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The Middle of Everywhere: Helping Refugees Enter the American Community

4.03  ·  Rating details ·  847 Ratings  ·  112 Reviews
Over the past decade, Mary Pipher has been a great source of wisdom, helping us to better understand our family members. Now she connects us with the newest members of the American family--refugees. In cities all over the country, refugees arrive daily. Lost Boys from Sudan, survivors from Kosovo, families fleeing Afghanistan and Vietnam: they come with nothing but the des ...more
Paperback, 416 pages
Published July 1st 2003 by Mariner Books (first published 2002)
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Jennifer
Apr 08, 2008 rated it it was ok
I had a love/hate relationship with this book. The author, who is a psychologist, claims she is giving everyday people practical advice about working with refugees, and she tells a lot of personal stories about the people that she has worked with, some of which are really beautiful stories. But she doesn't really offer much practical information about global migration and refugee resettlement as a larger issue/system, which to me trivializes her personal stories because I think the larger pictur ...more
Jody
Jul 16, 2008 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: social-cultural
I spent part of my summer teaching English to Burmese refugees at a local robot-uniform factor (yes, I did say “robot-uniform”! Who knew the intense need for such textiles?!?) They were a delightful bunch, and I loved every minute I spent with them – gleaning from their perseverance while imagining the sorrows they carry. This experience spurred me to read Mary Pipher’s book The Middle of Everywhere: Helping refugees enter the American community.
What I most loved about this book was Pipher’s pr
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Josh
Feb 05, 2013 rated it really liked it
Many residents of Lincoln, Nebraska may not be aware of the ethnic, linguistic, and cultural diversity within our small city's borders. In a town of under a quarter million people, we have immigrants and refugees who speak over 50 different languages. This book, written by an acclaimed psychologist/author (and Lincolnite), sheds a light on the experiences and often-traumatic back stories of our city's many residents who came here to seek safety from oppression, violence, and fear of death.
Ms. Pi
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Cheryl
Sep 20, 2009 rated it really liked it
I work with refugees every day and my eyes and heart have been opened in so many ways and I was interested in the bigger picture of their experience in America as a whole. This book is written by a psychologist in a small town in Nebraska who becomes active in helping the global refugees and also befriends and cares for them deeply and personally. Their stories are heartbreaking and hopeful; and the author’s evaluations have given me insight into my own patients and their experiences in a broade ...more
Shauna
Mar 04, 2012 rated it it was amazing
I LOVED this book. Pipher's analysis was right on, as usual. She made me take a searching look at my own cultures & beliefs. Are there good things? Of course. Are there things I would change? Definitely. I will probably buy a copy & read this one again.
Margaret
Nov 10, 2008 rated it it was ok
It took me months to admit that I'm not going to finish this. But I'm not--I found it disappointing at nearly every turn, and waiting for it to improve didn't work in the slightest.
Misha
Nov 24, 2016 rated it it was amazing
Thinking of this book again in light of 2016 election. A great read if you want to learn more about the work of assisting refugees in the U.S. Some notes from when I led a book discussion with this book:

• How does globalization, homogenization, effect our communities and our identities? “The local is no longer protected. The unique is vanishing.” (11)
• Thomas Friedman: “There are two ways to make a person homeless—destroy his home or make his home look like everyone else’s.” (11)
• “…I have learn
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Kathleen Quaintance
Jan 10, 2015 rated it did not like it
Come on Dr. Pipher. Seriously? This was nowhere near a book that tells the truth about an issue and weaves together personal stories, such as Half the Sky by Nicholas D. Kristof and Sheryl WuDunn. But this?? There were so many irritating quotes in this that shouted HEY IM A DOCTOR AND IM A THERAPIST AND I LOVE MYSELF AND BEING A WASP IS WHAT I DO AND I DONT SEE COLOR!!!! AND DIVERSITY IS COOL WOW IM A CULTURAL BROKER WOW INCLUSIVE I AM SO WONDERFUL FUCK YEAH LINCOLN NEBRASKA

Really? Please refra
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Lana
Jan 05, 2015 rated it liked it
To be fair, I didn't finish the book. But I did love some of the things she pointed out about refugees and the process of integration:

"Refugees may arrive penniless, but they don't arrive resourceless."p. 69

"Refugees who come alone are much disadvantaged. Families work together, share resources, and support each other emotionally. Both tradition and circumstance encourage the closeness of immigrant families. Over and over, family is literally what keeps people alive. Some members are housed, fed
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Heidi
Mar 15, 2010 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This is one of my new favorites. The Middle of Everywhere gave me a different perspective on immigrants and especially refugees. Mary Pipher lives in a large Midwestern town which has recently been overrun by refugees from several countries all over the world. Pipher is a therapist, and one of her jobs is to help these refugees adjust to their new lives in the United States. I can only imagine how overwhelming this culture would be to someone who has never seen a television or a highway! She tri ...more
Rebecca
May 13, 2010 rated it really liked it
Shelves: nonfiction
"The United States is a series of paradoxes for newcomers. Every plus is married to a minus. It is the land of opportunity and yet the opportunity is often to work in a meatpacking plant. Newcomers have fled war zones for the safety of our country but, in the United States, they often find themselves in our most dangerous neighborhoods. They are in a country with sophisticated health and mental health care but often cannot afford even the most basic treatments. They come for our wonderful educat ...more
Nevie
Apr 05, 2013 rated it really liked it
"The worst thing about America is its exclusivity, and the best thing about America is its lack of exclusivity."

This book is a collection of stories about refugees who have been resettled in Lincoln, Nebraska, about their culture shock, about their own cultures, about cultural differences and ultimately, how very much the same we all are at our cores.

However dated this book is, having been written pre-9/11 and 9/11 being an event that would very likely have had a major effect on the stories, t
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Shaeley Santiago
This book about and for refugees covers a wide range of ages and cultural backgrounds based on the author's experiences in the midwestern college town of Lincoln, NE, a haven for refugees to this day.

As a mental health professional, Pipher's book describes how western beliefs about medicine and mental health in particular may not be the best solution for refugees. Instead, she calls on Americans to serve as "cultural brokers" for refugee families. By doing so, we may learn more about "the stren
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Julie
Feb 16, 2017 rated it it was amazing
Highly recommended! Phenomenal read.
Marcia Van Camp
Aug 03, 2015 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I really enjoyed this book and it has given me a lot to think about. The author discusses her experience working with refugees who have been relocated to Lincoln Nebraska and the challenges they face. What can we do to help refugees and what they can do to be successful are explored for children, teens, and adults. There are some beautiful quotes and many incredible stories. This book has made me feel very grateful and also made me want to find ways to volunteer within the community again.

I foun
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Diana
Dec 29, 2007 rated it really liked it
This was a really fascinating picture of refugees in the United States. Not only do the stories Pipher tells give me a glimpse at someone else's life and culture, but they also challenge the way I perceive my own. The experiences of these refugees from all over the globe and the new challenges they face in the US offer something of a reflection of our own culture, changing as it is with globalization. My only problems with this book are the first and last chapters-- the author gets a little prea ...more
Katie
Jun 20, 2013 rated it liked it
This book was an interesting peek into the lives of refugees in America through the eyes of psychologist and "cultural broker," Mary Pipher. I liked her stories about her personal relationships and experiences with refugees and their families. I also enjoyed learning about how Lincoln, Nebraska, has turned into an unlikely (or at least unexpected) multicultural hub in the U.S.

The last third of the book was a bit dull and seemed to lack a specific point ("racism is bad," "home is where the heart
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Rebecca
May 05, 2008 rated it really liked it
Psychologist Mary Pipher (a fellow Lincolnite!) delves into the local refugee populations and the difficulties they face in integrating into American communities. We so rarely consider what newcomers have had to go through to get here, or the overwhelming cacaphony of changes they face once they arrive -- new language, new laws, new standard of living, new cultural expectations ... If you've traveled at all, spending a week whipping out a phrasebook to ask the simplest question (and returning th ...more
Polly Karis
Dec 23, 2014 rated it it was amazing
I have such great respect for Mary Pipher and this book was a gift for me. I have scribbled notes in the margins throughout my own copy; there are tabbed stickies for easy access to specific topics - a sign of a true reference book. I'd just begun mentoring Burmese refugees when I came across this gem. Mary Pipher refers to working with refugees as being a cultural broker. She uses stories from her own mentoring experiences and tells us about what refugees are up against - the stuff that's not s ...more
Karen C
Sep 28, 2016 rated it it was ok
I reviewed the book as "OK" because of my expectations. I was expecting more of a story about people but felt it was written more as a "lesson" type. Felt it would be good to read in a classroom. I did learn a lot and am so grateful that both sets of my grandparents came over to the USA so that I had the privilege of being born here. At least my grandparents on my father's side spoke English (they were from Ireland) but my mother's parents came from Lithuania so can only imagine how hard that mu ...more
Sharon Denomme
Aug 14, 2014 rated it really liked it
This book took me places I had never been before -- inside the heads and hearts of individuals and families whose lives have run out of options and they find themselves in the totally foreign (to them) terrain of a US city. The most fascinating pages were those that list the many questions the author was asked in her role of cultural broker. So many things we grow up knowing or we take for granted! Plus the stress of learning English, going to school, finding employment--all the while missing ol ...more
Kristina
Jun 03, 2013 rated it it was amazing
I thought this book was fantastic! If you work as a teacher, in schools, on missions….anywhere there are refugees, you should really read this book. It is beautifully written. “In cities all over the country, refugees arrive daily. Lost Boys from Sudan, survivors from Kosovo, families fleeing Afghanistan and Vietnam: they come with nothing but the desire to experience the American dream. Their endurance in the face of tragedy and their ability to hold on to the virtues of family, love, and joy a ...more
Kevin
Aug 09, 2008 rated it it was amazing
This book is full of heart-breaking and uplifting stories about refugees resettling from their war-torn countries to Lincoln NE, an unlikely location but increasingly "the middle of everywhere". This book as functioned as a touchstone and guide in my own interactions with the refugee population in Fargo. I lifted a phrase to start my own manuscript; refugees, Pipher tells us, move "from fire to fire". Life in America comes with its own tremendous challenges and risks. She also taught me "that gi ...more
Maryc
Really enjoyed this book about welcoming refugees to Lincoln NE. It was a suggested read, as our IEC community is sponsoring a family locally. It was a good mix of refugee stories (from many parts of the world) and how difficult we make life for them. It covers the attributes of resiliency which can make the difference in overcoming some of the horrific tragedies and traumas they have often suffered. It also discusses at length how to be an effective "cultural broker." Worthwhile and timely in l ...more
Tiara
Jul 08, 2014 rated it liked it
There were a lot of good stories, but I started to lose a little interest halfway through because there were almost too many stories. Many of the stories of refugees were extremely similar and everything became very repetetive. Also, I wish I had a nickel for every time the author said something like, "While they were in war, I was drinking coffee" or "While they were being tortured, I was planting a garden". Those aren't real quotes, but you get the point.

Overall, as a resident of Lincoln, NE,
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Andrea
Mar 06, 2010 rated it really liked it
I found this book morally and spiritually helpful in considering what it means to be a neighbor, a citizen, and a human -- among other humans. Lofty words, but there's something very humbling and exciting about reading the stories of refugees and realizing that America's acceptance of refugees is in many ways what makes us America and Americans. Most of us came from some place else and now live in the middle of everywhere. With the pressure to "live in the now" and always strive, how to we remem ...more
Emily Slomski
Dec 30, 2013 rated it it was amazing
The Middle of Everywhere is an amazing book that opened my eyes to a largely unseen world. While I was aware that thousands of refugees come to America seeking asylum, I hadn't really thought about the implications. I hadn't thought about the fact that this horrible situations are happening every second or that there are refugees throughout the country and the world struggling to survive. For anyone who wants to learn more about this large and inspiring group of the world's population, I highly ...more
Katie
Jan 28, 2008 rated it really liked it
Shelves: non-fiction
Beautifully, clearly written. Pipher explains how thousands of refuges are being sent to live in out-of-the-way towns in the the middle of the country, where they must try to adapt and start new lives, learn a new language, adapt to a culture that couldn't be farther from home. It's an inspiring book; it does a great job helping those of us who've been in the US our whole lives begin to understand the challenges faced by newcomers. And hopefully that will make us more compassionate and inspired ...more
Karen
Jun 23, 2008 rated it it was amazing
Recommends it for: Anyone, but especially teachers
Recommended to Karen by: found it on the library shelf with the new books
I read this back in 2006 and recommended it to my book club. This is a thought provoking book. Pipher is an amazing writer but she pushes us to think about ourselves, our choices, in the global community, by looking at how we act in our everyday lives. Understanding that being accepted into and assimilated into America for refugees of global catastrophes is accomplished by Americans learning about, reaching out to these refugees and listening to their stories. Go pick up a copy of this book . . ...more
Mary Newcomb
Just as I was planing to read this book an issue developed at a community meeting about resource allocation for refugees. Do you suppose my colleagues who decided we would all read this book expected that bit of serendipity? I enjoyed reading about the experiences of refugees in Lincoln Nebraska--not dissimilar to that in my community. Pipher has some clear expectations that the reader supports refugee relocation, she writes clearly and with passion. I have found myself recommending this book tw ...more
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