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How Not to Ask a Boy to Prom

3.65  ·  Rating details ·  801 ratings  ·  195 reviews
Nolan Grant is sixteen, gay, and (definitely) still a virgin. He's never had a boyfriend, or even been kissed. It's not like Penn Valley is brimming with prospects. And when his big sister stages an elaborate “prom-posal” so Nolan can ask out his not-so-secret crush, Nolan freezes. He's saved from further embarrassment by bad boy Bern, who, for his own reasons, offers to f ...more
Hardcover, 236 pages
Published April 23rd 2019 by Roaring Brook Press
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S.J. Goslee Hi there! thank you so much for your question! I confess I had to do a quick search of my digital copy because I wanted to be as sure as possible, but…moreHi there! thank you so much for your question! I confess I had to do a quick search of my digital copy because I wanted to be as sure as possible, but there is no emphasis on being a virgin! It's just about dating and kissing, and Nolan doesn't even seem to think that's as important as Daphne :)(less)

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☆ Todd
Feb 03, 2019 rated it liked it

Funny, frustrating story was funnily frustrating.

This book had a lot of humor, but read almost like some sort of "stream of consciousness" story, where the MC, Nolan (aka "Grant") just stumbled aimlessly through his days, with the reader playing witness to his odd, awkward, artistic nerdiness.

And while a lot of the situations had me smiling, I also found myself thinking, "OMG, *where* is this story going, and *when* is it going to gain some focus and actually *get* there?"

The frustration for
Larry H
May 22, 2019 rated it really liked it
I'm between 3.5 and 4 stars, so I rounded up.

Even though it reminds me of the late 1990s/early 2000s movies like She's All That, She's the Man , or 10 Things I Hate About You (albeit with a gay twist), S.J. Goslee's new book, How (Not) to Ask a Boy to Prom could easily be made into a movie right this second and still feel totally relevant and fresh. It's a sweet, slightly goofy book that's not perfect, but it's definitely a fun read.

Nolan Grant Sheffield is a slightly eccentric high school
✨    jamieson   ✨
Dec 15, 2018 marked it as to-read
screaming bc the fake dating trope is my favourite ever and I love some good queer content
anna (readingpeaches)
you can just tell that goslee writes fics..... like, she gets it, you know??? she gets how fake dating is supposed to work, how pining is supposed to work......

ugh this is just *kisses fingers like a chef*

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HOW (NOT) TO ASK A BOY TO PROM is a cutesy, laugh out loud, fake-dating LGBTQ YA contemporary that somehow both surprised and delighted me and also felt a little.. lacking.

Googling "how to fake date" -- since I obviously have no idea how to read date, either -- brings up a treasure trove of fanfiction that I bookmark for later, but is otherwise super unhelpful.

There are a lot of things at play in Goslee's book and because we're only given vague explanations it skips along as if we're already in
ARC provided by the publisher in exchange for an honest review

DNF @ 50% sadly this book was so boring?????? rtc on all the reasons why I couldn't focus at all
fake dating? misunderstandings that come with it? the drama? secondhand embarrassment? THE FLAVOR?
kayla ☕
UPDATE: upon further inspection (aka I thought about it) I'm changing my rating to three stars. There were a few plot points that felt out of place and weird. Some things weren't even addressed and even if the main couple was cute I didn't really feel like they were explored

How Not to Ask a Boy to Prom reminded me of fanfiction but like...not in a bad way. Maybe it was the fake dating trope, maybe it was the fact that 90% of the book was just Nolan and his stream of awkward slash borderline emba
i think i probably prefer whatever but this was so good too


Rep: gay mc, Jewish bi li, Korean-American lesbian side character
milou  ☁️
DNF ~ 30 pages

i'm going to dnf this because i'm not able to connect with any of the characters or the story. perhaps i've become to old to care about high school books anymore because i'm not being able to get into any of these stories lately i think they're too immature

so yeah i'm not going to invest any more of my time into this
Sage Elizabeth
My April 2019 Book of the Month Add-On Pick
i like nothing more than queer fake dating
Kris Kogane
This is pg (pg-13?) and the characters aren't super fleshed out BUT OMG WHO CARES. /SOBS


Aug 03, 2018 rated it it was amazing
Things to know about Nolan Grant:

(x)loves plants
(x)“summer baby, has a hard-on for narwhals, attached at the hip to Evie Cho, sucks at drawing faces, wants Purdy to drop dead,” description by Bern
(x)can’t say no to his sister
(x)like at all
(x)would even fake-date bad boy Bern because his sister made him ask out his crush because she broke with her boyfriend (who Nolan didn’t ever truly like so) but now she needs to fix Nolan’s love-life—or lack-of.

Nolan Grant’s life consists of hanging o
Jan 23, 2019 rated it really liked it
This is a super cute fake-dating rom-com for the LGBT crowd, which doesn't usually get representation with that trope.

Nolan is gay and perpetually single, and according to loving-but-slightly-overbearing sister older Daphne, that is a problem. So she makes a decision for him. He can ask out specific one guy to prom, or a different specific one (the one he has a crush on). Because he realizes he has no choice, because Daphne will keep harping on him, he tries to ask the guy he likes. But messes
One word: ADORABLE
Samantha (WLABB)
Apr 04, 2019 rated it it was amazing
Rating: 4.5 Stars

I felt the same way after finishing this book as I did when I finished Goslee's debut, Whatever - extremely happy.

Once again, Goslee crafted a fabulous male protagonist, who I fell in insta-love with. Nolan was lucky enough to be adopted as a teen by the hilarious and lovable Sheffield family. He loved art, his cat, plants, narwals, his family, and keeping out of the spotlight, but, his sister, Daphne, had other plans for him. When she staged a promposal for him, which went side
This was pretty damn adorable.
Nolan is such a cute dork, and his absolute cluelessness is only forgiven by his zero experience in relationships. Bern is too sweet, he kind of wears his heart on his sleeve and come on Nolan open your eyes!
So I knew where the plot was going but had the best time reading this anyway. I loved the lack of insta anything, the moments building up to feelings and the appropriate awkwardness and angst that fake dating promises.

I also really loved the family dynamic
May 24, 2019 rated it liked it
Shelves: lgbtq, unowned-read
Overall I found this book to be super cute, my biggest complaint is that I wish there were far more interactions between Bern and Nolen. I feel like their relationship and past history, and present history wasn't fleshed out super well. I would have like to see the characters a little more than we did. Other than that it was a very cute story, just lacking in relationship development, I wasn't very invested in some of the characters and I didn't fell fulfilled at the end. Definitely give it a ch ...more
Well, this was certainly sweet and a lot of fun. I mean, I needed this in my life today, a day before work marathon, a week before essay deadlines, and a month before exams. And it has many iconic moments, the characters are mostly lovely, the dialogue manages to be both realistic and witty most of the time and the writing in general is good in that it's appropriate for this kind of book. Obviously, there are no beautiful, deep metaphors, but again, the dialogue is nice and it's that specific, f ...more
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Are you looking for a lighthearted read that is both hilarious and heartwarming? That stars silly boys fake-dating each other then realizing maybe their feelings are not so fake after all? That are full of family shenanigans and chaotic friendships? That has pop culture references that don’t make you want to cringe and band references that remind you of your emo phase but not in a bad way? You’re at the right place!

(No, I did not procrastinate on wr
Dec 27, 2018 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: arc, 2018-challenge
I didn't expect to love this as much as I did (clearly I am a fool). The story basically takes some of the best parts of the faking dating trope as a checklist, and executes it in a way that still feels fun and relevant to the cast of characters. Admittedly, I am biased because I came into the story already loving this type of plot.

I adore how weird Nolan's family is, while also remaining the most loving (Daphne hits me in all the big-sister spots). And the relationship (friendship, fake dating,
May 14, 2019 rated it liked it
Shelves: comming-of-age, teen, ya, meh
I was anxiously waiting for this book, I really enjoyed Goslee’s First book whatever. This one was not as much of a winner for me as her prior book. While I enjoyed the humor and quirkiness of the main character I found this book to meander quite a bit. The story had. so many side characters all going different directions but I couldn’t connect them all together. I felt like the MC’s were not fully fleshed out for me. Enjoyable not fantastic
the fake dating trope is ... the best romance trope ever

fight me
May 06, 2019 rated it really liked it
Originally reviewed on For What It's Worth on May 2, 2019:

Source: ARC provided by the publisher in exchange for an honest review

Review: The first few chapters of How (Not) to Ask a Boy to Prom meandered with no real direction, with characters and scenes drifting on and off the page so quickly that they barely made an impact. I was just about to dnf when the fake dating trope finally kicked in and it was all sweet, fluffy goodness from there. I’m so glad I
May 27, 2019 rated it really liked it
Shelves: gay-themed
The title and cover lets you know what you’re getting into right away, so you can’t complain prom tropes and and a three party love triangle gets involved. This is fun, fast paced, and although there should be much more fleshed out, is a satisfying read.

Nolan is sort of a go along guy, like Mike in the author’s first book, and has a lot of people who care about him. The problem is how I want to know so much more about him. What is he really thinking? How did he end up in this family? See spoile
Jun 16, 2019 rated it really liked it
Ok, so basically it's Whatever.: or how junior year became totally f$@ked v 2.0, but I dont care, I like it just the same -..-

But, Dear Author, if you're goin to write Whatever v 3.0, please do, but maybe dont make the mc amnesic about the significant moment, you're welcome to add diverse characters but maybe make it less so it wont confusing the reader, also you're welcome to bring out some issues (bullying, foster kid...) but dont just swept it under the rug, and more romantic moments please..
Jul 04, 2019 rated it really liked it
Shelves: lgbtq, queer, library
This was a super fun, lightweight, queer high school rom-com. I read most of it in one sitting. It's fast, breezy, cute, amusing, and entertaining. Nolan is a great character and so endearing, and so is Bern (the bad boy who isn't). I enjoyed Nolan's affectionate and oddball family, though he allowed his sister to meddle too much in his life. It's a little lacking in depth and a lot of things are kind of glossed over, but who cares, it's a fun, tropey, queer fake-dating high school comedy. Depth ...more
May 18, 2019 rated it really liked it
Can this just be a movie already? This would truly make for a perfectly fun, heartwarming romcom! I love the fake dating trope, and it was especially amazing here because both boys are so dense, and really don't seem to realise how flimsy their reasons for "fake" dating are. I won't give anything else away but this was really cute, okay?

Rep: gay MC, bi love interest, characters of colour, f/f couple, LGBTQ+ characters

CWs: panic attack, homophobia, bullying, violence, alcohol use
Apr 24, 2019 rated it really liked it
Shelves: 2019-release
This was so cute!!!
georgia ☽
3.5 stars

this was extremely fun and cute- fake dating is the superior trope.
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