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Too Much and Not the Mood

4.07  ·  Rating details ·  3,487 ratings  ·  384 reviews
An entirely original portrait of a young writer shutting out the din in order to find her own voice

On April 11, 1931, Virginia Woolf ended her entry in A Writer’s Diary with the words “too much and not the mood.” She was describing how tired she was of correcting her own writing, of the “cramming in and the cutting out” to please other readers, wondering if she had anythin
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Published April 11th 2017 by Fsg Originals
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May 07, 2017 rated it liked it
On April 11, 1931, Virginia Woolf ended her entry in A Writer’s Diary with the words “too much and not the mood.” She was describing how tired she was of correcting her own writing, of the “cramming in and the cutting out” to please other readers, wondering if she had anything at all that was truly worth saying.

The character of that sentiment, the attitude of it, inspired Durga Chew-Bose to write and collect her own work. The result is a lyrical and piercingly insightful collection of essays and
there are some books that make you feel like you're going through a slump, and some that make you want to take your time and savour it. Too Much and Not the Mood was the latter. it took me a long time to read it, but every few sentences i wanted to pause and reconsider my life. truly a gem.

full review to come!!
Apr 09, 2017 rated it really liked it
Shelves: giveaways
My experience reading this (particularly Heart Museum, the first and longest essay) was a little like listening to a new album for the first time: I would either snag on a sentence and read it on repeat or I'd plow ahead and let the writing wash over me, see what feelings it inspired while intending to go back and revisit particular sections. The rest of the essays I read in one weekend and found easier to grasp. I also had read some of them when they were published in Buzzfeed (etc.) originally ...more
May 22, 2017 rated it it was ok
Too much nonsense and I wasn't in the mood. This florid, contrived style of writing really didn't work for me. I bet that many intellectuals and pseudo-intellectuals will go bananas for this, but I am neither. I'm just a crab who likes books, and I did not like this one.
May 20, 2017 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: south-asia
durga chew-bose made me cry, forty-five minutes into a flight from marseille to new york. i was leaving one home for another, leaving my french host family depuis quatre mois (or, my french grandparents as i began referring to them, who had just the night before read my farewell card out loud at the dinner table with such unexpected sincerity and warmth) for my real family. y'all, the way she writes about family...

these essays ended up unraveling the knot that had been building right below my t
May 27, 2017 rated it really liked it
Shelves: nonfiction, essays
Among the best personal essays I've ever read. I took photos of at least fifteen pages to send to friends in the first chapter before realizing I'd just have to buy them copies instead.
Jul 25, 2017 rated it liked it
Shelves: 2017, essays
some devastatingly profound and beautiful writing, but some navel-gazing too pretentious and self-absorbed to bear (nook people???!?!?!?)
Jan 07, 2018 rated it really liked it
Such a wonderful writer and a rare talent. I found a lot to love about these essays, but they didn’t quite connect with me emotionally the way other collections have done. More to come once I’ve considered my thoughts more carefully.
Michael Livingston
May 22, 2017 rated it really liked it
Personal essays, filled with digressions and tangents - the first (and longest) essay set me back on my heels a bit, but I eventually got into the rhythm of the language and let all the twists and turns was over me.
Aug 02, 2019 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: 2019
Too Much and Not the Mood is every thought we have all had about everything. there’s no other way to write. Durga presented all of these thoughts & ideas in the perfect way. this book filled me with nostalgia throughout.

the way Durga Chew-Bose continuously recalls sounds is my favorite thing about this book. such a simple sense, so common & Durga expanded on it. beautiful! other favorite things: the way Chew-Bose describes teenage white girls in ‘Part of a Great Pattern’, writing about her cult
Apr 24, 2019 added it
this book spoke to my heart
Jan 02, 2020 rated it liked it
It took me three years to finally read this book, and I'm glad I gave it time and actually finished it. While some essays were more polished than others, I couldn't stop thinking about Durga's writing. Perhaps because of the insane amount of talent and potential she has. I look foward to reading more from her.
Sian Lile-Pastore
Jun 30, 2017 rated it really liked it
Loved the first (longer) essay - really lovely writing and really interesting ideas and links. The other essays, while still really good, weren't as stand out. Am super interested in reading more by Durga and would recommend this to people.
May 26, 2017 rated it it was ok
Mostly self-absorbed and rambling with a few gems of insight.
Mar 01, 2018 rated it it was ok
one word review: overhyped
the author definitely has a way with words, though i'm unsure if this book epitomizes the creative process as much as it seems to demonstrate her ability to live seemingly free from the constraints most people live with, dare i say quite amazingly privileged... call me unconvinced of her skills, yet... she does plenty of hipster-doofus namedropping and listing off, in varying degrees of "look how cool i am!" the movies, artwork, music, and books she has "experienced"...
chantel nouseforaname
I can't even explain this writer's writing style. It's otherworldly.

Heart Museum makes me want to give this book 5 stars. It was the best piece of writing, almost stream of consciousness, kind of like ethereal, super in your head. I couldn't get enough of it. She makes the simple, extraordinary, and the extraordinary, out of this universe. Her passions, need for solitude, need for connection, her regrets, description of spaces, like a porch, sisterhood, her description of women and our ability
Jan 07, 2019 rated it it was amazing
durga........ how do you know me so well
Jan 25, 2019 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This is an excellent read and has ALL my love. Thanks for the rec, Yash!
Wendy C. Ortiz
Jul 20, 2019 rated it it was amazing
I can easily say this is one of my favorite books read this year so far.
Cole McCarthy
Mar 23, 2019 rated it liked it
I tried to like this book, and for the most part did. However, did I enjoy reading it? No, not particularly. Did I love it? Absolutely not. I was expecting (and that's my mistake) this book to be 'life changing,' or at the very least moving, but it was neither. At times, the content is very relatable and / or beautifully stated but for the most part it was scattered. For every sentence I thought 'STUNNING,' were 7+ I thought 'WHAT (and I can't stress this enough) THE FUCK IS HAPPENING?!?' I unde ...more
Apr 27, 2017 rated it really liked it
I've followed Durga Chew-Bose's work (& instagram) for a while now, so before reading this I had a sense of what to expect. But whilst reading the first essay, there were multiple times where I reread a certain line or paragraph, shocked by how tenderly and specifically she was able to convey a certain feeling. The first essay - over 100 pages, I think, and seemingly all new writing - was beautiful. I think that essay alone is worth the rest of the book.

The rest of the essays were good, too. Som
Liina Bachmann
Aug 15, 2018 rated it liked it
Shelves: 2018
Definitely a book for the girls who want to be like "it girls" - cool but not trying. Modern, a bit dreamy, maybe a bit privileged and very very self-centred. She can write but I would be more interested in what she has to say if she has been kicked around by life a bit more. I did underline, there are some sentences and metaphors that were truly original and fresh. But it felt somehow raw. If you do plan to read it don't be intimidated by the first essay - I read half of it and then skipped it ...more
Apr 26, 2017 rated it it was amazing
I didn't know something so messy could be so devastatingly perfect and absurdly beautiful.
Aug 10, 2017 rated it it was amazing
I don't know why I took such a long break but this was fantastic cover to cover.
Stephanie Josine
May 11, 2019 rated it did not like it
This book reads like a stream of consciousness - random, flitting, unfiltered, and often unintelligible. I didn't find the comforting relatability in it promised by the rave reviews, just an abundance of confidence on the part of the author to write and publish all the random contents of her head with little regard for form, readability, or storytelling. I had to skip through Heart Museum because it was so supremely irritating and self-indulgent. Other pieces in the collection were not as aliena ...more
May 03, 2017 rated it really liked it
3.5 rounded up

A beautifully written collection of personal essays. The first one was super long and tangential - it began with Durga's thoughts on the love hotel emoji - but once I got into the swing of things I found this book hard to put down. I think my enjoyment came from reading this at the right time, as I was in the mood (ha) for some well written essays, and I think this is worth picking up for the writing alone. One to watch for sure!
Thea Bourdeau
Aug 14, 2017 rated it it was ok
Boring, try-hard, all-over-the-place essays. Next.
Apr 19, 2018 rated it it was amazing
i wanted to crawl between durga's words and inhabit her sentences. each seemed deliberate. each seemed just what i needed to hear. the structure of the essays made me linger, pause, and annotate more than i have in a long time. i especially loved how the theses of these essays were crafted — it seemed that each essay's thesis was the mood it cultivated. it was a privilege to read this, internalize it, and allow myself to love it.

after sitting with the book in me for a few weeks, i've kind of mo
Apr 27, 2020 rated it it was ok
Exactly what stream of consciousness should NOT be.
Not every feeling needs to be a metaphor, Durga.

For example -

"Watching this woman mechanically tie her hair was softly enormous"
"There's an understanding that my grandfather would have liked me. Loved me, sure. But liking is altogether different. It's gentle. Almost chewy. Liking someone is taffy."
"[On growing up with sisters] Not learning how to join. You were already part of something. You could be a crowd. You
Feb 05, 2018 rated it it was amazing
Numerous little biro hearts adorn the margins of my copy.
I barely annotate my books, so that goes to show my tremendous appreciation for everything Durga Chew-Bose did in this essay collection.
Utterly up my alley and I am lowkey obsessed with her instagram and her as a person.
So cool.
(I had an exam today, so my words are pretty much used up, bear with me and this terribly short non-informative review, read this book instead if you want all of the good words!)
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