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Twenty-one Truths About Love

3.63  ·  Rating details ·  2,570 ratings  ·  894 reviews
This heartfelt story is about the lengths one man will go to and the risks he will take to save his family. But Dan doesn’t just want to save his failing bookstore and his family’s finances he wants to do something special.

Dan is an obsessive list maker; his story unfolds entirely in his lists, which are brimming with Dan’s hilarious sense of humor, unique world-view, and
Hardcover, 352 pages
Published November 19th 2019 by St. Martin's Press
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May 22, 2019 rated it really liked it
Shelves: first-reads
I was going to create my own list comprised of twenty-one truths about this book, but I realized I only needed one:
I loved Twenty-one Truths About Love!

Twenty-one Truths About Love is a humorous, quirky, and endearing read about one man’s fears, anxiety about impending fatherhood, feelings (mostly of inadequacy), and the minutiae of daily life all detailed in the lists that he makes constantly throughout the day and night.

Dan makes lists. Dan writes lists mostly about: his financial proble
Jan 17, 2020 rated it liked it
Twenty-one truths about this book:
1. It’s often hilarious
2. Except when it isn’t
3. I LOVE lists
4. But an entire book written in list form gets annoying after a while (maybe like this review?)
5. Read it as you would a book of essays and set it down in between.
6. My husband wasn’t annoyed when I read some of the items on the list out loud, and actually chuckled
7. Dan loves his wife
8. Dan’s wife is pregnant
9. Dan’s wife is sweet
10. Dan is jealous of his wife’s dead husband
11. Dan doesn’t share wi
Nov 01, 2019 rated it liked it
Shelves: netgalley
The premise of this book intrigued me - a book made up completely of lists. But what sounds good in principal didn’t quite live up to its potential.

Despite being told purely in the form of lists, it doesn’t take long to get the gist of the story. 1) Dan has left teaching to open a bookstore. 2) The bookstore is losing money and they’re on the verge of going broke. 3) Jill doesn’t know this. 4) Jill wants a baby and becomes pregnant. 5) Jill is a widow. 6) dan writes lists about every idiot thou
Jul 28, 2019 rated it it was amazing
We lie most often to the people we love. Time passes, lies multiply, and arguably a situation worsens. Case in point, Dan Mayrock's expenses which are outpacing his income at the bookstore he opened after leaving teaching. Jill, his pregnant wife, is being kept in the dark, led to believe the bookstore is profitable. Financial disaster is looming on the horizon.

Dan is overwhelmed and anxiety ridden. His former therapist suggested that he "log" his feelings. Dan does so in the form of "obsessive
Larry H
Oct 13, 2019 rated it liked it
Shelves: netgalley
Things I enjoyed about this book:
1. The fact the book was written entirely in lists was really creative.
2. Amidst everything that went on in the book, it’s really a story about love, fear, and family.
3. Many of Dan’s thoughts are surprisingly on par with mine.

Things I didn’t enjoy about this book:
1. The list format started to wear me down.
2. There was one particular plotline that I found really irksome.
3. Darned book made me cry...

Dan left his teaching job to run a bookstore. It wasn’t as easy

4.5 Stars

Seven years ago I read Matthew Dicks ‘Memoirs of an Imaginary Friend’ and loved it, so I was anxious to check out his latest, ’Twenty-one Truths About Love.’

While the idea of a novel written entirely in lists sounds a bit out of the ordinary, the reality is that this one allows the reader to slowly get to know Daniel Mayrock, his personal insecurities about his marriage to Jill, the potential success (or failure) of his bookshop, bills – that are now more imposing si
Jennifer ~ TarHeelReader
Dec 02, 2019 rated it really liked it
Told entirely in list form, Matthew Dicks manages to flesh out a fallible but entirely endearing main character in Dan, owner of a failing bookshop and soon-to-be dad. The love he has for his wife is felt palpably, even through the lists, and so are all of Dan’s feelings; his anxiety and his robust sense of humor.

While at times I wished for some traditional narrative, I was in awe of all I felt about the characters and how connected I was to this story. Overall, I was grateful for this depiction
Katie B
Oct 15, 2019 rated it really liked it
When I read the publisher synopsis for this one, I instantly was intrigued. The entire story is told by lists the male protagonist, Dan, has written. Yes, lists. At first glance when you flip thru the pages, it sure doesn't look like a typical story. But give this one a chance as somehow the author manages to pull off a pretty decent story while doing so in an unusual way.

Dan loves his wife Jill and he can't entirely figure out what an amazing woman like her is doing with a regular ol' guy like
Dec 10, 2019 rated it liked it
Shelves: edelweiss, fiction
This will be a very short review because, well, I’ve never read a book that consists entirely of “lists” before and I honestly don’t know the best way to go about reviewing this one. On the one hand, I applaud the author Matthew Dicks’ creativity in telling Dan’s story entirely through the lists he compiles in his journal, where he talks about candidly about everything happening in his life from his anxiety towards impending fatherhood to his insecurity with his marriage and not being able to me ...more
Kristy K
I think your liking of this book will be largely dependent on if you can read a whole book composed solely of lists. I will admit it got old after a while, but Dan’s quirks and self-actualizations made it worth the read.

Dan reminded me a lot of Don from The Rosie Project and he had me laughing out loud one moment and feeling empathy for him the next. Overall, this was a quirky, touching novel.

I received an advanced copy through Netgalley in return for an honest review.
Bam cooks the books ;-)
What?!? A novel made up entirely of lists?!? That's either extremely innovative or just plain crazy!! Okay...I'm coming down on the side of innovative because you know what? I thought those lists did work to tell this story.

Reason for Dan's lists? He saw a therapist who suggested journaling, which he thought sucked. So list making was a compromise and is now a habit, a way to think things out and make sense of things on paper. But for Dan "a habit is just an obsession that pretends to the inten
Catherine Woodward
Sep 09, 2020 rated it really liked it
A short and sweet book comprised entirely of lists, longing, and explorations of love. Took a while to get used to the style, but once you fall in love with Dan's neuroses, you won't want to put it down!
Nov 02, 2019 rated it liked it
Shelves: netgalley, kindle
Dan Mayrock is an ex-teacher that now runs his own bookstore and through lists unfolds his story of not being completely honest to his wife, Jill. The couple are now expecting a baby and Dan has to work through a lot of his issues in order to move on or face some pretty severe consequences.
The list thing did wear on me by the 52% mark, but I still wanted to find out if Jill and Dan were going to have an honest discussion about what he was keeping from her. So that kept me reading and I was qu
Lindsey Gandhi
All you list making crazy people like myself have got to read this book. I make lists about everything. So when I heard there was someone as obsessed as I am who wrote a book of nothing but lists I had to get my hands on it. I thought this book was simply hilarious. It's been awhile since I've had a book just make me laugh out loud. This really is an original and unique idea for a book. I didn't know how it would work, but Matthew Dicks manages to pull it off (for the most part, hence the 4 star ...more
Dec 28, 2019 rated it really liked it
Matthew Dicks is a genius. Who could conjure a thought-provoking novel composed exclusively of lists? Matthew Dicks, that’s who. I’ve enjoyed novels which use emails as a method of furthering a story. To use lists only, is a remarkable feat.

Our protagonist is Daniel Mayrock who quit being a teacher and opened a bookstore instead. Through lists, the reader learns of why he did that and also his constant questioning of his career move. Daniel is also hiding the book store’s financial health from h
Dan Mayrock is an obsessive list maker who has quit his job as a teacher and opened a bookstore. But now he's in financial trouble and afraid to tell his wife, Jill. Jill was previously married and Dan feels he can never quite live up to Jill's late husband. And then, Jill gets pregnant. Now Dan feels even more pressure to be the best he can be for Jill.

The shtick of this book is that it's told entirely in list form. No dialogue, no narrative, nothing. Just lists. It did wear a little thin at t
CJ Connor
Apr 25, 2019 rated it liked it
This was a cute and lighthearted read. It reminded me of David Sedaris (which the narrator seems to admire a lot) meets The Storied Life of AJ Fikry. I enjoyed the list format and thought the overall feel was reminiscent of a romantic comedy.

There was one major plot point in the book that confused me (won't name specifics because spoilers) because of how drastic it was and also how quickly it was wrapped up. Also, I felt like for a bookshop owner, Daniel didn't seem to like books much–I wish it
Jenny (Reading Envy)
I moved this book up on my list after hearing about it on the Book Cougars- a story about a man, his relationship, and his failing bank account, told completely in lists. It's a fun concept and I think the author (who I know best as a frequent Moth StorySlam winner) thinks in lists, so this was a natural approach for him.

In my reading experience, I found it a bit tedious, if I'm being honest; and it didn't read as quickly as I was in the mood for. The main character is a bit unlikeable and just
Apr 27, 2019 rated it it was amazing
Oh my gosh!! I won this book through a Goodreads Giveaway and I read it in ONE DAY. Yes the listing makes it a fast read but I could not stop. I was laughing and crying throughout the whole thing. Amazingly written; I didn't think that through listing there could be such a well developed story but it was! One that I'll forever be recommending.
Laura Harrison
May 02, 2019 rated it it was amazing
Darn near impossible not to read this all in one sitting. I am a sucker for books that have anything at all to do with bookstores. Entertaining, enjoyable read!
Dec 15, 2019 rated it it was amazing
Thank you St. Martins for a complimentary copy. I voluntarily reviewed this book. All opinions expressed are my own.

Twenty-one Truths About Love
By: Matthew Dicks

REVIEW ☆☆☆☆☆
I loved this book! Twenty-one Truths About Love is the story of bookstore owner, Dan, and his mid life mental sort of breakdown. He has a pregnant wife, a bookstore teetering on the edge of closure, a really annoying brother and a half planned plan to rob a bingo hall. Dan relays his neuroses in list format, and I initially
Jun 25, 2019 rated it it was amazing
This is an adorably quirky and surprisingly moving book. It is essentially an entire book of lists. At first I thought, this is fun but it's going to get old quick. But no! The author, by varying the length of sentences in each list, manages to get a lot of information across and tell a story. And you see progression. The characters develop, there is a plot, and like a great novel the reader changes along with the protagonist. I want to say this book is like really good poetry but I know a lot o ...more
Dec 05, 2019 rated it liked it
Recommended to Michelle by: Beatrice Jason
3.5 stars
Twenty-One Truths About Love is a novel told exclusively in a series of lists. Quite the twist on the epistolary format, it gives a unique structure to the novel. As I approached this book I must admit that I was nervous that this had the potential to come off as a gimmick. But when I delved into Matthew Dicks's novel I was taken in by Dan's humble nature and the vulnerability that Dicks allows him to show as he navigates his way through his fears and failings.

The Story: Daniel Mayrock
Nov 06, 2019 rated it liked it
Interesting book. The entire story is told in lists. I never would have thought an entire novel could be written in lists and make any sense but Dicks accomplished this, made it interesting and as a reader I totally understood and felt the story. I felt like the list maker protagonist was OCD though. I enjoyed the book and was intrigued with the innovation. I did sometimes get bored with those lists and some didn't seem relevant to the story. Overall it was a fun read - even though I didn't like ...more
Jamie Rosenblit
Oct 04, 2019 rated it liked it
Having absolutely loved Dicks' Memoirs of an Imaginary Friend, I was beyond excited for Twenty-one Truths About Love, especially when I saw that Taylor Jenkins Reid blurbed the cover! Unfortunately, this book didn't work quite as well for me as Memoirs did.

A 300+ page book written entirely in lists? Sounds interesting, right? At the onset, the format felt fresh and fun and lent itself to a quick read, but quickly, I realized there was a reason this style hadn't been used before - it's fun and f
Rating: 2.5 stars rounded up to 3 stars

1. The author, Matthew Dicks is a brave man.
2. His new book written completely in lists.
3. I liked it a first, but I soon wanted a meatier story.
4. Told from Dan’s perspective. Dan seems to have either OCD or an anxiety disorder – or both.
5. Dan owns a bookstore. He keeps the true state of the bookstore finances from his wife.
6. Dan’s wife Jill is a widow. Dan fears that he will never measure up to Jill’s first husband.
7. Jill gets pregnant.
8. Dan still doe
Crystal Zavala
May 02, 2019 rated it it was ok
Shelves: netgalley
1. I love lists
2. I love books
3. I loved this unique style of story-telling
4. I love quick reads
5. I thought I knew how the book would resolve
6. I was wrong
7. I didn't enjoy the ending
8. Everything wrapped up in a perfect little bow
9. I did not like how judgmental he was
(Slight spoilers below)
10. I don't appreciate people getting away with things with no consequences
11. SO MUCH White Male Privilege
Oct 16, 2019 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I don’t believe I have ever read a story that is told completely in lists. This book is like being in someone else’s mind 24/7 and knowing their every thought—appropriate or not. In order not to deviate from the list format, I’ll list all the reasons I loved this book.

1. It’s funny and made me laugh out loud quite a few times.
2. It’s wonderful to see how much Dan loves his wife and how he respects her grief over the loss of her first husband.
3. I loved the bookstore atmosphere and the monthly bo
Kate Vocke (bookapotamus)
Jan 05, 2020 rated it liked it
Shelves: netgalley, arc
Omigosh this book was SO UNIQUE! An entire story told in list form? I was like " ummm... how is this possible?" followed by "it cannot be done!" and then "OK, I'm intrigued, this sounds amazing."

And well, Matthew Dicks TOTALLY DID IT. And he made me cry at the end. Because of LISTS.

It's very hard to describe what I just read, basically the entire "prose" is lists. "Things I'm scared of" "Bills to pay" "To do list" - and it's formulated in such an order that it tells a story. And adorable and f
Patty Smith
Many thanks to NetGalley, St. Martin’s Press, and Matthew Dicks for an ARC in exchange for an honest book review of Twenty-One Truths About Love. All my thoughts and opinions are 100% my own and independent of receiving an advance copy.

I didn’t really know what to expect when I started this. I had heard that the whole book was a bunch of lists. Didn’t quite know how that was going to work but it really did. These aren’t just lists but more like observations within lists. And they are funny as he
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