面對父母老去的勇氣

by Ichiro Kishimi, 岸見 一郎, 陳令嫻 (Translator)

你愛父母，卻沒辦法和他們獨處？
你愛父母，卻只能靠中間人傳話？
你愛父母，卻只願付出金錢而不願付出時間？
你愛父母，卻對他們的關懷詢問避之唯恐不及？
你愛父母，卻無法忍受他們的嘮叨碎念？
你愛父母，卻不肯面對他們越來越需要你的現實？

當父母老了，你的機會來了，拿回親子關係的主導權，換一種方式愛他，重新建立人生最重要的人際關係。

Genres: Self Help

240 pages, Paperback

First published December 10, 2015

About the author

Ichiro KISHIMI Philosopher, Adlerian psychologist and translator of English and German languages. Born in 1956.

M.A.in philosophy from Kyoto University. Director of the Japanese Society of Adlerian psychology. Former counselor at Maeda Clinic in Kyoto and has taught philosophy and ancient Greek at various institutions such as Kyoto University of Education and Nara Women's University.

He presently teaches educational psychology and clinical psychology at Meiji School of Oriental Medicine in Suita, Osaka. Kishimi now has his own private counseling office in Kameoka, Kyoto, and devotes his time to giving lectures on Adlerian Psychology and child education.

Reviews

[Ray Kyo · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book give me a fresh perspective on how to live with my elderly parents. I deeply appreciate the author writing this good book.

[Msophiad5 · Rating 3 out of 5]

讀起來像在看作者照護父親的流水帳，只有少數幾句讀起來有共鳴和人生反思。

也許該慶幸自己的父母或祖父母還沒有遇過老年癡呆、失智的症狀，因此對本書缺乏共感。

[Tiffany · Rating 5 out of 5]

多么有智慧的一本人生宝藏书. 作者很有深度的哲学思想讨论. 简单深刻, 来日必定实用. 谢谢你写了这么缺乏讨论的人生重要议题!

[CHEN HSINYIN · Rating 3 out of 5]

隨著年紀越來越大，參加的告別式越來越多，看著母親虛弱的身影，心裡也總是有一種不明所以的擔憂，但也許這就是人生該面對的，我們或許換個角度，更坦然的面對這一切

[Loretta · Rating 3 out of 5]

Quite repetitive, and the prose comes across cold. I'm not sure if it's the author's style of writing or problem with translation, but there're some refreshing insights in the last 2 chapters.