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Mishna Wolff grew up in a poor black neighborhood with her single father, a white man who truly believed he was black.  “He strutted around with a short perm, a Cosby-esqe sweater, gold chains and a Kangol—telling jokes like Redd Fox, and giving advice like Jesse Jackson.  You couldn’t tell my father he was white.  Believe me, I tried,” writes Wolff.  And so from early chi ...more
Hardcover, 288 pages
Published May 26th 2009 by St. Martin's Press
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Jennifer
I think that it was a very well-written book. It made me laugh, and think, throughout the entire story. Some felt that the book's message about race diminished as she talked more of class issues through her experiences. Why is it that people think that race & class, when dealing with White & Black people, can be separated? Often the two are intertwined simply because of the history of the nature of our relationship with each other and anyone who thinks otherwise is fooling themselves.

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AudioBookLover
Dec 06, 2018 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
An excellent memoir. Mishna Wolff's reading of the audiobook was very good and she's really funny but I have to say that this audiobook has some of the worst sound I've ever heard on an audiobook.

BOOK *****
AUDIOBOOK****
Destiny (myhoneyreads)
Actual rating: 3.5

Memoirs aren’t really my thing but it was interesting to see Wolff’s perspective on race and poor vs rich. I had problems with this book that were personal but I really related to Mishna. I wouldn’t reread it but it was enjoyable.
Mike Lindgren
Jun 22, 2009 rated it it was ok
Shelves: nonfiction
Mishna Wolff's I'm Down purports to be both a ragingly funny family-dysfunction memoir à la Sedaris or Burroughs, and a perceptive take on racial identity. It's neither, but that shouldn't stop Wolff, who was raised by a white single father in the black working-class town of Rainier Valley, Washington, from making hay with this slight but basically sweet-tempered memoir.

Wolff's book has the contours of the classic coming-of-age tale, wherein the awkward and put-upon duckling triumphs over a seri
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Margaret
Sep 06, 2010 rated it it was ok
Summary of Book:

Mishna Wolff grew up in a poor black neighborhood with her single father, a white man who truly believed he was black. “He strutted around with a short perm, a Cosby-esqe sweater, gold chains and a Kangol—telling jokes like Redd Fox, and giving advice like Jesse Jackson. You couldn’t tell my father he was white. Believe me, I tried,” writes Wolff. And so from early childhood on, her father began his crusade to make his white daughter Down.

Unfortunately, Mishna didn’t quite fit i
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Sarah
May 19, 2013 rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
People think this book is funny? What on earth is the matter with those people? This book isn't funny. It's depressing as all get-out. And it's not about racial identity, it's about child neglect and massive dysfunction. Goodness, the people who think this book is about racial identity have some seriously racist ideas about racial identity.

Obviously, this author turned out ok. But good lord, reading about how she was "raised" made me want to go back in time, find her, and rescue her from those w
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Cheryl
Nov 22, 2018 rated it it was amazing
I’m Down by Mishna Wolff

When a white child grows up in a white family with a father who thinks he’s black, acts like he’s black and expects his wife and 2 very young daughters to be just as black as the neighborhood they are growing up in, it can be a bit unnerving. Sure, he fits in, having grown up there and already making his mark, but in the few years away, when the children are born, there is a separation that Mishna, at just 6, can’t quite bring together.
When her parents divorce shortly
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Lillian
Jun 22, 2009 rated it really liked it
Shelves: nonfiction
I read this book cover to cover in one day. It kept me hooked throughout but left me with many questions. Mishna Wolff's harrowing childhood was defined by her struggle to fit in--first, as the lone white kid in her predominantly African-American neighborhood and later, as the lone poor kid in the predominantly white, upper class school she tested into. Wolff does a beautiful job capturing the vulnerability of being a kid; she makes the reader feel keenly the moments of painful embarrassment she ...more
Dee
Jul 25, 2011 rated it did not like it
I hated this book so much. I tried and tried to enjoy it but I just couldn't. I read it in it's entirety hoping the humor would come in at some point. Yea....it never happened. The premise sounded fantastic but the writing was flat. Nothing about this story was funny. More then anything it sounded so sad. She never fit in, she was treated like crap, she stood in the shadow of her younger sister, who always was "down" and could do no wrong and her dad treated her kinda crappy. The weird part abou ...more
Anita
Jul 03, 2009 rated it it was amazing
I loved this book. It reminded me of The Glass Castle. It doesn't cover quite the same time-span as GC but it is packed with similar elements; the well-intentioned but misguided parents, the poverty, the confusion that comes with growing up, and ultimately figuring some things out despite a million obstacles. It's funny, sad, and short, and I liked the way it covered themes of race and class. It is a weirdly profound little tale told from a kid's-eye-view. Oh, and the cover is priceless. Every t ...more
Tracey
May 16, 2011 rated it it was ok
I'm glad Mishna Wolff wrote about the uncommon story of her childhood, though I don't feel like I got enough of it. In some ways, her experience featured a lot of the typical b.s. that parents put their kids through (divorce, empty promises, forced participation in sports), but all of that all-too-common stuff got filtered through Wolff's double life as a white girl living in an all-black neighborhood with a father who was, sounds like, convinced he was black. Reading about Wolff struggling to a ...more
Robin
I have been wanting to read this for months! Through the magic of ILL, it is now mine. Tra-la.

This book is fascinating and mesmerizing. Wolff tells the story of her upbringing with amazing humor and calm. Throughout the book, I didn't know whether to laugh or cry. Her style is clearly funny, but her stories are full of such unfairness and the bewilderment of a child who simply is not being taken care of. From her perspective, no adult and no other child in her life has even bothered to try to fi
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Joshua
Jun 22, 2009 rated it really liked it
I was shown the book by a good friend at work, and we though it looked funny. However, my sensitivities were heightened about this book by another good friend of mine, and so I went in ready to be offended by it. I probably would have put off reading it for a while if not for a friend of mine from work that wanted to read it as well.

At first, I could not help but think, "This does in fact seem a little racist." As Mishna further introduced me to the leading players, however, I began to realize
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Alaska
Sep 15, 2017 rated it it was ok
I had hoped that this book would be as hilarious as promised, but it was often just extremely distressing to read.

What was likely meant to be read as a series of dark yet humorous anecdotes about Wolff's childhood read more like a seemingly never-ending list of times Wolff was failed, gaslighted, or outright victimized by the adults in her life. Finding little to none of the comedic relief I kept searching for, the book just kept getting more and more anxiety-inducing.

Overall, the book was not
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Robin
Apr 12, 2009 rated it really liked it
I'm skeptical about memoirs now. It wasn't just James Frey that made me skeptical. Since then, there have been many memoirs, both published and unpublished, that have proven to be false. So, while I very much liked this book, I'm not at all convinced that it was true. The beautiful thing is that it doesn't matter. If it is true, great. I can't wait to read the rest of the story. If it isn't true, great. I can't wait to read the rest of the story.

The writing was engaging and it read like fiction
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Roberta
Feb 19, 2011 rated it really liked it
Shelves: memoir
A memoir by a woman who grew up in Seattle in the '80s, raised by a white father who truly seemed to think he was black. Mishna does everything to please him - turning herself inside out to be"down".

The book is snort your coke funny in places. I'm not surprised to hear that Wolff is a comedian. It's very sharply observed and her turn of phrase can be brilliant. The book is also sad and pathetic, especially when Mishna's dad fails to stand up for or acknowledge her for who she actually is. It's a
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Bunny
May 21, 2013 rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
Seriously, who decided to market this as a humor book? I would like to meet the person in charge who thought that was a good idea.

This isn't a humorous book. There is nothing funny about Mishna's story, and I hated her quite a lot because she wrote this book, she's narrating this book, and she either sold it as a humor book, or allowed it to happen.

This is the story of a little girl who is an outcast for being white, both by classmates and her complete vagabond asshole of a father. Then she move
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Terry
Apr 26, 2010 rated it it was ok
Shelves: memoir
Well, I read this in one day, so it must be pretty good...right? Eh, it was only okay. I felt like the story was more about class than it was about race. Tt's not like she connected to the people in her neighborhood AT ALL, so I don't feel like she was torn between two races, which is what the book is publicized as being about, as much as she was torn between her impoverished family and the private school she attended for smart (white) kids. Once she befriended people at her new school the kids ...more
Jennifer
Nov 11, 2009 rated it liked it
Shelves: memoir
Book Overview

Mishna Wolff was born to white hippie parents in Vermont. However, when her family moves back to Seattle, her father drops the pretense of being "a white man" and becomes the "black man" he fancies himself to be. Having grown up in a predominantly black neighborhood during his childhood, Mishna's father immerses himself in the speech patterns, clothing and culture of his black friends. He expects his daughters to do the same. For Mishna's younger sister Anora, this wasn't a problem.
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Kierstin Leah
Apr 06, 2015 rated it did not like it
Mishna, girl, listen to me: your father abused you.

I’ll say it slower: your. father. abused. you. He is a bad person and he deserves to feel bad.

If any of you who are reading this find yourselves identifying with this girl’s experience in terms of her family dynamic, message me right now and I’ll call CPS for you. And that’s the worst thing about this book, the fact that CPS would have taken she and her sister away from her father had anyone contacted them at almost any point in the book. Fuck
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Ranata Clark
May 20, 2017 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I really enjoyed this book. I related to this and I AM BLACK! I felt some of the struggles fitting in that Mishna Wolff felt. (view spoiler) ...more
Samantha
May 22, 2011 rated it it was amazing
GENRE- MEMOIR

I'm Down is a memoir written by Mishna Wolff based on her life growing up as a white girl in a "wannabe" black family. Confident of being black, her white father raised Mishna and her sister in a very African American and Ghetto environment where the trend was to diss other people and speack with incorrect grammar. Having divorced parents, Mishna and her sister lived mostly with their father and stayed with their mother on the weekends. Growing up Mishna had a hard time adjusting to
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LibraryCin
Mishna was a white girl raised in a poor black neighbourhood in Seattle. Her father wanted to think he was black, so that’s the neighbourhood he chose to raise his two daughters. Mishna, in particular, had a hard time fitting in when she was young. Once she finally started making friends in the neighbourhood, though she still lived there, she had tested high on some academic tests, so she had to switch to a school in a rich neighbourhood with smart rich kids, and once again, she didn’t know how ...more
Dr. E
Nov 21, 2012 rated it it was ok


Entertaining at times. Borderline insulting the rest. Although the author shares her story along the lines of class, her implicit racism made for an offensive and painful read. Not that she has to reconcile this as it is her narrative, but it seemed she tried to go there and did so very recklessly. As a reader I found her "recollections" (better yet, observations) to be superficial, exploitive, and even patronizing regarding her experiences in her "community". I was hoping for more and got less
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Andrea
Jul 16, 2015 rated it it was ok
I did not enjoy this book - I felt like it relied heavily on stereotypes to provide comedic effect, which was unsuccessful. Living in Seattle, I had also hoped that this might be an interesting view of a neighborhood, but it could really have taken place in any city where there are majority black and majority white residential areas.

It did prompt decent discussion as a book club pick.
Brown Girl Reading
May 02, 2012 rated it did not like it
I absolutely hated this book! To read a more in depth review check out my post at http://didibooksenglish.wordpress.com/ on Saturday.
Magpie67
For me this wasn't a complete memoir even after the author puts down on paper... this is best to her recollection of events as she remembers from her early age of growing up. Mishna left out crucial details of time spent with mother on weekends after the divorce. She wasn't always stuck in this neighborhood growing up.

Issues: Really a working mother who didn't think she could get her children away from a father who was not working and the house conditions were questionable? Whether, the man had
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Kate Woods Walker
Rarely have I disliked a character as much as I disliked the writer's father. Selfish, lazy and downright cruel, I'm confused why this guy engenders so much tolerance. He is, after all, a wannabe male version of Rachel Dolezal, except without all the hostility that poor woman gets.

I don't begrudge the author her soft touch in the presentation, but Daaaang, she needs to come to terms with her anger at her crappy, crappy parents.
Penelope L
Dec 09, 2018 rated it liked it
The book "I'm Down" told an interesting story about a rare struggle of a white girl growing up in a black neighborhood. I thought the story itself was very interesting. I also enjoyed how the author described herself because I felt as if I was connected to her. However, other than that I was a little disappointed by the writing and expected it to be more complex. However, I enjoyed the ending, Mishna described the evolution of her and her father's relationship.
Rachel
Jun 28, 2017 rated it it was amazing
I wish Mishna had more books for me to read.
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