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272 pages, Hardcover
First published December 7, 2021
Boundaries can, theoretically, work, but only for a privileged subset of your organization. They’re simply not a sustainable option for the vast majority of workers, especially those who aren’t in senior positions, who are women, who are people of color, or who are disabled. For those groups, attempting to maintain them can lead to an office reputation as difficult, aloof, unresponsive, or the dreaded “such a millennial” or “not a team player.” It might mean getting passed over for promotions or, eventually, getting fired. You can’t 4-Hour Workweek your way out of this problem. You need something structural.
It just seems so much easier to not do something, to not have plans, to not try something new or figure out how to do something you used to love. But that’s your exhaustion speaking. When work devours your waking hours, it also devours your will to do things that actually nourish you. The truth is that we don’t prioritize these activities, because—other than seeking out ways to optimize ourselves as workers or desirable bodies—we don’t actually prioritize ourselves. ... Be patient with yourself as you figure that out. When you first start trying to put the guardrails on a flexible, post-pandemic schedule, you still might want to spend your newly protected time napping or ambiently watching sports.
People say that we, as a society, worship consumerism, that we have made false idols out of things. But that pronouncement increasingly rings false, particularly for office and knowledge workers. We worship work.
Work has taken on such a place of primacy in our lives that it has subsumed our identities, diluted our friendships, and disconnected us from our communities. Individualism induces work obsession, and that work obsession in turn keeps us mired in individualism.
Who would you be if work ceased to be the axis of your life? How would your relationship with your close friends and family change, and what role would you serve within your community at large? Whom would you support, how would you interact with the world, and what would you fight for?