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How To Make Love To A Man (safely): A new, intimate guide to sexy sex in the nineties

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There appears to be no dearth of reference material on literature, grammar, and baseball statistics. But for sex options, there's usually giggly whispers or girlie magazines. Alexandra Penney, however, talks turkey without wallowing in smut, and even better, she's updated her information with the AIDS concerns of the '90s. She explains in detail how to be sexy and safe at the same time, and that's precious information. Penney combines great knowledge and insight with good advice about how to communicate with your loved one on the sensitive topic of sex.

147 pages, Hardcover

First published January 1, 1981

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June 10, 2007
Not only did I buy this book, I mastered it. LOL
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11 reviews3 followers
February 7, 2025
Omg I seen this at goodwill for 50 cents. I bought it bc I was intrigued it was from 1981. Quick read and it’s hard to imagine things needing to be spelled out for a woman, but times are definitely different than how it was in the 40s. Although I learned nothing bc I already go above and beyond this book, it was still interesting to read and imagine myself as a housewife in those days reading this book. Kudos to Alexandra for writing it all those years ago!
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250 reviews8 followers
June 11, 2019
I unfortunately didn’t learn much from this book. Thank goodness technology is so broad these days that I can learn everything she spoke about in the book by watching just one porn video lol. But I have to take into account when this book was published...times are different now. Information is much more easily accessible.
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11 reviews
February 5, 2026
Superowa, bardzo aktualna jak na książkę napisaną w 1980 roku. Jedyny minusik za to, że autorka radzi ćwiczyć mięśnie kegla przez przerywane sikanie, ale może wtedy jeszcze nie wiedzieli, że wiąże się to z infekcjami 🤭 Ostatni rozdział trochę śmieszny, kiedy kobieta wykorzystuje wszystkie pro tipy z książki na swoim chłopie NARAZ. Mnie by przebodźcowało.
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8 reviews1 follower
August 31, 2022
reading this book aloud with my bestie was gold. bonus points for the fact that i got a used annotated copy from the thrift store
191 reviews1 follower
May 24, 2023
Maybe it’s been updated- grabbed it from my shelf ( edited last 1981). Had a couple of interesting suggestions- but so tilted towards making a man happy…
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