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Haven Makers #1
Becoming Us
From the author of the best-selling Christy Miller and SisterChicks series comes a new book of community, friendship, and tackling the hard things of life with God and loved ones around a table.
Five young moms, including beloved Gunn character Christy Miller, gather to share meals and soon become unlikely best friends. The regular gatherings provide opportunities for the women to reveal their stories, and those life stories endear them to each other. They experience their lives naturally meshing as they raise their children together in community. In Becoming Us the group find ways to challenge, encourage, and help each other become the nurturing mothers they wished they'd had when they were growing up. They unite to be remembered for what they do as moms and not for what was done to them.
Five young moms, including beloved Gunn character Christy Miller, gather to share meals and soon become unlikely best friends. The regular gatherings provide opportunities for the women to reveal their stories, and those life stories endear them to each other. They experience their lives naturally meshing as they raise their children together in community. In Becoming Us the group find ways to challenge, encourage, and help each other become the nurturing mothers they wished they'd had when they were growing up. They unite to be remembered for what they do as moms and not for what was done to them.
302 pages, Kindle Edition
First published May 1, 2019
About the author
Robin Jones Gunn
159 books2,114 followersROBIN JONES GUNN is the much loved author of over 100 books with more than 5.5 million copies of her titles sold worldwide. Her Father Christmas books have been made into 3 Hallmark movies. Her popular Christy Miller series now continues in Christy & Todd: The Married Years and The Baby Years. Robin's novels and non-fiction works have received multiple awards and are a favorite with book clubs and study groups. Robin and her husband have a grown son and daughter and live in Hawaii.
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February 7, 2019
Oh boy you are all are going to LOVE this one. I will be posting my review on my blog soon!
April 25, 2019
This book was so delightful to read! I found it a little hard to get into at first because of the new characters (I expected Christy to be the MC and the blurb doesn't really clarify anything), but it definitely started to pull me along once I got adjusted to the characters. I really appreciate how realistic Gunn makes her books as well; even if they include a heap of drama. xD The main character, Emily, is a character that anyone can relate to. Everyone deals with feelings of insecurity, and I saw myself in Emily when she dealt with loneliness and insecurity. I didn't really connect with her husband, Trevor, as much though? He seemed kinda distant for most of the book.
Overall, I really enjoyed it! I'm docking two stars because of all the sexual references in this book (PM me if you want details). I was honestly shocked at how many inappropriate references were in this book and I never would've expected something like that from Gunn or a Christian publisher. 3 stars.
I received a complimentary copy from the publisher and was not required to write a positive review.
Overall, I really enjoyed it! I'm docking two stars because of all the sexual references in this book (PM me if you want details). I was honestly shocked at how many inappropriate references were in this book and I never would've expected something like that from Gunn or a Christian publisher. 3 stars.
I received a complimentary copy from the publisher and was not required to write a positive review.
April 8, 2019
Can a group of women spark hope in a time of trouble?
Why is it so difficult to make friends as an adult?
What do you do when a dream dies?
These are all central themes surrounding Robin Jones Gunn’s Becoming Us, the first installment in a new series called Haven Makers set for release this May of 2019.
Who is Becoming Us intended for?
Becoming Us is intended for wives and mothers who have a Christian background. Also, women who have an interest in the central topics: Christian community, infertility, Christian family, struggles with parents as an adult, financial hardship, and anyone who has been a follower of Gunn’s earlier works the Christy Miller Series and Sierra Jensen Series as both play supporting roles in Becoming Us.
What I really liked about Becoming Us by Robin Jones Gunn:
-The novel dealt with real-life issues in an uncliched manner. You know how some Christian fiction books make everything work out for their characters to where it feels unrealistic to life? This book doesn’t do that. The main character, Emily and her husband both have long-held dreams that they had to let go of, yet you could still see God working through their losses.
-The novel touched on the difficulties of developing friendships as an adult and feeling a sense of loss when transplanted to a different geographical location. Emily has to re-learn how to make new friends after moving from North Carolina to Southern California.
I think this is an important topic that may be a struggle for a lot of Christian women, but not many are writing on it. I’m glad that Robin Jones Gunn touches on such a vulnerable topic.
-Robin Jones Gunn has always been skilled at creating real-to-life characters who you feel like you know personally. Becoming Us is no exception.
Areas of critique in Becoming Us
-The book isn’t paced as well as some of Robin Jones Gunn’s previous novels. You know how in a lot of fiction work, there’s a hanging point in the plot at the end of the chapter that makes you want to turn the page and devour the next chapter to see what’s coming next? Becoming Us is missing that key element so it can feel like more of an effort to read the next several chapters.
-I didn’t like how the message of forgiveness/relating to a person who is broken and hurts others was handled. Tess, a character in Becoming Us, mentions how her mom is an emotionally broken person who hurts others and related to this as someone who is in a wheelchair.
Basically, this analogy says: the mom can’t help her emotional condition just like a physically hurt person cannot help their fragile frame that placed them in a wheelchair.
I would say as someone who has had to be in a wheelchair over the past several years that this is untrue.
Biblically, this is also untrue. From what the Bible says, you are responsible for how you treat others. If you are malicious towards others, it’s a sin. If you’ve been hurt and this is shaping how you treat others, it is your responsibility to seek counsel and change your behavior.
From a physical standpoint, it is not a sin to be in a wheelchair and many times, there may not even be a way the physical condition can be fixed.
Overall
Overall, Robin Jones Gunn’s Becoming Us is a thoughtful read that will appeal to Christian wives and mothers who like character-driven stories.
I received this book for free from the publisher in exchange for an honest review.
Why is it so difficult to make friends as an adult?
What do you do when a dream dies?
These are all central themes surrounding Robin Jones Gunn’s Becoming Us, the first installment in a new series called Haven Makers set for release this May of 2019.
Who is Becoming Us intended for?
Becoming Us is intended for wives and mothers who have a Christian background. Also, women who have an interest in the central topics: Christian community, infertility, Christian family, struggles with parents as an adult, financial hardship, and anyone who has been a follower of Gunn’s earlier works the Christy Miller Series and Sierra Jensen Series as both play supporting roles in Becoming Us.
What I really liked about Becoming Us by Robin Jones Gunn:
-The novel dealt with real-life issues in an uncliched manner. You know how some Christian fiction books make everything work out for their characters to where it feels unrealistic to life? This book doesn’t do that. The main character, Emily and her husband both have long-held dreams that they had to let go of, yet you could still see God working through their losses.
-The novel touched on the difficulties of developing friendships as an adult and feeling a sense of loss when transplanted to a different geographical location. Emily has to re-learn how to make new friends after moving from North Carolina to Southern California.
I think this is an important topic that may be a struggle for a lot of Christian women, but not many are writing on it. I’m glad that Robin Jones Gunn touches on such a vulnerable topic.
-Robin Jones Gunn has always been skilled at creating real-to-life characters who you feel like you know personally. Becoming Us is no exception.
Areas of critique in Becoming Us
-The book isn’t paced as well as some of Robin Jones Gunn’s previous novels. You know how in a lot of fiction work, there’s a hanging point in the plot at the end of the chapter that makes you want to turn the page and devour the next chapter to see what’s coming next? Becoming Us is missing that key element so it can feel like more of an effort to read the next several chapters.
-I didn’t like how the message of forgiveness/relating to a person who is broken and hurts others was handled. Tess, a character in Becoming Us, mentions how her mom is an emotionally broken person who hurts others and related to this as someone who is in a wheelchair.
Basically, this analogy says: the mom can’t help her emotional condition just like a physically hurt person cannot help their fragile frame that placed them in a wheelchair.
I would say as someone who has had to be in a wheelchair over the past several years that this is untrue.
Biblically, this is also untrue. From what the Bible says, you are responsible for how you treat others. If you are malicious towards others, it’s a sin. If you’ve been hurt and this is shaping how you treat others, it is your responsibility to seek counsel and change your behavior.
From a physical standpoint, it is not a sin to be in a wheelchair and many times, there may not even be a way the physical condition can be fixed.
Overall
Overall, Robin Jones Gunn’s Becoming Us is a thoughtful read that will appeal to Christian wives and mothers who like character-driven stories.
I received this book for free from the publisher in exchange for an honest review.
January 27, 2019
I haven’t read any of Robin Jones Gunn’s stories since the Sisterchicks series, and I must say I still hear her voice in this story. It wasn’t quite as impactful to me as those were, but the portrayal of deep friendships and open discussion moments was still a prevalent story line here. I loved the way she described that marriage, family, and friendship was sacred and worth fighting for. Definitely a great read.
June 17, 2019
I admit this is a very difficult review to write because my feelings are all over the place about this book. I truly loved these characters and the small piece of their life I was able to be a part of.
I immediately felt a connection to Emily and Trevor as soon as we met them. This book is written in the first person and told by Emily as she navigates a new life she and her husband have created for themselves and their daughter. The couple has moved across the country, far away from all their friends and family, to being a new life together. I admit that while I love all our family dearly, I have contemplated how fun it would be for my small family to pack ourselves up and head out on an adventure of our own. But watching Emily and Trevor struggle with their finances, their marriage, and their friends just proved to me how fortunate we are to have our family near and dear.
I especially loved their daughter, Audra. Audra is around the same age as my daughter and seemed to have much the same personality and interest as we experience at our house. I felt connected to Audra as a mother and appreciated the insight I gained into the life of a tween through her character.
I enjoyed watching Emily and Trevor struggle together, remain as a team, spend time on their marriage, and ultimately turn to God for each decision that had to be made in their lives. I thought they served as a great example of how a couple must detach from their former lives and their families to become a family on their own.
The ultimate focus of this book was the friendship Emily formed with the other four moms in her community. However, I honestly felt this was such a minimal part of this book and the story told of Emily and her new life in California.
With all that said, I struggle with this review because while I did enjoy the book, the characters, and the story that was told, I also found myself wishing this book moved so much faster. I kept waiting for a major conflict or struggle - something these characters would have to fight hard to overcome - yet I never felt that moment ever arrived. I felt the book ended without a real ending. It was literally as if we began watching this family one day and then simply stepped away a few months later.
I felt the book was beautifully written, an exemplary example of a couple working together to keep their marriage strong, and a sweet bond between a group of women. But I never felt the connection strong enough to push me to finish quickly. It was a very slow read for me, and one I felt I had to force myself to keep coming back to.
I received an advanced copy of this book through NetGalley
I immediately felt a connection to Emily and Trevor as soon as we met them. This book is written in the first person and told by Emily as she navigates a new life she and her husband have created for themselves and their daughter. The couple has moved across the country, far away from all their friends and family, to being a new life together. I admit that while I love all our family dearly, I have contemplated how fun it would be for my small family to pack ourselves up and head out on an adventure of our own. But watching Emily and Trevor struggle with their finances, their marriage, and their friends just proved to me how fortunate we are to have our family near and dear.
I especially loved their daughter, Audra. Audra is around the same age as my daughter and seemed to have much the same personality and interest as we experience at our house. I felt connected to Audra as a mother and appreciated the insight I gained into the life of a tween through her character.
I enjoyed watching Emily and Trevor struggle together, remain as a team, spend time on their marriage, and ultimately turn to God for each decision that had to be made in their lives. I thought they served as a great example of how a couple must detach from their former lives and their families to become a family on their own.
The ultimate focus of this book was the friendship Emily formed with the other four moms in her community. However, I honestly felt this was such a minimal part of this book and the story told of Emily and her new life in California.
With all that said, I struggle with this review because while I did enjoy the book, the characters, and the story that was told, I also found myself wishing this book moved so much faster. I kept waiting for a major conflict or struggle - something these characters would have to fight hard to overcome - yet I never felt that moment ever arrived. I felt the book ended without a real ending. It was literally as if we began watching this family one day and then simply stepped away a few months later.
I felt the book was beautifully written, an exemplary example of a couple working together to keep their marriage strong, and a sweet bond between a group of women. But I never felt the connection strong enough to push me to finish quickly. It was a very slow read for me, and one I felt I had to force myself to keep coming back to.
I received an advanced copy of this book through NetGalley
April 25, 2019
Title: Becoming Us (Haven Maker #1)
Author: Robin Jones Gunn
Pages: 320
Year: 2019
Publisher: Multnomah
My rating: 5 out of 5 stars.
Becoming Us is the most authentic or lifelike look into the hearts of various people who really do inhabit earth. The characters in the story deal with loss, infertility, family issues, marital strife, and finding friendship to name a few. Robin’s writing draws readers into the book and invites them to learn that what they are reading can be like a mirror.
Robin’s writing is truly unique. She is telling a story but moreover she is reflecting the ails of society along with the hope that faith brings into lives. There is no sugarcoating the real struggles that Emily and her husband Trevor deal with, along with how it affects their daughter Audra. There are happy moments, memory making ones and a curve of learning how to be a family without the intrusive or controlling aspects of extended family.
Not all families are like this and Robin does as superb job of showing that in the book. There are female characters in the book who, like Emily, have some struggles. The focus of the novel revolves around Emily and her life, while also showing us how Emily must overcome the past and step into her future. Emily meets some neat women, and it was exciting to see friendships develop even with the women being different. Each of the women who befriend Emily have their own struggles, triumphs, fears and faith lessons that become the very bond that unites them.
Here is tale that shows society how friendships can be a very encouraging aspect in life even with the messiness around us. I think the author did a great job of pointing to the strength women can gather as well as men when they fellowship and be real. I think many will enjoy the heart touching scenes as well as tears that pooled in my eyes when the ladies come around Emily’s daughter as she grows and welcome her into womanhood.
Here is a gem of a tale that I highly recommend and hope that the other stories in the Haven Maker series are just as touching!
Note: The opinions shared in this review are solely my responsibility.
Author: Robin Jones Gunn
Pages: 320
Year: 2019
Publisher: Multnomah
My rating: 5 out of 5 stars.
Becoming Us is the most authentic or lifelike look into the hearts of various people who really do inhabit earth. The characters in the story deal with loss, infertility, family issues, marital strife, and finding friendship to name a few. Robin’s writing draws readers into the book and invites them to learn that what they are reading can be like a mirror.
Robin’s writing is truly unique. She is telling a story but moreover she is reflecting the ails of society along with the hope that faith brings into lives. There is no sugarcoating the real struggles that Emily and her husband Trevor deal with, along with how it affects their daughter Audra. There are happy moments, memory making ones and a curve of learning how to be a family without the intrusive or controlling aspects of extended family.
Not all families are like this and Robin does as superb job of showing that in the book. There are female characters in the book who, like Emily, have some struggles. The focus of the novel revolves around Emily and her life, while also showing us how Emily must overcome the past and step into her future. Emily meets some neat women, and it was exciting to see friendships develop even with the women being different. Each of the women who befriend Emily have their own struggles, triumphs, fears and faith lessons that become the very bond that unites them.
Here is tale that shows society how friendships can be a very encouraging aspect in life even with the messiness around us. I think the author did a great job of pointing to the strength women can gather as well as men when they fellowship and be real. I think many will enjoy the heart touching scenes as well as tears that pooled in my eyes when the ladies come around Emily’s daughter as she grows and welcome her into womanhood.
Here is a gem of a tale that I highly recommend and hope that the other stories in the Haven Maker series are just as touching!
Note: The opinions shared in this review are solely my responsibility.
May 3, 2019
I fell in love with Robin Jones Gunn contemporary Christian fiction many years ago when the Sisterchicks series came out. She once again writes about a group of women who click and become their own little supportive, caring, loving tribe. These five women laugh, cry, hug, and help one another as moms, friends, and sisters in Christ.
I loved this book especially for several reasons. First it was set in Costa Mesa California not too far from where I grew up, and this brought back a lot of wonderful memories. I laughed and cried right along with these five wonderful women and wanted to be part of a close knit group of women like them. They all had strong faiths, could be completely open with one another, and were there for each other no matter what was happening. Their were 2 parts that were extra special. First when Emily helped Jennalyn during her emergency delivery, and second when the Daughters of Eve (Love the name they chose for their group.), had the Becoming a Woman party for Emily's daughter, Audra.
I am not generally a fan of contemporary fiction; but if I could have given this higher than a 5, I definitely would have. This is an "I can't put it down book." I can't wait for the next book in the Haven Makers series to come out. Highly recommend to those who like contemporary Christian fiction that will make you feel the entire gamut of emotions.
** I received a complimentary copy of this book from Random House through NetGalley. Opinions are mine alone. I was not compensated for this review.
I loved this book especially for several reasons. First it was set in Costa Mesa California not too far from where I grew up, and this brought back a lot of wonderful memories. I laughed and cried right along with these five wonderful women and wanted to be part of a close knit group of women like them. They all had strong faiths, could be completely open with one another, and were there for each other no matter what was happening. Their were 2 parts that were extra special. First when Emily helped Jennalyn during her emergency delivery, and second when the Daughters of Eve (Love the name they chose for their group.), had the Becoming a Woman party for Emily's daughter, Audra.
I am not generally a fan of contemporary fiction; but if I could have given this higher than a 5, I definitely would have. This is an "I can't put it down book." I can't wait for the next book in the Haven Makers series to come out. Highly recommend to those who like contemporary Christian fiction that will make you feel the entire gamut of emotions.
** I received a complimentary copy of this book from Random House through NetGalley. Opinions are mine alone. I was not compensated for this review.
November 23, 2018
Becoming Us by author Robin Jones Gunn is a beautifully written story of family, love, friendship, and finding peace! A young family, Emily, Trevor, and their daughter Audra have recently moved to California from their family and home in Ashville, NC. Emily is dealing with serious losses and is trying to pull herself together amidst the changes in their lives. Emily hesitantly attends a small party given by Jennalyn, a woman she met while shopping. The theme of the small Christmas party is Favorite Things, and as each of the five women gathered explain the reason for the gifts, their faith begins to shine through. This is the beginning of a friendship between the women which will help to encourage Emily through her fears and disappointments. I don't want to post spoilers, but it is such a wonderful story which will be a blessing to any woman who has been through a time of loss and feeling insecure about her future. If you have read any of the other books by this author, you may find yourself feeling as if you are having a cozy visit with old friends. I loved this book! I also have read all of the Sisterchicks books twice, they are AWESOME!
Publication Date: May 7, 2019
Publication Date: May 7, 2019
May 8, 2019
Robin Jones Gunn was my first introduction to Christian fiction when I was a teenager with her Christy Miller series, so I have been looking forward to everything she creates. Luckily, with the novel Becoming Us, Christy Miller-Spencer makes a cameo as one of the five women trying to decipher how to be a mother, wife, and friend. With this installment, I met Emily, a transplant from North Carolina with her husband and her ten-year-old daughter. In the beginning, Gunn does a wonderful job at showing the insecurities of a mom to a new world with her family. Emily's emotions throughout the entire novel rang true to me. The relationship between the five women grew as the novel moved along. Emily opened up more as the story progressed and began to value the friendships. I believe this novel is like nothing I have ever read. It is true and shows the difficulties of beginning a life without the constant support of your family. It was well-written, and I really can't wait to read the next book in this series.
I received a complimentary copy of Becoming Us by Robin Jones Gunn from Waterbrook-Multnomah Publishing, but the opinions stated are all my own.
I received a complimentary copy of Becoming Us by Robin Jones Gunn from Waterbrook-Multnomah Publishing, but the opinions stated are all my own.
December 21, 2018
I just read, Becoming Us by Robin Jones Gunn. The main character, Emily, is new to the area. She gets involved with a group of ladies and they form a support system. The author develops Emily's character and her relationship with the ladies in her circle beautifully. One can't help but be encouraged.by their interactions and discussions with each other. "Release" was one of the words that had meaning for me. I have read other novels by Robin Jones Gunn and look forward to more.
July 7, 2019
This book is SO good! I always say reading Robin's books is like visiting old friends. This one exceeded my expectations! Somehow this story spoke directly to my heart, challenging me, and drawing me closer to who God wants me to be. This book tackles issues I don't often read about in fiction, including infertility, anxiety, contentment, and forgiveness, all with grace and hope.
May 17, 2019
I devoured this new book following a new friend of Christy and Sierra. It was different to read in the first person and from a new character but always feels good to spend time with these friends.
June 26, 2019
Robin Jones Gunn’s latest book Becoming Us is a heartwarming story of faith, friendship, and family. Five women come together to form a strong bond of friendship and provide support for each other during both the good times and the difficulties in each of their lives. Their faith in God helped give them strength and to realize their own self-worth. Robin Jones Gunn created a wonderful cast of well-developed main characters and supporting characters who were positive influences on each other. The author showed how beneficial it is to have a group of friends who will always support you and and will share in your faith and love of God. This was a very enjoyable story and one that fans of contemporary fiction will not want to put down!
I received a complimentary copy of this book from WaterBrook & Multnomah through NetGalley and was not required to write a positive review. Opinions expressed in this review are completely my own.
I received a complimentary copy of this book from WaterBrook & Multnomah through NetGalley and was not required to write a positive review. Opinions expressed in this review are completely my own.
March 12, 2019
I’ve been reading Robin Jones Gunn books since middle school and I’m now in my thirties and still enjoy her characters! Becoming Us did not disappoint and is one of my favorites yet. You do not need to read her other books in order to follow but if you have, it will be like you are visiting old friends. This would be a great women’s book club read as it includes many women in different stages of life and would be great for discussion.
May 11, 2019
I love how God always knows when I need a new Robin Jones Gunn book and how much what she writes parallels my life! And the way the verses she uses are the verses God is already speaking to my heart. So thankful for this incredible woman and her willingness to be used by God. ❤️
October 20, 2019
I found it very boring and drawn out.
August 20, 2020
Just what I needed at just the right time. My pastor’s wife handed this off to me. She knows me all too well.
March 28, 2019
This author brilliantly combines fun, realistic situations with characters I instantly cared for, intermingled with a natural spiritual thread – it’s a winning combination. Emily’s hurt and weary family, has just moved to California in hopes of a fresh start, and new perspective on life and family. Their twelve-year-old daughter Audra loves California. Her husband, Trevor works at a car dealership his family owns, and Emily works at a coffee shop. What Trevor’s family promised and what actually panned out leaves them wondering if they made the right move.
Emily gets invited to a Christian woman’s book club of sorts. She goes but is very guarded about what she shares. She doesn’t want to get close to this small group because she might be moving back to North Carolina if things didn’t turn around soon.
This author has a gift of making readers feel part of this group who admits they struggle as they do their best to walk out being a wife, mom and Christ follower; it’s not easy. They call themselves The Daughters of Eve. Emily was amazed and refreshed to meet a group of real, ladies accepting her with open arms, filled with love and grace. She could finally breath, (not having to live up to relatives’ expectations, and manipulative ways.). Emily was beginning to see things through God’s eyes, as her immediate family was making their way to “Becoming Us.” Emily was encouraged to see wisdom blossom in her friends, husband and daughter as they seek insight, healing and understanding of themselves, God and others through prayer.
Family can be complicated, messy and a struggle. I enjoyed reading about these ladies doing life together through tears, laughter, love and grace all gifts given from old dear friends one to another. Blessings and lessons are scattered throughout the story as they usually are in this authors’ books.
Themes talked about in this novel are marriage, parenthood, family, forgiveness, hope, God’s mysterious timing and ways are so much bigger than us. I liked that this author naturally points readers closer to God in each season of life discussed. I was encouraged and inspired, by the characters just as I was when I read the SisterChick novels.
A fun fact for those who have read the Christy series some characters make their way into this series. I highly recommend this story for a wonderful read and one that would be great for your next book club pick with discussion questions at the end of the book.
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received a complimentary copy of this book from the Publisher/BookLook. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising”
Nora St. Laurent
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Emily gets invited to a Christian woman’s book club of sorts. She goes but is very guarded about what she shares. She doesn’t want to get close to this small group because she might be moving back to North Carolina if things didn’t turn around soon.
This author has a gift of making readers feel part of this group who admits they struggle as they do their best to walk out being a wife, mom and Christ follower; it’s not easy. They call themselves The Daughters of Eve. Emily was amazed and refreshed to meet a group of real, ladies accepting her with open arms, filled with love and grace. She could finally breath, (not having to live up to relatives’ expectations, and manipulative ways.). Emily was beginning to see things through God’s eyes, as her immediate family was making their way to “Becoming Us.” Emily was encouraged to see wisdom blossom in her friends, husband and daughter as they seek insight, healing and understanding of themselves, God and others through prayer.
Family can be complicated, messy and a struggle. I enjoyed reading about these ladies doing life together through tears, laughter, love and grace all gifts given from old dear friends one to another. Blessings and lessons are scattered throughout the story as they usually are in this authors’ books.
Themes talked about in this novel are marriage, parenthood, family, forgiveness, hope, God’s mysterious timing and ways are so much bigger than us. I liked that this author naturally points readers closer to God in each season of life discussed. I was encouraged and inspired, by the characters just as I was when I read the SisterChick novels.
A fun fact for those who have read the Christy series some characters make their way into this series. I highly recommend this story for a wonderful read and one that would be great for your next book club pick with discussion questions at the end of the book.
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received a complimentary copy of this book from the Publisher/BookLook. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising”
Nora St. Laurent
TBCN Where Book Fun Begins! www.bookfun.org
The Book Club Network blog www.psalm516.blogspot.com
Book Fun Magazine https://www.bookfun.org/page/past-iss...
December 17, 2018
Let me start by saying I love the cover of this book. Now that I have finished reading the story, the cover means even more to me.
I want to have a summer party with the ladies in my life just like Jennalyn's. This is a very special story about becoming a good friend, a better sister, daughter or mother. Every woman needs a Jennalyn, Sierra, Christy, Tess or Emily in their life. I have gained so many wonderful ideas from this read. Without going into detail and spoiling the story for others, let's just say there are some fantastic party and get together ideas I will definitely like to try.
Christy, one of the characters in the story, would ask God each year to impress upon her a word for the year, something she should be working on. In the book the present word is LISTEN. So she shares with her friends different ways God was bringing this to her attention.
At the beginning of this new year, what a wonderful time to pray and ask God to impress on me a Word or area I need to do better at. The Word is going to be different for each woman, depending where we are with our walk with Him or our family dynamics.
This group of ladies called themselves the Daughters Of Eve, or DOE's. The support and understanding they develop for each other is phenomenal. Each lady has her own strength, and they combine these for the good of the whole.
My daughters are grown now, but this is one time I wish I could go back in time. I would love to have a celebration of their entry into womanhood for each of my girls, as the DOE's did for Emily's daughter Audra. Our girls are all princesses and should be treated as such. After all our father is The King of Kings.
This is a wonderfully written story. There is so much content here, you will want to read it again so you do not miss anything.
I received a copy of this book from the publishers WaterBrook and Multnomah through NetGalley. The opinions expressed in this review are my own
I want to have a summer party with the ladies in my life just like Jennalyn's. This is a very special story about becoming a good friend, a better sister, daughter or mother. Every woman needs a Jennalyn, Sierra, Christy, Tess or Emily in their life. I have gained so many wonderful ideas from this read. Without going into detail and spoiling the story for others, let's just say there are some fantastic party and get together ideas I will definitely like to try.
Christy, one of the characters in the story, would ask God each year to impress upon her a word for the year, something she should be working on. In the book the present word is LISTEN. So she shares with her friends different ways God was bringing this to her attention.
At the beginning of this new year, what a wonderful time to pray and ask God to impress on me a Word or area I need to do better at. The Word is going to be different for each woman, depending where we are with our walk with Him or our family dynamics.
This group of ladies called themselves the Daughters Of Eve, or DOE's. The support and understanding they develop for each other is phenomenal. Each lady has her own strength, and they combine these for the good of the whole.
My daughters are grown now, but this is one time I wish I could go back in time. I would love to have a celebration of their entry into womanhood for each of my girls, as the DOE's did for Emily's daughter Audra. Our girls are all princesses and should be treated as such. After all our father is The King of Kings.
This is a wonderfully written story. There is so much content here, you will want to read it again so you do not miss anything.
I received a copy of this book from the publishers WaterBrook and Multnomah through NetGalley. The opinions expressed in this review are my own
December 17, 2018
Let me start by saying I love the cover of this book. Now that I have finished reading the story, the cover means even more to me.
I want to have a summer party with the ladies in my life just like Jennalyn's. This is a very special story about becoming a good friend, a better sister, daughter or mother. Every woman needs a Jennalyn, Sierra, Christy, Tess or Emily in their life. I have gained so many wonderful ideas from this read. Without going into detail and spoiling the story for others, let's just say there are some fantastic party and get together ideas I will definitely like to try.
Christy, one of the characters in the story, would ask God each year to impress upon her a word for the year, something she should be working on. In the book the present word is LISTEN. So she shares with her friends different ways God was bringing this to her attention.
At the beginning of this new year, what a wonderful time to pray and ask God to impress on me a Word or area I need to do better at. The Word is going to be different for each woman, depending where we are with our walk with Him or our family dynamics.
This group of ladies called themselves the Daughters Of Eve, or DOE's. The support and understanding they develop for each other is phenomenal. Each lady has her own strength, and they combine these for the good of the whole.
My daughters are grown now, but this is one time I wish I could go back in time. I would love to have a celebration of their entry into womanhood for each of my girls, as the DOE's did for Emily's daughter Audra. Our girls are all princesses and should be treated as such. After all our father is The King of Kings.
This is a wonderfully written story. There is so much content here, you will want to read it again so you do not miss anything.
I received a copy of this book from the publishers WaterBrook and Multnomah through NetGalley. The opinions expressed in this review are my own
I want to have a summer party with the ladies in my life just like Jennalyn's. This is a very special story about becoming a good friend, a better sister, daughter or mother. Every woman needs a Jennalyn, Sierra, Christy, Tess or Emily in their life. I have gained so many wonderful ideas from this read. Without going into detail and spoiling the story for others, let's just say there are some fantastic party and get together ideas I will definitely like to try.
Christy, one of the characters in the story, would ask God each year to impress upon her a word for the year, something she should be working on. In the book the present word is LISTEN. So she shares with her friends different ways God was bringing this to her attention.
At the beginning of this new year, what a wonderful time to pray and ask God to impress on me a Word or area I need to do better at. The Word is going to be different for each woman, depending where we are with our walk with Him or our family dynamics.
This group of ladies called themselves the Daughters Of Eve, or DOE's. The support and understanding they develop for each other is phenomenal. Each lady has her own strength, and they combine these for the good of the whole.
My daughters are grown now, but this is one time I wish I could go back in time. I would love to have a celebration of their entry into womanhood for each of my girls, as the DOE's did for Emily's daughter Audra. Our girls are all princesses and should be treated as such. After all our father is The King of Kings.
This is a wonderfully written story. There is so much content here, you will want to read it again so you do not miss anything.
I received a copy of this book from the publishers WaterBrook and Multnomah through NetGalley. The opinions expressed in this review are my own
April 22, 2019
The author, Robin Jones Gunn, has written several popular Christian fiction series and “Becoming Us” is the first book in her new Haven Makers series. Isn’t the cover inviting? And it illustrates a lovely part of the story, that we should “make room for everyone at the table.”
I read straight through this compelling and evocative story. I read most of it on a cozy Sunday afternoon. This is a character driven novel and each character is “a lovely creation, a locked treasure chest of undiscovered gems”. As readers, we get to watch each woman’s slow discovery as she “becomes.”
Emily and her husband and pre-teen daughter are new to California. They married young and depended on the shelter of the husband’s large and successful family back in North Carolina. Circumstances led them to ask God if they should make a change. But, their new life by a new ocean has been challenging. Will Emily learn to “plant the sweet things she loves”?
Thanks to the welcoming nature of Jennalyn, Emily is invited to get to know some other young women. As they share their stories, we see that they have some things in common, such as young children and the desire to create a good life for their families. They also have some differences. Emily and Christy are more introverted. As they begin to celebrate life together in creative ways, and share some of their painful stories, they are able to share the path of life together.
I especially liked the parts where they each came up with a word for the year. And Emily’s journey was poignant, heart-breaking and real. She learned to hope in God, rather than giving God a “to-do list” of desired outcomes, which is a big thing to grasp.
I highly recommend this book. This is the first book in the “Haven Makers series, which is a lovely name for a series. I am thankful I received a complimentary copy of this book from WaterBrook & Multnomah and this is my honest review.
I read straight through this compelling and evocative story. I read most of it on a cozy Sunday afternoon. This is a character driven novel and each character is “a lovely creation, a locked treasure chest of undiscovered gems”. As readers, we get to watch each woman’s slow discovery as she “becomes.”
Emily and her husband and pre-teen daughter are new to California. They married young and depended on the shelter of the husband’s large and successful family back in North Carolina. Circumstances led them to ask God if they should make a change. But, their new life by a new ocean has been challenging. Will Emily learn to “plant the sweet things she loves”?
Thanks to the welcoming nature of Jennalyn, Emily is invited to get to know some other young women. As they share their stories, we see that they have some things in common, such as young children and the desire to create a good life for their families. They also have some differences. Emily and Christy are more introverted. As they begin to celebrate life together in creative ways, and share some of their painful stories, they are able to share the path of life together.
I especially liked the parts where they each came up with a word for the year. And Emily’s journey was poignant, heart-breaking and real. She learned to hope in God, rather than giving God a “to-do list” of desired outcomes, which is a big thing to grasp.
I highly recommend this book. This is the first book in the “Haven Makers series, which is a lovely name for a series. I am thankful I received a complimentary copy of this book from WaterBrook & Multnomah and this is my honest review.
May 29, 2019
I really enjoyed Becoming Us, there is something in this story for everyone. We have all, as adults, faced fears and lost confidence in ourselves, just like the couple in this book. It was refreshing to see real life problems and how God can work them out, lean on him like Emily and Trevor, and let him work out the details.
Emily and Trevor have moved across the country, with their daughter Audra, to get a fresh start. When things aren't working out financially they begin to doubt that the move was the right thing to do. All the reasons they made the move are becoming less clear as they aren't sure they can make it. Beyond the financial challenges, they are facing all the things everyone faces, lack of close friends, family is far away, and they are learning to lean on each other and on God.
Making a new life, having the confidence to make new friends, and feeling like they belong, these are things we all face in our daily life. I loved watching their journey to Becoming Us, and how being away from family expectations gave them the freedom to define what Becoming Us actually will be.
I face some of their difficulties and I enjoyed how they worked together and relied on God. This is full of scripture-based lessons. I loved watching Emily become Emily, away from the predefined Emily she felt like she needed to be. Really an enjoyable story that leaves you with plenty to consider!
I received an uncorrected proof copy to read from the publisher but was under no obligation to provide a review.
Emily and Trevor have moved across the country, with their daughter Audra, to get a fresh start. When things aren't working out financially they begin to doubt that the move was the right thing to do. All the reasons they made the move are becoming less clear as they aren't sure they can make it. Beyond the financial challenges, they are facing all the things everyone faces, lack of close friends, family is far away, and they are learning to lean on each other and on God.
Making a new life, having the confidence to make new friends, and feeling like they belong, these are things we all face in our daily life. I loved watching their journey to Becoming Us, and how being away from family expectations gave them the freedom to define what Becoming Us actually will be.
I face some of their difficulties and I enjoyed how they worked together and relied on God. This is full of scripture-based lessons. I loved watching Emily become Emily, away from the predefined Emily she felt like she needed to be. Really an enjoyable story that leaves you with plenty to consider!
I received an uncorrected proof copy to read from the publisher but was under no obligation to provide a review.
April 25, 2019
I am a HUGE HUGE HUGE Robin Jones Gunn fan. Her books have impacted my life in so many ways starting when I was only twelve and through my teenage and into my adult years. When I learned that I could get an ARC copy of her new release "Becoming Us" I was probably one of the first people who signed up.
Robin Jones Gunn never fails to disappoint to bring a moving story and moving characters. This one is no different.
Christy Miller IS BACK.
YESSSS!
After The Baby Years ended, I was hungry for more, and now she makes an appearance in Becoming Us with other mothers. The group comes together as they learn how to raise their children and honestly find themselves. Emily is new to California and often finds herself struggling to know who she really is. Her voice has always been defined by her husband's family, and it is both freeing and scary to be out of their shadow.
I enjoyed this book completely and utterly as I knew I would. We see Christy Miller through another's eyes, and while I miss Christy being the main character, I certainly am happy to be with her again even if through the new addition to the group Emily. Sadly some past characters like Katie couldn't join (I really wanted a mention), but for new and old fans of Robin Jones Gunn I can totally recommend this new novel.
It's beautifully written and a refreshing spring read. Never ceasing to give us real life in an encouraging and brilliant way, Robin Jones Gunn's genius is hard to match.
Two big thumbs up on this read!
Robin Jones Gunn never fails to disappoint to bring a moving story and moving characters. This one is no different.
Christy Miller IS BACK.
YESSSS!
After The Baby Years ended, I was hungry for more, and now she makes an appearance in Becoming Us with other mothers. The group comes together as they learn how to raise their children and honestly find themselves. Emily is new to California and often finds herself struggling to know who she really is. Her voice has always been defined by her husband's family, and it is both freeing and scary to be out of their shadow.
I enjoyed this book completely and utterly as I knew I would. We see Christy Miller through another's eyes, and while I miss Christy being the main character, I certainly am happy to be with her again even if through the new addition to the group Emily. Sadly some past characters like Katie couldn't join (I really wanted a mention), but for new and old fans of Robin Jones Gunn I can totally recommend this new novel.
It's beautifully written and a refreshing spring read. Never ceasing to give us real life in an encouraging and brilliant way, Robin Jones Gunn's genius is hard to match.
Two big thumbs up on this read!
December 31, 2018
What a great book! Robin Jones Gunn is a master at writing relevant relationships between women of all ages. Her descriptions regarding mothers and daughters really hit home for me. Some are blessed with wonderful loving relationships and some search for acceptance that's never there.
The characters are multilayered and so well portrayed I felt like I was part of the story. The main characters Emily and Trevor Winslow and their daughter Audra decided they needed a break from his extended very Southern family. They moved to Southern California so they could have the freedom to be their own family. They struggled financially. Trevor's family continued to lure them back home with financial help. Emily was just as committed to stay in California where she felt free from his overly helpful family. Emily was blessed to find a group of loving Christian women who laughed and supported one another. Trevor hit it off with one of the husbands who invited him to help with a Christian high school boy's group. They both saw truths that helped them to rely on God and each other.
Emily and Trevor continued to grow in their faith and love for one another. The also began to understand and accept God's plan for their young family. I enjoyed reading a book that was free of sex, violence and swearing. The character driven plot was interesting from beginning to end.
The characters are multilayered and so well portrayed I felt like I was part of the story. The main characters Emily and Trevor Winslow and their daughter Audra decided they needed a break from his extended very Southern family. They moved to Southern California so they could have the freedom to be their own family. They struggled financially. Trevor's family continued to lure them back home with financial help. Emily was just as committed to stay in California where she felt free from his overly helpful family. Emily was blessed to find a group of loving Christian women who laughed and supported one another. Trevor hit it off with one of the husbands who invited him to help with a Christian high school boy's group. They both saw truths that helped them to rely on God and each other.
Emily and Trevor continued to grow in their faith and love for one another. The also began to understand and accept God's plan for their young family. I enjoyed reading a book that was free of sex, violence and swearing. The character driven plot was interesting from beginning to end.
May 19, 2019
“Becoming Us” is a great book! I really enjoyed it. I was so excited when I heard about this book because Robin Jones Gunn’s other character, Christy Miller, is in this book. Sierra Jensen is as well and it was fun seeing them again, getting to know Jennalyn better, and meeting Emily and Tess. Emily is the main character in this book and it’s a story about her life. I loved her friendship with the other four ladies and their talks and get togethers always made me smile. On the front cover there is a little acknowledgment about the book from Alyssa Bethke and it says, “You will feel like you’re a part of this sweet circle of friends—welcomed and known.” I definitely felt like that! I loved the whole book, but I especially loved the friendship aspect of the book. It was so sweet and encouraging.
Whether you’ve read Robin Jones Gunn’s beloved Christy Miller series or not, this is a fun one. It was great hearing about old characters and reconnecting with them, but if this is your first Robin Jones Gunn book it will all still make sense and not be confusing.
I’d definitely recommend this book to fans of the Christ Miller books. There is little bit of mature content, but not much. I wouldn’t say the content is anymore then what you’d read in the Christy & Todd: the Married Years or the Baby Years series.
Whether you’ve read Robin Jones Gunn’s beloved Christy Miller series or not, this is a fun one. It was great hearing about old characters and reconnecting with them, but if this is your first Robin Jones Gunn book it will all still make sense and not be confusing.
I’d definitely recommend this book to fans of the Christ Miller books. There is little bit of mature content, but not much. I wouldn’t say the content is anymore then what you’d read in the Christy & Todd: the Married Years or the Baby Years series.
January 1, 2019
I haven't read such an engrossing book in a while, but Becoming Us was so hard to put down, I stayed up way too late two nights in a row to finish the book.
Emily has moved with her family (husband Trevor and daughter Audra) from North Carolina to California, partially to get away from Trevor's overwhelming family. Emily has fallen into a funk and really needs friends when Jennalyn sends Emily an invitation for an evening in her home. Emily was trying to find a way out of the party, but she went to the party anyway. This is the ground floor of the building of some precious friendships.
Robin Jones Gunn has begun a novel series that will be compelling and enthralling for the readers. There is a bit of entertainment in the book as well. Robin has made a point that being a woman is a gift from God and worthy of celebrating. That is what makes this book so good--the underlying concept of God's blessing coming through our friends who see us as worthy of celebrating.
This is a five star book, with two thumbs up, with a tiara for celebrating yourself.
My thanks to Waterbrook/Multnomah for allowing me to read and review this book.
Emily has moved with her family (husband Trevor and daughter Audra) from North Carolina to California, partially to get away from Trevor's overwhelming family. Emily has fallen into a funk and really needs friends when Jennalyn sends Emily an invitation for an evening in her home. Emily was trying to find a way out of the party, but she went to the party anyway. This is the ground floor of the building of some precious friendships.
Robin Jones Gunn has begun a novel series that will be compelling and enthralling for the readers. There is a bit of entertainment in the book as well. Robin has made a point that being a woman is a gift from God and worthy of celebrating. That is what makes this book so good--the underlying concept of God's blessing coming through our friends who see us as worthy of celebrating.
This is a five star book, with two thumbs up, with a tiara for celebrating yourself.
My thanks to Waterbrook/Multnomah for allowing me to read and review this book.
May 13, 2019
Emily and her husband and daughter have recently relocated to California, and it hasn't gone as well as they had hoped. Their finances are shaky, their apartment is small, and Emily hasn't connected with any women in the area yet. When she's invited to a Christmas get-together, she hesitates to let these women into her heart, and when the conversation turns to topics that are sensitive to Emily, she feels a strong desire to flee. Can she stick with this warm and welcoming group -- or would it be better for their family to return to the east coast?
In this book, Gunn introduces a new main character, but several of her existing characters make an appearance here, particularly Christy Miller and Sierra Jensen. Readers unfamiliar with Gunn's many, many books about Christy can easily follow the plot of this book without fear of missing too much, though it's obvious that this character has a backstory in Gunn's world. I found that this book benefits from better editing than her last trilogy of Christy stories. Readers who enjoy gentle women's fiction in the inspirational genre should find this a pleasant read, and will look forward to more books about these women.
In this book, Gunn introduces a new main character, but several of her existing characters make an appearance here, particularly Christy Miller and Sierra Jensen. Readers unfamiliar with Gunn's many, many books about Christy can easily follow the plot of this book without fear of missing too much, though it's obvious that this character has a backstory in Gunn's world. I found that this book benefits from better editing than her last trilogy of Christy stories. Readers who enjoy gentle women's fiction in the inspirational genre should find this a pleasant read, and will look forward to more books about these women.
May 19, 2019
I was thrilled when I first learned about this new series from Robin Jones Gunn. New friends, a new couple, and some familiar faces (namely Christy Miller Spencer and Sierra).
This book deals with so, so many challenges women struggle with today—childrearing, familial relationships, marital relationships, and infertility to name a few—but what sets it apart is the way five women come together, share their burdens, and commit to pray and care for each other.
Though this is the first book in a new series, at times I did feel a bit disconnected or in the dark and am assuming it’s because I haven’t (yet) read the Christy and Todd Baby Years books.
However, I didn’t want my special time with Emily, Trevor, Audra, and the Daughters of Eve to end.
I’m not sure which I am clamoring for more in the next book—more time with Emily and her family or a further peek into Tess’s life.
Disclosure statement:
I receive complimentary books from publishers, publicists, and/or authors, including NetGalley. I am not required to write positive reviews. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255.
This book deals with so, so many challenges women struggle with today—childrearing, familial relationships, marital relationships, and infertility to name a few—but what sets it apart is the way five women come together, share their burdens, and commit to pray and care for each other.
Though this is the first book in a new series, at times I did feel a bit disconnected or in the dark and am assuming it’s because I haven’t (yet) read the Christy and Todd Baby Years books.
However, I didn’t want my special time with Emily, Trevor, Audra, and the Daughters of Eve to end.
I’m not sure which I am clamoring for more in the next book—more time with Emily and her family or a further peek into Tess’s life.
Disclosure statement:
I receive complimentary books from publishers, publicists, and/or authors, including NetGalley. I am not required to write positive reviews. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255.
July 21, 2019
The Christy Miller series was my version of The Babysitters Club. Christy Miller, along with Sierra and the Glenbrooke Series, definitely influenced my romance ideals in adolescence. What young, evangelical girl growing up in the 90s and early 2000s didn’t want a handsome surfer with electric blue eyes to give them carnations and an engraved ID bracelet and love Jesus? 😂
As an almost 32-year-old, I have some different romantic ideals than my teenage self, but I still have a soft-spot for Christy and Todd.
When Chelsea over at Waterbrook / Multnomah asked if I’d be interested in an early copy of Becoming Us, the first in a series that picks up a few years after The Baby Years left off, I couldn’t say no.
Lots of familiar characters like Christy, Todd, Sierra populate this origin story of a group of young women who are navigating infertility, grief, family drama, dating and parenting together.
This books was full of nostalgia for me and I’ve come to appreciate books like this for what they are - Hallmark renderings of reality. Robin Jones Gunn writes about real struggles in this book, but the interactions sometimes seem made-for-tv ish. Did I still enjoy it? Sure did.
As an almost 32-year-old, I have some different romantic ideals than my teenage self, but I still have a soft-spot for Christy and Todd.
When Chelsea over at Waterbrook / Multnomah asked if I’d be interested in an early copy of Becoming Us, the first in a series that picks up a few years after The Baby Years left off, I couldn’t say no.
Lots of familiar characters like Christy, Todd, Sierra populate this origin story of a group of young women who are navigating infertility, grief, family drama, dating and parenting together.
This books was full of nostalgia for me and I’ve come to appreciate books like this for what they are - Hallmark renderings of reality. Robin Jones Gunn writes about real struggles in this book, but the interactions sometimes seem made-for-tv ish. Did I still enjoy it? Sure did.
February 14, 2019
Robin Jones Gunn's Becoming Us is a novel about a woman named Emily, who recently moved from North Carolina to California with her husband and daughter. After years of living in close proximity to her in-laws, Emily's small family is now learning how to be on their own. This story takes you through the highs and lows of Emily's life, much of which is impacted by Emily's newfound friendship with several women in the area.
This story is uplifting and encouraging. I loved how the author addressed many heart issues women face today. Several times, I found myself wiping away tears and thinking, "I feel the exact same way".
Although I did not realize it when I chose to read this book, I read Gunn's Sierra Jensen series as a teenager. I now look forward to re-reading that series and many others by this author!
Thanks to NetGalley for making this book available for an honest review.
This story is uplifting and encouraging. I loved how the author addressed many heart issues women face today. Several times, I found myself wiping away tears and thinking, "I feel the exact same way".
Although I did not realize it when I chose to read this book, I read Gunn's Sierra Jensen series as a teenager. I now look forward to re-reading that series and many others by this author!
Thanks to NetGalley for making this book available for an honest review.
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