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We Died Before We Came Here: A True Story of Sacrifice and Hope
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If not you, who? If not now, when? This was the challenge answered by Stephen Foreman and his wife, Emily, when they traded in their American white picket fence for a giant, dusty sandbox as missionaries in the deserts of North Africa. Stephen had given Emily a well-read copy of Foxe's Book of Martyrs on their first date, a telling foreshadowing of the ultimate cost he wou
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Paperback, 208 pages
Published
September 1st 2016
by NavPress Publishing Group
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Nov 20, 2016
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This story was very readable. The author, a single mother, married a divorced man. After a few years living the American dream they believed they were called to mission. They sold everything. They traveled to an unspecified country in North Africa where evangelism was illegal and ministered amongst Muslims. Their family increased to the point where they had four children.
In comparison to other biographies I have read and experiences I've had personally with Muslim outreach, they seem to have bee ...more
In comparison to other biographies I have read and experiences I've had personally with Muslim outreach, they seem to have bee ...more

This book is a gut wrenching autobiography of the Foreman family’s mission work in North Africa. Emily Foreman draws you right into her life and you feel the emotional impacts of working amongst Muslims as an American shortly after 9/11. This book will give anyone a deeper appreciation for the work that missionaries do, challenge Christians to live life as citizens of Heaven, and bring to fruition what it means to truly die to this world and live for Christ. The Foreman story is one that will be
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I read this book because of a friends recommendation without knowing much detail about their story...I highly recommend just jumping in without reading the back of the book. The book is a smooth read and Emily writes with such authenticity and emotion that you feel like you’re with her every step of the way. So thankful for this story and the profound inspiration that it produces.

Wow, what a story! This is a powerful, moving, and inspiring true story of a Christian family who moved from America to North Africa, knowing the dangers and still choosing to go, because of their love for God and their love for the Muslims there who needed to know about Jesus. Despite the sometimes intense content, this book has a very readable and engaging style, which makes it a joy to read. It is also a challenging story, because you can’t help but ask questions of your own faith when you re
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"Like a needle with no thread, all I can do alone is poke holes through the fabric of others' lives--but with the divine thread securely attached, I can weave God's love and power in and out of the lives of others, allowing the Lord to mend and heal and bring everything together for his glory." (101)
This is a lovingly written story of a family who love God more than themselves. It was at once familiar and aspirational. For anyone who wonders why people move overseas or what a real cross-cultural ...more
This is a lovingly written story of a family who love God more than themselves. It was at once familiar and aspirational. For anyone who wonders why people move overseas or what a real cross-cultural ...more

An account of the true costs of choosing to put serving God first, before comment, security and safety. Although the culmination of the challenges the Foremans faced in North Africa was seen in the murder of her husband, Emily Foreman is clear about the many challenges that preceded that too.
She recounts the misconceptions of US friends about their choice to work with Muslims, and she addresses without holding back the strains that the work they were doing put on the family relationships. She is ...more
She recounts the misconceptions of US friends about their choice to work with Muslims, and she addresses without holding back the strains that the work they were doing put on the family relationships. She is ...more

This book is amazing. It had me laughing, smiling, crying and at times, angry.
We live in a world which is so quick to make sweeping generalisations of people, races, religious etc when really these ‘generalisations’ tend to be about a minority of those people. The couple from this book showed how we can live out the love of God and how to be a light in a dark place without doing mass evangelical work. Their work of friendship evangelism and kindness has changed the lives of countless people who ...more
We live in a world which is so quick to make sweeping generalisations of people, races, religious etc when really these ‘generalisations’ tend to be about a minority of those people. The couple from this book showed how we can live out the love of God and how to be a light in a dark place without doing mass evangelical work. Their work of friendship evangelism and kindness has changed the lives of countless people who ...more

This book had me sobbing. As a believer, books and stories like this remind and challenge me throughout. It is a reminder of Who I have been called to and what I have been called from. It challenges me that my comfort is not God’s priority, and I must die to myself/my desires, and be willing to take up His cross to follow wherever He leads. However, I am also reminded that He promises to walk with me wherever this is,and His glory will be ultimate. A call to suffering, but joyous moments along t
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It was hard to put down this expression of faith, devotion, love, and grief. Seeing God's hand in and through this family and his steady voice through their difficult call to go and their much harder call to loss was wonderful. I resonate with the overarching theme expressed in the title: We Did Before We Came Here. As believers, we have surrendered our lives, it is not ours anymore but we have died to self and live for Christ.
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Glad I finished it!
When I started reading this book, I wasn't sure I wanted to finish it. The author's tone was a challenge for me, but I kept reading, and I'm glad I did. It is a poignant memoir which shows what it means to love Jesus and others in His name. Worth the read. ...more
When I started reading this book, I wasn't sure I wanted to finish it. The author's tone was a challenge for me, but I kept reading, and I'm glad I did. It is a poignant memoir which shows what it means to love Jesus and others in His name. Worth the read. ...more

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"Pain and peace were in harmony. I will never understand how suffering and joy can coexist so beautifully."
This true account of one family's ministry in North Africa is gripping. Emily challenges us to ask ourselves for what purpose are we living.
"To live within purpose is worse than dyin." ...more
This true account of one family's ministry in North Africa is gripping. Emily challenges us to ask ourselves for what purpose are we living.
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This was a good story, but i didn't find it well-written or particularly readable. I'm not sure I agreed with Stephen's philosophy of evangelism, but I admired his willingness to live out his faith as he understood it.
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Nov 21, 2020
Sheridan Lynch
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Heart rending and encouraging at the same time. An air of menace hangs over the book as the climax of the story is put right at the start. But the whole way through, we are constantly reminded of the love and the grace of God. A difficult read, emotionally, but worth the effort.

I'd give this a strong 3.5. Very easy to read and an inspiring and thought provoking story.
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Ready appreciated this book, the author's honesty about all the different things her family experienced overseas, and also how her trust in God grew.
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