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Hypocrite in a Pouffy White Dress: Tales of Growing up Groovy and Clueless

3.69  ·  Rating details ·  7,428 Ratings  ·  712 Reviews
From the author of "Kiss My Tiara" comes a funny and poignant collection of true stories about women coming of age that for once isn't about finding a date.
Paperback, 368 pages
Published January 1st 2005 by Grand Central Publishing (first published 2003)
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Jul 04, 2008 rated it did not like it
Recommends it for: people who write "LOL"a lot
Her parents were hippies but all she wanted to do was wear a tutu- and she did- to school!! See? It's funny because she is so QUIRKY! So many zany things happen to her, so she has to write about each terribly hilarious embarrassing episode of her white, overprotected, privileged life! But never fear, there is heart and love in the gooey middle! She realizes this when she tests her meddle in a foreign country (Switzerland! oh the culture shock!! The sockets look WEIRD!)that allows her to continue ...more
Aug 23, 2007 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
For those who've yet to read it, the book can be divided into roughly three [unequal] parts: childhood, high school/college and Susan-as-an-adult. The first part was the best for me - perfect mix of funny and sad, just like a good sweet-and-sour sauce should be. The second section is shorter than the others, which is a good thing.
High school pretty much consists of a looooooooong riff on virginity, with a drawn-out celebrity stalking adventure thrown in. Her college years are covered by one ane
Apr 14, 2015 rated it liked it
Susan Gilman's book is memoir which takes the form of essays - each a funny or poignant story of a part of her life. Her first chapter is a recounting of her summer at a "leftist" commune in the Catskills when she was five years old and asked to play a part in a psychedelic movie being filmed by one of the campers. The final chapter is set in Geneva where she finds herself living - a New Yorker abroad - in her thirties.

If I had read this book when I was in my twenties, I would have given it 5 st
Febz Beloy
Jun 14, 2009 rated it really liked it
it’s a fun, wildly imbecilic memoir of a Manhattanite who thought of the world as her playground. I instantly felt this connection with her.

I was the child who bragged and lied in Show and Tell to distinguish myself from the hordes of crying and pee-crazy 5-year-olds in Kindergarten. I admit I lied not to be difficult but to be special. I conjured and fantasized on what I wanted to be when I grow up. I wanted to be a doctor, a ballerina, a social worker, a fireman and a nun. All the while feigni
Mar 10, 2013 rated it liked it
I was literally laughing out loud during the first chapters of this book. The author's commentary on her unique childhood experiences was hilarious and irreverent. I was really looking forward to the rest of the book. I had high hopes for it, but started feeling disappointed the more I read. Instead of becoming more self-aware and grown up, the author seemed to just revel in being a clueless, shallow person who seemed obsessed with the size of her breasts and having sex with every male who walks ...more
AJ LeBlanc
Dec 17, 2008 rated it really liked it
Shelves: reread
Gilman's writing style is amazing. Several times I had to put the book down because I was laughing so hard. She has a great take of growing up as a full on feminist, but at the same time becoming giddy with delight when Mick Jagger points out that she's got huge boobs. This is a woman who's been everywhere and done everything, and it's a brilliant read. The book starts off with her at four years old, the daughter of hippies, prancing around in a tutu and figuring out how to rule the world. Her f ...more
Jul 04, 2012 rated it liked it
I have to admit that I like the first half of this book much more than the last half. In fact, I have to plead guilty of sort of skimming the final 30 pages. But the first half made me laugh out loud several times. Growing up on Manhattan's Upper West Side, Gilman had many experiences in her early years that are universal. I mean who didn't lie during show-and-tell? Who didn't feel constant peer pressure, have an awkward adolescence, and be plagued by school yard bullies? But, Susan Jane Gilman ...more
Maro Alphabet
Oct 21, 2007 rated it it was amazing
Recommends it for: everyone!!!
yet another memoir of sorts... but this one is inspirational and simply hysterical.
we follow a young woman realizing her identity and also coming to terms with her slightly off kilter family and her specific expectations from the world.
i have given this book to.. my mother, my sister, my friend danielle and a coworker mike... they have all loved it and even become inspired by it.
if you're in the mood to laugh out loud, here's a book that will have you cryin'!! david sedaris meets augusten borro
Stephanie Biese
May 10, 2016 rated it liked it
She gets 4.5 stars for saying pretty much everything this privileged, white feminist thinks and feels. I kept thinking...she gets me!! I'm her!!! It's super white privilegy, but so am I.

However, I docked her a star and a half for un-inclusive language (use of the R word and comparing people in a negative light to a "special ed class"). That shit ruins it.
Kris Holland
Aug 22, 2011 rated it did not like it
Slightly boring memoir. I got the impression the author thought she led a crazy, rebellious life, but she came off too often sounding overprivileged & whiny. I enjoyed her book Undress Me in the Temple of Heaven, but I couldn't be done with this one fast enough.
Kathy (Bermudaonion)
Feb 09, 2009 rated it really liked it
Susan Jane Gilman was raised in Upper West Manhattan in the 1970’s, before it became gentrified. Her family was pretty laid back and “groovy” - her grandmother claimed to be a Communist and her mother signed the whole family up for Transcendental Meditation. Throughout it all, Susie retained an active imagination and developed a sense of humor. Her family motto was, “Reality is for people with no imagination.” Hypocrite in a Pouffy White Dress: Tales of Growing Up Groovy and Clueless by Susan Ja ...more
Jan 13, 2011 rated it it was amazing
THIS BOOK IS AWESOME!!!!! Originally suggested to me as an interpretation piece for debate, my friend's mother warned me that I may take a liking to the protagonist....understatement of the week. Gilman's recreation of her childhood and adult experiences are hilarious and easily related to, and the descriptions leave nothing to the imagination. Her gritty description of the punk streets of NYC as a teenager are everything that VH1 describes and complaints about being a feminist bride who is plan ...more
Sep 30, 2012 rated it really liked it
Enjoyed reading this book, was introduced to me by the authors father. Any questions that I needed to ask he answered. My main question was " did you truly sit at the park bench while your daughter was being hit for a swing"? His answer was yes...and it was the hardest thing to do. He wanted his daughter to defend herself for 1 mouthing off and 2 parents won't always be around to defend kids.

I don't know if I can agree in the way the lesson was taught but I did tell him that I enjoyed the book.
Steph (loves water)
Oct 13, 2014 rated it liked it
Shelves: coming-of-age
I read this because Ms. Gilman and I are the same age, and we had a few things in common growing up, but were light years apart in our upbringing. Batgirl, Tony DeFranco, Mick Jagger. Mostly I found her a little annoying and over the top, but at the end I recognized that she was brutally honest in her account. I don't know if I could be that honest in my own memoir.
Aug 18, 2012 rated it liked it
Shelves: beach-read
I enjoyed this book, which was a loan from a friend, more than I thought I was going to. I expected the laughter as the author takes us on a trip through the hippie antics of her parents but there were unexpected moments of real poignancy...especially in describing the effects of a divorce on children, forever.
Oct 01, 2014 rated it really liked it
If you like snarky (love that word), sarcastic, witty, self-deprecating humor, then this book is for you. Susan Jane Gilman is a Jewish New Yorker with some pretty funny stories to share; some were laugh out loud funny. I began this book rather unamused but was quickly converted and enjoyed this easy read by this very talented writer.
Jun 20, 2012 rated it did not like it
Shelves: never-finished
A plodding series of monotone stories. Should be subtitled Tales of Growing up Stoned and Self-absorbed.
Jul 31, 2012 rated it really liked it
A memoir of growing up in the sixties. Trying to make a first job work, drugs, teenage crushes,parties, music, it's all there. An entertaining read that I didn't want to end.
May 21, 2011 rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
I saw it on my sister Nikki's list and liked the title. It was a fluffy, entertaining read.
Annie Noblin
Feb 23, 2015 rated it it was amazing
I absolutely adored this book. I read it years ago, probably in 2004, when I should have been studying for a history final in college. It was totally worth the D I got on that test.
Jun 12, 2012 rated it liked it
Mary Blye  Kramer
Oct 10, 2017 rated it liked it
The first chapter on her hippy parents at the beach was fall-on-the-floor hysterical, but the book was mostly all downhill from there. Some funny parts, I suppose, but the author just tried too hard. Humor has to feel and be natural, but this author just seemed to find herself much too interesting and amusing. I really did not. It would have been a 2 star had it not been for the first chapter. I think a book about her parents would have been great.
Suz Davidson
Nov 03, 2017 rated it liked it
Somewhat funny, but not very remarkable when it comes to meaningful messaging.
Nov 15, 2017 rated it liked it
very funny and poignant. Gilman had a lot of colorful characters in her life and certainly is one herself. I enjoyed reading her story.
Aila maj
Oct 15, 2017 rated it it was amazing
One of my favorite non-fiction books! I never thought I would enjoy it sooooo much! It was worth every penny I spent! Must read!
May 14, 2013 rated it really liked it
Susan Jane Gilman grew up with hippy parents in New York in the 1970s, and fully embraced Madonna's style in the 1980's - only missing the opportunity to call her chapter about her teenage years "Desperately Seeking Susan". The stories she tells about her childhood and young adulthood reveal her as stubborn, funny, melodramatic, naive, vulnerable and feisty. The contradictions in her character are what give her anecdotes their punch. Self-confidant enough as a starstruck teenager to hang around ...more
Mar 01, 2012 rated it really liked it
Susan Gilman grew up in a "transitional" (pre-gentrified), mixed-race neighborhood on the Upper West Side of New York City during the 1970's which reminded me of the transitional neighborhood about an hour's drive away where I did some of my own growing up during the same time period. But Susan was quite a bit more adventurous than I was, and her upbringing was more influenced by the experimental culture of the time - family transcendental-meditation classes, for example. As she moved into her t ...more
This was kind of a roller coaster read for me. Some sections, I found myself nodding and saying "YES!" and other sections I really couldn't relate to. Even the parts I couldn't relate to were pretty fun to read as I like learning about how other people live.

Like the author, I was not popular at all in school and there was that group of girls whose lives seemed to be devoted to making mine miserable. Her experience with the solo in the Christmas program particularly resonated with me, having had
Aug 25, 2009 rated it really liked it
Bad blogger! Bad, bad!! I am so far behind on reviews - I have at least four more books to review after this one, maybe five. I might get through two tonight...maybe.

I'll kick it off with my book club's August selection, Hypocrite in a Pouffy White Dress by Susan Jane Gilman. This is a reasonably amusing and entertaining memoir - there were moments that had me clutching my gut with laughter. Unfortunately, there were also moments that had my eyes rolling over some of her preteen and teen antics.
Jul 17, 2009 rated it really liked it
Shelves: humor, memoir, 2009
After reading Susan Gilman's latest memoir, Undress Me in the Temple of Heaven, I wanted to read all of her other memoirs. So I am reading them backwards, and it does provide an interesting way to read an author's memoirs. In Undress Me in the Temple of Heaven, Susan's parents are sort of an absent but loving and normal mother and father. But in her second Memoir, they are far from normal, but still loving.

Susan provides a funny point of view of growing up during the same time I grew up, but not
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Susan Jane Gilman’s new novel, “The Ice Cream Queen of Orchard Street,” will be debuting in June 2014. She is also the bestselling author of three nonfiction books “Hypocrite in a Pouffy White Dress,” “Undress me in the Temple of Heaven,” and “Kiss My Tiara” and provides occasional commentary for National Public Radio. She has an MFA in Creative Writing from the University of Michigan, and has wri ...more
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