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Creierul copilului tau

4.19  ·  Rating details ·  12,725 ratings  ·  1,209 reviews
In aceasta carte practica si deschizatoare de drumuri, Daniel J. Siegel, neuropsiholog si autor al cartii de succes Mindsight (Observarea mintii) si specialistul in consiliere parentala, Tina Payne Bryson, ne ofera o abordare revolutionara pentru cresterea copiilor, cu ajutorul a douasprezece strategii cheie, care incurajeaza o dezvoltare cerebrala sanatoasa, ceea ce ii fa ...more
Paperback, 210 pages
Published 2014 by For you (first published January 1st 2011)
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Bene Katabua Not much is directly addressed for teens, but it is easily applied to that age group. You can work it up to their level. The information is presented…moreNot much is directly addressed for teens, but it is easily applied to that age group. You can work it up to their level. The information is presented for adult readers and gives ways in which to work on it with children. (less)
Amber I can relate. My younger daughter is 20 months, my older is almost 5 years. It’s relevant for sure for my preschooler but not quite for my…moreI can relate. My younger daughter is 20 months, my older is almost 5 years. It’s relevant for sure for my preschooler but not quite for my baby/toddler. I’d say it’s most useful for an older two year old child and up. (less)
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Apr 27, 2013 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Dan Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson’s “The Whole Brain Child” fails to deliver on the titular promise of “revolutionary” parenting strategies to “truly help your kids be happier, healthier, and more fully themselves”; it does, however, provide innovative and effective explanations, packaging, and delivery of many tried-and-true parenting techniques that turn out to be neuroscientifically based.

The first four chapters are the love child of the Johns - Medina’s “Brain Rules for Baby” and Gottman’s “R
Feb 12, 2013 rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
Interesting concepts, and I loved going through the brain and how it works based on our reactions; it brought me back to my psychology days. Although it was interesting to read and gave a few examples of how to implement the practices with children, I find that there is still a disconnect in how to apply it daily. I kept thinking to myself, "well that sounds good and I would love to do that...but how?". I also noticed that they went a little far explaining each concept so that I felt like each p ...more
Nov 27, 2016 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I really enjoyed this book. I'm looking forward to using these strategies with my own children especially after learning how I could be handling arguments and emotions in a better way. It's written well and includes many charts and illustrations. My favorite is the summary chart at the end to help you learn how to respond to different age groups. Glad to have read it...
Frank Jude
I'd have given this book five stars if the writing were a bit more engaging; as it is, though the material is often fascinating and incredibly relevant (I've a 28-month old toddler at home!), I found the reading a bit of a slog at times.

What Siegel has done here is, based upon cutting-edge neuro-science, boiled down the info relevant for parenting into 12 strategies to help you guide greater brain integration in your children, from birth through about 12-years old.

The kinds of things we're talki
I liked this book and appreciated the clear explanations of some brain science concepts (though I don't know whether it is all strictly accurate - for example, I keep hearing that the "left brain, right brain" thing is somewhat of a fiction). The book had a few really useful tools which I liked (for example, the wheel of awareness, and "move it or lose it"). It was well laid out, the cartoons and illustrations were helpful, and I really liked the "refrigerator sheets." As a parent and a therapis ...more
Jen Meegan
Oct 26, 2012 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I am pleased to add this to my very, very small pile of approved discipline books.

1) It fits in very nicely with our family's go-to discipline philosophy, Positive Discipline (as taught by Jane Nelson)
2) It doesn't recommend punitive measures like time outs or spanking
3) it's relatively fast and easy to read with some quick reference tips when you need them most
4) it's fairly easy to implement...once you've made the paradigm shift, that is.
5) it honors and respects children and reminds parents t
Jul 08, 2015 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Recommended to Sera by: Book Page Magazine
I've been reading about brain development in infants and children since my daughter was born 6 years ago. Understanding how the science of the brain interacts with the behavior of or the ability of a child to learn has led to my having more empathy for and understanding of my child. Many times we have expectations for our children that they can't meet, because their brains haven't been wired to do so yet. In addition, variations in parenting techniques work differently across the various age gro ...more
Feb 04, 2014 rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
This little parenting book is basically about how to teach children emotional intelligence--how to get them to recognize their own emotions, that emotions are temporary, and how to develop sympathy, among other things. Often when I interact with an upset child, I take the "dismiss and deny" strategy of telling them it's okay and that whatever they're upset about isn't that bad. Using this book's method, it's better to first acknowledge the child's emotion, like saying "you look sad! Is it becaus ...more
Jan 12, 2014 rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
I must say i am surprised to see so many good ratings. On the other hand it is the reason why I read it.

First things first: I'm a dad with a 2 years old child and probably share every moms and dads usual issues and questions. By the way, we split everything that involves our child at home, meaning I do half of ALL.

At first this book looked very promising. And then....I realised it has 2 sides.
On the one hand, at the end of every chapter, there is a real life problem with the real life actions pa
If you are a parent, teacher or other person who works with children, I would commend this book to you. By understanding how the brain works, you can survive tough moments and teach children to thrive. The Whole-Brain Child explains both how and why.

The twelve strategies the book explains are:
Connect then Redirect
Name It To Tame It
Engage, Don't Enrage
Use It Or Lose It
Move It Or Lose It
Use The Remote Of The Mind
Remember To Remember
Let The Clouds of Emotion Roll By
SIFT: sensation, image,
Sep 20, 2017 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: 2017, brains
Easy to digest info on neuroplasticity....providing tools to help teach: 1)how to use both your logic and emotional sides of your brain more cohesively to make more balanced choices, and 2)how to get "unstuck" and be more flexible with your thoughts. Great for parents and teachers alike to help teach kids they can learn to influence their environment rather than be influenced BY it.
Matt Garden
Nov 05, 2013 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I enjoyed this and tore through it pretty quickly. The only thing that annoyed me is the term "mindsight" ... It seems like there's already a term for what's being described: mindfulness. "Mindsight" sounds like a marketing term was being used where it wasn't necessary (maybe I'd feel differently had I also read Mindsight the book). Or maybe mindfulness isn't as common a term as I think and it helps people get the idea. Especially kids.

Anyway, it seemed like there were good tips in here, for kid
John Strohm
The useful content of this book could be put on a post-card. 99.5% of the book, however, is full of stories bragging about how awesome the authors are.

For those readers expecting neuroscience: Walk away. You'll be disappointed. The authors mostly ignore neuroscience, and when they do mention it, they talk down to readers as if we are toddlers as well.
Jessie Wittman
Jul 06, 2018 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
An excellent read on how integration of the brain plays into a child's development. The idea of integration as a whole was new to me; I was familiar with certain elements of how the brain functions for wholeness, but not how the interplay of all the bits equals mental health. Unsurprisingly, the book falls short of whole-person development because it reduces the Person to simply material being. It shelves "morality" in the category of brain function, albiet a desired function. How does the brain ...more
Dan Siegel is a luminary in the field of psychology, and is one of the leaders in the neuroscience and neurobiology movement in our field. I have heard him speak and am familiar with his work, and I think its important and cutting edge. I have always been interested in the neuroplasticity and the impact and intwine of neuroscience in our relationships. I think its an important aspect of what happens in both our healing and our relating.

This book is very light on the science, and is meant as a si
Dec 31, 2018 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: favorite
I really liked this book...It is the first i personally read that is dedicated to explain psychology and physiology of child's brain and i am hoping to find more books like this one.

I liked the strategists suggested to deal with children and how to help kids integrate with their mind and with others'. I specially liked that fact the some of the methods and examples presented were illustrated in cartoons. I find this visualization to be important and it makes it easy for parents to remember the t
Feb 06, 2018 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: 2018
It's not just a parenting book: most adults' mental health would benefit from reading this. The overall concept, explored in detail, is that humans are made up of many things and the better we can learn to make them work together, the better it will all work. I am fascinated in particular by how physical activity can change moods and how we can control our thoughts.
Sarah Eiseman
Dec 20, 2012 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I’ve been intrigued by a number of books recently that deal with brain development and emotional intelligence in children. This book, written by Daniel J. Siegel, M.D., takes a look at the neurology of various emotional situations and strategies for dealing and developing emotionally intelligent children.

As I write this post, I have not finished the book, but what I have enjoyed most so far is that it gives examples of “traditional” (authoritarian) parenting and strategies for managing situation
Debra Barrentine
I felt disappointed in this book. Generally speaking, there weren't new ideas shared or new research. The book read like the authors were trying to explain neuroscience to a young audience or maybe an audience with no exposure to child development. The book focused on anecdotal stories to illustrate why a strategy worked but did not back up claims with research. The one thing I liked was that since the book was so simply written, it gave me ideas about how to explain some concepts about the brai ...more
Amy Ferriter
“It’s not your responsibility to avoid all mistakes, any more than you’re supposed to remove all obstacles your children face. Instead, your job is to be present with your children and connect with them through the ups and downs of life’s journey”
Sep 24, 2015 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: highly-sensitive
A fascinating read with good examples of how to transfer strategies to situations with your children. Some paragraphs are a slog to get through but on the while I got a lot out of this book, including many lightbulb moments!
May 26, 2014 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: parenting
Read this! Far from long winded yet full of useful information and practical examples. I learned so much and will reference this book often I am sure.
Stephanie Snyder
Jan 16, 2016 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: parenting
This is a great book that explains why children behave the way they do. I, personally, would recommend this to any parent.
Oct 27, 2018 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
A nice little (under 200 pages) book for parents, caregivers, teachers, or anyone who is responsible in childhood development. In this book, the authors provide a very brief, simple and concise whole-brain development theories as well as 12 concrete strategies that can be applied in our daily interactions with our child(ren). Though, perhaps, some of the strategies used are quite simplified and not as revolutionary as advertised (but then, I've been reading a few books on early childhood develop ...more
Erin Henry
May 17, 2018 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This book was so helpful. It gives instructions for parents and cartoon illustrations for kids on different principles such as connecting the right and left sides of your brain, tellings stories to calm emotions, integrating feelings, using the thinking part of your brain. I look forward to teaching these principles to my children. I wish I had found this book sooner. I’m frustrated by the parenting books I read when they were younger such as To Train Up and Child or Shepherding a Child’s Heart ...more
Flaviu Vescan
I don't see it as a "must read" as a parent. The advice is on par with the other parenting books out there and it will probably help a bit to read it if only to make sure the concepts get cemented into the back of your mind.

I hate how it drags a lot, repeats the same points & takes the already flawed "divided brain" metaphor and beats it into the ground. You won't go 3 sentences without seeing the words "left brain, right brain, up brain, down brain, completeness etc". It's tiring, annoying
Feb 18, 2019 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I highly recommend this quick, easy read for parents. The book explains some key early childhood development concepts in an accessible way and also provides clear guidance on how to tackle tricky, yet common parenting issues. A key takeaway is that we as parents must first become more self aware individuals and take time to reflect on how implicit memories of our own childhood and experiences influence our parenting decisions and attitudes with our own children. Only after this can we truly help ...more
Anne Marie Sweeney
I mean. If I can successfully integrate even one idea from this book - I would basically be Oprah. Empowered AF. I also love imagining that the authors’ kids are some Cheeto dust injecting social hermits. Like wouldn’t that be amaze. But this book does seem to have some accessible ideas - imma try it and report back.
Sarah Benson
Wasn't as impressed by this as everyone else I know seems to be, but it had some interesting ideas. A little more geared toward older kids than toddlers.
Bethany Dufilho
Jan 15, 2019 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
A great parenting resource that I know I will return to again and again.
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Daniel J. Siegel, M.D., is an internationally acclaimed author, award-winning educator, and child psychiatrist. Dr. Siegel received his medical degree from Harvard University and completed his postgraduate medical education at UCLA with training in pediatrics and child, adolescent and adult psychiatry. He is currently a clinical professor of psychiatry at the UCLA School of Medicine, where he also ...more
“Too often we forget that discipline really means to teach, not to punish. A disciple is a student, not a recipient of behavioural consequences.” 47 likes
“As children develop, their brains "mirror" their parent's brain. In other words, the parent's own growth and development, or lack of those, impact the child's brain. As parents become more aware and emotionally healthy, their children reap the rewards and move toward health as well.” 18 likes
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