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Finding Love Through Female Domination

4.57  ·  Rating details ·  46 ratings  ·  24 reviews
Dominatrix Renee Lane and her submissive husband live in Memphis, Tennessee, disguised as an average married couple. In private life, they are mistress and slave. For the last ten years, Ms. Renee has employed erotic S&M, mind control, and brainwashing techniques to forge an intimate and loving bond with her submissive partner. They consider themselves explorers of the bou ...more
Kindle Edition, 294 pages
Published February 28th 2016 by Xlibris US
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John
Jul 22, 2019 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I recently ordered this after coming across the author's fetlife profile. The book is about a hardcore and intense femdom relationship. According to one review I read, these people are real and they are known on the scene in the town where they live.

The main point of this review is to show how a book like this can enable self-reflection in an online world somewhat starved of thoughtful, hardcore and non-commercial femdom content. I'm really grateful to the author and her sub for having given me
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Jet Hoppe
Jun 28, 2019 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
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Dan
Jun 30, 2019 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Finding Love Through Female Domination by Ms Renee Lane is probably the best femdom book I've ever read. It's a true story of the relationship between the author Miss Renee Lane and her husband Butler as she leads him further and further into a life of slavery and submission to her. The story is told through emails between Ms Renee and a good friend of hers, Heather, and journal entries written by Butler. Ms Renee uses Heather to help with Butler's training and to further his submission. Butler ...more
Cbtok
Sep 03, 2019 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This book spans a ten-year period of time as Renee takes Butler through a process of ego-destruction that is truly mind-blowing. The author suggests this book is non-fiction. I am not sure.

Renee writes Heather, her former college roommate, also a dominant woman, and these letters back and forth describe Renee’s progress with Butler, as do his journal entries. Heather responds. She wants to protect Renee. She doesn’t trust men. She has has two divorces in ten years.

Renee describes herself as a f
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Sceadugenan
Jan 03, 2020 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
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submissive den
Apr 09, 2020 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
BSDM has come out of the closet over the years. From Madonna wearing Jean-Paul Gaultier fashions to 50 Shades of Grey, kink is becoming more and more accepted as mainstream.

BDSM as a lifestyle is also finding a wider audience. With the publication of “Finding Love Through Female Domination” (FLTFD) by Miss Renee Lane, it is likely that BDSM will find its widest audience yet. The book, which is well written and very readable, is also being made into a film produced by Netflix. Assuming the film i
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D. Nyall
Mar 14, 2020 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Renee Lane and her illustrator, Amitabha Naskar, have managed to produce a work that is both intense BDSM and a remarkable love story at the same time. This is no easy task to pull off, especially given that the typical S&M mantra of 'Safe, Sane, and Consensual' falls by the wayside as the journey progresses. Both Mistress and her servant, Butler, learn just how far boundaries can be pushed in modern society, all the while living quiet, tranquil lives in the heart of a city.

Reading this book, I
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Paul Libra
Aug 21, 2018 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I just read Finding Love Through Female Dominaition by Renee Lane. You can read it on Amazon Books for three bucks. Well worth it. It was brilliant, crazy, intense, and a must have for anyone who is genuinely kinky. It's like reading "Venus in Furs" but as told from Wanda's perspective. Renee Lane does not write with quite the introspective elegance of Sacher-Masoch, but she writes well enough, and she definitely gets her point across. If Masoch is a crop, Ms. Lane is a cane. The scenes with her ...more
Confort76
May 03, 2020 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I am reading Finding Love Through Female Domination, it is a pure pleasure reading it. Ms Renee Lane stands for female led relationships, the love and the fulfilment the couple would experience.
FLR relationships have been stigmatized by society for a long time, leaving men who genuinely want to serve a woman desperate, afraid of showing their desires to submit to a woman they truly love. Those man had to show their submissive desires to other women outside the couple, hiding them from their spou
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Randall Lowery
Sep 07, 2019 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This was easily one of the most erotic books I've read in years. It turns the traditional kinky love story on its head. Instead of the male being in charge as in 50 shades, this book empowers the female. Told through a series of emails from the protagonist to her former college roommate and the roommate's helpful responses, as well as a journal kept by the submissive male, this story allows the reader to explore his or her own darkest desires. At the same time the reader feels the love and the t ...more
Benjamin68
May 09, 2020 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I have always known I was a submissive male from my teen years and have read many books on the subject. When I saw Ms Renee's book I had to read it so immediately bought it and have just finished reading from cover to cover. What a joy it is to read, how delightful it is to be able to relate to the intensity of her relationship with Butler, and how heart warming it is to read of the love they share! This book is a MUST read for anybody who has an interest in the Mistress slave RELATIONSHIP as op ...more
Michael Campbell
Men, brace yourselves.

It took me 3 weeks to finish this book because I could only do short stretches at a time, and definitely not on a treadmill at the gym. I seem to recall being promised that it would make me uncomfortable and it lived up to that. In a good way.
Whether this is a faithful reselling of history or just a good story loosely based on this "couple's" experience, this is thoughtful (and hot!) Femdom. Ms. Renee is a brilliant dominant, owning every shred of her submissive (ex)husband
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Brett
Oct 21, 2020 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
As female lead relationships become more and more mainstream, here is a true accounting of one such relationship. Written as a series of correspondences, she details the growth of her fulfillment as a physical and psychological sadist with her husband, Bishop, a masochist who adores and worships her more and more with each new torture she devises. Make no mistake, this is an intimate love story between two deeply devoted lovers who reach heights that many male submissives will ever only dream of ...more
JC
May 07, 2020 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This book had me so emotionally wound up I couldn't think straight. One moment I was in disbelief feeling such empathy, solidarity and true concern for Butler. The next minute I found myself flushed and unable to stop reading as the story whipped by Ms. Rene's words kept pulling me further and further in and down. For me this book was like a seduction that I wanted more and more of, while it simultaneously awakened me to the realization of how much of my aching need it revealed.
Scifi Schesslover
I love this book.
It is not only very erotic, it is also an inspiration.
I now realize how important love is, relative to kink.
The book also opened my eyes that I seek excitement of being dominated by the woman of my life.
Ms Renee Lane illustrates with a tender real life story how being dominated by your love can be an incredibly rewarding thrill.
Every woman should read it.
Every man should seek it
Angus2018
May 19, 2020 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I purchased this book while doing research into pursuing the FLR lifestyle. This is a very interesting and captivating look into to the truly lived FLR lifestyle.
A lot of the content of this book fundamentally changed my perspective on the approach to entering the lifestyle. If you are entering this lifestyle, then reading this book is a must. Do your self a favor. Purchase the book and take the time to read it with an open mind.
Pepe
May 27, 2020 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Have you ever wonder what a real relationship between a Dominant woman and a submissive men looks like?
Then this is the book for you, the author, a convinced Female Supremacist, invite you to explore the depths of a relationship where a men becomes slave to the woman he adores.A slave in every sense of the word...
This is a look into a forgotten form of sexuality and what will be the world like the day is accepted the same way gay community is accepted today.
Shelaylan
Mar 09, 2020 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This is an excellent book for anyone who seeks sincerely to live within an authentic Female Led Relationship. The writer and her slave husband are pioneers in forming a modern relationship on female supremacist principles. Within the pages of this book are significant lessons to assist readers in entering and maintaining such relationships. A must have for any FLR relationship!
Chris Meier
Apr 20, 2020 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This is one of the harsh histories I ever read, it's so painful and hard to read sometimes... But it is a love story, a love story who only the ones that live the BDSM and the FLR will understand. thank you for this masterpiece Miss Renee

Chris Meier.
LeRonin
Aug 21, 2019 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Absolutly amazing. As a male submissive myself, it was a life changing experience to read this jewel. i recommend it to everyone who actually understand that Women should rule the world if we want to survive as a specie.
John Thompson
May 03, 2020 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Ms Renee Lane has a passion for BDSM. I have ordered this book and I am excited to read it. She is an excellent writer, very eloquent with her words.
Na
Oct 02, 2018 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Finding Love Through Female Domination is an intimate and exciting, if in places darkly spellbinding, portrait of an couple exploring the outer boundaries of a femdom relationship. If the psychology of being taken to the edge to see what lies beyond intrigues you, Ms. Lane is the writer to guide you there.
William Leasure
Mar 18, 2020 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This very well written work of literature is the type of book those that like to end their days with a fascinating story of love ,devotion and betrayal. there's torture blackmail ropes and whips .
This is the true account of events over a span of several years through the eyes of the author Ms Renee Lane and her husband and submissive Husband .
You won't want to put this down.....
Jeremy
Aug 13, 2018 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Intriguing story - very exciting but also very uncomfortable at times.
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