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The Yes Brain: How to Cultivate Courage, Curiosity, and Resilience in Your Child

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From the authors of The Whole-Brain Child and No-Drama Discipline, an indispensable guide to unlocking your child's innate capacity for resilience, compassion, and creativity.

When facing contentious issues such as screen time, food choices, and bedtime, children often act out or shut down, responding with reactivity instead of receptivity. This is what New York Times bestselliand
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Hardcover, 208 pages
Published January 9th 2018 by Bantam
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Heather
Oct 30, 2017 rated it really liked it
Reading parenting books, for me, doesn’t mean taking every bit of advice and utilizing it exactly how it’s presented. I use parenting books as resources for improvement. I take what I’ve learned and apply it in a way that works for my kid and my family dynamic.

The authors of this book don’t shove their agenda down your throat. They offer suggestions on how and what to improve and let you do with that what you will. I didn’t feel manipulated or judged in any way. It was inclusive text
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Yelda Basar Moers
This is one of the best parenting books I have ever read and strongly encourage all parents to get it! Wholly intelligent, insightful and helpful, while engaging and easy to read, it’s a rare find! Review to come!
Shelly
Jan 09, 2018 rated it really liked it
Shelves: netgalley
The Yes Brain: How to Cultivate Courage, Curiosity, and Resilience in Your Child is an educative book to help adults foster secure, competent and confident kids in the 21st century. Who doesn’t want the best for their children? The best we can give them, the authors postulate, is to instill courage, positivity and resilience to empower them to create a fulfilling life. However, constant digital distractions and hectic schedules may very well be impeding that which we want most for our children…. ...more
Llael
May 05, 2018 rated it liked it
Shelves: parenting
This book's aim seems to basically be how the parenting strategies discussed in more length in The Whole Brain Child and No-Drama Discipline also foster courage, resilience, and empathy. Which is all fine and well, but as someone who has read both of those books, this one didn't add a lot. Moreover, it has the same drawbacks as their other books - a repetitive writing style that trips over their own made-up awkward jargon, and is heavy on grand statements with few practical examples or dialogues ...more
Audrey Monke
Nov 27, 2017 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: parenting, psychology
This book is so good ... and not just as a “parenting” book. It’s a book about all of us and what we need to thrive in life — a balanced life spent mostly in our “green zone,” resilience, insight about ourselves and our emotions, and empathy. I appreciate Siegel and Bryson’s suggestions for parenting our kids into their Yes Brains, but the insights and ideas about myself are equally powerful. This quick read has shot to the top of my “must reads” for parents. Even if you’re not a parent, you can ...more
Nicole Sterling
Oct 27, 2017 rated it really liked it
I was really torn between giving this book 3 stars and 4 stars, but I decided to round up. I haven't really read any other parenting books, so I don't have anything to compare this one to, but I feel like I came away from this reading with some new ideas to try with my son. The book is all about trying to help your child develop his/her "Yes Brain," which consists of a brain that is balanced, resilient, insightful, and empathic. According to the authors, the Yes Brain is "a neurological state th ...more
Charlie
Mar 27, 2018 rated it it was ok
Shelves: self-development
Couldn’t understand how this book could be touted as scientific and evidence based, without a single cited piece of evidence? There’s nothing there that the authors show that is backed up by any science or research of any kind.

That being said, it’s difficult to take the material for much worth other than what the authors are proposing as fact. And for that, The Whole Brain Child is enough and covers what they attempt here just fine.
Carrie Lynn
Jul 10, 2018 rated it liked it
I really liked the “zones” visual and that they gave you words you could use to explain the principles to kids. Other than that it was a lot of stuff I already knew (“playing is good for children!”) and references to their other books.
Melissa Espiritu
Mar 25, 2019 rated it it was amazing
I’m rushing to write this review because my son’s karate class is about to end. To that point, after finishing this book, I have to question if I am already over scheduling my kid with sports and other enrichment activities.

I’ve read most of Siegel and Bryson’s collaborations so far. I really appreciate all of them for different reasons. No-Drama Discipline gives the most practical advice for how to discipline your child. And the Whole Brain Child feels like it sets the framework for Siegel and
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Steph
Oct 21, 2018 rated it liked it
I’m a big fan of Dan but felt that after reading his other parenting books, there wasn’t quite enough here that was new. It’s a new frame but most of the concepts are covered in the Whole Brain Child which also has a broader range of practical strategies and examples.

That said, as a stand-alone parenting it’s interesting, practical, useful and evidence based so I would recommend it, particularly for parents of primary-school aged kids.
Michael Huang
This is a book about how to understand the plasticity of the human brain — especially that of the children’s — and practical tips of dealing with different situations more appropriately. If you follow the tips, you can help the four aspects of a positive mindset termed the yes brain: balance, resilience, insight, and empathy.

Balance: it’s important to remember that kids lose control for one simple reason: their brains aren’t developed enough. They don’t like being out of control. Hel
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Stephen Stilwell
Jun 24, 2019 rated it really liked it
Parents want all the good things in life for their kids, like health, wealth, and happiness. In today’s fast-paced world, though, it can be a little unclear how to get those. The old routes of college and marriage don’t seem to be working as well as in previous years. What’s a parent to do? How can we point kids in the right direction when we don’t know where to go ourselves? People of all ages can best cope with life when they remain open to its challenges and opportunities. We need to have a “ ...more
Jeff Hascall
Mar 11, 2019 rated it really liked it
As a relatively new parent who is fascinated by brain science, this book didn't disappoint. I read it back-to-back with the Whole Brained Child (another Dan Siegel/Tina Bryson book) and found a lot to grab on to as a parent in both books, although there is a fair amount of overlap between the 2. If you were deciding between the 2, I felt this was the better book.

The basic premise is to understand the triggers that put your child in a shut-down frame of mind (the No Brain) and to gras
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R.L.
Feb 23, 2019 rated it it was amazing
The books of Daniel Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson are some of the most helpful, liberating, and enlightening books on my parenting shelf, and THE YES BRAIN is no exception. With helpful examples from their therapy careers and their experience raising kids, Siegel and Bryson equip parents with specific techniques and practices guaranteed to strengthen their relationships with their children and, at the same time, better understand how to raise kids to become who they were made to be. Empowering, h ...more
Alicia
Feb 24, 2018 rated it it was amazing
Practical strategies to teach both parents and kids how to reach for a successful life as defined as a meaningful and authentic one, that honors each individual’s passions and skills. Rather than focusing purely on external achievements, it’s also important to increase awareness and strengthening of internal skills. These internal skills will help kids and adults have more balance, resilience, insight and empathy that helps them withstand life’s ups and downs, know who they are and what their pu ...more
Omar El-mohri
Jul 26, 2019 rated it really liked it
Shelves: printed-copy, 2019
Overall this brings great ideas that we might think of and can't put in perspective or just don't notice.
This is worth reading at least for parents with kids of all ages.
Jennifer Salas
Mar 17, 2018 rated it it was amazing
Anyone who is raising children or thinking about having children should read this book if they want to raise emotionally intelligent human beings!
Lisa
The audiobook was good but it is difficult to get the full effect without reading the book due to the handouts they reference.
Anna Mcallister
Jul 05, 2018 rated it it was amazing
I listened to the Audiobook of this one, and I think it works better as a book then an audio book because there are lots of visuals in the book that I needed to go look at on the computer as I was listening. So it's one I would recommend reading vs listening to, and I plan to get the book and re-read it that way. But I really enjoyed it, and loved their ideas on teaching compassion and expanding our ability to handle hard experiences, another great parenting book by these authors.
Adam Ricks
Dec 31, 2018 rated it liked it
A fine parenting book. I would recommend going and looking at the PDF they provide with the book - and if you are still interested, then pick up the book and get more detailed examples and tips. Definitely some good ideas in the book worth trying.
Frances Marshall
Jan 13, 2018 rated it did not like it
I was unimpressed by the ideas in this book. The authors seemed to be going over the ideas that spawned a generation of children raised on empty praise and kudos for doing little or nothing in the name of keeping their self-esteem high.
Romans Karpelcevs
It was a disappointing book. It started incredibly slowly, with Daniel describing what is a balanced child, and why is it important, and what it is in other words, and then examples, and then that being balanced would help everyone and on and on for almost two chapters.
Then some new acronyms came, and then adaptations of the same techniques described in the Whole Brain Child. I don't think the book gave me anything new. 3 stars only because for someone reading this book as their first, it
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Jamie
Mar 20, 2018 rated it liked it
Um, this book got a little caught up in it's own jargon - yes brain and green zone and 4 Ss. I felt like it took fairly simple ideas then tried to layer on analogies or catchy taxonomies in a way that made it more confusing. I'll try their Whole Brain child next. I like the underlying ideas.
Victoria B. Gentry
Aug 23, 2018 rated it liked it
Shelves: 2018
This was good, but most material can be found in The Whole Brain Child.
Sabrina
Nov 03, 2019 rated it really liked it
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Sue
Feb 11, 2018 rated it it was amazing
"...[B]ehavior is communication. And problematic behavior is actually a message, where our kids are saying, 'I need help building skills in this certain area. I can't do this well yet.'"

This book is all about positive parenting, which is something that Siegel and Bryson have done a great job promoting. I had a hard time grasping "The Yes Brain" concept, I think it's all about being in the positive part of your mindset but it's not a solid and easily described idea. If you haven't tac
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Jess Macallan
Dec 07, 2017 rated it really liked it
I've read and enjoyed other books by Dr. Siegel and this book is another great addition to any positive parenting library. My first thought when I started the book was that the premise reminded me of Carol Dweck's growth vs. fixed mindset, and the authors later draw those parallels between a Yes Brain vs. No Brain and how it relates to children. I believe the best summary of what this book teaches parents is given by the authors themselves when they say, "Our job is to walk with our children thr ...more
Ricki
Oct 05, 2019 rated it it was ok
I skimmed the whole thing in one sitting. This is my third book by these authors, and they're getting soooo boring. The book is too dry, full of bloated academic/abstract paragraphs with too few helpful real-life anecdotes and example reactions to put into practice. There are two or three example comics that I might photocopy for my homeschool classroom for my kids to learn the concepts. But I also would have loved some nice big graphics explaining topics such as the Zones of Regulation. I guess ...more
Janie
Some things:

I experienced this book as a brilliant synthesis. On top of that, it's brief.

I think it cast a wide net. It's inclusive, yet non-trivial (i.e. profound).

It's a parenting book that lets me in and speaks to me. As a struggling, "special needs"/outlier parent of a "special needs"/outlier child, I often experience desolation and alienation when I read parent/child books. The Yes Brain isn't specifically "for" outliers, but we fit here.

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Linda
Oct 19, 2017 rated it really liked it
An excellent book about helping your child to develop a great sense of self, emotional intelligence, resilence, and empathy. Based on neuroplasticity, and what I recognize as mindfulness tools, straightforward compassionate ideas for the developing mind as well as the whole family. Gaining the insight to greet the full range of emotions and find ways to return to a centered self. Recognizing that outward forms of achievement are not the end all of a well balanced mind and child. Each chapter end ...more
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Daniel J. Siegel, M.D., is an internationally acclaimed author, award-winning educator, and child psychiatrist. Dr. Siegel received his medical degree from Harvard University and completed his postgraduate medical education at UCLA with training in pediatrics and child, adolescent and adult psychiatry. He is currently a clinical professor of psychiatry at the UCLA School of Medicine, where he also ...more
“Instead of just reacting to the external actions, you are focusing your attention on what her inner world may be like—red, green, or blue—and communicating to that internal state of your child.” 1 likes
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