Review soon ....I would give this book 10 stars if I could!!!!!! I highly recommend Book Clubs choose this.
Personally -- I could have a discussion about things written on 'every' page!!!
REVIEW:
NO SPOILERS….(long…but spoiler-free)
“OCEAN STATE” is now one OF MY FAVORITE BOOKS!!!
From beginning to end “Ocean State” is woven together brilliantly.
It would make an excellent book club choice.
It’s both animated and subtle in scope and touches on many poignant themes:
….. unpredictable environments within a family,
the influence from family history,
unhealthy parenting,
sisters,
mothers,
family breakdowns - but also good loving people
small town living,
stress,
lies,
over-eating,
risky behaviors,
childhood neglect,
guilt & compensating for guilt,
single-parenting mom juggling work, dating, and structured routines for her daughters,
self-esteem,
murder, (the undergoing scrutiny of why, and suspense)
alcoholism and drugs,
financial problems,
individual internal struggles,
lack of support,
unhealthy attachments,
the effects of divorce and boyfriends,
ineffective communications,
family comparisons,
excessive criticism,
conditions for feeling loved,
difficulty trusting,
rejection,
jealousy,
envy,
sexuality,
secrets,
High School intensity- triangle relationship,
romantic teenage relationship,
obsession,
unhealthy male influences,
worthiness,
rebellious,
disorder,
an exploration of circumstances beyond one’s control,
love, loss, coming of age, tragedy, and beauty.
“Ocean State” is polished and eloquently written. It’s a 240 page-turning literary-enigma novel…
but it’s worth pausing to re-read scenes- even transitional scenes — to reflect, observe closely, and deepen our understanding of the emotional state of each character.
It’s the characters that make this plot so good…which contributes to the many thought-provoking themes.
I related to the overall experience. Having been the younger- left home alone -much too often- sister, to my older taller gorgeous sister, with a distracted single mother — other than a ‘murder’ — I directly understood the dealings of their small-family dynamics.
I hope I haven’t come off too cerebral about this book — (it’s not easy for me to write a review that I’m soooo very passionate about —- I LOVED IT. It was exactly the type of book I love best —smart, reflective, character & relationship connected - The beauty and extraordinary's of the ordinaries….(flawed and real)
And
I soooo admire Stewart O’Nan’s skills…(wishing him many congrats on this exceptional novel)…
Thank you our publisher: Grove Atlantic, and Netgalley ….for the great gift to read this book early.
It will be released March 15, 2022
The rest of this (forgive me for being overly long), are a few excerpts that spoke to me…
Ashaway, Rhode Island, outside Westerly, down along the shore……
“Nothing had happened yet. Later the police would put dates to everything, but for now we were two girls alone in a house on a Friday night with nowhere to go. We made popcorn and snuggled under an Afghan on the couch with the lights out and watch ‘Mystic Pizza’, One of my mother’s favorites, trading the bowl back-and-forth, our feet in each other’s laps. She was Julia Roberts, I was Lily Taylor. It didn’t matter that half the time she was on the phone. We didn’t have to speak. All I wanted was to be close to her like this, the two of us laughing at the same places. She was the only one who knew what we’d both been through, and I liked to think we were inseparable, bound by more than just blood. We weren’t happy that fall, in that rotting, underwater house, with everything we’d already lost, and everything still to come, but lying safe and warm under my grandmother‘s afghan, eating popcorn and stealing glasses at my funny, beautiful sister as the light played over our face, I wished we could stay there forever”.
Carol doesn’t want her girls to have to take care of her.
“She wants them to get out of Ashaway and have families at their own, but exactly how that will happen she can’t imagine. Angel has her looks but her temper too. Marie’s bright but afraid of everything, which Carol thinks is partly her fault and partly Frank’s. The plan for now is to get them through high school and help them as much as they can with college, which in her case seems more and more impossible, unless something big changes. As someone whose dreams didn’t work out, she sees the future as beyond her control, random, their lives at the mercy of chance, even if they do everything right”.
“She was telling the truth and she was lying at the same time, minimizing, the way I lied to my mother about my eating, the way my mother lied to me when she didn’t think something was my business, like her drinking, or my father. We were all good at covering up things”.
5 very strong stars… Highly recommend it.