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What does everyone in the modern world need to know? Renowned psychologist Jordan B. Peterson's answer to this most difficult of questions uniquely combines the hard-won truths of ancient tradition with the stunning revelations of cutting-edge scientific research.

Humorous, surprising, and informative, Dr. Peterson tells us why skateboarding boys and girls must be left alon
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Hardcover, Canadian First Edition, 409 pages
Published January 23rd 2018 by Random House Canada
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K They say there are no dumb questions. I commend John for pushing the limits of that saying to the breaking point.
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Ryan Boissonneault
Jan 25, 2018 rated it did not like it
I see many five-star reviews here, so here is the contrarian position. I’m giving this one star for a couple of reasons.

1. The content does not justify the length of the book. When you strip away the pseudo-profundity and verbosity, you’re left with rather simple ideas you could find in any self-help book or discover on your own. Rule # 1, for instance, essentially states that females prefer males with confidence and that success breeds confidence and further success. This is rather obvious wit
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Sebastian Radu
Jan 26, 2018 rated it did not like it
DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME!

If you've never read a book in your life, you'd think JP is super smart: that baroque style of writing, the never-ending sentences, all those references to science and philosophy - "how does the man do it!?" you ask yourself.
It's simple. The book's actually rubbish but you have nothing to compare it with.

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Nov 2018: Since this review is getting traction, please note that these were my impressions right after plodding through this dull book and I'm not going to wast
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Mehrsa
Feb 01, 2018 rated it did not like it
So there is a lot of wisdom in here about how to live your life: don't blame other people, listen and understand other people's perspectives, be honest even though it's uncomfortable, and don't demonize humanity.

And then all the wisdom goes down the toilet in one particular chapter when he makes a farce of his whole argument. Men are being victimized by liberal academics. Not only does he start blaming everybody and anybody, but he completely mischaracterizes the progressive argument or makes a
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Charles  Stampul
Jan 04, 2018 rated it it was amazing
Jordan Peterson may be the only clinical psychologist who believes that psychology is subordinate to philosophy and the one thing that psychology and philosophy both genuflect before is story. Story, or myth, predates religion and is, in fact, as old as language itself.

In his earlier book, Maps of Meaning: The Architecture of Belief, Peterson connects the stories we share with our earliest ancestors with modern knowledge of behavior and the mind. It’s a textbook for his popular University of To
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Sara
Feb 02, 2018 rated it did not like it
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Marianne
Jan 17, 2018 rated it it was amazing
A book by Jordan Peterson, I won’t be able to do it justice.
12 Rules for Life is a wonderful book. It is typical Peterson with large amounts of insightful information and wit. The book includes information that I knew, did not know, and information I knew but did not know I knew (like a Peterson lecture).
There are three main points that I took away from this book:
1. The world is a horrible place filled with suffering. If you personally don’t suffer, someone you know will.
2. If you want the wo
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Martin V
Jan 20, 2018 rated it it was amazing
I wish this book had been around to read when I was 18.
BlackOxford
Jun 07, 2018 rated it it was ok
Too Sweet to be Wholesome

Jordan Peterson is a global phenomenon. He is good in print; even better in interviews. As a psychoanalyst, he has decades of experience and professional credibility (I find his Jungian approach far more interesting than Freudian or various cognitive methods). As a Canadian he is presumed a certain integrity often denied to other English-speaking experts. As a man, he is engaging and fast on his feet with no defensiveness even under intense pressure. In 12 Rules for Life
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Darwin8u
Jun 10, 2018 rated it it was ok
"Faulty tools produce faulty results."
- Jordan B. Peterson, 12 Rules for Life

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I'm generally not a fan of self-help books and this one would have probably never hit my to-read shelf if a good friend of mine hadn't invited me to attend a live Jordan Peterson lecture in Phoenix a little over a week ago (June 1, 2018). The only other exposure I had to Peterson was a wave of seriously negative posts about him by some of my most liberal friends on FB. I was intrigued. Here I have some friends who found
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Byrne
Jan 27, 2018 rated it really liked it
I ignored Jordan Peterson for a while, since his name usually came up in culture war contexts where the rule is that every generation gets approximately five talking points to endlessly yell at each other. But then he published a book, and a bunch of my academic friends started screeching a few octaves higher than usual, and a few of my well-adjusted friends started reading the book, so I decided to check it out. I recognize that being inclined to agree with a critic of postmodernism entirely be ...more
Douglas Wilson
Mar 28, 2018 rated it really liked it
As I wrote on Twitter, this book contains pockets of silliness connected by long stretches of common grace on fire. Really worthwhile.
Chester
Jan 18, 2018 rated it it was amazing
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Dr. Jordan Peterson has outdone himself.

Spanning across religion, mythology, politics, literature, and evolutionary psychology...

Intertwined with personal anecdotes, clinical correlates, and a good mix of dark humor...

With passion, with rage, with love, Peterson has masterfully crafted a cross-disciplinary exploration into the essence of the human condition:

What it means to tread on the precipice of order and chaos, of destruction and creation. What it means to transcend our primitive animalisti
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Brendan Monroe
Where have all the genuine intellectuals gone?

Christopher Hitchens' death in 2011 left a huge gap that nobody has yet managed to fill, though many have tried. If anything, the absence of a voice like his these past years has shown just what a unique and profound thinker the man was. He was a colossus and, sadly for us, all too difficult to replace.

The era of Trump, Fake News, and both left and right hysteria demands a Hitchens-esque figure who can rise above it all and tell us what's what, but
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Leo Robertson
Jan 24, 2018 rated it it was amazing
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I’ve highlighted more paragraphs in this book than any that I’ve read in the last… very long time!

As should be expected, this is the literary equivalent of a kick up the ass. Like true originals, if you’ve heard him speak before, you’ll find it impossible not to read his book in his voice—just as I have done previously with Marina Abramovic’s memoir and others I can’t currently think of. The point is, if something reads exactly like that person talks, it took an immense effort to write and is—wh
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Tristan
Mar 04, 2018 rated it it was ok
PULLING THEM BUCKO’S UP BY THEIR BOOTSTRAPS, B. PETERSON STYLE


“A list of the people who ought to be killed...Starting with these people who read self help books…why do so many people need help?! Life is not that complicated. You get up, you go to work, eat three meals, you take one good shit and you go back to bed. What’s the fucking mystery?!"


- American comedian George Carlin, from ‘Complaints and Grievances’


Well, he’s probably down there now, that curious George, reproachfully screaming up at
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Sabrina
Jan 28, 2018 rated it did not like it
I cracked it open only to discover a study of the bible and christian religious stories while expecting a book on psychology, deceiving. Didn't finish it.
Gary Moreau
Jan 24, 2018 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This is a magnificent book. And part of that magnificence comes from the fact that it is “complete” in the same sense that All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten (Fulghum, 1989) was complete. The rules are simple: from “stand up straight with your shoulders back,” to “do not bother children when they are skateboarding.” They are, however, all-encompassing. When you finish reading it (and it is a long book) you are sure to ask, “What else is there to say?”

At the risk of grave oversim
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Murtaza
May 28, 2018 rated it it was ok
I was really prepared to pick up this book with an open mind in order to understand what so many people have found compelling about it. After finishing, I have to say that for the most part I am more mystified than when I began. "12 Rules for Life" is technically what its advertised as, a self-help book with twelve axioms for the reader to follow in order to improve their quality of life. As far as they go, the axioms, which the chapters are named after, are harmless and actually serve as good r ...more
Onuralp
Jan 25, 2018 rated it it was ok
Awfully verbose, incoherent, and hurried text without any content original enough (on top of his online lectures) to grant writing this lengthy book. The rule about telling the truth stands out as a notable exception.
Richard Nell
Feb 18, 2018 rated it really liked it
First, because of the endless politicization of this man, a couple things to know about me, if you're trying to determine what 'team' I'm on:

Stop it. I'm not on a team. I hate teams. I despise identity politics of any kind. Facts are facts and truth is truth regardless of where it comes from, and anything that turns an individual into a 'group' is basically a bad thing in my book (and Peterson's, incidentally). I also think free speech is about the most important thing in a free society. I don'
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imane
Oct 02, 2018 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: self-help
احذر من ان تبدو غير مؤذي هذا يثير غرائزهم الحيوانية تجاهك حتى لو لم يكونوا سيئين انت تجعلهم سيئين. امر سيء جدا ان تبدو غير مؤذي

ليس من مصلحتك ان تهزم زوجتك ليس من مصلحتك العيش مع شخص مهزوم لان قلبه مليء بالحقد والكراهية تجاهك لكنه يستكين لانه ضعيف فقط يستكين في انتظار اللحظة المناسبة لكي يطعنك. لا تهزم شخصا يعيش معك. اذا كان حتى الشخص الذي لا يعيش معك لا يجب ان تهينه لانه لن ينسى اهانتك ونهايتك ستكون على يده فكيف بشخص يعيش معك. وغالبا لا تظلم ما استطعت ليس لان الله ياخذ حق المظلوم لان المظلوم يتح
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Manuel Antão
Nov 17, 2018 rated it it was ok
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If you're into stuff like this, you can read the full review.


Modern Meditations: "12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos" by Jordan Peterson



OK. Let me put it this way. Peterson decries the rights agenda and the railing against patriarchy, partly with the argument that Western society is the least partiarchal and the most free there has ever been. But he never asks himself why this is so, because the answer of course is that those freedoms have been won by people in the past railing against oppr
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Dan Graser
Jan 25, 2018 rated it it was amazing
Far from the banal, "self-help," or, "life-coaching," images this book's title may suggest, psychologist Dr. Jordan Peterson has crafted here a series of seemingly blunt and practical suggestions that look, at least superifically, as if they are ideas you and society at large already appreciate. However, the importance of this tome lies in the depth behind each of these simple suggestions and the weight of philosophical, psycho-analytical, experiential, and rhetorical/literary evidence Peterson ...more
Mohammad Javad
Jan 27, 2018 rated it it was amazing
Unlike what the title suggests, this book is not a self-help book, even though it does help the self a lot; rather it's the deep views of a serious thinker about life's most important questions. At a time where the truth of many opinions are based on the loud voices that preach them and the forces that bully the oppositions, Peterson's original thinking is a breath of fresh air. Even if you don't agree with him in everything, you will definitely learn many things from him and more importantly yo ...more
Darius
May 15, 2018 rated it did not like it
I've been very critical of Canadian clinical psychologist Jordan Peterson since he blew up last year, but I tried to give him a chance. I wanted to be fair, and figured it's better to read a thinker's work before critiquing their ideas. In the case of JBP though, I can now say that I was right before I read this, as his positions are indeed made remarkably clear in his myriad lectures, interviews, and podcasts. 12 Rules for Life is a tightly packaged and popularized version of his central thesis ...more
AnnaG
Jan 21, 2018 rated it it was amazing
I bought this thinking it was a self-help book - it sort of is, but really it's a tour around some of the most important impulses of the human mind. The fundamental insight from this book is that our norms and culture exist for a reason and that attempts to interfere with those are likely to have profound detrimental impacts on society as a whole and individuals who won't know how to relate to other people properly. Sadly, it's all very true.
Matt
Apr 04, 2018 rated it liked it
When asked if I would take a leap of faith (pun evident later in review) and read Jordan B. Peterson’s book, I was slightly hesitant. Surely, I could take something away from this and learn how to incorporate it all into my daily life. If not, I would be able to drum up some interesting discussions with people about the content. Peterson argues effectively that life has become chaotic for most people, as he has witnessed in his profession as a clinical psychologist. His analysis of this chaos ca ...more
Steve James
Jan 18, 2018 rated it it was amazing
12 Rules (whittled down from an original 60 something) is about how to improve how you live. Each rule is explained in detail, and Peterson goes into the meaning of each subject philosophically, psychologically, and using varied examples from life. Although far more accessible, 12 Rules follows on from Peterson’s other book, Architecture of Belief, and examines the mythology, biblical similes and ancient stories, as well as evolutionary systems which, after all, have guided us behaviourally and ...more
Khush
Jul 14, 2018 rated it did not like it




I heard some of his lectures on youtube, so this is not the review of his book.

He is smart and sophisticated. Under his carefully, controlled sophistry, he has to say this.

1 He is against sexual rights. He has big reservations about the diversity of human bodies. The demands of trans people threaten him.

3 If you listen carefully, he thinks that marriage is only for men and women.

4 Back to religion. ( This is one of the ways to influence and shape 'white people' and include them in Peterson's c
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Dan Case
Jan 27, 2018 rated it did not like it
Disgustingly boring. Could not, for the life of me, listen more than 25% of the book. I’ve enjoyed talks from Peterson but definitely not this book. I love others books on similar topics but really this book could’ve been condensed. There were too many unnecessary paragraphs and reiterations.
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Jordan B. Peterson is a Canadian clinical psychologist, self-help writer, cultural critic, and professor of psychology at the University of Toronto. His main areas of study are in abnormal, social, and personality psychology, with a particular interest in the psychology of religious and ideological belief, and the assessment and improvement of personality and performance.


Peterson grew up in Fairvi
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“To stand up straight with your shoulders back is to accept the terrible responsibility of life, with eyes wide open. It means deciding to voluntarily transform the chaos of potential into the realities of habitable order. It means adopting the burden of self-conscious vulnerability, and accepting the end of the unconscious paradise of childhood, where finitude and mortality are only dimly comprehended. It means willingly undertaking the sacrifices necessary to generate a productive and meaningful reality (it means acting to please God, in the ancient language).” 147 likes
“It took untold generations to get you where you are. A little gratitude might be in order. If you're going to insist on bending the world to your way, you better have your reasons.” 88 likes
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