If you spend a lot of time in certain quarters on the internet, particularly those concerned with men's dating and social lives, you will quickly encounter a lot of very boring people (frequently bearded) who will tell you
Lift Go to church Find a 'good woman' Stop playing the field Settle down with her and get monogamous Get married Have kids Get a mortgage and saddle yourself with huge debt Work until you die
Now, all of that might sound great to some.
But what if it's not right for YOU?
What if that's not the kind of life that you imagine yourself living?
What if you want to go against the grain and do something completely different?
Well, you can.
If you want to be a bachelor for life, then that's cool.
If you want to be a 'renegade playboy' then go for it.
There are no 'life police' out there who are going to tell you off for doing the 'wrong thing'.
EXCEPT these few self-appointed online puritans, bores and do-gooders
From them you can expect to cop some criticism.
Which is exactly where CUCKED comes in!
In the book, I go through sixteen of the key objections hurled at those who choose not to go with the herd, and I comprehensively demolish each
1. “Do Your Bit To Save Western Civilisation™ You Despicable Player!”
2.”If you are promiscuous and don’t ‘settle down™’ and marry then you are a DEGENERATE!”
3. “Monogamy isn't broken, you are just a wounded man-boy”
4. “Marriage is easy! All you have to do is vet your partner before you commit”
5. “Just make sure you get a ‘good girl’"
6. “Being a single playboy is SELFISH! Settle down for the good of society!”
7. “Man Up And ‘Do The Right Thing’”
8. ‘Don’t you think of leaving a legacy’ & ‘The “winning” alpha male is the one who leaves behind a genetic legacy’
Ï9. ‘You’ll end up a lonely old man’
10. ‘Stop enabling female hypergamy (to prevent the downfall of society)! And definitely stop ‘spoiling’ the good girls!’
11. ‘Leave them for us - stop stealing our women!’
12. Come to Christ! Monogamy is Sacred!
13. “Make America Great Again” (Conservative Politics Is Alpha)
14. Players Get STDs
15 .You Are Immature - ‘Real Men’™ Grow Out Of The Chase In Time
16. “If You Remain Single Your Life Will Have No Meaning’
If any---or many---of these sound familiar to you then CUCKED is for you.
In fact, even if you believe many of these tropes yourself then CUCKED is for you.
Because the decision whether to 'settle down' or not is one of the biggest that any of us face in our lives.
And in the end, whatever you choose is entirely up to you.
But it's always important to understand both sides of the argument.
And in the case of arguments against remaining single, there is an assumed 'rightness' about the traditionalist arguments that doesn't hold water when you delve deeper.
But CUCKED isn't just about disproving outdated ideas and rhetoric. Far more importantly, CUCKED will fire you with excitement for the sheer possibilities of bachelor life.
Because once you realise that you are free to design your own life, no matter how crazy or unconventional, then truly wonderful possibilities will open up for you.
And you will see that you can live the life you want, not the life you think you should!