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Becoming a Welcoming Church

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Most church members don't see their churches clearly.

In almost all of Thom S. Rainer's consultations, church members perceive their church to be friendly. But as he surveyed guests, he found that the guests typically saw church members as unfriendly. The perception chasm existed because the members were indeed friendly . . . to one another. 

The guests felt like they crash
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Hardcover, 128 pages
Published March 1st 2018 by B Books
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Erendira
May 22, 2018 rated it really liked it
Many churches are unwelcoming. It’s a myth to perceive that all churches are friendly when indeed they are not. By unwelcoming, I don’t mean that a church keeps their doors shut, or that people are mean and unfriendly. The members of a church may be friendly—but to each other, not to outsiders.

There is little to argue here. We can all recall moments when we’ve felt uncomfortable, uninvited, or even outcast from a certain group or place, a community or congregation. We can blame it on almost anyt
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Jimmy Reagan
May 28, 2018 rated it it was amazing
Thom Rainer has become the guru of all things local church. This book, another of the small, attractive, hardback volumes published by B&H Publishing that he has turned out over the last few years, teaches us how to become a welcoming church. It’s not so much a book of suggestions as one of necessity because all of its recommendations are drawn from real data from church visitors.

Rainer explains that visitors often don’t rate our friendliness, facilities, or services in the way we do. Our fr
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Joshua Sparkman
Aug 01, 2018 rated it really liked it
Solid, practical tips for making sure your church is welcoming to visitors. Rainer does a nice job of connecting the practical nature of his suggestions to biblical principles of hospitality and the Great Commission.
Johnny
Apr 16, 2018 rated it it was amazing
You never get a second chance to make a first impression. That is something that I have personally reminded my first impressions team at the church that I pastor. That statement and more like it were reinforced to me in Thom S. Rainer’s book Becoming a Welcoming Church, published by B&H.
In this book Rainer challenges us to think through whether or not we are as welcoming as we think that we truly are. When we take an honest look into the mirror, we find that when we think that we are friendl
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Bob Priest
Apr 21, 2018 rated it it was amazing
Early in my ministry I was used to hearing churches say we are a friendly church. And this was partly true. They were very friendly to each other. But when I asked them what if we ask people who are not part of our church if we are friendly what would they say, especially the kids we shooed away from the porch for loitering. Were we that friendly. In this book Rainer challenges us to look at church hospitality with new eyes and as a gospel issue.

This small book is big on solid information and a
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J.H. Kester
Apr 27, 2018 rated it really liked it
At just 100 pages, Becoming a Welcoming Church by Thom S. Rainer is a lean, practical primer on Sunday-morning hospitality basics.

Becoming a Welcoming Church centers on two directives for the reader:

1. Even if you feel welcome at your church, do not assume that everyone else does.
2. Invest time and energy in learning what your church's guests think of your church.

"By the way, when we interviewed members of this church, they consistently proclaimed a similar message: Our church is very friendly!
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Virginia Garrett
Apr 05, 2018 rated it it was amazing
If you regularly attend church, and it's habitually the same church, chances are you find your fellowship to be well, friendly and welcoming. 

It's probably a church you felt instantly at home in when you walked in the door for the first time, ergo, you are a welcoming and friendly church. 

If you're in leadership at your church, have you noticed that many who visit your church never return? Are you convinced the problem is elsewhere? Maybe you blame it on the GenZers. Or think everyone is vacatin
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Anthony Stephens
Apr 07, 2018 rated it it was amazing
I have really appreciated the books that Thom Rainer has put out.  It is easy to see that he has a big heart for the local church and helping it out as much as possible.  Becoming a Welcoming Church is similar in many ways to recent books that Rainer has written in the recent past.  It is not an overbearing read.  This small book is only 6 chapters written over 100 pages.  I was able to read the entire book in two sittings.  The content is straight to the point and does not use pointless filler ...more
Chris Wilson
Mar 29, 2018 rated it really liked it
Another, why I'm surprised at this point, stellar offering from Dr. Rainer. It's imperative that church staff and leadership never lose sight of how the church and worship service are viewed through the eyes of the guests. I really enjoyed that Rainer emphasizes that we can't be dismissive of these things (signage, lighting, parking, website, etc.) because they aren't primary to the gospel. Rather they are to be viewed and treated as those things which provide avenues for people to hear the gosp ...more
Chris
Jul 19, 2018 rated it really liked it
Every single Christian Church should have one of these books in their office and review the contents regularly.

I loved this book. It was simple, very short, and clearly the fruit of years of experience. Thom Rainer makes a very compelling argument against all the ways that we unintentionally tell our visitors "You're not welcome here" and gives a collection of practical steps to become a welcoming and hospitable Church; key focus is on signage, greeters, cleanliness, parking lot, and especially
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Hopson
Mar 17, 2018 rated it liked it
There’s nothing revolutionary in this book. In fact, most of what Rainer has written is available with largely the same content on his blog or in other online resources. That said, what Rainer does offer is a short, simple, easy-to-read book(let) on how to assess your church’s friendliness and grow towards change. While the book has some flaws, I do think it offers some practical nuggets of truth that many church members would do well to hear. Most churches think they’re friendly. And many times ...more
Ben
May 29, 2018 rated it it was amazing
“Is your church truly a welcoming church? The answer to that question has eternal implications.”

This book is convicting. It is something that every ministry leader and pastor should make the time to read. Then, having read it, have a series of ministry and staff meetings to address next steps. There are certainly going to be things from this book you will need to take action on!

Thom Rainer masterfully, and gently but firmly, points out that our churches are usually not as friendly as we think. H
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Bobby Oliveri
Apr 25, 2018 rated it liked it
As a pastor, I’m obviously concerned with the impression our church makes on first time guests and visitors. This book helps illuminate issues most central to retaining visitors. To that extent, it succeeds, and is an insightful little book for assessment value.

Outside of this, however, it does little in the way of reconciling it’s suggestions with the larger role of worship and the gathered body of Christ. Too pragmatic, superficial, and unbalanced. But if you are willing to read it as a quick
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Karl Dumas
Mar 09, 2018 rated it it was amazing
Thom Rainer has done it again. This book is short, concise, to the point, and makes you stop and think about how your church comes across to people outside your church. He makes the point that most churches see themselves as a friendly church, with the problem being that they're very friendly to their friends, but all too often there's no room in the friendship circle for a newcomer.
In this book, which can be read in about an hour, Rainer points out some things that we of the local church shoul
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Raphael Mnkandhla
Crucial read for churches

All churches desire to be known as welcoming, but lack well thought out strategies to get them there. Rainer in this little book presents both a compelling argument on why being a welcoming church is a gospel issue and gives implementable insights on how churches can begin cultivating this core competency. This book is not only for the pastas but for anyone who is interested in spearheading a welcoming and inviting culture.
Robert Reed
Apr 19, 2018 rated it really liked it
Another quality book by Rainer. If you are in church leadership, this is a must-read. If you are a church member with a desire to make your church more inviting for guests, I would highly recommend it. Rainer helps the reader recognize that being hospitable and welcoming is not just a church growth issue... it’s a gospel issue.
The Barocio's
Apr 05, 2018 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Insightful & Eye Opening

This book is a great resource for church leaders. I found it to be challenging, insightful and thought provoking. It opened my eyes to new perspectives, realities, as well as, began the personal and professional dialogue of how I can lead my ministry in a way where we become a far more welcoming church.
Luke Thomas
Simple easy church book based on Rainer’s surveys. Some positive points that were made. 1. The church website needs to be hospitable. 2. Having roaming greeters is a huge plus to visitor experience. 3. Avoid holy huddles

I am still unsure what to do when church growth is encouraged by surveys and visitor retention. These are not at the heart of seeking the lost. God is seeking the loss. One believer whom lives out that principle I believe to be better that effective greeters and websites. But the
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Jon Stallings
Mar 16, 2018 rated it really liked it
In less than 100 pages Thom Rainer condenses his knowledge as a former pastor and church consultant on how to create a welcoming church without ever losing and outreach priority. Should be required reading for all church leadership.
Justin Offutt
Oct 12, 2018 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
What a great and convicting book. All of these things Thom points out should be basic things a church should already be doing, how many of these basics we have overlooked. It's time to make the effort to be hospitable for the gospel of Christ.
Phil
May 09, 2018 rated it it was amazing
This is an extremely easy, quick read. It has lots of valuable information for church leaders on how to welcome guests better. I would highly recommend this book.
James Turnes
Oct 13, 2018 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
A must read!

Such great insights from Rainer. Every church leader and pastor needs to read this book. Great reminder of what we are called to be.
Daniel
Jul 02, 2018 rated it it was amazing
Excellent book. Gave me a lot to think about for how our church is experienced from the guest's point of view as well as why that matters.
We've got some work to do at Covenant, I think.
James W. Gillespie
Eye opening thoughts on how churches who think they are friendly really are not. Practical advice to show Biblical hospitality :)
Brad Coleman
Jul 05, 2018 rated it it was amazing
Simple, yet vital!
Kristy Kravchenko
Jun 03, 2018 rated it it was amazing
Short, sweet, straight to the point, good real-life examples.
Darren Lewis
Feb 23, 2018 rated it it was amazing
Another outstanding and practical book for every church member.
Steven Kopp
May 30, 2018 rated it it was amazing
Simple and practical.
Mandy
Jul 28, 2018 rated it it was amazing
Usually when I pick up a non-fiction book to read, it takes me a lot of time to read it. Becoming a Welcoming Church was a very quick read and had a lot of good information. Once I started reading it, I didn’t want to put it down. Thom Rainer does a great job of giving you helpful information and also sharing real life stories of what works and what doesn’t. I feel like this book makes me better equipped in knowing how to make my church more welcoming and how I personally can become a more welco ...more
Sarah Bowler
Mar 30, 2018 rated it really liked it
Thom S. Rainer writes "Becoming a Welcoming Church" (along with its companion We Want You Here) based off decades of experience in church consulting and ministry in the hopes that churches will indeed become more welcoming in a way that unleashes “gospel transformation.”

One of the biggest barriers to welcoming people is quite simply that church members already think they are friendly to visitors.

Rainer learned not to ask church members if their church was friendly, because “their biases tell t
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Thom Rainer is the president and CEO of LifeWay Christian Resources. Prior to LifeWay, he served at The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary for twelve years where he was the founding dean of the Billy Graham School of Missions and Evangelism. He is a 1977 graduate of the University of Alabama and earned his Master of Divinity and Ph.D. degrees from The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary.

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“Seven out of ten guests will go to a church website as a determinative factor in where they will choose to visit.” 1 likes
“In other words, if you aren’t focusing resources and time on your church website, you are thumbing your nose at the Great Commission. And that’s not an overstatement. A church with a lousy website is committing the sin of Great Commission negligence.” 0 likes
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