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The Progress of Love

4.15  ·  Rating details ·  2,095 Ratings  ·  140 Reviews

A divorced woman returns to her childhood home where she confronts the memory of her parents' confounding yet deep bond. The accidental near-drowning of a child exposes the fragility of the trust between children and parents. A young man, remembering a terrifying childhood incident, wrestles with the responsibility he has always
Paperback, 320 pages
Published December 12th 2000 by Vintage (first published 1985)
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Come with me, my love...

I’m an observer by nature. I guess you can say I like to watch. Birds. Bugs. Animals. Humans. The weather. I can sit in front of my bay window for hours watching a spider spin a web, a thunderstorm rolling in, a swarm of bees sipping nectar from my rhododendrons…

Alice Munro must be an observer by nature too, because her stories reveal her fascination with everyday life and everyday people. This particular collection focuses on rela
João Carlos

Alice Munro (n. 1931) no Lago Huron, Ontário, Canadá - Fotografia George Waldman

A escritora canadiana Alice Munro (n. 1931) foi galardoada com o Prémio Nobel da Literatura em 2013 que reconheceu nela um ”mestre do conto contemporâneo”, com apenas um único romance publicado em 1971 ”Vidas de Raparigas e Mulheres”.
Anteriormente, li duas das suas colectâneas de contos ”Falsos Segredos” (1994) - 5* e ”Ódio, Amizade, Namoro, Amor, Casamento” (2001) - 4*.

”O Progresso do Amor” é um colectânea que reún
K.D. Absolutely
Aug 15, 2009 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Recommended to K.D. by: 501 Must Read Books
Shelves: 501, anthology
My first book by Alice Munro (born 1931) and oh my, she kicks ass!

What is it with female Canadian writers? I normally think twice before picking up any book by a female writer. This is not a sexist remark but most of them I tried hard to like them but they fell short of my expectations. Virginia Woolf will always be my favorite along with Dame Iris Murdoch. Then, I also enjoyed Surfacing by Margaret Atwood and Unless by Carol Shields. They are the first two female Canadian writers who both joine
I sometimes like to think of Alice Munro as a painter. In drawing her just so, I can consider that she must furnish the place she has made for her daily hours of work with these finely delineated and peculiarly detailed portraits of people who have never existed whole, but whom we have all met in part: people whose clothes and expressions we have worn, whose lives we have lived in, and into whose poses our own movement pours content.

Still, portraits are not her characteristic medium. Other than
Jun 28, 2012 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: canada, racconti
Preso per mano e portato in mezzo a vite ordinarie di gente qualsiasi, ma scoprendo angoli nascosti e intimi, e così illuminando molto di me, delle mie scelte e esperienze di vita, d'amore. Rapito dall’eleganza e dall’attenzione che Munro sparge.

Si tratta di racconti, e io e i racconti andiamo molto d’accordo: con questi della Munro, la prossimità diventa addirittura saldatura.
Non racconta gente speciale Alice Munro, non mette al centro delle sue narrazioni personaggi con sens
Aug 01, 2011 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: read-in-2011
Of the three collections I've read by Munro, I'd say this is arguably the weakest (the other two being Runaway and Open Secrets), but by any other standard, these are still utterly breathtaking stories. I suppose my two critiques would be that (a) this feels like cohesive as a collection in that each story seems only tangentially to tie back to a grander thematic thread; and (b) that there are two or three somewhat unmemorable stories. "Eskimo" and "Circle of Prayer" come to mind. Or rather, don ...more
Apr 22, 2013 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: g-contos, n-canada, e4, l-500bb
Onze contos narrados com a profundidade de um romance, ao nível do conhecimento das personagens, onde é dada primazia ao seu interior, desvalorizando o exterior.
Historias reveladoras do intimo e anseios mais profundos da alma humana.
Na sua maior parte são as mulheres as protagonistas principais e as "vítimas" do Progresso do Amor; do encantamento no seu início, do desespero no seu fim e do seu poder transformador.
"Liberta-me. Liberta-me. Devolve-me o juízo. Por favor, depressa. Por favor."
Jan 20, 2014 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Questa raccolta di racconti brevi va letta con attenzione per i dettagli, perché sono proprio questi i veri protagonisti.
Il primo impatto,devo ammetterlo,non è stato dei migliori: i racconti sembravano lasciare l'azione in sospeso,senza conclusione. Poi mi sono resa che i racconti di Alice Munro non sono "drammatici" nel senso etimologico del termine; i protagonisti sono grovigli di emozioni, sentimenti che si avvicendano nelle vite dei personaggi.
Alice Munro rappresenta quello che si cela dietr
Picked this book because of the tag saying " Winner of the Nobel prize in Literature 2013" thought I would be blown away. Sadly reading the first five stories I am disappointed. Found it a bit mundane. The stories in my opinion have the same sort of characters. For example a trucker who sort of abandons his family and goes to the Arctic to work in oil rigs. I encountered this character in two short stories so far. And the wife who brings up two boys all by her own.

Reading this book now has beco
Ana Lúcia
Oct 22, 2014 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Voltei aos magníficos contos de Alice Munro.
Li estes onze e souberam-me a pouco.
“Mesmo que vivamos atormentados por problemas, que sejamos doentes e pobres e feios, temos uma alma para carregar vida fora como um tesouro numa salva.” (O Progresso do Amor)
Nov 16, 2016 rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Nei vari racconti che compongono la raccolta e di cui la Munro è maestra, la scrittrice ci parla delle diverse forme d'amore.
L'amore, raccontato dalla Munro, assume di volta in volta diverse sfumature e sfaccettature. L'amore descritto qui è l'amore filiale, come nel primo racconto che dà il titolo alla raccolta, dove una donna, una figlia riscopre vecchi ricordi nella casa dei genitori, ricostruendo così la sua vita e il suo passato.
E' l'amore coniugale o anche l'amore/ affetto tra due amiche c
Mar 26, 2010 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: short-stories
1993 notebook:
Dear Alice Munro,
this is a fan letter. I was reading your stories in 'The Progress of Love' commuting - 1 story there, 1 story back. I catch a train - 12 pages, a walk across the city, then a bus - 10 pages. Today was 'Miles City, Montana' there, 'Fits' back. Fine, fine stories, heartstopping; the latter, especially the last 2 pages with its walk on snow over fences and its revelation, made me high. Expand with knowledge, insight. On a bus in Birmingham (UK) your stories on my lap
Persephone Abbott
Oct 06, 2012 rated it really liked it
A reviewer remarked that it took more time to read these short stories than it did generally to read a novel. I can understand this statement because the stories are quite compact, really a very delightful trait, and do require some attention to the details to fully enter into the narrative. I deeply admire the choices of names and places that immediately made me believe the setting of the stories. The use of timelines is excellently manipulated yet graceful. The stories are of love; of simply w ...more
Nov 18, 2014 rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: novellit, kanada
Hirmuinen tunnustus: en ymmärrä Munroa. Olin lukenut häntä aeimmin esimerkiksi novelli-kurssilla, jossa muut kehuivat Munron maasta taivaaseen ja valitsivat hänen novellinsa kurssin parhaaksi (minä en). Luinkin tätä kokoelmaa kuin suurennuslasilla. Halusin todella löytää ne lukuisat kerrokset ja merkitykset, joita tiesin näiden yksinkertaisten novellien olevan täynnä. Vaan nepä pirulaiset eivät näyttäydy minulle! Lainasin jopa saman kirjan englanniksi nähdäkseni, josko löytäisin nuo upeat kerrok ...more
Nov 12, 2013 rated it it was ok
I guess Alice Munro is a good writer. I'll probably read something else by her but in a more distant future.
I struggled with this book. Everything seemed to be right, yet every time I was picking it up, I was wincing. I was wading through it, I was procrastinating, I was looking for excuses to drop it. I wanted it to end.
I found it depressive although I have read far sadder books but their tone of sadness was understandable whereas this one was not. It was not that kind of suffering that leads t
Jan 10, 2015 rated it it was ok
Shelves: couldn-t-finish
I'm sorry but I thought it was OK. Clearly based upon other reviews and awards I am in the minority. But these stories are just sketches of situations that don't really "say" anything. I never know quite what the message is or what I'm supposed to take away from it. This is "abstract" is beautifully written but I just need more.
Ruta Buciunaite
Jan 01, 2015 rated it it was amazing
I first stumbled upon Alice Munro's quotes in Alex Colville's exhibition and was immediately urged to read her work - it had the same air of small-town Canada as Colville's paintings.
This book reminds me of so many things.
It reminds me of Raymond Carver, except he's more american and very bitter, and Munro's writing is feminine and more refined, and there's a strong sense of hope, of everything being OK somehow.
It also recalls a wonderful movie "I am Love" - the quiet determination, the secre
Mar 13, 2010 rated it really liked it
Very subjective reactions here. This book gave me a new appreciation for Munro. I'm now going to go and reread all the books of hers I've already finished, and get through the ones I haven't read yet. Wonderful stories! I love the glancing incidental bits and how they contribute to the overall structure of each story, or of the collection as a whole. They're so gracefully constructed that I'd have to sit around much longer to ponder the construction in order to explain just what I like about the ...more
Julieann Wielga
Sep 07, 2011 rated it really liked it
Alice Munro is stellar. I read these stories selfishly. I read them as what it means to be a woman passing through from childhood, to motherhood, to the stages beyond. When I talk with my friends about Munro, many have said that her stories are marked by instances of the bizarre, almost invoking Raymond Carver or Flannery O'Connor. But for me those moments of the terrible is not what precipitated from the story,instead what crystalized for me was the passages from one part of lives to the next. ...more
Jun 08, 2015 rated it liked it
Shelves: canadian-authors
I just don't get the hype for Munro... I think her style just requires too much patience, and includes too many subtleties and abstract themes- she's the sort for plotless novels that are wholly character driven. Her writing is beautiful, but it wasn't immersive enough to capture my attention to catch the subtleties in her prose. I found myself zoning out too much, and remember nothing of whole paragraphs if not pages. This was my first and only experience with her, and I do want to give her wri ...more
Dec 27, 2007 rated it it was amazing
Recommends it for: lovers of good craft
Shelves: short-stories
I don't know how she does it. But she does, time after time. Alice Munro is so damn good at making up these beautiful understated worlds. When you look under the surface, nothing about them is ordinary at all. Hundreds of beautiful stories in her arsenal, and she's still going. She's my hero, pretty much.

But enough of that. I love this collection above many of her collections because there's something subtle linking these stories. They're mostly about middle-aged women, whose plans have been sha
Anindita Satpathi
Oct 03, 2016 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
While The Progress of Love is lovely, Friend of my Youth seemed more intimate. In typical Munro style, the characters are divinely sketched, in even grittier detail than usual, if possible. Gnarled feelings, contorted intentions and uncomfortable relations abound. Her stories, refreshingly, have very little space for self-pity, crowded as they are with the bric-a-brac of daily routine. Lichen started beautifully but petered off towards the end and Fits seemed to have been left open-ended just fo ...more
Mar 20, 2011 rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: 2014
Completely subjective rating. The second half of this collection, after the excellent "Jesse and Meribeth," failed to resonate with me. I will never be one to argue with Alice Munro's mastery of the short story, but occasionally I get bored of somber elegance. This was just one of those times.

My favorite story in the collection is probably "Lichen" (and the most interestingly bizarre thing in the collection is the reason that particular story is named as it is).
Thing Two
To call these short stories is to miss the point. These stories require the reader to concentrate, to pay attention to the who's and what's and to be patient. The stories are often confusing - entering in the middle - and take a bit to decipher, but if you're patient, you'll be rewarded.

I love Alice Munro. This many not be my favorite collection, but if it was the first I'd ever read of hers, I'd come away knowing this: I love Alice Munro.
Laila (BigReadingLife)
Alice Munro is exquisite. My favorite stories were the title story, Lichen, and White Dump. But a very good collection overall. It took quite a while for me to read, because each story had so much emotional heft that I couldn't plow into the next one right away.
Aug 20, 2007 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
This collection made it apparent to me why Alice Munro is one of the most acclaimed short story writers out there. Every story had a clear arc and reverberating themes. Standouts were the title story, "The Moon in the Orange Street Skating Rink" and "White Dump."
Ewa Szymańska
Feb 15, 2016 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
She's a brilliant storyteller.
Sep 22, 2015 rated it really liked it
Her writing is so lovely.
Uno sguardo fugace nelle vite altrui

Una raccolta di undici racconti autoconclusivi con al centro un unico filo conduttore: l'amore. L'amore in tutte le sue forme: coniugale, filiale, fraterno, amicale... un amore, però, che non è propriamente protagonista dei racconti, ma che risulta piuttosto la causa ultima delle vicende narrate.
La Munro non ci racconta delle vite, ma dei semplici scorci di vita: istanti rubati ad esistenze come tante, momenti perduti nel passato di ciascuno, che tornano, inas

"The Progress of Love" by Alice Munro
ok some a bit long! ;p

The Progress of love Aunt Beryl, mother burns money
Lichen Stella happy divorcee in North West
Monsieur les Deux Chapeaux brothers Colin and Ross(not so bright)
Miles City, Montana Rest stop kid goes in deep end of pool but swims so ok
Fits Peg finds dead neighbors (why dead) cool calm others all freak (it was worse than she tells husband - yucky)
The Moon in the Orange Street Skating Rink Sam and Edgar school, Callie at boarding house Callie
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Alice Ann Munro, née Laidlaw, is a Canadian short-story writer who is widely considered one of the world's premier fiction writers. Munro is a three-time winner of Canada's Governor General's Award for fiction. Her stories focus on human relationships looked at through the lens of daily life. She has thus been referred to as "the Canadian Chekhov."

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“This is the way you look at the poorest details of the world resurfaced, after you've been driving for a long time -- you feel their singleness and precise location and the forlorn coincidence of you being there to see them.” 16 likes
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