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A Fragile Life: Accepting Our Vulnerability

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It is perhaps our noblest cause, and certainly one of our oldest: to end suffering. Think of the Buddha, Chuang Tzu, or Marcus Aurelius: stoically composed figures impervious to the torments of the wider world, living their lives in complete serenity—and teaching us how to do the same. After all, isn’t a life free from suffering the ideal? Isn’t it what so many of us seek? ...more
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Published March 1st 2017 by University of Chicago Press
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Joseph Gascho
Mar 30, 2017 rated it it was amazing
I great read--the author argues that the great Buddhist (and other) philosophies about the nobleness and idealism of getting to point that one can "let go" of anything in life, that one can get to a point of not suffering, even over a terrible grief such as the loss of a child, is achievable by only a very few and is, in fact not something that most of us really want to ever do. He differentiates between the "Small Matters" (getting stuck in traffic, e.g.) and "Large Matters"--a tragedy in life, ...more
Nov 07, 2019 rated it really liked it
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Terrific. Proves that good philosophy can and should be accessible to the general reader. Moreover, it is an important argument about how and why suffering is always entangled with care. I felt the analysis of the doctrines of invulnerability should have been accompanied by at least some reference to metaphysical grounds for acceptance of suffering but he shies away from this and leaves us mainly with rational grounds.
Michael Baranowski
Apr 16, 2018 rated it really liked it
As a practicing Stoic / Buddhist, I was intrigued by May's exploration of what he feels is missing from these 'invulnerablist' approaches to life. In the end I don't quite agree with him, largely because I don't agree that these approaches require the sort of emotional distancing he seems to believe they do. I suppose he might be right in one sense - the Stoic Sage or the Enlightened Buddhist may have that level of detachment, but being concerned about that is like a 97 pound weakling not liftin ...more
Jul 25, 2017 rated it liked it
Really enjoyed this book for the most part but had to force myself to finish. May does a good job of unpacking why I often feel uncomfortable for 'invulnerability' (Stoicism, Buddhism, etc.). His thesis is closer to my own beliefs and well reasoned. ...more
Christopher Brennan
Jun 22, 2017 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
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I really cannot say enough about the approachability of Todd May's work. He finds a intellectually rigorous yet human readable way to convey both the surface and the nuance of life's biggest questions. A Fragile Life is an amazing complement to his work in A Significant Life. ...more
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Todd has been teaching at Clemson for nearly thirty years. For many of those years his area of specialization in philosophy was recent French thought, especially that of Michel Foucault and Gilles Deleuze. More recently he has turned his attention to broader life concerns: meaning in life, coping with suffering, acting with moral decency, and so on. He is the author of sixteen books of philosophy. ...more

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