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Slutever: Dispatches from a Sexually Autonomous Woman in a Post-Shame World

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We've come a long way in recent years. The sexual double standard is slowly beginning to shift. But we're still a culture with a massive slut-shaming problem. It's still taboo to be a girl who sleeps around. Vogue columnist Karley Sciortino is out to change this perception. Because the world needs more slutty role models, and more intelligent, sex-positive, responsibly pro ...more
Kindle Edition, 289 pages
Published February 6th 2018 by Grand Central Publishing
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Valerity (Val)
I began to pass this book by just on the face of it. Then I read the description and I got interested and thought, "well why not delve deeper?" So I went ahead and got it.

Vogue columnist and writer/producer Karley Sciortino knows her stuff when it comes to Slutology. It's been her area of interest as she developed along the way from high school in the US, finally escaping small town life to a brief attempt at university across the pond, then hanging out in London squats. She writes very intelli
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Jeanne
May 15, 2018 rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: did-not-finish
YIKES! The intentions behind this book are nice and all, but the execution is clumsy and cringeworthy. All the sex positive stuff is great, until it shits the bed. Anti-sex worker slurs are used as pejoratives in the same breath as the author claims sex workers should be respected, then she goes on to present many of the same slut shaming anti-sex worker stereotypes as true but in a “good way.”

Then there’s the completely mishandling of rape culture or should I say “supposed rape culture.” Fuuuuc
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Victoria
Feb 16, 2018 rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
DNF

Initially I was intrigued because I thought this book was about reclaiming the word slut and the double standard women face, however, once I started reading I realized this is more of a memoir.

I also had issues with some of the comments the author was making. She was insensitive and making jokes about eating disorders and also made comments about underage girls being in sexual relationships with older men (just mentioned them, didn't talk about how wrong it was).

I also couldn't finish readin
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Ashley
Feb 24, 2018 rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: non-fiction
Egh.... this was funny and quick-moving enough to keep reading, but I was seriously disappointed. Karley Sciortino openly admits to being a narcissist, and she whizzes by and excuses a whole host of deeply unethical things. She lies, cheats, and openly admits to sexually assaulting a man (she just goes up to a stranger and grabs his dick?). She praises Camille Paglia. She drives me absolutely bonkers. At times, she has great insights, and at others she seems so completely clueless that I wanted ...more
Olivia Hilyard
Feb 19, 2018 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I was either laughing, agreeing, or staring at the wall w "Jim Halpert face" because something I read was just so on point or over the top ridiculous
Blanca
Feb 03, 2018 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I did NOT know what to expect when I picked this book up. I've dabbled in Karley's blog "Slutever" on and on since its conception, but I'd never been a "ride or die" fan. Mostly because I'm not sure I fall into the category of women Sciortino would refer to fondly as "sluts". In any case, this memoir is enthralling. From Catholic school in New Jersey to squatting in a loft in London to romping around New York, this is a memoir about modern sexual freedom. I couldn't put it down and read it in tw ...more
Jakub
Oct 27, 2018 rated it liked it
Autor je mrtvý, psal kdysi Barthes, jenomže teď je mrtvej Barthes, takže chudák ani neví, jak vypadá autorka téhle bichle: mrdavost auglí asi 12/10, nacpaná push-upka v až absurdně „su hot slut“ outfitu – vysvětluje na Vicu cosi o novém japonském trendu strkání křenu do řitě. Živá jak málokdo. Mě minimálně probudí vždycky, jak ju vidím.

Teď teda vidím spíše protažené xichty mých přátel na GR, kteří se všichni považují za woke people, jenom protože umí číst, ale já jen říkám, jak jsem jí poznal. S
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Sonia Reppe
Apr 09, 2018 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: non-fiction
In a #metoo world, I think it's refreshing when a woman proudly displays her sexuality and sexual choices, and in this case, her pro-slut stance and kinky confessions.

Karley is a sex blogger. (If you're looking for erotica, look to erotica writers. This was interesting but not arousing). Karley shares her experiences, a lot of them are weird and kinky as she was doing research for her blog, but mostly, this is about deviant and kinky sexual behavior in context of societal norms and psychology a
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Anne-Marie DT
Between untold eye-opening stories and enlightening facts, Slutever hits the nail on the head by addressing many sex-positive feminism challenges together and contributing pieces of the puzzle. With humour and passion, Karley contributes to boosting open-minded visions on sex and modern relationships.
Whitney Hansen
This has been one of the hardest books to rate because there were so many quotations and anecdotes that I'd rate 5/5 followed by a plethora of problematic comments that I would rate -10000/5. Oofta. Overall, I'm happy to have read it but it took a lot of mental gymnastics to keep moving through the parts that were just immature and ignorant.
Keith Schnell
May 26, 2018 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I first got into Karley Sciortino’s writing almost ten years ago, when she was living in a squat in South London, eating out of dumpsters and taking a lot of drugs. Even at that early stage in her career, she was easily in the top tenth of a percent of garbage-eating, squat-dwelling 20-something writers, and it was easy to imagine her developing into the next great Gonzo journalist. If ever anyone in the 21st Century was going to wind up alone in Las Vegas, completely twisted on drugs, with no c ...more
Samantha
May 25, 2018 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: own-it
This book is so well rounded, its hard to pick a starting point to write this review. The main thing I'm left with is a feeling of gratitude: that a female pioneer like Sciortino exists who while telling her own story, celebrates the accomplishments and ideas of those that have come before her (like Camille Paglia and my girl Nina Hartley, swoon). But its women and books like these that are going to make an actual change in the world. Even if its not in the conventional way of shouting from the ...more
Brenna
Jun 28, 2018 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: favorites, to-buy, sex-ed
When I picked this up, I thought I would be in for a 280 page long episode of Viceland's Slutever, and in some ways, that's what I got. Karley Sciortino's unmistakable, unapologetic wit and charm coat the narration of this book, along with spotlights on the stories of slutty individuals from all walks of life (some of which, if you have seen the show, may sound familiar to you). However, the book also provides a more personal insight to Karley as a person and her commentary on sexual autonomy, g ...more
Le Sex en Rose
Apr 25, 2018 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
(My entire review on my blog: http://www.lesexenrose.com/slutever-b...)

When I first came across Slutever, I thought it was yet another book reclaiming yet another word (and yet another time the word ‘slut’) in the name of sex positivity and female empowerment, two often-abused topics in a (supposedly) sexually liberated world.
I’m obviously referring to The Ethical Slut, the radical guide to nonmonogamous relationships worshipped as ‘the poly bible’ that, back in 1997, re-framed the word ‘slut’ t
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Andrea
Apr 29, 2018 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I loved and also had a hard time reading this book.

I loved when Karley was vulnerable with us and shared her deepest personal stories and experiences. Hearing her unabashedly talking about her desires and mistakes, relationships, and her internal struggle with not being 'basic' was refreshing and heartbreaking at once. Her humor and irreverence really worked in those passages.

Still, I finished the book wanting. I wanted more acknowledgement of how privilege affects sluttiness and identity, and w
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Steve Erickson
Sciortino is a pretty engaging guide to her own sexual adventures, which include working as a "sugar baby," BDSM and discovering that she's bisexual relatively late in life. Her arguments on behalf of sex-positive feminism are quite basic if you know this territory, but readers coming to this book because of the TV show named after it may not know it. There are a few areas where the author hints at darker territory than her happy-go-lucky approach to sex allows and I wish she'd dug deeper: she a ...more
Samantha -Nicole
I enjoyed this book a lot but I’ve personally been a fan of Karley and slutever for a while.

There are some thoughts she has about rape that I think can be misunderstood. Like how if a guy is coerced into sex he should be happy bc he just got some but if a woman is coerced she’s a victim. This is a comment about the double standard. If a man is coerced into sex he should be able to feel bad. I think The author believes that any sex is good sex but that’s just her opinion. She likes sex and if sh
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Geoffrey Kleinman
Feb 22, 2018 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I listened to the audio book version of this, and if you are going to read this book I'd recommend the audio version. Be warned Karley Sciortino has a valley girl like voice lettered with millennial vernacular, but once you get past that you'll see a smart and insightful woman who has a lot to say and says it well.

Very much like Diablo Cody's Candy Grill, Slutever is a behind the scenes look at the sex industry. Slutever goes a bit deeper, flirting with moments of sexual manifesto, and clear de
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Dominique "Eerie" Sobieska
First things first, I loved reading this book. I did not expect it- at all. I laughed while reading the summary in the back and thought how bad it could be, I was wrong.

Sciortino wrote her life journey and sexual exploration with such panache. I laughed. I smirked. I showed certain parts to friends. Although a memoir, it was written intelligently, not at all judgmentally with a good scope of humour. This isn't a self help book or something to put you on the path of enlightenment. It is just a r
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Scarlett
I have so many thoughts about this book. Overall I enjoyed it, but she says some seriously questionable, harmful and problematic things. Sometimes I feel like she does it on purpose to be edgy and controversial (she's been writing for VICE for years so it's very much *that* vibe). I found it fun to read, particularly as I've been reading her blog since I was about 15/16 years old. But it has so many problems too. I honestly could barely get through the introduction, it made me so angry some of t ...more
Ellen
Apr 24, 2018 rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
As someone that works in reproductive health, I was super excited to read this. It started out pretty strong; she has an energetic, conversational voice. The chapter about dominatrixes was great. By the last two chapters I wasn't as charmed. There's a surprising judgey undertone to some of her non-sexual observations (and even some sexual ones, too), some of her interjections undermine what she's saying, and I guess I was expecting more musings on sexual exploration than a memoir (granted one ab ...more
Brodi
Jul 17, 2018 rated it it was amazing
Amazing and liberating

Similar to the ‘Magical School Bus’, Karly takes the reader on journey through landscape of a sexually liberated woman. Challenging modern culture’s sexual norms and expectations, and freeing women from the chains of a boring life.
This book will force readers to think about what they want out of life and relationships. Slutever is an incredible book that challenges monogamy and traditional relationships, and asks the question “does one size fit all” in sex and relationshi
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Beata
May 15, 2018 rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Interesting memoir. She goes and tries a lot of different ways of having sex, and it's good to hear about it. I listened to the audio book version, and she's definitely not the best narrator. A lot of upspeak which got annoying after a while. I'm a self-identified millennial, and even I got tired of her "Oh this is what we millennials do" tropes. She's also fairly hung up on her desire to have a traditional relationship despite wanting to try it all.

Overall it's entertaining and good to normaliz
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Emma-Kate Schaake
Mar 23, 2018 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: 2018, humor, non-fiction
I do not have, haven’t had, and don’t want Karley’s lifestyle, but I was really intrigued. She tackles female promiscuity with a feminist lens and I appreciated the power that fluid sexuality can give to women. As with most things, sex work and/ or sluttiness is not black and white. Women have power and are not the victims, if they take care of themselves, as in every other aspect of life. A pretty fascinating read that opened my eyes and helped me find respect (and maybe admiration?) for a life ...more
Lekisha R
Dec 21, 2018 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I've been following Karley Sciortino's writing for years on Slutever and Vogue and I was excited for her debut. I loved it! I loved how she spoke about sex and sexuality in a fun and quite frank way and really works to eliminate any shame about sex. Because we live in a patriarchal society, she is pretty honest about working to become sex positive and shameless around her sexuality. I would recommend it to anyone doing the inner work to become more confident and positive by building a healthy se ...more
Robert Hudder
Jun 04, 2018 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Not much to say here. It is a thoroughly modern look at the adventures of a woman and sex. Feminism gets it as bad as other -isms. It seems that sexual deviancy for lack of a better term makes everyone uncomfortable to some degree. Even within sex work there is a hierarchy where sugar babies don't seem to be sex workers and street workers are just the worst. There is light shone on BDSM, sex workers, promiscuity and orientation labels. Yes, it is just one woman's experience but it is written wit ...more
Krystle In Bed
Oct 08, 2018 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Funny, shameless, and slutty is Karley Sciortino’s Slutever book.
It is a memoir of what life has been like for a millennial woman who comfortably identifies as a slut. Slut Ever is informative and thought-provoking which takes its readers on a journey through the thought process of a woman who allows her sexual curiosity to navigate her life.


Check out the link on my blog below for more:
https://krystleinbed.com/2018/09/04/s...
Christina
2.5/3

I’m a fan of her Viceland show but not necessarily this book. There are a lot of times that she just seems really inauthentic. It feels as if she’s trying to shock and impress the reader but for the most part it’s a bit tame. Also just some problematic moments when, although claiming to be an intersectional feminist, she says things to the contrary. The last chapter was a real shining moment, though, that was enlightening.
Chey H
Mar 17, 2018 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
While unsure about this book initially, I ended up truly adoring it and Karley. On one level, it is an entertaining glimpse into a post-shame mind set. On another level, it addresses issues like disability and feminism in the context of human sexuality as it actually exists (as opposed to how we would prefer it existed). There are true gems of wisdom relaid through Karley’s millennial dialect and solid humor.
Nils Krebber
I actually don't know why I listened to the end. The voice of Karley and her forced "cool" speech patterns really dragged. While some of the messages were interesting (Sex work is not inherently evil, sex as a Topic needs to get out of the taboo Zone, the Definition of what sex is), her whole story was very simplistic.
Now, she is a selfidentified narcissist, so that probably should not have suprised me.
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“My greatest fear in life is being basic. (Or, perhaps more accurately, regressing back into basicness.) I have a literal recurring nightmare where I wake up one day with a husband, two kids, and a house in the suburbs and can't remember how I got there, as if it's my desitny. To avoid this becoming a reality, my strategy thus far has been to continually destroy my relationships at the first sign they're headed in that direction. So far, I have a 100 percent success rate with romantic sabotage.” 0 likes
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