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The Girl He Used to Know

4.19  ·  Rating details ·  4,108 ratings  ·  1,703 reviews
Annika Rose likes being alone.
She feels lost in social situations, saying the wrong thing or acting the wrong way - she just can't read people. She prefers the quiet solitude of books or playing chess to being around others.
Apart from Jonathan. She liked being around him, but she hasn't seen him for ten years. Until now that is. And she's not sure he'll want to see her aga
Hardcover, 291 pages
Published April 2nd 2019 by St. Martin's Press
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Alex ✰ Comets and Comments ✰
“Are you going to kiss me?”
He laughed. “I was planning on it, yes.”
“Okay. I’m ready.”


While I enjoyed witnessing this story unfold and truly appreciate how Graves approached certain themes within this book, my true determination to reach the last page was because of the beautiful flower we meet called Annika Rose.


While yes, this is a romance novel filled with all the kisses and warm moments you'd want in one... I'd like to think this was more-so a story of hope. Hope
Oct 23, 2018 rated it really liked it
Sweet read about first love, heartbreak, and second chances.

Annika and Jonathan first met while in college in 1991. Annika, awkward, shy, and socially inept, has trouble connecting people. She is on the spectrum, but it is 1991 and Autism was not a common diagnosis. Annika struggles during her time as an undergraduate. She has one close friend and spends a lot of her time in solitude. When she is partnered up with Jonathan during a chess game, Jonathan sees her in a different light than other
4.5 Stars!!

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I REALLY enjoyed this novel.

Chicago 2001 - Annika is picking up groceries when she hears a familiar voice call her name. Though she only sees the person out of the corner of her eye, she knows it’s him…Jonathan. It’s been ten years since she’s seen that face or heard that voice. She wants to run but a voice inside her head tells her to stay put.

“Don’t run, take responsibility, be yourself”

Annika takes a deep
Cristina | CristiinaReads
Oct 28, 2018 rated it really liked it
Shelves: arc-books
When past mistakes make you into a stronger individual, for the sake of wanting the one true person that makes you better, that's what this compelling romance does to the wonderful characters...

Never have read this author before, so you should all know that I am very sensitive when it comes down to new authors, especially authors in which come from a line of very little known romance that I have heard or read from. But to my surprise, this novel did not upset me in any sort of way. On the cont
Jan 03, 2019 rated it really liked it
my first ARC for 2019 and i honestly couldnt have hoped for a better book! maybe its just because my past week or so has been very fantasy heavy, but i really needed this sweet contemporary romance.

i have never read a ‘second chance at first love’ story that i didnt enjoy, and this is no exception. this story is rather simple. the writing is fairly basic and when it comes to annika and jonathan, there isnt really much that happens in regards to a plot. this is just a story about two people who c
Katie B
*I'm so excited this book is finally out! One of my favorite reads in the last year. Happy publication day! 4/2/19

It is such a wonderful feeling when you read a book and you fall in love with the characters. Sure, many books have enjoyable characters but it's not often you get to meet someone special. I absolutely adored Annika. She shares some similarities with another character in a book I read recently, but while that book was an okay read, this one truly captured my heart.

Back in the early
May 06, 2018 rated it really liked it
4 Undeniably Unique!! Stars

I was beyond thrilled to have received an ARC for this book having loved every single, solitary word of “On The Island.”

Once again, Ms. Graves writing skills transports you to an alternate universe of uniqueness. Honest to goodness, if you are looking for a romance which is a far cry from the usual, this author fills the bill. I couldn’t have been more engrossed if I tried.

We meet two individuals whom I immediately fell in love and connected with. The beautiful Annika,
Susanne  Strong
4 Stars.

If you Believe in Anything, Believe in the Power of Love.

Annika and Jonathan meet at the University’s Chess Club. For Jonathan, there is just something about Annika that stands out. She challenges him in a way that no one else ever has.

Annika has never been comfortable around people. Every situation makes her anxious and being in college pretty much freaks her out. Working at the animal clinic, being at the library and playing chess are the only times she feels normal. When Jonatha
(Bern) Mom to 2 Posh Lil Divas
At its core The Girl He Used to Know is a story of love, acceptance and second chances.

Annika and Jonathan come face to face in a grocery store...after 10 years. The two were college sweethearts and it is instantly apparent that the connection they shared is alive and well even after years of absence. Annika and Jonathan's love story was heartwarming, endearing and unique. I enjoyed watching their relationship unfold through the dual timelines both for the first time in 1991 and the second time
Apr 02, 2019 rated it really liked it
4.5 stars

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"Life isn't easy for anyone. We all have challenges. We all face adversity. It's how we overcome it that makes us who we are.”

I love Tracey Garvis Graves writing, so when I saw she had a new book, I jumped in right away. I didn’t read the synopsis and the cover didn’t really call to me, but I am so glad I picked this one up. I adored this story and these characters so so much.

Annika and Jonathan meet in chess club their last year of college. Annika is a truly gorgeous girl who is
Larry H
Apr 07, 2019 rated it it was amazing
Wow, wow, WOW. This book was amazing.

"It's like everyone around you has a copy of the script of life, but no one gave it to you so you have to go in blind and hope you can muddle your way through. And you'll be wrong most of the time."

Annika Rose is different from other people. She's much more comfortable with solitude, and would much rather be in the company of animals, hiding under her comforter and reading a book, or getting lost in a competitive game of chess than spending time with her fell
Jan 28, 2019 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
The Girl He Used to Know was such a unique, sweet, and uplifting romance story.

I loved Annika and Jonathan!! I wasn't sure what to expect when picking up this book... and it turned out totally different then I envisioned in my mind.

Annika and Jonathan meet in 1991 at a Chess club in college. Annika is stunningly beautiful but due to her autism she has challenges with her confidence in relationships. Annika and Jonathan fall in love but a tragic event occurs between them that causes the relation
Apr 03, 2019 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: 2019, arc
An extraordinary love story brimming with heart, hope , and second chances!

Tracey Garvis Graves has stolen my heart with this evocative and emotional story. I read “On the Island” A few years ago and thoroughly enjoyed it. Going into this book I knew I was going to be treated to brilliantly developd characters and an intriguing storyline. What I was not prepared for was The emotional toll this book would have on my heart! This book both destroyed me and pieced me back together again. I seriou
Dec 09, 2018 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: favorites
The Girl He Used to Know is one of the (if not ”the”) best books I read this year. It’s an instant add to my Favorites shelf and as a story, I savored every second of reading it!

In 2001, Annika is grocery shopping in Chicago when she runs into Jonathan, her ex-boyfriend from college who she hasn’t seen in 10 years. The story shifts between the present in 2001, and their college days in 1991 at the University of Illinois.

In college, Annika is kind of shy though she can be a bit direct in social
Mar 17, 2019 rated it it was amazing
Thank you to St. Martin's Press for providing an advance reader copy via NetGalley.

This was a totally engaging book about a college student named Annika who struggled lifelong with social cues. She was naturally very beautiful and smelled good without ever having to wear perfume. While being born with these physically attractive gifts, life could still become dangerous to someone so vulnerable and easily taken advantage of. Annika had been home-schooled since the seventh grade following a horrib
Diane S ☔
Mar 02, 2019 rated it liked it
Shelves: lor-2019
3.5 My I really needed this one book of the month, desperately needed after reading about the Irish starving in Ireland and climbers dying on K2. Just fell hard for Annika and Ben, surprising myself since I'm not a big romance reader. Though this was a little different as Annika is on the spectrum, and Jonathan loves her for who she is. A little naive as to people's motives, says what she thinks, hates crowds and loud noises, totally without artifice. Jonathan though, gets her and loves what he ...more
Shelby *trains flying monkeys*
When offered this book I was sorta scared to read it. I mean how in the world do you top one of this author's other books? On the Island Or why would you want too? That sucker was perfection. But jump up and down and squeeing happened and I did decide to read it.

Meet Annika. She is shy, awkward and doesn't do well around other people. There is something special about Annika in the fact that you can't help but love her.
She might not hit those social graces just right but who cares anyways?

In col
Astrid - The Bookish Sweet Tooth

TITLE: The Girl He Used To Know
AUTHOR: Tracey Garvis Graves
GENRE: Romance/Women's Fiction
TROPES: Second Chance
RATING: 4.5 Stars

I've been having a hell of a time finding the perfect rating for The Girl He Used To Know - I think this is one of those books that you need to read a second time to get the full experience. You are very much in the dark as to why Annika and Jonathan's relationship didn't survive. You know it wasn't lack of love because that's still there on both accou
Feb 17, 2019 rated it really liked it

Told in alternating timelines, the earlier being set in 1991, and the latter in 2001. At its heart it is a story of love and being accepted as we are.

Annika is a student at the University of Illinois when she meets Jonathan, also a student. It is the first time that Annika has attended school since she was a young girl. Her mother removed her from that environment due to a school-bullying incident, followed by home schooling. Social interaction is difficult for her, it’s easy
Kelly (and the Book Boar)
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3.5 Stars

I actually read this a couple of weeks ago, but then I discovered Instagram and book pictures and now I’m completely and totally obsessed just a teensy little bit into this new hobby so I had to wait for it to stop raining for 40 days and 40 nights in order to go up to the library roof and take this . . . . .

Totally worth it and not psychotically addictive behavior at all.

Before I even begin here, I feel I should tell you al
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*****FIVE++++++ STARS*****
{ARC Generously Provided by Publisher}

I can hardly remember the names of the girls who came before her, and after her, there was only Liz. But I can recall with unbelievable clarity almost everything that happened during the time I spent with Annika.
Probably because no one has ever loved me as fiercely and unconditionally as she did.

”Did you ever fall in love with a girl who was different? Not just from any girl you’d ever dated before, but from most people in general?
Apr 06, 2019 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: favorites
**4.5 stars**Big Scowl**

That ending was jarring which detracted from what had been an exceptional love story, and I need TGG to do a re-write or an additional epilogue.

Meredith B.  (readingwithmere)
Apr 01, 2019 rated it really liked it
4 Darling Stars!

I pry open the flap, and inside are two crisp one-hundred-dollar bills and the words "thank you" written on a piece of paper. There is also a child's drawing. It's of a women with blond hair and she is driving a car. There's a princess crown on her head and a man in the passenger seat. And a duck in the backseat that's blue.

You know when you read the right book and the right time? This is what happened to me with this book. I needed a love story with some depth and this book g
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I think I will post my whole review in a SPOILER thingy. I don't want to spoil anything for you. I think I'm not really spoiling anything, but some people are weird with spoilers.
And it might even be better to read this book without knowing much about it. ☺

(view spoiler)
Carol (Bookaria)
Mar 21, 2019 rated it really liked it
Shelves: 2019, fiction, romance
This is a romantic story about second chances. It is also a story about reconnecting, growing, and hope. My heart was pumping non-stop on the last chapters, really lovely.

One of the main characters is in the spectrum, and we get to hear the story from her point of view. The novel explores the challenges of living with the condition, and the difficulties many still face from society.

The story is narrated from different points of view and in dual timelines (1991 and 2001).  I enjoyed it and recomm
4.5 stars

If you’ve followed me at all, you know by now that I’m going through a book slump and have been DNFing romance books almost every week. And I’m embarrassed to admit, I’ve almost given up on finding something unique when I picked up The Girl He Used to Know.

The Girl He Used to Know was a delightful surprise for me.

Poignant, thoughtful, beautiful, with wonderful characters that were easy to fall in love with. Especially Annika, she was the one that made reading this book an amazing exper
Nilufer Ozmekik
Apr 06, 2019 rated it really liked it
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Annika Rose is an unusual young woman by most standards. Though she’s beautiful, smart and kind, her social awkwardness and struggles keep others at a distance, some even resorting to cruel and rude responses. When she begins college at the University of Illinois, it gets even worse until her roommate befriends her and she joins the chess club. There she meets Jonathan Hoffman, also a chess lover, who sees Annika’s inner beauty and loves the innocence and authenticity behind that social awkwardn ...more
Mar 18, 2019 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This book should come with a warning: 'Highly addictive - Do not start reading unless you have the next few hours of your day free!'

Luckily for me, I did have time to finish this in one sitting as it would have been a torture otherwise. Annika and Jonathan used to date at college and haven't seen each other for 10 years. When they bump into each other at a supermarket, they are reminded of their time together. The chapters from the present time are intertwined with chapters from 10 years ago whe
Debbie Oliphant
Apr 07, 2019 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition

This story blindsided me. I was all in with the storyline and the history and the challenges and saw a different ending in my head but I couldn't make sense of the timeline until the big twist reveals itself and OMG, it is huge and unexpected.

I read this in one sitting and could not put this book down. No spoilers here, read and feel this story.
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Tracey Garvis Graves is the New York Times, Wall Street Journal, and USA Today bestselling author of contemporary fiction. Her debut novel, On the Island, spent 9 weeks on the New York Times bestseller list, has been translated into thirty-one languages, and is in development with MGM and Temple Hill Productions for a feature film. She is also the author of Uncharted, Covet, Every Time I Think of ...more
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