Is society ready for men who openly express femininity? Can men transcend gender lines and maintain their sense of self-worth and dignity? These are the questions asked to over 850 crossdressers worldwide in a survey used as the basis of this book. From an early age boys are taught to follow the stereotypes of maleness. When the inner desire to express femininity exerts a greater force than the desire to live up to the appropriate image for masculinity, conflict may develop. This provocative book addresses these conflicts and provides solutions.
I really wanted to like this book-to give it a chance. I think there is some useful information, mostly in the form of responses from the actual cross dressers. I found the focus on ‘fitting in’ with ‘normal’ social rules to be very distracting. the book opens with a large section about why looking like a ‘hooker’ is embarrassing and why it’s not a true type Of femininity I think is harmful. Sex workers are just as deserving of the care and dignity that this author seems to value.