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Know My Name: A Memoir

4.71  ·  Rating details ·  27,872 ratings  ·  4,438 reviews
She was known to the world as Emily Doe when she stunned millions with a letter. Brock Turner had been sentenced to just six months in county jail after he was found sexually assaulting her on Stanfords campus. Her victim impact statement was posted on BuzzFeed, where it instantly went viralviewed by eleven million people within four days, it was translated globally and ...more
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Published September 24th 2019 by Viking
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Alysha DeShaé She read it herself. There are some points where you can hear in her voice how hard it is for her.
Trista This is a tough but important book to read. But I want my 16 year old to read it. At 16, many teenagers would be facing the issues in this book for…moreThis is a tough but important book to read. But I want my 16 year old to read it. At 16, many teenagers would be facing the issues in this book for themselves. Alcohol, sexual assault, rape and the US Justice system. Teenagers, both boys and girls should look at these issues and maybe the more aware they are about them, the less these will be “issues” in the future. This raw account illuminates the reality, which we shouldn’t shelter our teens from. Brock was 19 when he committed this crime. Perhaps if he had been better educated, more aware, he wouldn’t have thought what he did was okay. (less)

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Emily May
This book was amazing.

And I want you to know I'm not just saying that because this is the memoir of the woman who was sexually assaulted by Brock Turner and it was always going to be important. True, I expected the book would be important, probably powerful and moving, but I didn't realize what an incredible writer Miller actually is.

Her words are arresting, gripping, and poetic. She takes us back to that night and through all of the horror and humiliation of the aftermath and trial. But
Dec 11, 2019 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
i am a victim, i have no qualms with this word, only with the idea that it is all that i am.

previously known as emily doe when her victim impact statement was released, chanel miller reclaims her name and identity, proving that she is more than just a victim, in this powerful and (heartbreakingly) necessary memoir.

this is one of the most difficult books i have ever read. i was completely beside myself, not just because of the sensitive content, but because of the injustice of it all. i cant
Stunning. An absolutely stunning memoir, one of the best I have ever read. In Know My Name, Chanel Miller reclaims her identity after the press described her as unconscious intoxicated woman in the aftermath of when rapist Brock Turner assaulted her. I remember feeling inspired, impressed, and in awe of Millers victim impact statement as Emily Doe when it came out in 2016. Miller brings that same level of strength and eloquence to this memoir.

When I read my favorite memoirists, I get this
Sep 04, 2019 rated it it was amazing
Chanels story has captured the eye of the nation and has further uncovered the vile lack of justice that exists when rape and sexual assault occur (to this day, we still have prominent news outlets referring to Turner as the Stanford Swimmer). But I think memoirs like this have taken the narrative by the hand and guided it in a direction that it should be going. Chanel is not nameless. Shes not faceless. She is real and so was her experience. Im glad I know your name, Chanel, and your story ...more
Chelsea (chelseadolling reads)
Absolutely fucking incredible.
Everyone, everyone, everyone should read this book.

That's my review.
Lindsay - Traveling Sister
4+ stars!

Powerful. Shocking. Emotional. Upsetting. Inspiring. Life changing.

This is the memoir of an extremely admirable, inspiring and empowering young woman who has given a voice to countless sexual assault victims. Chanel Miller was sexually assaulted behind a dumpster on a prestigious college campus in 2015. This is her journey of fighting for her voice to be heard which in turn gives courage and strength to so many others.

This book is undeniably powerful. I dont believe there is a person
You took away
My worth, my privacy,
My energy,
My time,
My safety,
My intimacy,
My confidence,
My own voice,
Until today.

This story is fucking incredible, moving, brilliant. I don't really have words to describe how this story moved me and how I think it's one of the best of the year and how everyone needs to read this. It's the true story of Chanel Miller, a girl who was raped behind a dumpster on Stanford's campus in 2015. I was moved to tears many times while reading this because I can't imagine the
Oct 09, 2019 rated it really liked it
I still remember what a punch to the gut it was to read the victim impact statement from "Emily Doe" at Brock Turner's sentencing. Despite the fact that Brock Turner was actually caught in the act of sexually assaulting her, and despite the fact that he was found unanimously guilty on three separate charges, the judge presiding over his sentencing gave Turner only a 6 month sentence which really equated to a 3 month sentence due to time for 'good behavior'. The injustice of it all still burns ...more
Hannah Greendale
Mar 15, 2020 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: memoir, non-fiction
An unflinching and triumphant testimony. Know My Name ought to be required reading.
I always wondered why survivors understood other survivors so well. Why, even if the details of our attacks vary, survivors can lock eyes and get it without having to explain. Perhaps it is not the particulars of the assault itself that we have in common, but the moment after; the first time you are left alone. [...] This moment is not pain, not hysteria, not crying. It is your insides turning to cold stones. It
Feb 15, 2020 rated it really liked it
Know My Name: A Memoir is Chanel Millers moving survival story. She was sexually assaulted while unconscious at a Stanford frat party in 2015. Her assaulter was caught in the act by two witnesses and attempted to flee the scene.

In an effort to remain anonymous, Chanel was known as Emily Doe throughout the trial. While Turner was found to be guilty, the world (self-included) was stunned to see his sentence be so light, really insignificant 6 months and released after just 3. This seeming incel
Elyse  Walters
Dec 11, 2019 rated it it was amazing by the author, Chanel Miller

Chanel wrote an exceptional unflinchingly honest - memoir....with personal gut-wrenching details.

One does not need to be a victim of sexual assault - to feel its power.

Michael Aaron Persky - American attorney and former judge became the first judge to be recalled in California in over 80 years....after international widespread criticism of his ridiculously lenient sentencing
Brock Turner was convicted of three felony charges.
Nov 29, 2019 rated it liked it
I'm going to be honest. This book was hard to get through. Not because of the topic, but because it was too long and too repetitive. I really respect Chanel Miller and I cannot believe how lucidly she analyzes her rape, the trial, and everything that followed. Like everyone else, I knew all the facts here, but her analysis is insightful. Still, I wish her editor had helped cut out some of the chapters that were superfluous.
Sep 05, 2019 marked it as to-read-so-bad-it-hurts  ·  review of another edition
I still remember reading her statement back in 2016 and the feelings it evoked so I cannot even imagine how much more powerful and impactful this would be
Nov 22, 2019 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Can't say enough good things about this one.
More thoughts about it here:
Schizanthus Nerd
You took away my worth, my privacy, my energy, my time, my safety, my intimacy, my confidence, my own voice, until today.
Chanel Miller was raped on Sunday, 18 January 2015.

I was raped three days earlier (80 hours before Chanel was, if you take time zones into account). Once I saw that date in print and realised how little time separated our experiences, I couldnt help but see her story personally. So this is going to be a different review than I would usually write. Feel free to skip the bits
Updated November 20, 2019.

I decided to read Know My Name for BookOfCinz November read because I felt it beyond important.

I have no words. I was moved to tears and anger so many times while reading this book. I don't know why in the year 2019 women are still fighting this battle. Chanel Miller is one brave woman, I can not even begin to imagine or put into word her bravery. I have so much to say, but I feel like its been said already by much more eloquent persons.

I do recommend EVERYONE
Chanel Miller has written her painful story and it is one of the best examples of exactly what a rape victim has to endure. Bravo. It's brilliantly written. I can't believe she had the courage to write such a book but THANK GOD she did. I look forward to reading her next book. Highly recommend.
Rachel Reads Ravenously

Nonfiction November is a month long reading initiative that challenges you to read four or more nonfiction books during the month of November.

5 stars

This is the powerful memoir of Chanel Miller, also known as Emily Doe, the woman who was sexually assaulted by Brock Turner.

In this book Chanel details the events surrounding her trial and after, and the impact this sexual assault had on her life. The entire book my heart went out to this young woman for the unfairness of everything that
Cathrine ☯️
5 ⚖ ⚖ ⚖ ⚖ ⚖
When youre a young male Stanford swimming star they let you do it. You can do anything. Grab 'em by the pussy. You can do anything.

When youre the unconscious female victim its your fault. Youre guilty until proven innocent. While youre being assaulted all over again in court be aware of what behavior is acceptable from you:

"Dont get angry. If youre angry youre defensive.
If youre flat youre apathetic.
Too upbeat, youre suspect.
If you weep, youre hysterical.
Being too emotional made you
Nov 12, 2019 rated it it was amazing
Chanel Millers memoir Know My Name is aptly titled; the name Brock Turner is known by most Americans who watch the news, while Miller was known for years only as Emily Doe, the nameless, faceless girl that he attempted to rape at a Stanford frat party in January 2015. Turners case gained notoriety after his sentencing where he received only 6 months of prison time he only served 3 and Millers victim impact statement was published to Buzzfeed, receiving millions of hits and sparking ...more
Feb 01, 2020 rated it really liked it
Shelves: favorites, poc-author
Just as great as everyone says it is.

Watch my full review:
Alysha DeShaé
I've calmed down a bit since I wrote my very short letter/review to Chanel last night. I'm still raw and emotional, though, but I feel that I managed to type up something a little more like a review.

But how do you review a book like this? "I liked the part where she talked about how painful everything is." What? Really?! Like, it's all painful! And you liked it? Geez, okay. ... See? It's hard. It's especially hard when you know exactly how hard it is to come forward with something like
April (Aprilius Maximus)
You have to hold out to see how your life unfolds, because it is most likely beyond what you can imagine. It is not a question of if you will survive this, but what beautiful things await you when you do.

✧゚: *✧゚:* 5 s t a r s *:゚✧*:゚✧

One of the most powerful, well-written memoirs I've ever read and one I will definitely be purchasing for my shelves.

What we needed to raise in others was this instinct. The ability to recognize, in an instant, right from wrong. The clarity of mind to face it
Mar 24, 2020 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Miller eloquently cuts right through the bullshit. Know My Name is a scathing account of her rape and the trauma she was continuously subjected to by the legal system and Stanford administration. This book made me furious. Read it. Miller is an inspiration and an excellent writer.
Nenia ⚡ Aspiring Evil Overlord ⚡ Campbell
This is the memoir of the woman who was raped by Brock Turner. She remained anonymous in the initial report but now she has come forward not just with a name but also with a story.

I think I need to read this.
Kristy K
Dec 27, 2019 rated it it was amazing
Be ready to cry, rage, and cry again. Millers story is heartbreaking and inspirational at the same time. I am so proud and in awe of this Emily Doe taking her name and story back.

Highly recommend.
NAT.orious reads ☽
5 STARS ★★★★★
This book is for everyone.

When I finished this a couple of days ago, I had the feeling I needed to let my reading experience sit for a while and collect myself before sharing my thought. I now regret that choice. I should have written it straight away, letting it all out; the pain, the sorrow, the anguish, the reassurance, the joy, the determination. This book and Chanel - wonderful Chanel - earn much more than what I am able to give them now, 5 days after finishing
Jeanette (Again)
American women have made great progress in many respects since 1971 when Helen Reddy sang:
I am woman, hear me roar, in numbers too big to ignore.

But no matter how much we roar, we still cant seem to get any real traction when it comes to sexual assault and harassment. When women seek justice, the man is often seen as the victim. The woman is vilified and blamed. How dare she try to ruin his reputation and derail him from his career path? She shouldnt have been drinking. She shouldnt have been
Jan 26, 2020 rated it it was amazing
Wow. One of the most powerful books I've read. Her honesty, vulnerability, and strength... I am in awe. It is both brutal and beautiful and should be read by all.

Thank you to Viking for providing me with a free review copy. All opinions are my own.
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Chanel Miller is a writer and artist who received her BA in Literature from the College of Creative Studies at the University of California, Santa Barbara. She lives in San Francisco, California.

(source: Amazon)

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