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The Weight of Heaven

3.78  ·  Rating details ·  3,241 Ratings  ·  530 Reviews
Filled with satisfyingly real characters and glowing with local color, The Weight of Heaven is a rare glimpse of a family and a country struggling under pressures beyond their control. Umrigar illuminates how slowly we recover from unforgettable loss, how easily good intentions can turn evil, and how far a person will go to build a new world for those he loves.

When Frank a
Hardcover, 365 pages
Published April 14th 2009 by Harper (first published January 1st 2009)
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Will Byrnes
Apr 19, 2009 rated it really liked it
Frank and Ellie Benton have suffered what no parents should, the loss of their 7-year-old son, Benny. When Frank is offered a chance to manage a factory in Girbaud, India, the couple leap at the opportunity to get away from the constant reminders of their loss. But Frank transfers his love for his son onto Ramesh, the engaging, bright child of the people who take care of their house. His inability to truly get past the death of his own child and his desperate attachment to this Indian boy lead t ...more
Apr 04, 2010 rated it really liked it
I was first introduced to Thrity Umrigar through her novel, The Space Between Us. It was one of those novels that made the author an instant favorite of mine. I knew I had to read every book she wrote. I haven't quite managed that, but it's still something I'm working on. I followed The Space Between Us up with Bombay Time and now The Weight of Heaven.

What I love most about Thrity Umrigar is her gift for drawing out the emotions of her characters. The reader gets to know them through and through
Apr 14, 2009 rated it it was amazing
I am in awe of Thrity Umrigar. I enjoyed her previous book, The Space Between Us, but The Weight of Heaven positively blew me away. Even though this book drips with sadness and grief and made me want to throw it against the wall toward the end, I still give this one five stars because...well, WOW.

When I read, I like to flip up the bottom corner of pages where there are passages, phrases, ideas that I like or that impress me in some way or that make me want to talk about them. If you look at my
This novel, about a couple who loses a child and goes to India to try to reassemble their marriage, is well loved here on GR. I could barely stand to read it. Cliches ("for all the world" was used numerous times)and overwritten passages about how people were feeling cancelled out the interesting things she had to say about American multinational business and ripping off the natural resource of an Indian village. I could tell things were going to go very wrong by the end but was not expecting how ...more
How does one deal with the loss of a child? I hope never to answer that question, but the main characters in this book, Frank and Ellie, are forced to address their grief when their only son, Benny, dies unexpectedly. Frank has an opportunity to move to India, and he and Ellie see this as a chance to try to heal their wounds and keep their marriage from falling apart. Their decision seems logical - a move to a completely new country where people and places will not remind them of their lost son. ...more
Feb 02, 2010 rated it it was amazing
Thrity Umrigar's The Weight of Heaven is a heavy with grief, emptiness, and struggle. The Bentons (Ellie and Frank) lose their son, Benny, at age seven from meningococcus. Ellie has liberal leanings politically and is a therapist to clients in Ann Arbor, Mich., while Frank is a proud, American business executive with residual issues of abandonment. The loss of a child can be daunting for any family, and it is clear how grief of this magnitude can slowly rip a family apart.

"And now they were two.
Jul 09, 2012 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: 2012-tlc, 2012-reads

I remember being blown away when I read Thrity's book The Space Between Us in 2010. I thought she made India come alive in my mind and as I became further engrossed in the story I could swear that I heard the sounds and the smells of the country too. That's how vivid and wonderful this author's writing is...with her sharply honed pen she draws the reader into the pages of her imagination and you find yourself not wanting to leave.

The Weight of Heaven is another masterpiece by Umrigar and even th
Aug 06, 2014 rated it liked it
A white American couple, having lost their only son to a sudden illness, moves to India in the vague hope that a new start might help them overcome their grief. It does not go well. Or, it goes pretty well for the wife, who makes friends, gets a useful job, and finds herself a place. The husband quickly gets involved in corruption (paying bribes to the government for various benefits), scandal (when labor demands at the factory he manages lead to a strike), more extreme corruption and scandal (w ...more
Alice Meloy
Aug 09, 2009 rated it it was ok
A novel of India that mixes in a bit of America in the form of a neurotic couple who can't get over their psychological problems. Having a difficult time coping with the unexpected death of their young son, Ellie and Frank Benton move from the American midwest to the west coast of India to work and to try to get over their grief. Frank forms an attachment to the nine-year old son of their servants, and his obsession with helping the boy achieve a good life (American style) leads to some life-cha ...more
Oct 21, 2008 rated it really liked it
This book is heart wenching on many levels- first there are Frank and Ellie, who are recovering from the loss of a child; then there is the case of the American company Frank works for in India, wreaking havoc on the lives of native Indians in its typically naive American way; and lastly the Indian house servants Frank and Ellie have inherited, along with their young see where this is going? Umrigar takes the reader on this bumpy journey of love and loss, where the end in sight is inev ...more
Sayantani Dasgupta
Jun 26, 2014 rated it it was amazing
Beautiful. Brutal. Powerful. I'm a fan of Umrigar for life. My goal is to hunt down everything she has ever written and devour it like a madman. Twice.
Dec 31, 2009 rated it really liked it
The Short of It:

An emotional story about love and loss and so much more. The Weight of Heaven demands your attention, shakes you up, then leaves you heavy with the weight of it.

The Rest of It:

This is a wonderful, meaty book. As you can imagine, the death of a child is a delicate subject. There’s something incredibly tragic about losing a child. Even when the child is gone, his memory lives on in everyday things… a stray toy found under the couch, the shoe that lost its mate some time ago, etc. A
Dec 17, 2009 rated it really liked it
This book was better than "If Today Be Sweet" but still not as good as "The Space Between Us." What made Umrigar's first book so good was that there was so much at stake, literally life and death, survival by inches. This book a mixture of the two prevous titles, you have an American couple living in India. They are escaping the death of their son and find solace in the country and the husband, Frank begins to fixate on their housekeepers' son. I had a hard time suspending my disbelief in places ...more
Mar 20, 2010 rated it it was amazing
This book seriously blew me away. I finished last night at 3am and could not sleep afterward. I love Umrigar's writing style, which is so fluid and kind of poetic. Her insights into the insanity of parental grief were sharp and honest. I think Umrigar understands and translates the complexity, mystery, beauty and ugliness in dyads better than any other author I've read. This book was incredibly painful to read. And that's only considering the implications at the level of the individual character ...more
Aishah Ail
Jan 29, 2015 rated it really liked it
كيف لشخص أن يكتب خمسمئة صفحة دون أن يُشعرك بالملل ولو للحظة واحدة .. بل أبعد من هذا يأخذك من واقعك ليقحمك تفاصيل روايته ويجعلك ضمن حبكته ؟!!
وطأة السماء جاء ليخبرنا أن السماء ليست خفيفة وجميلة كما توقعناها بل أنها كما قال فرانك شو : ليست السماء سوى محيطٍ أنقلب رأسًا على عقب .
تسير أغوار القلب البشري من قمم السعادة والعواطف الجامحة إلى أعماق اليأس والقنوط..
ثرتي اومريغار تصادم بين الثقافة الإمريكية والهندية وتصادم بين الأخلاقيات التي نتبناها وبين الأحداث التي تجبرنا على كسرها ..
رواية جميلة
Jun 18, 2012 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
لا شي يضاهي مرارة ما بعد فقد العزيز ،، حتى الفقد نفسه لا يوغر الجرح في النفس أكثر من الوحشة والوحده وسط الذكريات المفرحه المبكية معا ،، وإن كانت الاحداث من نسج خيال فلعل فيها بعض المشاركة لمحزوني هذا الكوكب

عزائنا الامثل بعد هذه الرواية أن ننظر الى السماء بعين القلب ونشكر الله على نعمة وجودنا بين أحبائنا
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3,8 of 5 stars!

It is beautiful story about forgiving and let it go moment when your kids is passed away but you couldn't accept truth is

Acceptance is one of the hardest things to do and in the end you just know you already missing what is important things in your life actually

It is another unexpected story from Thrity Umrigar.. It is really different from her previous works that i read before The World We Found. This pie
Feb 26, 2009 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: a-favorite-read
I discovered Thrity Umrigar in 2008, and she has since become a favorite author of mine. I felt honored to have received an advance copy of her new book: The Weight of Heaven, which is scheduled for release on April 14th, 2009, by Harper Collins.

In her new novel we meet Frank and Ellie Benton, a grief stricken couple from Ann Arbor, Michigan, who have just lost their seven year old son Benny, after a short illness. Unable to cope with this horrific loss, Frank accepts a new assignment running a
Ruqaiya Said
I absolutely underestimated this book when I first purchased it on Amazon as part of some promotion they were running. It was always at the bottom of my to-read pile but it relentlessly stared at me every time I'd turn on my kindle.

So I finally picked it up last month because I was so darn bored at I needed to read something. Much to my surprise, I devoured major chunks of it every time I'd get a moment to myself. I found myself really connecting with the characters who by the way are so rich.

May 12, 2014 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
As a special treat for myself, I pulled this book off my shelf, I love Thrity Umrigar's books and The Weight of Heaven turned out to be an emotional experience. I did shed some tears and also got very angry.

Frank and Ellie Benton, living in Ann Arbor, Michigan lost their only child, Benny, to meningococcal infection. Frank is a business man for a company that sells medical products and Ellie is a therapist. When their boy dies, it brings havoc to their marriage. Frank blames Ellie for taking a s
Apr 08, 2012 rated it it was amazing
Just a week ago, I read my first Thrity Umrigar novel and loved it. (The World we Found) So, I deliberately sought out another of her books. I was not disappointed with this novel. I am kind of in awe of this author, how she can draw me into the lives of her characters and tugged on my emotions to the point that I had tears running down my face numerous times. Once when I was at the gym on a stationary bike I was reading and crying. Another time I brushed away tears at my favourite Second Cup co ...more
Aug 21, 2012 rated it it was amazing
The Weight of Heaven is a beautifully written novel about a painful period in the life of an American couple, Frank and Ellie Benton. Frank and Ellie’s only son, seven-year old Benny, has died from meningitis. Frank was away for work during the sudden illness and he blames Ellie for Benny’s death. After Frank is offered a job in India, the two decided to take the job in Girbaug and start life anew.

While in Girbaug, Frank befriends a young boy, Ramesh that is the son of the servants at their hom
Sep 20, 2009 rated it really liked it
Thrity Umrigar's latest novel The Weight of Heaven is a dramatic work exploring the effects of grief on a couple who has it all. From the opening pages when we meet Frank and Ellie, we are plunged into the grief over the loss of their son Benny. The couple are in such despair, with their marriage fraying, that they decide to move to India when Frank is offered a position running a multinational corporation there. They hope that without the constant reminders of Benny, they will be able to find e ...more
Feb 10, 2009 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This is the third book I have read by Thrity Umrigar. Once again, it gripped my emotions and didn't let go. I was surprised at the beginning to find that it revolves around a Caucasian couple, Frank and Ellie Benton, but once the couple moved to India I could see why she chose to tell the novel from their points of view. Their move to India was precipitated by the death of their only child, 7-year-old Benny. When Frank's company offered him a transfer to India, he and Ellie thought it might help ...more
Jul 15, 2016 rated it it was amazing
The Weight of Heaven gives the reader a glimpse into a family and country struggling under enormous pressure. When Frank and Ellie Benton lose their only child, seven-year-old benny, to a sudden illness, their perfect life is shattered. Their home in Ann Arbor is filled with memories and they cannot mourn together and their marriage falls apart. A job offer from Girburg, India, promises a new beginning and they move with hope that they can start over. Frank befriends a bright, curious boy named ...more
I bought this book for my Kindle because it was on sale. Plain and simple - this novel sounded like it was worth $2.99. I had never read anything by Umrigar and only vaguely knew about her books. I was willing to take the risk given the price.

Well, this is the best bargain I have made in quite awhile. Ms Umrigar tells a fascinating story about how one family deals with one of the most difficult life experiences - the death of a child. The story is well written and seems possible even when it was
May 02, 2010 rated it it was amazing
I've not read books by Thrity Umrigar before. This was recommended by a friend who is a librarian. The book was very deep and well-written, holding my interest even late at night. An American couple, Frank and Ellie, move to India, where Frank works in a company called "Herbal Solutions". After having lost their only son to illness, Frank befriends a young Indian boy whose parents work in their household. The attachment of Frank to the boy, Ramesh, becomes too strong, leading to antagonisms all ...more
Jun 27, 2009 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: fiction
I've read all of Thrity Umrigar's previous novels and found them to be extremely enjoyable and hard to put down...this one was no different. A beautiful story of what grief can do.

From back cover:

"When Frank and Ellie Benton lose their only child, seven-year-old Benny, to a sudden illness, the perfect life they had built in Ann Arbor, Michigan, is shattered. But an unexpected job half a world away offers them an opportunity to start again. Life in Girbaug, India, holds promise-and peril-when Fra
Mallika Chandrasekhar
Book Recommendation : The Weight of Heaven By Thrity Umrigar

The first book of Thrity Umrigar which I read was “The Space Between Us’. It must have been around 10 years ago. But that book left such an impact and a warm longingness for more of her words and writings. I remembered how I had felt while reading her book, therefore I greedily picked this one up wanting to once again feel the humanness in her stories and the raw emotions she manages to etch in every one of her characters. She is a mast
Jul 23, 2009 rated it really liked it
OH MY GOODNESS. This book was so good I almost gave it 5 stars. I really, really like this author, and after I read one book by her I took a break so it wasn't ruined by the next one, in case I didn't like it as well. This was so good.
The story is really great... with a few details that kind of bugged me. Ellie and Frank are living in India while Frank works for an American company. They live in a company house, complete with a servant-family living in the shack behind them. The detail that bugg
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“India, she now knew, would not be content staying in the background, was nobody's wallpaper, insisted in interjecting itself into everyone's life, meddling with it, twisting it, molding it beyond recognition. India, she had found out, was a place of political intrigue and economic corruption, a place occupied by real people with their incessantly human needs, desires, ambitions, and aspirations, and not the exotic, spiritual, mysterious entity that was a creation of the Western imagination.” 15 likes
“أتعرف ماهي القوة الأكثر خطورة في هذا العالم يا عزيزي ؟ إنها ليست القنبلة الذرية. إنه الإنسان الحرّ فعلاً. ذلك هو ما عليك الاحتراس منه” 2 likes
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