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After years of coaching writers who struggled with procrastination issues, high sensitivity to criticism, and crippling self doubt, Lauren Sapala realized that almost every one of her clients was an INFJ or INFP. Using the insights gleaned from these clients, as well as her own personal story, Sapala shows us how the experience of the intuitive writer can be radically diff ...more
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Published May 9th 2016 by Lauren Sapala
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Kara Soylular I would first advise you to look into the cognitive function basis for typology. It appears (by your wording), that you at least at the time of this a…moreI would first advise you to look into the cognitive function basis for typology. It appears (by your wording), that you at least at the time of this asking had been acquainted with the mere letter dichotomy.

That being said, if you truly turn out as ENFJ, then yes, this book still can insight you.

Chapters 18-20 denote to the other NF types, ENFJ being the 20th chapter. Sporadically, other NF types mention throughout book. I would say ENFP is the least mentioned (which perhaps is why she wrote longest on it in the chapters concerning the other NF type) with INFP the second most focused on-- even the back of cover is said she had noticed almost all writers she worked with are INFP and J, thus giving her most experience with these two types.

Chapter 7 explains the giftedness of the NF (idealist) temperament using Kazimierz Dabrowski's theory, chapter 16 explains the XNFJ leadership and as already I've said, 20 is wholly about the ENFJ.(less)
Kara Soylular Given are exemplars of whom Sapala believes to be/have been INFJ writers. Included is Jack Kerouac; the most notable case she had made example of, usi…moreGiven are exemplars of whom Sapala believes to be/have been INFJ writers. Included is Jack Kerouac; the most notable case she had made example of, using him as a model in his devising of what she has penned "world theory", as well as how he took time to write in draft, then suddenly with Ni, got urge to type it all up in a 3 week short-span.(less)
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Beth
Dec 06, 2016 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: self-help, writing
If you know you are an INFJ and you write or want to write, you NEED this book. If you are an INFP, you shouldn't be dissuaded by the title: this book is about you too. If you are any of the other NF types, there's plenty here for you to glean from.

I'm an INFP and when I read the chapter on what ails my writing life, I wept because she described things I have been incapable of describing. (Also, it should be noted, I'm an INFP, so weeping when I gain some new understanding about myself is not t
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Yvonne Marjot
Oct 03, 2017 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: non-fiction
Last Monday I spent the day with a fellow writer – we walked on the beach, ate ice-creams, and talked writing for hours. It was a much needed break from worrying about how little writing I’m actually doing these days. That evening a parcel arrived – a paperback copy of Lauren Sapala’s book, which is full of useful exercises and helpful advice. I learned that my messy, bitsy, disorganised method of writing (which is neither pantsing nor planning, but more like patchwork) has a name. It’s called t ...more
Jacob Nordby
Sep 06, 2016 rated it it was amazing
A book of alchemy!

This book has become a staple in my writing courses and private food for my own writer's soul. Yes, she's talking directly to those of us who write, but her clarity of vision about the treasure and struggles of INF_ nature creates a feeling of looking in a friendly mirror that is sure to help non writers, too.

There's a lot to like about this practical book, but I especially appreciate how Ms. Sapala reveals the INF_ shadow aspects and gives instruction about accessing the "supe
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Rosamund
I'm always a bit sceptical of books about writing. They tend to have mixed reviews and I'm often unsure whether the advice in there is something I could have figured out for myself and I would have wasted money and time I could have spent, well, writing. But this was less than £3 for Kindle so I gave it a go.

It turns out that this is the best resource on writing I have read - and what's more, due to its personality-based focus, it's also a pretty decent life manual. Although the title specifical
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Anstice Brown
I’ve always had an interest in psychology and especially in the personality profiles outlined by the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI). As a child and teenager I had always felt quite different and isolated, but since discovering I was an INFJ back in high school, something ‘clicked’ for me and a lot of my thoughts, habits and preferences started to make sense. I began to connect with my fellow INFJs and other introverts online and finally discovered my ‘tribe’, which allowed me to gain so much ...more
Candace Messecar
Apr 27, 2017 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: nonfic, self-help
As an INFJ writer, I wish I had read this a long time ago. Reading this along another "self-help" writing book, it's become clear that there is not a one size fits all way to live the best writing life. This book is a MUST for INFJ writers, especially those that are struggling to keep up with the rest of the writing community or those that are constantly up against other writing walls. I cannot express enough how this book has given me clarity and peace of mind about my writing life.

Self-help bo
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Kerri Anne
I get that this book is highly specialized for INFJ writers/creatives (it me), and while there were pieces and chapter-ending writing exercises that didn't always feel especially applicable or necessary to me at this juncture of my writing and personal/professional life, I also haven't felt so seen since reading Susan Cain's Quiet .

This book isn't going to be relevant to everyone (especially considering INFJs are the rarest type, comprising only 1-2% of the overall population), but if you're
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Lynne Fisher
Aug 14, 2017 rated it it was amazing
Perfect advice for the INFJ writer, covering the particular strengths and perceived 'weaknesses' which we have to grapple with as writers of this Jungian type. Lauren helped me to accept how I approach my own writing and understand how I need to tweak my approach to be happily productive instead of plaguing myself with doubts and self-criticism. This book can give validation and support to any writer and artist, as I see it, and I go back and dip into it regularly for timely reminders. ...more
Bara
Jun 06, 2019 added it
Shelves: english-original
I started reading this book when I thought that I was an INFJ, I finished this book when I came to the conclusion that maybe I'm more of an INTJ. (Learning about one's functions happens. *shrugs*)
But because I still remain an HSP (highly sensitive person) I believe this book wasn't a waste of time.
(Except for chapter 10 but maybe it is full of helpful tips for actual INFJs and INFPs, ENFPs and ENFJs and me as INTJ am too rational for that part).

Author: "(About INFPs) they are feelers in a societ
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Josie
Aug 11, 2018 rated it it was amazing
I'm an INFP, not an INFJ, but this book is written for all intuitive writers. I have been struggling so much trying to write my memoir in chronological order, and what the author said about that being basically impossible for INFPs really hit home. I had to stop reading several times to let out a few tears because I felt so deeply heard, seen, and valued. ...more
Barry Pearman
Oct 26, 2019 rated it it was amazing
Great book

So many 'ah, so that's why I'm like that' moments. So good to know I'm not the only one who thinks and writes like this. Thanks Lauren
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Lee Ann
Mar 27, 2017 rated it it was ok
Shelves: 2017
This book was an impulse buy. I saw on Twitter that it was only $2.00 on the Kindle, so, knowing that I'm an INFJ, I figured it would make an interesting read.

My reaction was largely "eh."

There were a few interesting chapters, but overall there was more I disagreed with to the point that it left me wondering if I really am an INFJ. I retook the Myers-Briggs test for the fourth time now, just to confirm. (I am still an INFJ.)

And yet.

My first reservations came when I reached the chapter where the
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J.M. Jablowski
Aug 22, 2018 rated it did not like it
Shelves: dnf
I don't want to be that one naysayer among a lot of 5-star reviews, but I didn't like this book. Hopefully my review can help direct the right people to or away from it.
I got about 20% of the way through this book but then DNF'ed it. I skimmed it a bit, but didn't foresee any more new useful information out of what was left in it.
If you don't know what an INFJ is, are if you're not familiar with Myers-Briggs Personality Types at all, then you won't learn anything about them here. This is prior k
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Emily
May 07, 2018 rated it really liked it
Shelves: owned-books
'Go out into the world and be part of it. Write as honestly and as bravely as you can. Be the brightest, strongest, most YOU you that you can be.'

Wow, I am so glad I bought this, it was just so interesting and compelling to read the whole way through.

There were a few minor typos- for example, 75% and 15% do not make 100% no matter how long I stare at the figures to be sure- but that did not detract from the emotional connection I felt with this book. I felt...understood, which was strange, but n
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Cathy Patton
Sep 13, 2021 rated it liked it
Shelves: 2021-read
In the afterword, she says, "My goal in writing this book is to help guide you to start writing again." Goal accomplished. I haven't worked on my novel in 4.5 months because work and life got frantic, so I picked this short book up to reconnect with my writing self and gain a little inspiration. It didn't rock my world, but I did get a few tips and help me turn back toward my writing.

I would, however, recommend her "Intuitive Writing" online course. I took that in July 2020 and got more out of
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Lisa
Aug 04, 2018 added it
Lauren Sapala has written a very personable, informative book about the unique strengths and struggles of INFJ writers. I also like how she describes the strengths and struggles of INFP, ENJF, and ENFP writers. I've already started her next book (Firefly Magic: Heart Powered Marketing for Highly Sensitive Writers). :) ...more
Sara Miller
Apr 08, 2022 rated it really liked it
Took a personality test to help out a friend who’s a career coach. After discovering my Myers-Briggs personality type (who knew?!?), this book was recommended to me. So many realizations about my writing life and, oftentimes, avoidance of it. I always enjoy books that teach you more about the world and yourself!
Jonat
Feb 24, 2022 rated it really liked it
Considering Man’s egocentric nature, the process of reading a work that approaches the core sides of your personality from begining to end definitely makes the reading effortlessly engaging. We spend the majority of our time only focusing on our own personal concerns, most of the time we ask about other people’s lives just by duty or cordiality.

I couldn’t keep my eyes out of the book because I was just so captivated by seeing my life being studied so thoroughly, I’ve never seen someone giving
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Camille McCarthy
May 04, 2021 rated it liked it
This was a short, easy-to-read book for INFJ writers. I felt like I got some good information from it but it also had the judgmental, kind of condescending tone that irritates me with "self-help" books and life coach-type people. I'm sure Lauren Sapala is a good writing coach but I could do without some of the psycho-babble, and I felt like when she talked about her past issues it was still very surface-level and formulaic, the way many of these self-help books are. My biggest takeaways were tha ...more
Janine
Mar 23, 2019 rated it really liked it
Lauren Sapala dives into the unique world and challenges of writing as an INFJ, the rarest MBTI type, using experiences from herself and others she has counseled over the years. INFJs are known as very sensitive and intuitive, in a world that’s almost exactly the opposite, extraverted and sensing, which results in crippling self doubt in themselves and their work. Developing a thick skin is extra hard for these types. Sapala speaks to writers in a very consoling, kind and informative way about t ...more
Erin Grey
Sep 12, 2020 rated it it was amazing
So much resonated with me in this book. It really helped me see areas to be more understanding of myself and how to protect myself and nurture my strengths. There was some airy-fairy mysticism stuff I wasn't in to, but the majority of the book was helpful. ...more
Mary
Feb 18, 2021 rated it it was ok
This book had more ego strokes than advice. The one sentence summary would go something like this:
If you're INFJ you're special, rare, brilliant, and creative - just like me.
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Annette Fuller
Mar 04, 2018 rated it really liked it
Shelves: cross-posted
I’m an INFP, and I still got a lot out of this book. When you do any formal schooling in creative writing, there will be a lot of focus on the technical aspects of the writing. There will be talk of structure, form, voice, tense, person, etc. etc. etc. All of those things are amazing, and you should absolutely know about them, and master them over time. The only way you can subvert the standards is to have fully mastered them, and know when it’s okay not to follow them. :)
That said, creative wri
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Irene Allison
May 19, 2017 rated it really liked it
Shelves: creativity
A little validation for a small minority!
As an INJF (and a writer) I really enjoyed this little book. It's full of insights, helpful tips, and hey, in this loud, extroverted world, it is really nice (and validating) to read something that reflects the INJF reality. No, we're not crazy. Just different.

If you're an INJF writer, or friend to one, this is a little gem of a book.
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Danielle Marshall
Jan 15, 2018 rated it it was amazing
Me Too.

I'll mostly likely revisit this book.

A few factors contributed to my reading this at the beginning of 2018. I had started the new year with a few goals in mind: read more, write more, and figure out what career I wanted to push head first into. After reading a book that reminded me why I loved books and imaginary worlds, as well as starting the year with a partial social media hiatus, I decided to bite the bullet and put baby steps into getting back on track.

Starting this book, I prob
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Oliver B Burkett
Apr 23, 2022 rated it it was amazing
Great Insight

The INFJ Writer helped me to understand why other writing techniques weren't connecting with me and put me on a path to a better writing future.
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Aimee Barnes Pestano
Dec 25, 2017 rated it it was amazing
I was initially skeptical about a writing book based on the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator, but the author's many helpful insights into the nuances of creating as an INFJ writer inspired me to experiment with changing the way I approach the craft and gave me hope as a "late bloomer", which seems to be the path for many who gravitate toward diverse subjects and deal with high sensitivity, giftedness, etc.. Lauren includes a meaty section on health challenges and addiction which few other writing boo ...more
Molly
Jul 09, 2017 rated it really liked it
Shelves: 2017-books
This was one of those books that inexplicably showed up as an ad for me on my kindle without me ever doing any kind of searches for writing books or personality theory books. However, the shoe fits! I don't have any other books on writing. I just write. Sometimes I feel like I should give up, because I have so many other things that need my attention, but every time I make the decision to "quit," I feel like crying (which I think means it is the wrong decision and what is actually needed is for ...more
Xandria
Jul 09, 2017 rated it it was amazing
As an INFJ who loves to write but often struggles to create a writing space for myself, this book helped SO freaking much.

Sapala doesn't just tell you what to do, she suggests different venues and explains your personality. Like: why aren't you able to write? or what's keeping you from writing? She explains how atmosphere and being at peace has to do with creating that productive writing space for an INFJ. We are not the tortured artists society would have, we are the artists who thrive when we
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Kara Soylular
Mar 02, 2022 rated it really liked it
I read this book, to clear up if I’m an INFP or J.. My INTP online friend had agreed get me an amazon gift card so that I could of this book, possess.

It is quite hard to say what I am, but it does not matter; what matters is that I have gleaned more self-awareness and healing throughout my read of this book.

I related heavily to a lot of what Sapala had written. I was predicting how things would play out in the book, and indeed, they happened as I thought (I for instance figured her tonsillitis
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