How We Love Workbook, Expanded Edition: Making Deeper Connections in Marriage

by Milan Yerkovich, Kay Yerkovich

Unlock the secrets to a thriving marriage with this practical and insightful workbook for couples seeking to understand how they can heal and strengthen their relationship. What Determines How You Love?Each of us relates to our spouse based on how we experienced love as a child. In this expanded and enhanced companion workbook to How We Love, relationship experts Milan and Kay Yerkovich offer assessments and conversation starters to help you and your spouse identify your relational patterns and realize how they are affecting you now. Their solution-focused tools help • understand why your spouse relates to you the way he or she does• learn how to break free from the barriers that make you feel stuck • see the connection between your personal love style and your childhood • follow specific, clear goals to create a thriving marriage • ask and answer questions strategically with your spouseThe Yerkoviches have helped thousands of couples around the world heal and renew their relationships. This eminently practical guide will take your marriage to the new level of intimacy you’ve always wanted.

Genres: Marriage, Relationships, Self Help

196 pages, Kindle Edition

Published July 11, 2017

About the author

Milan Yerkovich is a weekly talk show host on the New Life Live! radio program. An ordained pastor with a master’s degree in biblical studies, he has been helping couples and families build healthier relationships for more than twenty-five years. Previously a pastoral counselor for The Center for Individual and Family Therapy, Milan now teaches seminars on relationships and intimacy and is cofounder of Relationship 180°, a non-profit ministry for Christian leaders and laity.

Reviews

[Arlena · Rating 5 out of 5]

Title: How We Love: Expanded Edition
Author: Milan & Kay Yerkovich
Publisher: WaterBrook
Reviewed By: Arlena Dean
Rating: Five
Review:

"How We Love: Expanded Edition: Discover Your Love Style, Enhance Your Marriage" By: Milan Yerkovich & Kay Yerkovich

My Thoughts....

This was a beautiful knowledgeable read from these two authors!

What I received from this novel....

Wonderful inside information....that offered different exercises to help one with self awareness and growth goals... great in depth workbook

I loved their accurate description of a secure connector:
the Avoider, the Pleaser, the Vacillator, the Controller and the Victim.

I found there was great presentation of case studies that were bought out so clearly.

While reading and working through "How We Love" one can rekindled ones love and even learn respect for each other.

This novel is not only for couples! I found this a wonderful read for working in one's marriage and relationships. This is definitely a help in ones marriage and family. This read can not just "change ones marriage but also every relationship that is important to ones life."

If you are in need of a 'Marriage Counselor' this read will be for you.

After reading "How We Love" the reader will see that its definite a literature that has been well descriptive written, with great research and resources.

The way these authors treatment of this subject along with 'Biblical truths and wisdom will bring a healing that can change ones life.'

I will say this is one of the best self help books that I have had the privilege of reading!

By the end of this read...the reader will get a easy, enjoyable, and well as a fantastic read that I would recommend to all young married couples as well as old.

[Britt · Rating 2 out of 5]

While there are certainly helpful components, this book is overly simplistic and there are some unhelpful/potentially othering gender stereotypes.

I recommend reading You Are the One You’ve Been Waiting for by Richard C. Schwartz instead for a much deeper understanding of how we love and what impacts the way we show up for ourself and our partner.

[Keith · Rating 5 out of 5]

After the introductory material, I jumped right to the chapter relevant to my marriage. I like this book, and the book it accompanies.

[Levi Macallister · Rating 5 out of 5]

Truly, this book changed my understanding of what the hell was going on in my relationships, and why. If the Enneagram gave me language for how I am, this book / attachment theory gave me the language for why. I've probably bought How We Love for fifteen people. Kay and Milan are wonderful folk. :-)

[Kari · Rating 4 out of 5]

While this is a marriage book, I read it for my own knowledge and growth, and it so helpful. Some of the book is a bit technical and repetitive. But the benefits outweighed that. So glad I read I this.