]

Cute stories and illustrations, but...

This was a Goodreads win. I was disappointed with the book partly because I didn't really learn anything new, and also the total lack of addressing the dating landscape in relation to Covid-19. This was written and published during the pandemic because there was one sentence, I believe, which mentioned it. The book left me wanting a matchmaker. I wish I could recommend it, but really can't.

[Jenny C · Rating 3 out of 5]

I won this in a Goodreads giveaway. It was well written and flowed nicely. It was basic at times (well, most of the time) and sorta judgementally at times. There were good pointers peppered throughout. Perhaps this will be a great guide for someone wanting to devour everything they can about dating.

[Helen Latto · Rating 2 out of 5]

I found this book ok but I’m not sure that I was it’s prime audience. Probably more suited to a divorcee or somebody at least forty plus. For me a lot of the information was just common sense and it read a little too much like a magazine article.

Thanks to Netgalley and the publishers for an advanced digital copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.

[Michele Rice Carpenter · Rating 5 out of 5]

Excellent Advice

I recommend this book to every woman who is thinking about entering the dating pool. As a divorcee, I am not considering dating. This book gave me a lot to think about should I go there.

I won this book in a Goodreads giveaway.

[Mimi · Rating 4 out of 5]

I really enjoyed the short stories but mostly the advise. What a great way to start dating again. I love the feel good way to approach dating and the reminder to continue giving it a try and not to give up. I definitely recommend to those that are ready to date again.

[Jeanne · Rating 3 out of 5]

Not really anything new but perhaps a good refresher for anyone considering reentering the dating scene. Easy, quick to read. Thank you to Goodreads for a copy of the book in exchange for my honest review.

[Candra Hodge · Rating 4 out of 5]

Good dating guide

This book offers a lot of suggestions on how to get yourself ready to date. It also gives many dos and donts for when you are on dates.
I won this book thru a goodreads.com giveaway.

[Lauren]

Note: I received a copy of this book from the Goodreads Giveaways Program.

[Randi]

A pep talk about dating.

[Amber Stewart · Rating 5 out of 5]

Enjoyed the stories. Was a good book.

[pinkladyhaley · Rating 5 out of 5]

Encouraging words for a nervous nelly like me. Maybe I’ll have a boyfriend again. I hope so. Thanks for the read! #goodreadsgiveaway