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I spent five years of my life being treated for cancer, but since then I've spent fifteen years being treated for nothing other than looking different from everyone else. It was the pain from that, from feeling ugly, that I always viewed as the great tragedy of my life. The fact that I had cancer seemed minor in comparison.

At age nine, Lucy Grealy was diagnosed with a pote
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Published March 18th 2003 by Harper Perennial (first published January 1st 1994)
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Will Byrnes
Jul 24, 2010 rated it really liked it
At an early age, Lucy Grealy was found to have a rare form of cancer. It would define the rest of her life. A third of her jawbone was removed to try to stem the spread of this cancer. She endured two and a half years of chemotherapy and many subsequent years of radiation treatments. In addition, she had literally dozens of surgeries attempting to restore her face. Each time her body would eventually absorb transplanted material and sag back in on itself. Consider the garden-variety cruelty of m ...more
Oct 22, 2015 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: memoir-bio
I first learned about Lucy Grealy through Ann Patchett’s memoir Truth and Beauty, a memoir dedicated to her complex friendship with Grealy. I almost wish I hadn’t read it first; in that case, I wouldn’t have approached this book with deep sadness for what the future was to bring for Grealy.

Grealy is a poet. Each sentence was crafted with so much love, meaning, and feeling. Throughout the book, she takes the reader into her confidence while relating her complicated relationship with herself, and
Nov 26, 2016 rated it really liked it
Shelves: audio, memoir, auto-bio
I wasn’t sure where to begin in this review because so many things could be said. The book is not especially sad, but the end may leave you with that feeling for you. Sometimes there is not perfect resolution. I felt pain for this child who lived through cancer, and later the woman she had become which included strength of perseverance, and acceptance. Battling cancer was only the first part of her journey. It could be said that the living with the deformity caused by the cancer and the surgerie ...more
Elyse  Walters
Update: a kindle $1.99 download special today. I read it along time ago but it’s one of those stores that you just never forget. If you’ve missed it it’s really worth reading and it’s selling for a great price today.

A friend sent me a recommendation at this book a few minutes ago.
I read it when it first came out.
I also highly recommend it

True story - sad- beautiful.
One of those stories one never forgets!
Feb 22, 2008 rated it really liked it
I'm so glad I read this book after reading Ann Patchett's "Truth and Beauty," which was her take on the friendship between the two women. I came away from reading the first book with a very skewed idea of what the relationship was like. I didn't like Lucy Grealy at all--she came across as a self-involved neurotic who totally wasted her life and died of an accidental heroin overdose. After reading Lucy's own account of her childhood cancer and all the hardships she endured because of her treatmen ...more
Sep 18, 2008 rated it it was amazing
Recommends it for: cate, and anyone interested in childhood trauma
this book knocked me for six (this, i'm told, is a cricket-based metaphor. the only other cricket-related sentence i know is "the sound of willow on leather," which english expats like simon use with a quiver in their voices. this has absolutely nothing to do with this review). lucy grealy writes about her experience with a severely crippling childhood cancer which, besides putting her through years of chemo and radiation therapy with accompanying nausea, pain, terror, ill-being, baldness, and m ...more
Cathrine ☯️
Aug 14, 2015 rated it liked it
There is much said about this memoir from many POVs and my thoughts about it are complicated. As one reviewer pointed out the title says Autobiography of a Face and that’s what it is. Hoping to find a more holistic view to other aspects of life in the aftermath of her childhood experience left me disappointed. She spends the majority of this book in those early years and quickly wraps it up after college. Like others I wondered how she could so clearly recall the details and memories from su
Nov 11, 2012 rated it liked it
Lucy Grealy’s memoir AUTOBIOGRAPHY OF A FACE was met with wide critical and popular acclaim when published. The book is overrated in my opinion, and it provides a good test case for Vivian Gornick’s concepts of the “situation” and the “story.” “Every work of literature has both a situation and a story,” Gornick writes in her book THE SITUATION AND THE STORY. “The situation is the context or circumstance, sometimes the plot; the story is the emotional experience that preoccupies the writer: the i ...more
Jan 27, 2016 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: memoir
While reading this book, I was reminded of something my daughter used to say when she was little and she came to me after one of her brothers or a friend hurt her feelings. She would say.. "Mommy, my heart hurts." Well, that sentence seems the perfect way to describe my feelings about this book.

I discovered 'Autobiography of a Face' by Lucy Grealy at a used book store. The photo on the cover immediately caught my eye… it was startling! The photo caught me, and the story pulled me in and ultimate
Jul 05, 2009 rated it did not like it the risk of sounding completely cold, I did not like this book. I spent most of the book so consumed by frustration for Lucy's mother and Lucy's own perceptions that I couldn't allow myself to feel anything else for her.

Yes, she was a cancer survivor, and she was treated horribly by her peers growing up. But sometime after the large portion of her jaw was removed, she admits that she didn't even understand that she had had cancer until many years later! She thought that people stared a
Aug 06, 2007 rated it liked it
Shelves: nonfiction
Autobiography of a Face chronicles Lucy Grealy's battle with the physical and psychological effects of Ewing's sarcoma, a cancer that robbed her of much of her jaw. Grealy touches upon some of the more negative aspects of her ordeal, such as her need for attention and her tendency to blame all of her problems on her face, yet it is clear some of the tale is left untold. The writing itself is wonderful: flowing, elegant sentences filled with succinct vocabulary.

Grealy and author Ann Patchett (Be
Bill Kupersmith
Aug 10, 2014 rated it it was amazing
Lucy Grealy was a poet, essayist, and autobiographer. She was born in Dublin in 1963 and her family immigrated to Spring Valley, New York, when she was four years old. Her father worked in television. Lucy was a graduate of Sarah Lawrence College and received an MFA degree from the University of Iowa Creative Writing Program (the “Writer’s Workshop”).
The crucial experience in Lucy’s life happened at age nine, when as a result of a playground accident to her jaw, she was diagnosed with Ewing’s
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Lucy Grealy was nine years old when she was diagnosed with Ewing’s Sarcoma, an aggressive bone cancer, in her right jaw. The surgery and chemo helped save her life but left her with disfiguring scars.

What is more important to your sense of self than to recognize yourself in the mirror? What if the face you saw in the mirror was one you could not bear to look at? A face that could not possibly reflect the you inside?

Grealy became a renowned poet, and her way with words shows here. She writes so
Caitlin Constantine
Jul 23, 2011 rated it really liked it
Several months ago, the mug shot of a criminal suspect landed in my work inbox. When I opened the email, I was so shocked that I gasped out loud, then giggled nervously as I quickly closed it. The young man was horribly disfigured, to the point that his face looked like the creation of a special effects artist in a horror movie. I saw his face in my mind for days afterward, sometimes seeing it in odd shadows in half-light rooms, and each time I was revolted. My very visceral horror was compounde ...more
Jul 24, 2007 rated it really liked it
TIP: To be read AFTER Ann Patchett’s Truth and Beauty. This autobiography is very engaging and well written. The author tells of her experience with cancer, but she states that while she spent only a certain amount of her youth being treated for cancer, she spent the rest of her life being treated for looking different than everyone else. This is an exploration into a very interesting and intense individual far more than it is a documentary about the affects of cancer. It is rich in language and ...more
Apr 14, 2011 rated it liked it
possibly i made a big mistake by reading this & then immediately reading truth & beauty by ann pratchett (as well as some of suellen grealy's choice comments about how ann pratchett never should have written truth & beauty). my immediate thoughts on this book were something along the lines of, "not bad. she really touches a nerve about the power & perception of beauty in women. she seems to have some demons, but has to be incredibly strong to go through everything she has gone through." (the boo ...more
Feb 13, 2008 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: memoirs-read
Wow! A truly touching story filled with so many little life lessons. A story that makes me cringe a little with guilt when I realize how good I have it yet how often I sometimes take my life for granted, my health for granted, my friends and family for granted... Ms. Grealy opened my eyes up to another world where she had every right to let life beat her down yet she continued to find strength and confidence and continued to somehow pull herself back up, hold her head high and continue to face t ...more
John Sundman
Nov 20, 2010 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: People interested in the deepest questions of what it means to be human.
Recommended to John by: Lucy Grealy (I read the magazine article on which the book is based).
I've wanted to read this book since reading the magazine article that precipitated it in 1994. Even if the book had sucked I probably would have given it three stars for the title alone. "Autobiography of a Face". It gives me gooseflesh.

Now that I've finally read it, I can report that book lives up to its title. Five stars.

William Carlos Williams concluded his introduction to Allen Ginsberg's poem "Howl" saying something like, "Ladies and gentlemen, lift your petticoats. You're about to walk t
Mar 21, 2013 rated it really liked it
Exquisite memoir by poet and novelist Lucy Grealy. Diagnosed with Ewing’s Sarcoma at aged nine, Lucy had half of her jawbone removed and spent the next three years undergoing constant radiation and chemotheraphy treatments. The brutal toll that the damage and subsequent reconstructive surgeries took on her face and psyche is the focus of the book, which covers the time between her diagnosis and early adulthood.

Grealy is an intelligent and gifted writer and her thoughtful examination of her disfi
Sep 02, 2007 rated it really liked it
I am interested in writing memoir or at least creative non-fiction so I was excited to read this book. Certainly autobiography is self-centered by nature and one should not be surprised to find the subject's conciousness to take center stage. Grealy somehow manages to almost completely immerse us in her thoughts and feelings for the eighteen years between her diagnosis with Ewing's sarcoma and the writing of the book. Her honesty is unflinching and totally politically incorrect at times. There a ...more
Jun 15, 2020 rated it really liked it
What is identity? How much of who we are is dependent what we look like? What sort of person can we be when our appearance never stays the same?

These were questions I first wrangled with when reading Ann Patchett's book Truth & Beauty about her best friend Lucy Grealy. My friend Tracey suggested I read Patchett's book before delving into Grealy's own account of her life, as it would make Lucy easier to approach. Patchett's take on Grealy isn't especially sympathetic; sentimental, sure, because t
I read Ann Patchett’s Truth and Beauty a while back and was intrigued by Greely’s story. I was excited to read Greely’s version (especially since there was such controversy between her family and Patchett). As a former student of physical attractiveness (my MA dealt with the mechanics and development of measuring facial physical attractiveness), I was curious to read about Greely’s experience. Unfortunately, I was disappointed.

I think part of my disappointment in this book was due to my knowledg
About 20 years ago, I read an essay by Grealy in a book about women and their bodies. (I can't figure out what that book was titled.) I was so impressed by her story that when Grealy's memoir was published, I read it immediately. I could not imagine being so honest about one's body and self image. I found Grealy's story fascinating and very forthright.
Then, I encountered Truth and Beauty by Ann Patchett. This is the story of her friendship with Grealy. It wasn't until I picked up Patchett's memo
Feb 10, 2010 rated it it was ok
I'm not sure I found this quite as revelatory as I hoped I would. The "medical memoir" aspect of it was interesting and often appropriately horrifying. The more personal aspects - the parts about what it's like to walk around the world with a very conspicuous trace of illness and surgeries - were often compelling for me to consider more than for me to read Grealy discuss.

I'm not 100% sure that Grealy was a strong enough writer to tell her important and interesting story as well as it might have
Jul 02, 2007 rated it it was amazing
Grealy's memoir describes her battle with bone cancer in adolescence, the removal of half her jaw, her two-and-a-half years of radiation/chemo treatments, the string of surgeries to "fix" her face that lasted into her adulthood as each successive reconstruction was absorbed back into her body, and her attempts to be a model patient and keep her family happy by never showing emotion during the ordeal. It's a beautiful, well-written book exploring a young girl's struggle to reconcile her "ugly" ap ...more
May 03, 2018 rated it really liked it
This book, beautifully written, made me so sad, especially given that its author died tragically not even ten years after it was published, and her gifts didn't get to be shared with readers through many more works. At its crux is her childhood bout with Ewing's sarcoma, a deadly cancer that she survived but with a disfigured face that she then had to deal with as she grew up. I so wish that her dysfunctional parents had instilled and nurtured a deep-seated self-worth in Grealy, because it would ...more
May 05, 2007 rated it it was amazing
This book says a lot about how our society reacts to "ugliness." It is about a woman who had cancer as a young girl. She beat it, but was left without a jaw on one side of her face.

She says, "I spent five years of my life being treated for cancer, but since then I've spent fifteen years being treated for nothing other than looking different from everyone else. It was the pain from that, from feeling ugly, that I always viewed as the great tragedy of my life. The fact that I had cancer seemed mi
Nov 22, 2020 rated it liked it
Shelves: medical, bullying
The author had cancer and part of her jaw was removed, altering her facial structure and the way she felt about herself. It was so amazing to me that she was bullied at school because of her looks and something she couldnt help. I felt this book was very introspective and would have liked to have seen what was done to help her psychologically, for instance it seems like no one that worked at the school gave her any help whatsoever. I wondered if the bullies actually understood what was going on ...more
Kristine (fezabel)
Jun 25, 2008 rated it it was ok
Shelves: biography-memoir
As seen in Truth & Beauty by Ann Patchett, Lucy Grealy is a selfish spoiled girl. Her main concern in this book is not how to live with the disfigurement from cancer, but how to make people do things to make her happy. She learns to work the system to get what she wants. There's no great introspection in her story. She has no startling insights about life. She just goes along from surgery to surgery begging for attention and love while not giving anything back to others. The most interesting thi ...more
Jul 23, 2007 rated it really liked it
A beautifully written memoir about the late Grealy's struggle with childhood cancer leading to many, many reconstructive surgeries over 20 years. She tells her story with wit and perspective which seems improbable given what she went through. The treatments sound pretty primative now.

I recommend resisting the urge to follow this up with Ann Patchett's about Grealy after she died. Patchett reveals a lot about Grealy and I wished I could have un-read these details and returned to the stronger, s
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