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Hive
"This is not just a book, it's a MOVEMENT. Lisa did not choose to write Hive, Hive chose her." --Kute Blackson, transformational teacher and bestselling author of You.Are.The.One.
Four generations live under one roof in Columbus, Ohio, and they've figure out to make it work: dividing responsibilities and chores, re-designing some physical spaces for privacy, and reconfiguring others into common areas for all to gather and enjoy living together.
This tale of heartache, heroism, and hope is one family's multi generational social experiment, which encompasses kids in their teens, parents in their forties, grandparents in their seventies, and a ninety-plus year-old great-grandmother. Together, as they navigate the joys and challenges that come with aging in America, they're also answering the question, "How does family help you thrive at home when you're old?" An Alzheimer's/dementia diagnosis adds a layer of complexity, yet the family resolves to keep their eldest at home for as long as she's happy, safe and engaged in life. The younger generation learns much from their elders, and the elders from their children. While mastering the use of technology and new family systems, they're also mastering the use of humor, tolerance, and patience. Ultimately, that's what makes this four-generation experiment a success.
Practical design advice and clear-eyed strategies are mixed with personal tips and observations, making it easy to see how anyone can transform their home in into their own multi-generational living situation. Her stories are honest, both funny and poignant. The family's fiascos are counterbalanced by their many successes, the greatest one being that as individuals and as a family, they continue to thrive.
Four generations live under one roof in Columbus, Ohio, and they've figure out to make it work: dividing responsibilities and chores, re-designing some physical spaces for privacy, and reconfiguring others into common areas for all to gather and enjoy living together.
This tale of heartache, heroism, and hope is one family's multi generational social experiment, which encompasses kids in their teens, parents in their forties, grandparents in their seventies, and a ninety-plus year-old great-grandmother. Together, as they navigate the joys and challenges that come with aging in America, they're also answering the question, "How does family help you thrive at home when you're old?" An Alzheimer's/dementia diagnosis adds a layer of complexity, yet the family resolves to keep their eldest at home for as long as she's happy, safe and engaged in life. The younger generation learns much from their elders, and the elders from their children. While mastering the use of technology and new family systems, they're also mastering the use of humor, tolerance, and patience. Ultimately, that's what makes this four-generation experiment a success.
Practical design advice and clear-eyed strategies are mixed with personal tips and observations, making it easy to see how anyone can transform their home in into their own multi-generational living situation. Her stories are honest, both funny and poignant. The family's fiascos are counterbalanced by their many successes, the greatest one being that as individuals and as a family, they continue to thrive.
208 pages, Paperback
Published April 27, 2017
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May 20, 2019
This is a thought-provoking book. I've watched my mother deteriorate over the years living with dementia under 24 hour care, I've walked with men living in a continuing care retirement community who deal with death of nearby residents every week, I've taken a class in life care community alternatives, I'm visiting my children and grandchild on the other coast twice a year, and I'm not feeling good about any of these activities. The author makes a good case for making multigenerational living work, although I suspect that day-to-day it's more difficult than the story she tells.
April 15, 2019
The movement to multi-generational living is key to HIVE. It is both information and inspiration that helps families and communities thrive. Lisa Cini has been a guest on the 5 Minute Success podcast where she shared Secrets of a Senior Design Expert Revealed. She shares more insights in Hive. Karen Briscoe, author and podcast host 5 Minute Success
May 23, 2017
A must read for baby boomers
This book provides the "how to" live multi-generationally and tips for caring for dementia patients in the home environment with charm, humor and honesty.
This book provides the "how to" live multi-generationally and tips for caring for dementia patients in the home environment with charm, humor and honesty.
December 16, 2017
Found some helpful tips for getting a home ready for multi-gen household.
June 10, 2018
Wonderful book for multi-generational families who love & care for each other!!! Thank you so much for sharing your experience!
May 15, 2019
Useful and easy to read.
September 27, 2019
This was an interesting book but was much more about how to live with someone with dementia than just multigenerational living.
February 2, 2021
A great idea. Takes willing hearts.
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