First Time Dad: Pregnancy Handbook for Dads-To-Be

by Steven Bell, Ava Burke

Are You Going To Become A Dad For The First Time? Congratulations! Learn All You Need To Know With This Practical Guide.

If you are going to become a dad for the first time then you need to prepare yourself for that job. What better way to do that than with this amazing book in your hands.

Fatherhood can be very demanding. You can surely expect some sleepless nights and smelly diapers. But you can make it easier for yourself. This book will prepare you for every scenario, and you will always know what to do.

Find out what to expect from the moment you find out that your SO is pregnant. Starting with the stuff she will need to birth a healthy beautiful baby. Like what foods are best for her, what medical exams she will need, and everything else you should do to make it easier for her.

Baby is born, what now? Don’t worry, this book will especially help you with that part. Discover the best ways to care for your newborn. Learn how to make a longterm plan for the future. Changes happen fast, and you will learn how to quickly adapt to them. Discover how to keep and improve romance with your SO.

With this incredible guide in your hands, you will make fatherhood look like a piece of cake. You will be doing everything right, and you won’t even break a sweat!

Here’s what you can find in this incredible

Positive pregnancy test! What now? Learn what to expect while you are expecting, and how to prepare yourself for parenthood.Baby is coming! Find out how to take care of your SO during pregnancy and through delivery.Baby is here! Discover the best ways to take care of your newborn, and prepare yourself for every scenario there is.Aftercare?! When everything is done, find out how to rekindle the flame of romance and keep everything going smoothly.Scroll up, click on “Buy Now with 1-Click”, and Get Your Copy Now!

Genres: Parenting

102 pages, Kindle Edition

Published July 5, 2020

Reviews

[Grady · Rating 5 out of 5]

‘The most special experience of my life so far’

Author Steven Bell has first hand experience for proffering this guidebook for new ‘expectant fathers.’ In a gentle humorous fashion he introduces himself to the reader: ‘Regardless of whether you conceived via the old-fashioned way, intrauterine insemination, in vitro fertilization, or any other way, I feel that I have some insight to offer to other dads as they begin their journey to fatherhood. I must be honest: at the time of writing this content, my son is just over three months old, so I am still in my relative infancy (pun intended) of fatherhood. However I still feel that sharing my experiences can be helpful to other guys as they prepare for the nine months of pregnancy and the first few months following delivery, which is sometimes referred to as the fourth trimester. Luckily for me my wife is a pediatrician, so she was able to give me more of a heads up than some other dudes out there…’

And with that lighthearted tone, Steven opens his Part I with ‘Congratulations, sniper – the orgasm counted this time! Your sperm has successfully infiltrated your woman’s egg…’ Not only does the author offer ‘instructions’ on how to deal with the pregnancy changes in both partners’ lives, he proceeds to give sound advice for preparing for preparing for parenthood (‘it’s critical to remain pragmatic when faced with the challenges life throws at you…you and your lady are a team, and right now she needs you to be calm’), dealing with doctor visits and ultrasound information, the lifestyle adjustment, important planning (health issues, financial issues, selecting a name, etc), and then proceeds to walk us through the variations of each of the three trimesters bring until that day of delivery!

The author’s obvious comprehension of the healthcare profession (he is a grad student in that arena) makes his information more credible and reliable. His ability to address facts and possible problems of pregnancy admixed with tongue-in-cheek humor makes reading his sound advice accessible and entertaining. In addition to his frequent use of backup references, he makes available a way to obtain The Helpful New Dad: A Checklist by Month for download. Reading this book is a pleasure – even for those fathers whose children are now older – as it brings a fresh approach to the concept of parenting and the impact of raising children. Recommended.

[Tom Law · Rating 5 out of 5]

Bell has done a good job orienting new prospective Dads to the reality they will face in the months to come. Evidently, this material was first presented as a blog. Therefore, its style is off-the-cuff conversational banter. There is a lot of good material, but it is wrapped in a lighthearted self-deprecating transparent verbiage which will appeal to young couples. Also, due to its source there is a lot of repetition, some of which gets a little tedious.

As with any first-person commentary on events that are happening in real time much of the material deals with Bell and what he and his “lady” are dealing with. Evidently, alcohol is something that is particularly important to them, particularly Bell. So, during the first part of the book as they find out they are pregnant it is mentioned on almost every page. As the book progresses and the focus is more on Mom and the baby this evidently stops being an issue.

It is interesting how a baby will change our outlook on everything. This comes across loud and clear throughout these pages. Bell also does a great job of helping prospective fathers understand that their main role in this process is helping Mom and then doing their fair share of taking care of this new edition to their household. Since, men can sometime be self-centered this may be one of the most important parts of the book.

Besides relating their own experience, sometimes in graphic detail, Bell also shares what others have gone through as it relates to the situation at hand. Thus, the reader gets a wider-angle of information not just what happened to them. Did I say graphic? I am amazed that his wife allowed him to share some of the things he did. It is helpful but very personal as well.

Great book for first time Dads, especially those with limited exposure to the entire childbearing experience. First time Moms will also find it helpful, especially as they come to terms with what they should expect and how to ask for help from Dad.

Upon request the publisher sent me a copy of the book to review.

[J.R. LaMar · Rating 5 out of 5]

I’m a dad of 4 with my 5th and final on the way so needless-to-say, I’ve been around the parental block for a while. Having said that I can imagine really appreciating this book had I found it the first time around. The author is a fairly new father himself which is nice because the experiences are fresh in his mind. I enjoyed the delightful light tone and humor the author has, it really shines through his writing. This is a wonderful resource for first-time fathers and I would wholeheartedly recommend it.

[Andrew Waterhouse · Rating 2 out of 5]

Everyone says don't bother to read books on becoming a dad. I took the plunge on this (among many others too). I didn't know what to expect with this, but I felt it was rather anecdotal and the authors story. It meant pages could often be skim read.
The only points I enjoyed and will take away were re: details of induce dates being set after the expected date, how its wise to have multiple points around the houise and car for wipes etc.
I wouldn't say this is a bad book by any means, just if this was out of ten, I'd give it a 4 rather than 6.

[Krishnan Nair · Rating 4 out of 5]

This is a pretty short book about becoming a father for the first time. It was interesting to read the perspective of a regular person who was navigating fatherhood but I kind of wanted a bit more information from a position of authority.

The language was another thing that felt a bit too casual for my taste. I think other reviewers have already mentioned the editing and punctuation aren't the best but that wasn't a big issue for me.

Overall, this is a short primer on navigating pregnancy but I think other books would be able to give a more detailed understanding of the topic.

[jose galvez · Rating 4 out of 5]

I’m a first time dad!

This book gave very useful information, I was able to care for my wife better during her pregnancy. We men don’t really know how or what to do when our lady is pregnant and this book definitely shed light on things that weren’t quite clear for me.

[Travis Kurtz · Rating 2 out of 5]

Very anecdotal, heteronormative, and male. None of those things are necessarily terrible on their own, but the combination of those things and generally poor writing are what earned this book two stars.

[Maria Nikolaidou · Rating 1 out of 5]

When my partner read a few lines of this book to me, we were both quite shocked with the patriarchal and stereotypical views of the author. So I (his lady as he referred to the female partner/ wife) decided to further read this book, just to confirm how not nicely written it is. Not recommended.

[Charles D'Amico · Rating 4 out of 5]

Good ..was a fun read

I can see where some people are critical of formatting. But I don't think it takes from the purpose.

Overall enjoyed it.

[rohan rajani · Rating 5 out of 5]

If your going to be a father read this

Very helpful book got lots of insights will use all of it soon cheers to all the first time Dads