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It's Not Like It's a Secret
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Sixteen-year-old Sana Kiyohara has too many secrets. Some are small, like how it bothers her when her friends don’t invite her to parties. Some are big, like that fact that her father may be having an affair. And then there’s the one that she can barely even admit to herself—the one about how she might have a crush on her best friend.
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May 9th 2017
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Fresh. Fantastic. Fearless.
I am not an uber-fan of YA but I will make an exception now and again. This phenomenon will happen for something special. Something perfect. What can I say? It's Not Like It's a Secret was that unicorn for me.

I mean.. what's there not to like? It had the main ingredients that I feel make a book unputdownable: relatable characters, a progressive plot-line, and of course, character development.
On the outside, this story looks like just another teen romance.. but it wasn ...more
I am not an uber-fan of YA but I will make an exception now and again. This phenomenon will happen for something special. Something perfect. What can I say? It's Not Like It's a Secret was that unicorn for me.

I mean.. what's there not to like? It had the main ingredients that I feel make a book unputdownable: relatable characters, a progressive plot-line, and of course, character development.
On the outside, this story looks like just another teen romance.. but it wasn ...more

This is maybe the most disappointing book I read this year. Cute contemporary, romance between two girls, ownvoices racial rep... yeah, it sounded great to me too. But I had so many issues with this book.
THE GOOD
+ The first half is genuinely really cute! I actually loved the first half. Jamie and Sana have some great romantic buildup before they get together. There's an insta-crush, but things progress very well from there. They exchange poetry and are just generally incredibly sweet.
+ There' ...more
THE GOOD
+ The first half is genuinely really cute! I actually loved the first half. Jamie and Sana have some great romantic buildup before they get together. There's an insta-crush, but things progress very well from there. They exchange poetry and are just generally incredibly sweet.
+ There' ...more

I made the mistake of thinking this was just a contemporary romance between two girls, but it actually has a lot more to the story. Racism being the most common theme throughout. There is racism from one POC to another, which is not often portrayed. Because of these themes, racism is very present and can make readers uncomfortable*. However, it is often called out by another character or Sana ponders what just happened addressing the racism head on. Stereotyping is one of the main ways racism oc
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About: It’s Not Like It’s a Secret is a fiction novel written by Misa Sugiura. It will be published on 5/9/17 by Harper Teen, 400 pages. The genres are GLBT, Young Adult Fiction, Contemporary, and Romance. This book is intended for readers ages 13 and up, grades 8 and up.
My Experience: I started reading It’s Not Like It’s a Secret on 3/31/17 and finished it on 4/3/17. This book is a great read! It’s fast paced, easy to read, and relatable. It has diversity like The Upside of Unrequited and light ...more
My Experience: I started reading It’s Not Like It’s a Secret on 3/31/17 and finished it on 4/3/17. This book is a great read! It’s fast paced, easy to read, and relatable. It has diversity like The Upside of Unrequited and light ...more

This is one of those books that I go into so excited and then come out of feeling kind of betrayed. It feels like it should have been an amazing book, but there were problems. So. Many. Problems.
The Good:
-I mean, it's a a gay romance (yay!) with two non-white characters (YAY!), with actual supportive female friendships (YAY!!!).
-And Sana was pretty cute.
-But that's about the extend of the likes. For one, I didn't really feel anything about Sana. She was cute. But I didn't have any emotional at ...more
The Good:
-I mean, it's a a gay romance (yay!) with two non-white characters (YAY!), with actual supportive female friendships (YAY!!!).
-And Sana was pretty cute.
-But that's about the extend of the likes. For one, I didn't really feel anything about Sana. She was cute. But I didn't have any emotional at ...more

There are those books you instantly forget about after you finished it.
I still think about this one a week later.
I felt all the cuteness and got my yearly dose of disgust at the same time. Almost dnf'ed it with a fucking big 1 star 72% in. I had to stop to get rid of my disgust because I just couldn't read more about this level of cheating.
Relationships are based on trust. If you cheat, how could the other person trust you?
And she cheated bacause she didn't trust her girlfriend in the first pl ...more
I still think about this one a week later.
I felt all the cuteness and got my yearly dose of disgust at the same time. Almost dnf'ed it with a fucking big 1 star 72% in. I had to stop to get rid of my disgust because I just couldn't read more about this level of cheating.
Relationships are based on trust. If you cheat, how could the other person trust you?
And she cheated bacause she didn't trust her girlfriend in the first pl ...more

Apr 16, 2017
Sarah Elizabeth
rated it
liked it
Shelves:
contemporary,
young-adult,
love-triangle,
glbt,
netgalley-edelweiss,
read-2017,
romance,
r2r-complete
(I received an advance copy of this book for free. Thanks to HarperCollins and Edelweiss.)
This was a YA contemporary romance story about a gay Japanese-American girl.
I liked Sana in this although she did show poor judgement at times. I did like how loyal she was to her mother though.
The storyline in this was about Sana moving with her family to California as her father had a new job. She then fell for a girl ca ...more
“Endure. Bear it without complaining Her life’s motto and my life’s bane.”
This was a YA contemporary romance story about a gay Japanese-American girl.
I liked Sana in this although she did show poor judgement at times. I did like how loyal she was to her mother though.
The storyline in this was about Sana moving with her family to California as her father had a new job. She then fell for a girl ca ...more

This was AWESOME. It's one of those YA books clearly written by an adult who actually spends time with teens. The characters were messy and made LOTS of mistakes, perhaps most of all the main character Sana. I LOVED the queer girls of colour romance and I really appreciated the book's complex look at racism, stereotyping, relationships, and culture. And Sana's journey to learn to stop lying and hiding from the problems in her life was too real. I saw a lot of my younger (and sometimes current) s
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Loved this one. Sugiura gracefully tackled so many difficult and sometimes sensitive topics, while also creating fully-fleshed, relatable characters. Sana's voice is spot on. I can't wait to have this gorgeous book on my shelf to share with my students.
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“We are who we are, and we shouldn't have to suffer for it, or prove anything to anyone.”
2 stars
TW: cheating, under-age drinking, racism (at times not explicitly challenged in text)
Rep: Japanese-American lesbian MC, Hispanic sapphic LI, multiple East-Asian-American SCs
The Writing
The writing was the most mediocre shit that I have ever read in my life. The sentence structure was incredibly repetitive, as was the writing itself. The main character going on about how she was in love with t ...more

DNF at 30% // i was really excited to read this – a f/f contemporary ft a Japanese MC with a Mexican love interest?! yes pls. but.... i couldn't even get halfway. here are some thoughts:
(1) this main character is so. annoying. she's extremely stubborn and close-minded and refuses to see things around her. Sana is constantly arguing with her mother and it feels like she refuses to see things from her perspective. of course, her mom is very traditional Japanese and didn't grow up in America, so OB ...more
(1) this main character is so. annoying. she's extremely stubborn and close-minded and refuses to see things around her. Sana is constantly arguing with her mother and it feels like she refuses to see things from her perspective. of course, her mom is very traditional Japanese and didn't grow up in America, so OB ...more

A few months back, I became aware that SECRET had cheating as one of its largest themes. Admittedly this discouraged me a bit, but I was still intrigued to read it as it was on my TBR for almost a year.
Surprisingly the cheating characters wasn't my biggest gripe (although it really ruined my experience)- it was the instalove between the two MCs, Sana & Jaime. Except physical appeal, I had no clue why these two were attracted to each other. This led me to not believe their relationship as it evo ...more
Surprisingly the cheating characters wasn't my biggest gripe (although it really ruined my experience)- it was the instalove between the two MCs, Sana & Jaime. Except physical appeal, I had no clue why these two were attracted to each other. This led me to not believe their relationship as it evo ...more

This book was different than many other YA I've read in its honest and complex portrayal of race, all within the context of a burgeoning lesbian romance. Sana is a believable and relatable protagonist, caught between trying to satisfy her strict parents and also feel like part of her peer group. I loved the tie-ins with poetry and the way Sana was able to find herself in the words of others.
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I? Loved? this? Book???
Ive seen some less positive reviews on It's Not Like It's a Secret and I totally! disagree!!!
I jumped into this book with the expectation of some adorable f/f romance and just relatable teenager characters. Instead, I got some adorable f/f romance and just relatable teenager characters PLUS a lot of racist/stereotype confrontations, making the reader step back and think about how our society truly works.
⚡️ Some fabulous things ⚡️
* Character development and adorable teen g ...more
Ive seen some less positive reviews on It's Not Like It's a Secret and I totally! disagree!!!
I jumped into this book with the expectation of some adorable f/f romance and just relatable teenager characters. Instead, I got some adorable f/f romance and just relatable teenager characters PLUS a lot of racist/stereotype confrontations, making the reader step back and think about how our society truly works.
⚡️ Some fabulous things ⚡️
* Character development and adorable teen g ...more

Wow. I am blown away. This was a challenging book to read, but the realistic and frank discussions about racism and prejudice were refreshing, difficult, but necessary.
- To address the elephant in the room: yes, this book does has several instances of racism towards Mexican individuals and there are some parts that are certainly difficult to read. However, I felt like the racism was either challenged or addressed, either in-text, through internal monologue, or clearly through subtext.
- Sana wa ...more
- To address the elephant in the room: yes, this book does has several instances of racism towards Mexican individuals and there are some parts that are certainly difficult to read. However, I felt like the racism was either challenged or addressed, either in-text, through internal monologue, or clearly through subtext.
- Sana wa ...more

other than sana's personal problems, i appreciated that the book focused highly on racism. for this book, the dialogue remains mainly between the asian and mexican community. about the unwarranted accusations they faced because of how they dress, the overly perpetuated stereotypes based on their race, and the unsaid expectations because of the colour of their skin. even between the two minority groups, there’s discrimination based on bias and preconceived notions.
sadly, the execution was a littl ...more
sadly, the execution was a littl ...more

When Sana Kiyohara and her family move to California from Wisconsin, she decides it's time to be honest with herself. She has a crush on her best friend, Jamie Ramirez. She's smart, beautiful, and different from anyone Sana's known before. There are a few problems with this - Sana's new friends don't trust Jamie's, Jamie's friends don't seem to want Sana around, and a classmate named Caleb appears to have more than friendly feelings for Sana. Plus, Sana doesn't know how well her strict Japanese
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Oct 31, 2017
Meags
marked it as dnf
DNF @ chapter 8
I was looking forward to this one, but the prominent themes of racial stereotyping and the way it was (mis)handled irritated the hell out of me. In the few chapters I slugged through I was constantly facing one unlikeable character after another which is not the way to endear me to a book. (view spoiler) . I'm out. ...more
I was looking forward to this one, but the prominent themes of racial stereotyping and the way it was (mis)handled irritated the hell out of me. In the few chapters I slugged through I was constantly facing one unlikeable character after another which is not the way to endear me to a book. (view spoiler) . I'm out. ...more

This is available as an audiobook on Scribd. I think it has a lot of relevant observations when it comes to being the child of immigrants and I'm happy to see more representation of diversity in lesfic.
That said, I became bored. The story takes on a lot and, upon hearing that cheating is ahead, I don't care to finish.
No rating. ...more
That said, I became bored. The story takes on a lot and, upon hearing that cheating is ahead, I don't care to finish.
No rating. ...more

3.5 Stars
CW: Racism and stereotyping, (view spoiler)
The wonderful thing about being part of the Goodreads community is reading reviews from people whose world views, life experiences and personal truths are different from my own. Through my lense and with my YA librarian glasses on this book is a cutely awkward high school love story. I enjoyed the dynamics between some of the ch ...more
CW: Racism and stereotyping, (view spoiler)
The wonderful thing about being part of the Goodreads community is reading reviews from people whose world views, life experiences and personal truths are different from my own. Through my lense and with my YA librarian glasses on this book is a cutely awkward high school love story. I enjoyed the dynamics between some of the ch ...more

It's gotta mean something when I'm as frustrated by actual teenagers as I am with teenaged characters. I guess it means the author is writing her characters accurately. Because damned, this was frustrating. Teenagers are stupid in love. Well, everybody is, but teenagers are really stupid in love.
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As a white, middle-aged American woman, reviewing IT’S NOT LIKE IT’S A SECRET is difficult. I grew up in a small town and could count the number of nonwhite students on one hand. Having never attended a large, multiracial school, I don’t know if students sticking to their race groups is common, or whether the rampant subtle and not so subtle bias and racism between cultures.
Race and bias permeates every aspect of IT’S NOT LIKE IT’S A SECRET. I suppose my white privilege doesn’t see race as much ...more
Race and bias permeates every aspect of IT’S NOT LIKE IT’S A SECRET. I suppose my white privilege doesn’t see race as much ...more

I appreciated hearing Sana's voice in this story. Her relationship with her culture and her mother are complicated. She is a 16 year old girl struggling to find her niche in high school. She would like to have a tribe of friends that understand her, someone to love her and to make real connections to the people in her lives. I see Sana as someone who is brave. She makes mistakes, has flaws, and misperceptions about her peers, her parents and her love interest. I see that she does grow. She chall
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Oct 26, 2016
Sue (Hollywood News Source)
marked it as to-read
I am very excited for this book. We need more WLW books in YA especially ones that are written by authors of color.

My friend Rebecca gave this to me as a birthday gift last year. This was a really tough week for me, so I finally picked it up off the shelf because I knew she had inscribed it (as I do with my book gifts!), and I wanted to reread the lovely, lengthy message from her and then dive into a YA book. Whether it’s fluffier or heavier, there is something about YA I find very reassuring when I’m down. Something about the way that authors have to consider carefully how they engage with and portray these
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Closer to 4.5 stars? Would be 5 if there weren't some small things that bugged me.
I ugly cried in the bookstore while reading this oops.
In this book you will find: cute gay moments, teen angst, complicated family issues, uncomfortable but honest conversations about race, utterly realistic human messiness, and more. Full review to come.
I went into this with my guard up because I'd heard it had issues wrt to the Mexican/Latinx rep, and while I was hoping that the issues had been fixed post-sensiti ...more
I ugly cried in the bookstore while reading this oops.
In this book you will find: cute gay moments, teen angst, complicated family issues, uncomfortable but honest conversations about race, utterly realistic human messiness, and more. Full review to come.
I went into this with my guard up because I'd heard it had issues wrt to the Mexican/Latinx rep, and while I was hoping that the issues had been fixed post-sensiti ...more

me: hoe don't do it
sana: *cheats*
me: oh my god
by the end of the book my respect for sana yeeted itself out of the window
the first 300 pages deserve 4 or 5 stars, but then The Thing happend .... and yEET. Big fucking Nope. ...more
sana: *cheats*
me: oh my god
by the end of the book my respect for sana yeeted itself out of the window
the first 300 pages deserve 4 or 5 stars, but then The Thing happend .... and yEET. Big fucking Nope. ...more

Dec 25, 2020
Sylvs (NOVELty Reads)
rated it
it was ok
Recommends it for:
slow story lovers and poetry readers
TRIGGER WARNING: Racism, racial stereotyping, homophobia, cheating (in a relationship)
Scroll past if you liked this book because I'm going to be brutal in this review.
I wish I didn't have to be brutal here but I genuinely couldn't overlook the blatantly racist nature of the characters and the overall boredom I experienced during my read. It's Not Like It's A Secret wasn't even that long but it felt like I was reading it forever. Nothing really happened, there was no climax or anything that red ...more
Scroll past if you liked this book because I'm going to be brutal in this review.
I wish I didn't have to be brutal here but I genuinely couldn't overlook the blatantly racist nature of the characters and the overall boredom I experienced during my read. It's Not Like It's A Secret wasn't even that long but it felt like I was reading it forever. Nothing really happened, there was no climax or anything that red ...more

I’m actually giving this 4.5 stars, but since Goodreads doesn’t do half stars (I still don’t understand this) I went with 5, because I really liked it, and I want to encourage more people to read this. This books is BEAUTIFULLY DIVERSE. These are the kinds of books we need that include LGBTQ+ narratives and that discusses important topics like racism and equality. It’s a really great YA contemporary, and I truly believe it needs more readers and attention. Also, I loved all the characters and I
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