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How to Break Up with Your Phone: The 30-Day Plan to Take Back Your Life

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Packed with tested strategies and practical tips, this book is the essential, life-changing guide for everyone who owns a smartphone.

Is your phone the first thing you reach for in the morning and the last thing you touch before bed? Do you frequently pick it up "just to check," only to look up forty-five minutes later wondering where the time has gone? Do you say you wan
Paperback, 184 pages
Published February 13th 2018 by Ten Speed Press
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Elisa The book tends to advocate for moderate or intentional usage (only using when you want to use it for things you enjoy). It does have some tips near th…moreThe book tends to advocate for moderate or intentional usage (only using when you want to use it for things you enjoy). It does have some tips near the end if you are looking to stop using a smartphone (like buying a dumb phone, using your simcard in an older phone, etc).(less)

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Mar 25, 2018 added it
My boyfriend picked this up and my curiosity had me flipping through it when we got home from the bookshop. After reading the introduction I ended up just... reading the entire thing, before reading even any of the books I had bought myself!

I really enjoyed this. It's broken into two sections: first, the author tries to scare you (on purpose!) with statistics, studies, and information about the damaging effects of cellphone usage, and secondly, she shows you how to change your relationships with
May 31, 2018 rated it it was amazing
Feeling bored or anxious? Check your email. Nothing there? Check social media. Not satisfied? Check a different social media account. And then maybe another one. Like a couple posts. Follow some new people. Check to see if those people followed you back. Maybe go look at your email again, just in case.

Sound familiar?

As soon as I saw this book I knew I had to grab it. I’ve known for quite some time that my phone takes too much attention away from my life, but getting to a healthy balance has
May 23, 2020 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
La verdad es que esperaba encontrarme con un libro superfluo y sin ningún tipo de utilidad. Está claro que me equivoqué. Catherine Price es una escritora y divulgadora científica que sabe hacer muy bien su trabajo, no por nada ha sido premiada en repetidas ocasiones y ha aparecido en medios importantes. Es un libro lleno de herramientas, recursos, bibliografía, referencias y notas. ¡Genial! Si crees que pasas demasiado tiempo con el móvil, este es tu libro.
Jan 29, 2018 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: arcs
So, I put the suspense thrillers down for a moment and picked up a book on a topic that I feel many of us need to consider. One of my resolutions this year is to do less—especially when it comes to things that offer negative contributions to my life. One of those things is, you guessed it, screen time. Truth be told, our wireless devices have been linked not only to mental health problems, but physical as well. Given this fact, a personal growth book such as this is something of great value to o ...more
Mar 20, 2018 rated it really liked it
The most helpful tips:

1- Delete all social media apps from your smartphone. Use social media only from the browser.
2- Cut your notifications to minimum. Allow them only for calls, texts, and messaging apps.
3- Phast: take scheduled breaks from your phone. Turn it off completely for a specified period of time.

I did tip number 1 back in March 2017 for a number of apps, and it was awesome. Since then, I've only opened Facebook and other social media from the browser, whenever I wanted to.

Oct 05, 2020 rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: منوع
ميزة الكتاب أمرين:
1- كونه تجربة شخصية للمؤلفة ( فلم يكن تنظيراً بقدر ما هو عرض شخصي )
2- فيه خطوات عملية مفيدة
الكتاب ينقسم إلى قسمين رئيسيين؛ الأول نظري تحكي فيه المؤلفة عن الآثار المدمرة للإدمان وإدمان الشبكات بشكل خاص ( الجوال )
والقسم الثاني خطوات عملية في 30 يوم.
جرّبت بعض النصائح وكانت مفيدة فعلاً.
لميس محمد
كتاب مفيد جداً جداً و به أفكار و مقترحات مهمه لابد الإطلاع عليها لأهميتها، و يجاوب على أسئله قد لا نكون قد فكرنا أن نطرحها على أنفسنا.
الكتاب واقعي جداً يصف ما نواجهه في حياتنا فعلاً.

و من أهم أفكار الكتاب و أبرزها فكرة أن الأجهزه الذكيه صُنعت لكي ندمن عليها.
و هذا فعلاً ما نلاحظه من خلال قضاء معظم أوقاتنا على تلك الهواتف الذكيه، و تفقد هواتفنا في كل حال من أحوالنا.

يطرح الكتاب أسئله و يجيب عليها في آنٍ واحد و أبرز الأسئله ، مثل:
مالذي يدفعك لتفقد هاتفك في ساعةٍ واحده عدة مرات و في اليوم أكثر من مر
Mar 27, 2018 rated it it was amazing
This book has legitimately changed my life.

Does that sound dramatic? Sure. But the impact that my phone (and technology in general) came to a scary head a few months ago, and made me realize that I needed to step back in a major way. This book is a practical guide to making the switch to a less digitally-obsessed life, filled with tips, steps, and tons of information about the impact that the internet and smart phones are designed to have on us (spoiler alert: it's menacing). I loved it, I want
Nov 24, 2018 rated it it was amazing
It's a misnomer: you're not breaking up just making sure that you are in control. The phone is a tool. It's to be used not consumed.

They call us the "user" as in drug users....

Do you walk down the street looking into your phone?

The phone brings you into the digital world but then you are missing the real world. With mindfulness we can be aware and bring ourselves back to the life we want.

I loved this handy guide filled with tips and research. My favorite part- that actually reading a book on p
Hanin Reads
Nov 11, 2018 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: audio-books
Well I ended up listening to the audiobook in two days. I really enjoyed it. Though the informations aren’t new to me, because I know what I suppose to do, to reduce my phone usage DAH, but still it’s different when you listen to it from other people, and with all these terrifying statistics. I was like Uoha!
I don’t need to follow the tips in the book, but it’s a good one to remind me that I don’t need my phone and I can live without it. CALL ME WERIDO BUT I DID THIS BEFORE AND I SURVIVED.
One m
Yara Yu
اجد أني أمر بنفس المراحل عند قراءة أي كتاب تنمية بشرية أو تطوير الذات : في البداية يبدأ حماسي عند الاعجاب بعنوان الكتاب وفكرته ثم أبدا في قراءته وأشعر بالاعجاب في أول صفحاته ثم يأتي الملل .. أحاول استعادة حماسي بقراءة المزيد من الصفحات ولكن الملل يزيد .. اتوقف عن القراءة ولا أستطع اكماله أو تقييم الكتاب حتي ثم اعلن لنفسي في النهاية: نعم فشلت مرة أخري في قراءة كتاب آخر في هذا النوع من الأدب
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This book made me realize a lot about my phone usage! I am thankful I read this book because this was important knowledge not only for me but for my children in this electronic age we live in! I received a copy of this book via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review. To find this review and others please visit
Mar 15, 2018 rated it really liked it
"In the first experiment, volunteers received a mild electric shock, and then were asked whether the experience was unpleasant enough that they would pay to avoid being shocked again.The researchers took the forty-two people who’d said that they would pay to avoid another shock and left them alone in undecorated rooms, without access to the internet or any other form of distraction, and instructed them to entertain themselves with their thoughts for fifteen minutes. They also told the participan ...more
Apr 15, 2019 rated it liked it
Narodski rečeno, autorka je otkrila rupu na saksiji.
Okej, da. Bez prestanka smo na mobilnim telefonima, možda nam i treba odmor. Ali napisati celu knjigu o tome i davati savete koji se... podrazumevaju? Nisam baš sigurna.
Jedino što Ameri znaju da uzmu ljudima pare, pa umeju da napišu self help knjigu o bilo čemu i to će se prodavati.
Ali ne hejtujem celu ideju o ovome. Ovde zapravo ima kul ideja koje vredi istražiti za razliku od knjige "Digitalni minimalizam" koju sam skoro isto pročitala.
Samo o
Hanan Kamal
Mar 21, 2020 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
~ رسالة مفتوحة إلى هاتفي ~
عزيزي الهاتف
ما زلت أتذكر أول مرة التقينا فيها ، كنت جهازًا جديدًا باهظ الثمن مُتاحًا فقط عن طريق شركة المحمول ، وكنت شخصًا أستطيع سرد أرقام هواتف أقرب أصدقائي من الذاكرة . عندما طُرحت في الأسواق ، أعترف أن شاشتك اللمسية أثارت انتباهي .إلا أنني كنت أكثر انشغالاً بمحاولة كتابة رسالة نصية على هاتفي القابل للطي من أن أبدأ شيئًا جديدًا .
ثم حملتك في يدي ، وبدأت الأمور تسير بسرعة ، لم يكن قد مضى وقت طويل حتى كنا نفعل كل شيء معًا : نذهب في تمشيات ونتناول الغذاء مع الأصدقاء ،
Mar 08, 2018 rated it really liked it
I'm not usually drawn to self-help books and when the rare one catches my eye I can't help but approach it skeptically. But this little book is surprisingly holistic in its approach, balancing practical phone tips and tools with deeper evaluations about what deserves your attention. The style is down to earth, careful not to demonize all smartphone usage, and realistic about what can be expected as you work through your own established goals.

My phone habits have already drastically changed for
Oct 04, 2020 rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: 2020
انا من احد الاشخاص الذين ينزعجون عندما يتفقد صديقه هاتفه في منتصف المحادثة او عندما يكون مشغول بالهاتف طوال الطريق والمرعب اكثر وهو يقود السيارة وانا بجانبه كراكب ..

لكن من ناحية تعاملي مع هاتفي " وانا أقدّر هاتفي، وأشعر بالامتنان على كل ما يتيح لي القيام به " تم الغاء جميع الاشعارات الا التي تكون مهمه ولها علاقة بالعائلة او العمل وكل نهاية اسبوع على الساعه 12:00 منتصف الليل اقوم بمسح جميع المحادثات الغير مهمه وجميع الرسائل البريد وال SMS وبنفس الوقت انسخ المهم منها واضعه بالملاحظات في حالت احتجت
مريم المنصوري
"بوجود الهواتف ووسائط التواصل الاجتماعي، يتحدث الناس عن كيف أنها تصنع تواصلاً أكبر. لكن عندما نكون على هواتفنا نكون وحيدين فعلياً". ...more
Feb 16, 2018 rated it it was amazing
I told my phone "I love you, but I'm not in love with you." ...more
This this this this this this. THIS. Doing all the things. Making all the changes. To what do I want to pay attention? NOT. MY. DAMN. PHONE. Will edit review to add favorite takeaways later.
Sleepless Dreamer
Feb 04, 2020 rated it really liked it
If I read this on my phone, does it count as cheating?

I picked this book up because I've been finding myself turning to my phone way too much while studying. It's not who I used to be and I really feel like it has a negative impact. And genuinely, I'm scared for my generation because truly, phones are amazing and I would never speak against their contribution to society but also, it feels like we're being controlled by these tech masterminds.

Like, I realized a while ago that the reason why I've
Sara Dahabović
I think we all used Screen time apps and were shocked by the time we spend on our phones.

In this book, Catherine Price gives some advice on how to break with your phone.
1- Disable all the notifications that you don't REALLY care about.
2- Your home screen should only include your most important apps like your email.
3- Before you sleep, put your phone outside your room and always have a book next to your bed instead, also you might want to invest in an alarm clock and that way you don't have the
Lady Susan
4.5 stars. I broke up with my phone before I was done with the introduction. I didn't follow the 30 day plan. I just kind of went cold turkey as I knew there was an issue and I just needed good science to back it up. There are some things I am still figuring out: I like waking up to music vs. an alarm so the phone is still near the bed. I don't have a watch, so I use my phone as one. And the big one: I am constantly listening to audiobook/podcasts which means that my phone needs to be close enou ...more
Elizabeth A
Jul 07, 2019 rated it liked it
Shelves: 2019, non-fiction
1 in 10 Americans look at their phone while having sex? What the hell is going on out there?!

This is a slim book that explores - well, what the title says. I've been interested in the research on how technology and social media is changing our species, so picked this up as part of that ongoing reading project.

A couple of years ago I realized that I did not like how I felt after spending time on social media apps, and deleted much of the stuff that was creating noise in my life. The positive res
Roni Loren
May 12, 2018 added it
Shelves: non-fiction
A quick read with a solid, actionable plan. If you don’t want to read all the science and psychology books on this topic, which are fascinating but much more dense with research, this is a succinct summary that will give you what you need to get started on breaking the phone habit.
Haha, I realize the irony of posting about this book on an app. But this is actually not about not using your phone at all, but about setting boundaries and establishing a healthy relationship with your phone. While I didn't follow the whole 30 day breakup routine she outlines, I did do some of the things she suggested, taking things with a grain of salt. Price has a background in mindfulness and meditation which is also part of the approach. ...more
Anina Partanen
Sarjassamme kirjoja, jotka (lähes) jokaisen olisi syytä lukea.

"Jos kuulut suureen enemmistöön, puhelimesi on tälläkin hetkellä käden ulottuvilla, ja kun se vain mainitaankin, sinun alkaa tehdä mieli tarkistaa siitä jotakin. Uutiset ehkä. Tai pikaviestit. Sähköposti. Sääennuste. Tai oikeastaan ihan mitä vaan.

Anna mennä, tarkista vain. Palaa sitten lukemaan tätä ja pane merkille, miltä sinusta tuntuu. Onko olosi tyyni? Keskittynyt? Läsnä oleva? Tyytyväinen? Vai harhaileeko mielesi levottomana, ep
mindful.librarian ☀️
Mar 05, 2019 rated it it was amazing
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Review to come!
Sep 30, 2020 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
فور ما سمعت بالكتاب بدأت بقراءته لأنها مشكلة اخذت تفكيري منذ مدة ولكن ليس لدي خطة مفصلة وواضحة للتخلص من إدماني للجوال.
الكتاب مقسم لجزئين القسم الأول مثل القرصة المؤلمة لتنبيهنا على ما يحدث في حياتنا مع استخدامنا اللاواعي للهاتف والقسم الثاني خطة ٣٠ يومًا افكار واقتراحات واسئلة تساعدك في الرحلة لتنظم استخدامك للهاتف ووجدتها مفيدة جدًا مع عدم إلتزامي بالثلاثين يوم عملت بالخطة بما وجدته مريحًا لي.
أوصي بالكتاب للجميع بدون إستثناء لأننا ننسى انفسنا ونذوب في عالم التكنولوجيا المتسارع ولا نتوقف كثيرًا
Lindsay Nixon
Mar 27, 2019 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
3 years ago I found out I was Jewish and started practicing Sabbath (24-hours without electronics).

I noticed the effect my phone was having on me right away and made more changes, such practicing sabbath everyday at 7/8pm, removing all notifications (except calendar appointments), deleting all of my social media apps off my phone (except for 2 I needed for work, which I hid deep in a folder called "work" and goodreads). This helped tremendously. (How else do you think I read 250 books a year ;)
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Catherine Price is passionate about learning and experiencing new things, understanding first principles, and using her background as a science journalist to help people question their assumptions and make positive changes in their lives.

Her journalistic work has appeared in publications including The Best American Science Writing, The New York Times, Popular Science, O, The Oprah Magazine, The L

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