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Single and Ready to Mingle: Gods principles for relating, dating & mating
Dating and marriage are probably the most talked about topics among young people and even adults. It makes sense, since choosing a spouse is the second most important decision you will ever make in your life, after your decision to follow Christ. So, let's open up the conversation and debunk some of the most common misconceptions about dating and marriage and begin to shed light on God's instructions regarding these matters. In this book, you will discover how to go about dating God's way and learn some key principles on successful relationships.
164 pages, Paperback
Published July 1, 2019
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About the author
Vladimir Savchuk
85 books187 followersVladimir Savchuk is a rising spiritual voice that God is using to profoundly impact this generation. Leveraging modern media technology to propagate the timeless truth of the faith, Pastor Vlad has written books, hosted conferences and created content platforms that are touching hundreds and thousands of people all around the world.
Pastor Vlad’s creative approach in leading Hungry Generation church has been used by the Holy Spirit to cultivate an anointed internship program and a worship culture with worldwide reach. He is a gifted speaker with an emphasis on rarely-addressed spiritual topics such as spiritual warfare, deliverance and the Holy Spirit. Pastor Vlad is declaring ancient truths in a modern way.
He is married to his beautiful wife, Lana, with whom he enjoys spending time and doing ministry together.
Pastor Vlad’s creative approach in leading Hungry Generation church has been used by the Holy Spirit to cultivate an anointed internship program and a worship culture with worldwide reach. He is a gifted speaker with an emphasis on rarely-addressed spiritual topics such as spiritual warfare, deliverance and the Holy Spirit. Pastor Vlad is declaring ancient truths in a modern way.
He is married to his beautiful wife, Lana, with whom he enjoys spending time and doing ministry together.
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March 10, 2020
We live in a world where relationships,sex & dating are taken for granted. The author did an amazing job in expressing what is God's design for the relationships and etc.Beautiful insights from the Bible and I'd recommend to all who are going through a rough patch in their relationships,single or married.The best thing about the book is it can be read by everyone. I'm 26 and few years back,I was head over heels in love with someone,but never bothered to put it in prayer.God somehow pulled me back & told me he has a better person for my life ( the person who I was in love with isn't a Christian).I was so furious, exasperated & thought God never has the best interests for me.The author tackles these questions with utmost subtlity & points us to the fact that there's beauty in surrendering our relationships to God & I can 100% vouch for this .Must read!!
September 22, 2024
I really enjoyed reading this book. It's packed with wisdom and guidance on a range of topics, including our identity in Christ, intimacy with God, the purposes of singleness, the importance of compatibility, conflict and communication, and the dangers of unequally yoked relationships. Whether you're single, courting, married, divorced, or widowed, I highly recommend this book. Thank you, Pastor Vlad, for generously making this resource available for free download. Your ministry is a blessing!
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“Your identity must be anchored in God before getting into marriage.”
“Relationship with God comes first. Living in His presence is the foundation for every other relationship. You must be comfortable while being single with God or you will never be at peace with someone else.”
“God formed Adam. Unlike all other creation, which God created by speaking into existence, God was physically involved in creating Adam from the dust. So also, God formed you. You were created by the touch of God; therefore, it is His touch that you will always crave. His presence becomes your hiding place. There will always be a deep longing in your heart for God's touch, because He formed you with His hands.” ♡
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“Your identity must be anchored in God before getting into marriage.”
“Relationship with God comes first. Living in His presence is the foundation for every other relationship. You must be comfortable while being single with God or you will never be at peace with someone else.”
“God formed Adam. Unlike all other creation, which God created by speaking into existence, God was physically involved in creating Adam from the dust. So also, God formed you. You were created by the touch of God; therefore, it is His touch that you will always crave. His presence becomes your hiding place. There will always be a deep longing in your heart for God's touch, because He formed you with His hands.” ♡
July 6, 2019
Amazing book!
This book is just amazing! If you wanna know what the Bible says about marriage, dating, and how all these works you should definitely read it. One of the reasons I liked this book is because it has tackled some of the twisted beliefs that are widely spread among the youths in our days with what the Bible really says. Learn about love, singleness, dating, and marriage. 💯% recommend it.
This book is just amazing! If you wanna know what the Bible says about marriage, dating, and how all these works you should definitely read it. One of the reasons I liked this book is because it has tackled some of the twisted beliefs that are widely spread among the youths in our days with what the Bible really says. Learn about love, singleness, dating, and marriage. 💯% recommend it.
September 10, 2019
Practical but impactful!
One thing's for sure, after reading this book I will never view relationships in the same lens anymore! I feel like my children will be needing this book 25 years from now. Lol.
One thing's for sure, after reading this book I will never view relationships in the same lens anymore! I feel like my children will be needing this book 25 years from now. Lol.
July 27, 2019
I really enjoyed readying this book, I couldn't put it down. I've learnt so much this has changed my approach to to dating in a positive way.. God bless Pastor Vladmir
May 25, 2020
Simple & easy-to-read kind of book with applicable tips.
December 28, 2023
Lots of biblical insights. I appreciate that the author took the time in the intro to note that all couples in the Bible after the fall reflect fallen relationships, and points back to pre-fall Adam and Eve for what God intended marriage to be (yes, totally thinking about all the references people make to me about "finding your Boaz", whatever that means). Although not 100% in agreement with the author's beliefs, there is much wisdom in what he shares from the Bible about relationships. Very well-organized and well-written. Very easy to read. Highly recommend.
August 2, 2024
This book was AMAZING! Everything you need to know about having a Godly relationship (or really just a healthy relationship in general) is included in this book! Pastor Vlad does such a great job at explaining the reasoning behind relationships, why relationships fail, and how to have a healthy relationship that flourishes. Regardless of what season you are currently in (single, dating, engaged, or married), this book will help to ensure you have the best relationship possible, with God at the center of it all!
July 5, 2021
I highly recommend this book to Christian believers. It will teach you how to lay the foundation to a strong marriage and answer some of the key question - is s/he the right partner, am I ready to commit, how to find a spouse.
This is one of the books I’ll put on the shelf for my kids when they enter the adolescence.
This is one of the books I’ll put on the shelf for my kids when they enter the adolescence.
December 29, 2025
The book was very easy to read and explained the points clearly. I was very encouraged by it and it gave me a lot of understanding about God’s plan for us in relationships. Many points are also applicable to other areas, pointing us to the basics and the initial path God wanted us to take and that is now available to us through Jesus Christ.
I 100% recommend it!
I 100% recommend it!
September 20, 2020
This book is amazing! Very on point with fresh revelations about how a Christian must approach marriage from singleness. One of my good reads in the field of Christian romance.
February 6, 2021
Có 1 tỉ thứ mình ko phục ở cái quyển này, và 1 tỉ thứ mình phục. Khổ thân Chúa tôi, phải làm việc vs cái thằng xàm l này hic
July 6, 2022
no BS from this guy and i loved it
August 17, 2022
So much insight! I watched the sermons about this book years ago and still got so many lessons. Thank you Pastor Vlad for giving away this pdf for free
September 19, 2022
Practical, in context to both gender and interesting illustrations for understanding.
November 3, 2023
It is a practical book for dating and marriage. As always in his books, Vlad uses a direct and simple vocabulary with good daily examples. Loved it! 😍
April 10, 2024
jaw-dropped, realizations after realizations!
June 21, 2024
An amazing book that every body needs to read! Easy to read & straight to the point 🔥🔥🔥!!!
Thank you Pastor Vlad!
Thank you Pastor Vlad!
August 29, 2024
Interesting
January 5, 2025
So many words of wisdom. Easy to read. Great practical advice. One of the best reads of 2024.
January 15, 2026
“When you stay with your parents, you can develop
good life skills, save money, and work out any
frictions with those you are familiar with. What
good would it do to move out of your parents’ house
at eighteen, live from paycheck to paycheck, only to
prove to your broke friends that you are
independent.”
good life skills, save money, and work out any
frictions with those you are familiar with. What
good would it do to move out of your parents’ house
at eighteen, live from paycheck to paycheck, only to
prove to your broke friends that you are
independent.”
October 29, 2019
Inspiring and extremely helpful! Thank you!
This book covers many aspects, not just one. An excellent guidance that will take you from point A to Z in a successful and godly way!
This book covers many aspects, not just one. An excellent guidance that will take you from point A to Z in a successful and godly way!
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