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Learning to Counsel: How to Develop the Skills, Insight and Knowledge to Counsel Others
Relevant to a range of people, in the workplace and home, counselling skills can improve the quality of relationships in general and provide insight into the counselling process. This guide explains counselling in jargon-free English.
320 pages, Paperback
First published January 1, 2002
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December 15, 2024
where have you been all of my counselling life
Absolute gem of a book. So informative, easy to engage and understand. Great for students and experienced counsellors as a reminder. Loved this book. Highly recommended
Absolute gem of a book. So informative, easy to engage and understand. Great for students and experienced counsellors as a reminder. Loved this book. Highly recommended
May 20, 2021
Excellent overview and introduction to what fundamental skills are needed for a counsellor or a psychotherapist.
March 15, 2026
Can I trust you with my pain?
To treat it with kindness and respect?
To listen to it, So I can speak the unspoken?
Will you help me catch the tears As the floodgates open?
Swim with me into the unknown?
Save me from drowning in my sorrow?
If I entrust you with my grief, will you help me take care of it?
Console it? Soothe it? Make it feel safe?
Will you accept is as a gift to be protected?
If I take the risk and end the drought, will you leave me alone and sodden after the storm?
Will you reach for your umbrella, and just walk away?
I feel my need and I fear it as I fear all that I do not understand, yet I ask you to be with me, for I am tired of walking alone.
To treat it with kindness and respect?
To listen to it, So I can speak the unspoken?
Will you help me catch the tears As the floodgates open?
Swim with me into the unknown?
Save me from drowning in my sorrow?
If I entrust you with my grief, will you help me take care of it?
Console it? Soothe it? Make it feel safe?
Will you accept is as a gift to be protected?
If I take the risk and end the drought, will you leave me alone and sodden after the storm?
Will you reach for your umbrella, and just walk away?
I feel my need and I fear it as I fear all that I do not understand, yet I ask you to be with me, for I am tired of walking alone.
December 26, 2023
Straightforward and concise. I skimmed the second half of the text. The examples were useful and will be useful for review. I might revisit the exercises if I have time in the future, as some of them looked interesting.
The case studies offered professional insight. More would have been helpful.
The case studies offered professional insight. More would have been helpful.
December 29, 2025
This was a really helpful read and offered some great insights into counselling training. The sample contracts and assessment forms are particularly useful. Loved this quote: "your life and the lives of those you touch will be the richer for all the hard work you have put in to get to where you are."
March 15, 2022
Very interesting!
March 8, 2023
Informative ( didn't finish it tho )
November 23, 2012
I love this book, very easy to use, step by step insight in counselling great read for a trainee counsellors too!
November 29, 2015
Well written book which covers skills and practice for certificate level in Counselling skills.
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