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Happier: Learn the Secrets to Daily Joy and Lasting Fulfillment
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Can You Learn to Be Happy?
YES . . . according to the teacher of Harvard University's most popular and life-changing course. One out of every five Harvard students has lined up to hear Tal Ben-Shahar's insightful and inspiring lectures on that ever-elusive state: HAPPINESS.
HOW?
Grounded in the revolutionary "positive psychology" movement, Ben-Shahar ingeniously combines sci ...more
YES . . . according to the teacher of Harvard University's most popular and life-changing course. One out of every five Harvard students has lined up to hear Tal Ben-Shahar's insightful and inspiring lectures on that ever-elusive state: HAPPINESS.
HOW?
Grounded in the revolutionary "positive psychology" movement, Ben-Shahar ingeniously combines sci ...more
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Dr. Tal Ben-Shahar, a professor at Harvard University who leads a positive psychology seminar, wrote Happier "to raise awareness of the general principles underlying a happy and fulfilling life." The philosophical questions surrounding happiness have interested him since the age of sixteen when he became the Israeli national squash champion. He was perplexed as to why after fulfilling his dream he didn't experience the happiness he expected. Of course, he was ecstatic after winning, but almost i
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This is a pretty thin book with about enough content to fill a magazine article. The book centers around two ideas. First, that happiness is the "ultimate currency." The use of "currency", here, I think is unfortunate. Currency is actually a means of exchange that, at least with modern floating currencies, has no intrinsic value. A twenty dollar bill is not worth much in and of itself. It's worth comes from what we can exchange for it. Happiness is not like that. We don't exchange happiness for
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The last book I'll tell you about was an airport impulse buy. It was me being afraid I might run out of things to read in Eastern Europe and knowing how hard it is here to get books in English. “Happier: Learn the Secrets to Daily Joy and Lasting Fulfillment” is by Tal Ben-Shahar, a Harvard professor whose “Happiness Class” quickly became the most popular courses on campus!
This is not your typical self-help book full of mindless platitudes. Instead it is more like a workbook for your life. It's ...more
This is not your typical self-help book full of mindless platitudes. Instead it is more like a workbook for your life. It's ...more
very simple but profound book. i found myself bookmarking a lot of sections and exercises to return to when i had a bit more time. certainly, reading it did not make me suddenly *happier* - but it gave me some things to reflect on more.
two quotes:
"The proper role of goals is to liberate us, so that we can enjoy the here and now. If we set off on a road trip without any identified destination, the trip itself is unlikely to be much fun. If we do not know where we are going or even where we want ...more
two quotes:
"The proper role of goals is to liberate us, so that we can enjoy the here and now. If we set off on a road trip without any identified destination, the trip itself is unlikely to be much fun. If we do not know where we are going or even where we want ...more
Hard NOT to like a book about being happier. :)
The author has big ambitions for this book. Not just a social change away from Materialism and towards Happiness as the "ultimate currency," but a worldwide Happiness Revolution. (I can see it now, rainbow flags, glitter bombs, and all sides with the same battle cry, "YAY!" Good luck with that.
Some of the book is a bit oversimplified and requires the occasional building an escape route out of painted-in corners. (OF COURSE there are times when we ...more
The author has big ambitions for this book. Not just a social change away from Materialism and towards Happiness as the "ultimate currency," but a worldwide Happiness Revolution. (I can see it now, rainbow flags, glitter bombs, and all sides with the same battle cry, "YAY!" Good luck with that.
Some of the book is a bit oversimplified and requires the occasional building an escape route out of painted-in corners. (OF COURSE there are times when we ...more
Great read. While some of it is obvious (find what makes you happy), he makes some great points. He poses some poignant questions on how to discover what matters to you, and how to add happiness to your life. He briefly discusses external vs. internal manifestations of happiness. Definite 5 star.
A few quotes from the book:
"To live a meaningful life, we must have a self-generated purpose that possesses personal significance rather than one that is dictated by society's standards and expectations ...more
A few quotes from the book:
"To live a meaningful life, we must have a self-generated purpose that possesses personal significance rather than one that is dictated by society's standards and expectations ...more
Nothing surprised me in the content of this book, yet it's a nice and well-written reminder of how to focus on yourself, your view of life, your goals and overall understanding of happiness. If only it was easier to be happy (poof! and you're happy), if only everyone would know how to reach such state, show example.. we'd live in a way better place. But this book is one of many baby steps to reach this destination.
“Be the change that you wish to see in the world.” /Mahatma Gandhi/
“Be the change that you wish to see in the world.” /Mahatma Gandhi/
The backbone of the most popular course at Harvard today. A lot of great exercises to complete! I liked his hamburger model to describe people
- the vegetarian burger is the rat racer - future benefit, present detriment - inability to enjoy what they are doing and their persistent belief that once they reach a certain destination they will be happy.
- the junk-food burger is the hedonist - future detriment, present benefit - seeks pleasure, avoids pain.
- the worst burger is the nihilist - future ...more
- the vegetarian burger is the rat racer - future benefit, present detriment - inability to enjoy what they are doing and their persistent belief that once they reach a certain destination they will be happy.
- the junk-food burger is the hedonist - future detriment, present benefit - seeks pleasure, avoids pain.
- the worst burger is the nihilist - future ...more
Interesting frameworks and concepts, like the future/present pleasure/detriment matrix, gratitude letters, and sentence completion.
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Rather than asking yourself if you are happy or not, a more helpful question is "How can I become happier?"
If we do not ritualise activities - whether working out at the gym, spending time with our family or reading for pleasure - we often don't get to them, and rather than spontaneous we become reactive to external demands.
Hedonism: the experience of present bene ...more
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Rather than asking yourself if you are happy or not, a more helpful question is "How can I become happier?"
If we do not ritualise activities - whether working out at the gym, spending time with our family or reading for pleasure - we often don't get to them, and rather than spontaneous we become reactive to external demands.
Hedonism: the experience of present bene ...more
This "self-help" book, I would recommend. It started out slow, but became more interesting and insightful as it went along. The book has you ask questions and complete sentences as exercises in the study of becoming "Happier". I actually worked through these exercises by writing down the questions/sentences and answers in a spiral. The thought patterns send you down many different paths to determine where your true happiness comes from and what you can do to feel happier in the greater part of y
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Meh. Not great, not terrible. The problem I had with this book was that it was so theoretical as to be nearly impossible to apply in any concrete way. Also, I felt like the people who can read/get something out of this book are wealthy, first world singles living in a free society with no obligations other than to themselves and the means to do whatever they want (basically, the Harvard students that the author teaches). The whole talk of 'duty' and 'sacrifice' being bad for your happiness (even
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The author taught this Happier course at Harvard and he had the largest enrollment of students in Harvard history.
The book is a somewhat dry read for a self help book however but he references lots of studies and research which is unusual in this field and very interesting.
I love his basic premise which is that the ultimate currency is not money but happiness. In any situation, we should determine how much of the most important "currency" (happiness) we are going to earn.
I saw on TV that Denma ...more
The book is a somewhat dry read for a self help book however but he references lots of studies and research which is unusual in this field and very interesting.
I love his basic premise which is that the ultimate currency is not money but happiness. In any situation, we should determine how much of the most important "currency" (happiness) we are going to earn.
I saw on TV that Denma ...more
1. Create meaningful rituals.
2. Daily gratitude journal.
3. Live and appreciate the present moment.
4. Enjoy the journey: "Happiness is not about making it to the peak of the mountain, nor is it about climbing aimlessly around the mountain, happiness is the experience of climbing toward the peak."
5. Struggles, hardship, and challenge are necessary components of an emotionally rich life.
"Don't ask yourself what the world needs, ask yourself what makes you come alive. And then go and do that. Be ...more
2. Daily gratitude journal.
3. Live and appreciate the present moment.
4. Enjoy the journey: "Happiness is not about making it to the peak of the mountain, nor is it about climbing aimlessly around the mountain, happiness is the experience of climbing toward the peak."
5. Struggles, hardship, and challenge are necessary components of an emotionally rich life.
"Don't ask yourself what the world needs, ask yourself what makes you come alive. And then go and do that. Be ...more
I read that this author taught a course at Harvard and it was one the most popular with its students, that info led me into reading this book. After reading this book I can see why people love this class and as a current University student, I wish there was a class like this for me to take. There is a lot of practical advice that is supported by science and case studies on a topic that is one that a lot of people are seeking to achieve, being happier.
I love the fact that the author cites a lot ...more
I love the fact that the author cites a lot ...more
stuff you should already know from memes your friends share on facebook.
Main takeaway: there are 4 types or people/ activities:
those that have pleasure now forsaking the future (hedonists) -learned helplessness
forsake now for future pleasure (rat-racer) - the destination fallacy
those not good now or later (imo this is the actuality for both of the above)
those that cultivate happiness now and later - the main focus of the book. Lots of time spent examining how so many activities should be this wa ...more
Main takeaway: there are 4 types or people/ activities:
those that have pleasure now forsaking the future (hedonists) -learned helplessness
forsake now for future pleasure (rat-racer) - the destination fallacy
those not good now or later (imo this is the actuality for both of the above)
those that cultivate happiness now and later - the main focus of the book. Lots of time spent examining how so many activities should be this wa ...more
as i was reading this book, it seemed to apply to every situation and person around me. i love books that sink into the mesh of your life that way.
i didn't find "answers" in the exercises, but it's given me a lot to think about and integrates a lot of good thought about what happiness really represents.
i haven't found my personal north star, but i have found a clear answer as to why i might not feel as happy now as i once did. and somehow that gives me peace just to understand maybe my current ...more
i didn't find "answers" in the exercises, but it's given me a lot to think about and integrates a lot of good thought about what happiness really represents.
i haven't found my personal north star, but i have found a clear answer as to why i might not feel as happy now as i once did. and somehow that gives me peace just to understand maybe my current ...more
nice little reminder about what really makes us happy. though this positive view not for everyone.
Instead of feeling despondent I am not perfectly happy as I think I ought to be, and instead of wasting my energies trying to gauge how happy I am, I am going to recognize that happiness is an unlimited resource. I am going to focus on ways in order to attain it. What I am going to do? Happiness is lifelong pursuit, anyway. To say I am going to be disciplined and leave it at that as we do with New Year's resolutions is not enough or practical. I need rituals, that is, routine, and it is useful b ...more
I guess I shouldn't expect too much from a self-help book--even if it is written by a college professor. I think the book is designed to help Harvard students who still feel malaise even though they have "accomplished" a lot. The basic premise is to redefine what happiness is and then do things (set goals) so that you become happier. It boils down to keeping busy so you don't notice you're unhappy--as far as I can tell. The book is superficial: it can't help people whose life circumstances disem
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By all accounts, Tal Ben-Shahar is a success. He won the Israeli squash championship when he was sixteen and received his PhD at Harvard University in Organizational Behavior. In 2006, he taught PSY 1504 — Positive Psychology – Harvard’s most popular course. Despite accomplishing many of his goals, he was not happy and became committed to answering the question of how one can attain lasting happiness.
Happier is an easy book to read. It does a great job translating with rigor the science of posit ...more
Happier is an easy book to read. It does a great job translating with rigor the science of posit ...more
(3.0) will try some of the exercises and possibly change rating
So I hadn't heard of this book nor the whole positive psychology trend and then I read Tony hsieh's book, delivering happiness, and he points to this book as a great resource. So I figured i'd give it a try (believe it's my first self help).
Anyway, not sire anything here is revolutionary: find things you enjoy and do them more, find meaning in your life, do a lot of introspection and make the changes you need in order to become happi ...more
So I hadn't heard of this book nor the whole positive psychology trend and then I read Tony hsieh's book, delivering happiness, and he points to this book as a great resource. So I figured i'd give it a try (believe it's my first self help).
Anyway, not sire anything here is revolutionary: find things you enjoy and do them more, find meaning in your life, do a lot of introspection and make the changes you need in order to become happi ...more
I have read quite a few happiness books and wasn't initially impressed. However as I continued reading I thought that Ben-Shahar made some important points that other authors didn't fully cover. Essentially the book is about finding meaning in life, and he makes a strong case for why money and success aren't enough to bring happiness. There is much of the research that other books cover that he doesn't, but what he does cover he discusses clearly and thoroughly. It was worth the time to read. I
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I do not know how this book came to me. But I did not like it very much. I was interested in some anecdotes, but the book did not keep my interest. I just read some parts and left it in just a few hours.
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Ni siquiera sé cómo este libro llegó a mis manos. Pero no me gustó especialmente. Alguna anécdota captó mi interés, pero el discurso general no mantuvo mi interés. Lo leí en diagonal y lo dejé en apenas unas horas.
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Ni siquiera sé cómo este libro llegó a mis manos. Pero no me gustó especialmente. Alguna anécdota captó mi interés, pero el discurso general no mantuvo mi interés. Lo leí en diagonal y lo dejé en apenas unas horas.
Interesting theories and observations. Alternative way to look at happiness in life. I listened to the cd version first, and am reading it to reinforce some of the ideas. Highly recommend to provoke some thought.
Ugh, lame. Bad writing, bad examples, way too many words to get across a very basic idea that you can find in any self-help book. Be happier by living in the moment. The author comes across as a complete tool.
This book was assigned for my Positive Psychology class. I found a lot of it interesting, although some of it felt a little cheesy at times.
this book was horrible, don't ever read it!
First of all, I would like to say that this book is a book that in my opinion, everyone should read at least once in their lifetime. Usually I really like to read books about self-growth, but lately, I hadn't found any that had really caught my attention since I read, ''The 10X rule'', which I loved. But I had started reading many biographies but none of them inspired me the way I thought they would, but a 2 weeks ago I stumbled upon this book, but I hadn't had the chance to read it until 3 days
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I'm thoroughly impressed by and grateful for this book. This is a very solid book on happiness, and I'd say it's one of the best in this important genre (what could really be more important?). Happier is based on Tal Ben-Shahar's positive psychology primer - which about 20% of all Harvard graduates attended; I can readily see why Ben-Shahar's corresponding course is the most popular course at Harvard.
Ben-Shahar wisely suggests that a better question than 'Am I happy?' is 'How can I be happier?' ...more
Ben-Shahar wisely suggests that a better question than 'Am I happy?' is 'How can I be happier?' ...more
Another good book which is part of the Positive Psychology movement. The question to ask is How can I become happier? Create rituals and keep a daily gratitude journal of the five things that made/make you happy.
Four archetypes are laid out. Rat Race/Veggie Burger, Happiness/Ideal, Hedonism/Junk food burger, Nihilism/worst burger. You need to enjoy the journey on the way toward a valuable destination. Happiness is the experience of climbing toward the peak. Meditate daily. Happiness is explained ...more
Four archetypes are laid out. Rat Race/Veggie Burger, Happiness/Ideal, Hedonism/Junk food burger, Nihilism/worst burger. You need to enjoy the journey on the way toward a valuable destination. Happiness is the experience of climbing toward the peak. Meditate daily. Happiness is explained ...more
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Tal Ben-Shahar (Hebrew: טל בן-שחר, also known as Tal David Ben-Shachar) is an Israeli teacher and writer in the areas of positive psychology and leadership.
Tal Ben-Shahar taught at Harvard, where his classes on Positive Psychology and The Psychology of Leadership were among the most popular courses in the University's history. Today Tal teaches at the Interdisciplinary Center, Herzliya.
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Tal Ben-Shahar taught at Harvard, where his classes on Positive Psychology and The Psychology of Leadership were among the most popular courses in the University's history. Today Tal teaches at the Interdisciplinary Center, Herzliya.
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