Goodreads helps you keep track of books you want to read.
Start by marking “10,000 Dresses” as Want to Read:
10,000 Dresses
Enlarge cover
Rate this book
Clear rating
Open Preview

10,000 Dresses

3.81  ·  Rating details ·  971 ratings  ·  197 reviews
Every night, Bailey dreams about magical dresses: dresses made of crystals and rainbows, dresses made of flowers, dresses made of windows… Unfortunately, when Bailey's awake, no one wants to hear about these beautiful dreams. Quite the contrary: "You're a BOY!" Mother and Father tell Bailey. "You shouldn't be thinking about dresses at all." Then Bailey meets Laurel, an old ...more
Hardcover, 32 pages
Published November 4th 2008 by Triangle Square (first published January 1st 2008)
More Details... Edit Details

Friend Reviews

To see what your friends thought of this book, please sign up.

Reader Q&A

To ask other readers questions about 10,000 Dresses, please sign up.
Popular Answered Questions
Laia Sorry this isn’t a direct answer (haven’t gotten my hands on this book yet), but check out Rachel’s Christmas Boat by Sophie Labelle (parent transitio…moreSorry this isn’t a direct answer (haven’t gotten my hands on this book yet), but check out Rachel’s Christmas Boat by Sophie Labelle (parent transitions mtf.) (And check out Sophie’s other works, too. Flamingo Rampant is currently carrying this book as “book of the month.” I liked the book, “The Last Place You Look,” at Flamingo Rampant as well, with diverse family representation. 10,000 Beads was another excellent Flamingo Rampant book & depicts gender variance in a Lakota community. Princess of Great Daring is a Flamingo Rampant book with a mtf trans youth character.) A House for Everyone is a good one, as well as Who Are You?: The Kid’s guide to Gender Identity. Introducing Teddy. Red, A Crayon’s Story. The Prince & The Dressmaker, maybe. Phoenix Goes to School looks promising. I’d Know You Anywhere, My Love, by Nancy Tillman (reinforces that no matter outward changes, inside someone is the same person, and the bond of love between parent & child stays the same.) I Like Myself by Karen Beaumont can be used to indirectly bolster that same idea (it’s what’s on the inside that matters...also touches on building resilience to teasing which is good for a kid in that situation.) The Gender Wheel by Maya Christina Gonzalez at, and her “All Genders are Perfectly Natural” poster is great. Just wanted to share resources I’ve come across. (less)

Community Reviews

Showing 1-30
Average rating 3.81  · 
Rating details
 ·  971 ratings  ·  197 reviews

More filters
Sort order
Start your review of 10,000 Dresses
Feb 25, 2009 rated it really liked it
For all intents and purposes Cookie magazine is not the kind of publication I read regularly (in that I make less that $250,000 a year). However, a year or so ago this periodical carried a story I hadn't really heard before. It was a true story of two parents trying to figure out how to deal with their young son. The boy liked wearing dresses, and pretty much preferred to wear them all the time. They didn't mind it in the home, but when he wanted to start wearing dresses to school the parental u ...more
Feb 26, 2009 rated it it was amazing
Alex said the same thing I did after reading this, which was, like, 'What- that's it?' We both had to calm ourselves down and remind ourselves that this is a picture book for children, which is hard when you're used to trans stuff being the province of complicated theory and stately literary explorations (puke) and Felicity Huffman movies (puke puke, except for the 'shoplifting a frog' joke).

But it is a picture book! For little kids! I'm pretty stoked that I live in a world where this book exist
April Sanders
Every adult should read this.
I bought this for my niece. She loves fashion and dresses. She loves the beautiful and amazing pictures of dresses in this book. She had questions about why a boy wanted to wear them. I think she's still puzzling it all out. She still asks to read this book from time to time. I feel the subject is handled very well. Great book. ...more
10,000 dresses tries just a bit too hard and, while it may be reflective of some families, showcases far more disrespect and hate than it does the love and understanding it's supposed to convey. It's not that the book doesn't bring smiles and warmth, it's that it's far too thin and there's a pretty uneven balance. I think it'll leave kids feeling more confused and not do much to further acceptance. Really disappointed in this one. :( ...more
Johnny Nguyen
Oct 09, 2015 rated it liked it
Shelves: gay-identity
10,000 Dresses is a story about a transgender child who was born a boy, but identifies himself as a girl. The overall plot is about how she wakes up from her dreams and goes on to tell her parents about the many dresses that she saw, but evidently every time, they tell her to stop talking about them because she’s a boy. The story is beautifully written and is interesting enough for children to get them thinking. The language is written in a way where the situation of the story is told realistica ...more
Jun 13, 2016 rated it it was amazing
Recommends it for: PreK-Grade 8
Shelves: read-with-kids
So I read this book with both grade 7/8 and grade 1 so far. I give it 4.5 stars only because I think it sort of leaves off on a bit of a negative point but not? This is a good book to read with kids and discuss what it means to be a transgender person to help them understand. I think it actually went well with the grade 1s so I'm really excited about that.

Update: I now give it 5 stars because it can be very realistic that people aren't accepting, even family members.
Jun 02, 2020 rated it really liked it
Shelves: picture-books, lgbtq
In my search for LGBTQ books, I came across 10,000 Dresses by Marcus Ewert. I found a review on I used youtube to hear the read-aloud. The story is about a child named Baily who dreamed of dresses. The story refers to Baily as her until she talks to her family about her dream about dresses. They all yell that Baily is a boy. It becomes clear to an older reader that Baily is a trans girl. Baily has the same dream about the different dresses and trying them on. One ...more
Danni Green
Mar 14, 2019 rated it liked it
Shelves: genderawesome, r4k
Another book about a trans kid being mistreated and misgendered. The protagonist is lovely and the dresses are beautiful, but we need better stories that aren't about how shitty cis people are to trans kids. ...more
Sarah Sammis
Dec 16, 2009 rated it really liked it
10,000 Dresses by Marcus Ewert is about a child named Bailey who was born a boy but sees herself as a girl and has plans to be a dress designer. Bailey's family doesn't want to talk about dresses or the fact that he sees himself as a she. If he'll just shut up and put up the problem will go away. Except it doesn't and fortunately for Bailey's sake, there is a dress designer down the street who is willing to support her dreams.

It's a book that was on my wishlist and I probably heard about it from
Krista the Krazy Kataloguer
In this odd book a boy who keeps dreaming about dresses tells each one of his family members about it, only to have them make fun of him and tell him that dresses are not for boys. Finally, however, he meets an older girl who helps him actually make the dresses he dreams about. I think this book might be confusing for kids who don't understand that Bailey is transgender. Bailey's family all refer to him as a boy, and he looks like a boy. Yet the narrator of the story calls him a she. I understan ...more
Larry-bob Roberts
Dec 05, 2008 rated it it was amazing
Pioneering children's book dealing with Trans issues. Bailey dreams of magical dresses, but her family says that boys don't wear dresses.

I went to a reading for the book last night, and there were a couple of teachers who say they are getting great response from kids from the book.

Beautiful art by Rex Ray, who has done a lot of book design and also art for David Bowie projects.
Cute. Sad that Bailey's family did not accept her, but she went out and found a friend that did, so yay. ...more
Ben Truong
Jun 22, 2019 rated it really liked it
10,000 Dresses is a children's picture book written by Marcus Ewert and illustrated by Rex Ray, which stars Bailey, who loves all sorts of dresses, despite being perceived as a boy.

June, at least in my part of the world is LGBT Pride Month, which I plan to read one children's book, which pertains to the subject everyday this month. Therefore, I thought that this book would be apropos for today.

Ewert's text is rather simplistic and straightforward. The narration surrounds Bailey, who loves dresse
FM Family
This book. So glad it exists. Very important story to have out there, but MAN I do not like the illustrations at all. I can't tell if they were purposefully creepy and unsettling. but I feel like the book would have been much more effective with a less off the wall illustration style.

Also, I thought it a shame that the parents and brother were so horrible. It is realistic, yes, but in the 12 years since it's come out I feel like we've moved past needing a narrative like "now get out of here befo
Hannah Elsayed
Nov 18, 2019 rated it really liked it
This book is good to have in your reading corner in a classroom. It tells the story about a boy named Bailey who wants to be a girl. Throughout the book, the writer refers to bailey as “she” which at first makes you think Bailey is a girl but you soon find out when Bailey wants her family to make her dresses, she is told “no because she’s a boy and boys don’t wear dresses”. Bailey ends up meeting a girl, Laurel, who makes dresses and soon help each other out with Bailey dreaming up the dress des ...more
Oct 01, 2018 rated it it was amazing
This book is about a young boy named Bailey, who has a love for dresses, specifically magical looking ones. He dreams about all sorts of dresses, such as ones that are made of glass and others that are made of crystals and rainbows. Whenever he wakes up from these dreams, he is greeted by reality, where everyone shuts him down about his passion for dresses, especially his mother and father who consistently remind him that he is a boy, and only girls like dresses. Fortunately, Bailey meets a girl ...more
May 31, 2020 rated it really liked it
I really liked the story but wanted more at the end. It has received the Stonewall Book Award Nominee for Children’s and Young Adult Literature (2010), Lambda Literary Award Nominee for Transgender (2008).
I think this book can be used for any age to teach differences and accepting others. I would use this book with 4-5th graders to start conversations on how Bailey in the story. Bailey was lucky to find a friend that was accepting in the end.
Becka Lopez
Mar 24, 2019 rated it it was amazing
A book I just recently purchased. At first I was hesitant regarding the negative perspectives of those around the main character, but it led to powerful conversations regarding what kindness means, what it looks like, and how we can work towards it.
Jul 12, 2019 rated it it was amazing
A sweet book about finding acceptance. Bailey's family sucks but not all families are accepting of their LGBTQ+ children. I was happy that Bailey found somewhere to fit in in the end :) ...more
Oct 10, 2017 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: ece
I loved this book so much when I read it because, it gave a realistic approach to how some children feel when they come out. In many cases people will not be accepting at first or make fun of you but if you keep being who you are things will turn out for the best because you're being authentic. I am in awe of Marcus Ewert, because he created a beautiful book, showcasing a boy who wanted to wear dresses and did so even if those around him didn't think it was okay. Ewert gave hope to little boys a ...more
Ruthie Jones
Dec 31, 2014 rated it liked it
Shelves: library-book
I have mixed emotions about this incredibly short book (took all of 30 seconds to read) because I can't identify the intended audience. The simplicity and sparseness of the story would appeal to the small child who is unable to read yet or who is just learning to read. And it can be a good way to introduce this topic to children to help them learn about diversity and adversity. I can't see this itty bitty story appealing to the older child who might be struggling with gender identity and accepta ...more
Crystal Bandel
Dec 02, 2013 rated it really liked it
10,000 Dress by Marcus Ewert, illustrated by Rex Ray, published 2008.

Realistic fiction.

Picture book.

Grades K-3.

Found as a Stonewall Honor Book and a finalist for the Lambda Literary Awards. No review found.

Bailey is a girl who dreams of beautiful dresses she'd like to wear every night. However, when she tries to tell her family about these dresses, they insist that she's a boy and shouldn't want to wear dresses. Bailey faces the struggle of finding someone who recognizes her as a girl until she
Feb 16, 2016 rated it liked it
Grade: Middle school to high school
Subject: Social Emotional, feelings
A boy named Bailey dreams about a variety of dresses. He tells his family about the dreams he has and asks for a dress, but his family members do not understand his need to have a dress as an appropriate one. “You are a boy!” Is their response to Bailey and undeterred each night he has a new dream about a dress. Later he finds himself walking towards a house and in it is an older girl who knows how to sow, but doesn’t have any
Natasha North
Feb 27, 2012 rated it liked it
Shelves: picture-books
I wanted to enjoy this book more than I did because it's not a common topic in literature for young children. I appreciate that Ewert does not try to wrap up a complicated topic with a big group hug at the end, yet he does give the young transgendered protagonist a supportive life line. The prose was good at times and a little cliche at others.

The artwork was not particularly appealing to me. Bailey's imagination via dreams is interesting and I'm sure s/he'd give fashion people something to thin
While very clearly an "issues" text, I would read this with individual children and/or with children who are experiencing the hardships Bailey does. In my opinion, this book would be difficult as a read-aloud for a larger group of children, as many young children have limited or no concept of what it means to be transgender. They may be confused by the mixed pronouns (Bailey's self identification versus her family's imposed language), and while the book is ABSOLUTELY appropriate for young childr ...more
When I first read this I didn't like it at all. I was bored by the repeating patterns of the dresses the illustrations of Rex Ray really jarred with me. I was also sad to see that none of Bailey's family were supportive of her.
On a second reading though, I begun to see that the story is cleverer than I first have it credit for. Briefly, the story tells of Bailey, a girl who feels trapped within the body of a boy. She dreams of wearing and making beautiful dresses but it mocked by her whole famil
Reed McMurray
Mar 31, 2016 rated it it was amazing
10,000 Dresses by Marcus Ewert is about a little boy named Bailey. Bailey is not like the other boys in his life. He wakes up every name from having amazing dreams about all kinds of dresses. Dresses made of flowers, dresses made of windows. When he wakes up no one wants to hear about his dreams, they tell him "you're a boy Bailey" and boys aren't suppose to wear dresses. This is until he meets Laurel. Will Laurel help Bailey be who he really wants to be?

This is an amazing and inspiration pictur
Dec 31, 2014 rated it really liked it
Shelves: children-s-books
I love the idea and intention of this book, and I think it is a good introduction into the importance of using the identifying pronouns as requested (rather than correcting/forcing children in one direction) and perception around that. It also sends a great and beautiful message that sometimes our greatest allies and supporters are outside of the immediate family. However, I really wish it didn't play so strongly into stereotypes and the gender either-or binary and rather focused on the fluidity ...more
Sep 29, 2009 rated it really liked it
I think this is an important book because it opens a window into the world of a transgendered child and provides a rare mirror in which other transgendered children can see themselves. It would be a catalyst for initiating a possibly difficult but important conversation in classrooms and families. The author contrasts Bailey's self-image with the way others see Bailey through the use of language:Bailey uses "she" and "her" in self-reference, whereas other family members (mother, father and broth ...more
« previous 1 3 4 5 6 7 next »
There are no discussion topics on this book yet. Be the first to start one »

Readers also enjoyed

  • My Princess Boy
  • And Tango Makes Three
  • I Am Jazz
  • Morris Micklewhite and the Tangerine Dress
  • Stella Brings the Family
  • Heather Has Two Mommies
  • Worm Loves Worm
  • When Aidan Became A Brother
  • Daddy, Papa, and Me
  • Introducing Teddy: A Gentle Story About Gender and Friendship
  • It's Okay to Be Different
  • Julián Is a Mermaid (Julián, #1)
  • Stick and Stone
  • King & King
  • This Day in June
  • Rainbow: A First Book of Pride
  • Fry Bread: A Native American Family Story
  • Let the Children March
See similar books…
See top shelves…
Marcus Ewert's first book 10,000 Dresses, illustrated by Rex Ray, was published by Seven Stories Press in September 2008. He is the co-creator of the animated series "Piki & Poko: Adventures in StarLand" and is currently writing "Mummy Cat", another children's book, coming out from Clarion Book in July 2015. He lives in San Francisco. ...more

News & Interviews

We all want to spend more time lost in the pages of great books. That's the idea behind our annual 2021 Goodreads Reading Challenge! It's...
73 likes · 9 comments
No trivia or quizzes yet. Add some now »