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Watching the English: The Hidden Rules of English Behaviour

3.91  ·  Rating details ·  7,857 ratings  ·  719 reviews
In WATCHING THE ENGLISH anthropologist Kate Fox takes a revealing look at the quirks, habits and foibles of the English people. She puts the English national character under her anthropological microscope, and finds a strange and fascinating culture, governed by complex sets of unspoken rules and byzantine codes of behaviour. The rules of weather-speak. The ironic-gnome ru ...more
Paperback, 424 pages
Published April 11th 2005 by Hodder And Stoughton (first published 2004)
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Emily Currington Hi Stuart, if you're interested in how the English behave it's certainly entertaining and humorous. She does a great job explaining in detail why the…moreHi Stuart, if you're interested in how the English behave it's certainly entertaining and humorous. She does a great job explaining in detail why the English do the things they do. Warning though, the prologue is realllllly long so I recommend (as do others if you look via the Amazon reviews) to kind of speed read through that section. Otherwise, I totally recommend this book. (less)
Åsmund Ådnøy The Italians by John Hooper is excellent. The year of living Danishly by Helen Russell is also ok, though trying a bit too hard.

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Guy
Dec 02, 2008 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: socsci, travel
If only there were a book like this for every country and people! It has been a long time since I have laughed as much while reading a book... and I'm not sure that I have ever read so many excerpts of a book out loud to my wife. If you have ever wondered why the English behave the way they do, then run (do not walk) to buy this book.

Kate Fox is an anthropologist after my own heart (when I went on an expedition, it was through the Alps rather than the Himalayas) -- uninterested in the "macho" o
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Toni
Jul 04, 2017 rated it really liked it
I'm a big fan of BBC Radio 4 and this is how I first heard of Kate Fox's work on social anthropology.
If you are interested, listen to her talk on social and cultural aspects of alcohol. Her ideas were so thought-provoking and engaging, that I couldn't have passed this book.
The task of working out a basic formula of what makes up a national character seems incredibly complex, if not impossible. Luckily, Kate is a trained anthropologist who is more interested in discovering the unwritten rules go
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Terry
Jul 14, 2012 rated it it was ok
I'm struggling to finish this book. It could be a brilliant book but it is just simply boring. The book methodically attempts to analyse the character of the English and observe rules of social interaction etc. It is profoundly middle-class London-centric, unnecessarily wordy, attempting to be partly research and partly humourous. It's all been done before. It misses out great swathes of the population who don't talk about the weather or say "pleased to meet you", namely most people under 40. Th ...more
Ksenya
Oct 14, 2018 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: british, non-fiction
Чудова книжка, щоб зрозуміти, наскільки ти сам англієць. Best ever подарунок моєму англофільству. Він дав зрозуміти, що це не просто так. Мені страшенно імпонують багато рис цієї нації, попри їхню дивакуватість.

Проблеми з соціалізацією, надмірна ввічливість, страх порушити особисту територію, любов до псів, читання і садків. І звісно дивне почуття гумору.

Кейт Фокс випробувала усе це на власних земляках, і дала пояснення.

Це дуже дотепна книжка. Усім фанам англійськості, як бальзам на душу).
Elizabeth George
Apr 18, 2018 rated it really liked it
Shelves: recomended-reads
This book was sent to me by my English publisher, and it took me a while to read as I made it my daily breakfast reading instead of my leisure reading. For anyone who has traveled in England and experienced some of the unusual aspects of the English "character" -- such as never, upon pain of death, make eye contact with someone on the Tube--this is an amusing read as the author, a social anthropologist, tries to work out why her fellow countrymen are as they are. Great fun to read.
Hannah
May 01, 2014 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Very entertaining book!

Now I understand why I'm such an anglophile; I'm a quirky English soul stuck in an American body! If I ever get across the pond, I think I'll fit in better then not.

Would love to read a similar book on other nationalities:
Dissecting the Danish?
Judging the Japanese?
Analysing the Australians?
Surveying the Swedish?

:D

Caroline
Aug 11, 2013 rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Recommended to Caroline by: Paul Cheney
Shelves: psychology
I think this would be an excellent book for any foreigners coming to live or work in England, (even Americans, who might think we share a similar culture).

The author’s introduction sets the stage well, describing her aims and methodology, and her final chapter is a thorough synopsis of the ideas she expands upon in the book. I think one definitely needs to read the whole thing though. It offers the reader a chance to really wallow in our ways of living, and ways of presenting ourselves to the w
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Jan-Maat
Anthropology practised on the English. The author claims that this was to just avoid the discomfort involved in studying peoples in obscure and isolated parts of the world - but she also tells us that humour is the default mode of the English and that modesty is one of our values. Having put us at our easy with a friendly joke and a humility topos she is able to smuggle her research past the reader and show us just how alien the English are. Which is a nice way of demonstrating the value of her ...more
Jill Hutchinson
Sep 30, 2016 rated it really liked it
Shelves: non-fiction
It is hard to really rate this book as some portions are extremely humorous, while others are dry as dust. Basically, this is a look at the English (not British) people from a sociological point of view and an explanation as to why they behave the way they behave. If you take this book too seriously, the English will appear to be an alien race, put upon this earth while you weren't looking; the author, an anthropologist by profession, gives the reader room to take some of the information lightly ...more
Kelly V
Feb 07, 2009 rated it it was amazing
Recommends it for: people who have spent time in England and want an explanation for peculiarities of English society
I really loved this book. First of all, it's hilarious--not because she's writing humor, but simply because it turns out that it is surprising and amusing to have basic human behaviors picked apart. Second, she is very accurate and the information could actually be useful in future interactions with English people. I feel that Fox is very skilled as an anthropologist to have been able to identify these traits in any culture, much less in her own culture. But she still keeps the book's style very ...more
Trin
Jun 04, 2007 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: science, english-lit
A really amusing anthropological look at the English by an Englishwoman. Fox’s sense of humor is what really makes this book; it’s a bit long and repetitive at parts—skewing too much toward being an academic text when what I want (need) it to be is a work of popular science—but Fox’s own innate “Oh, come off it!” reaction always pulls through in the end. Somewhat frightening: how much of Fox’s “grammar of Englishness” I find applicable to myself—social awkwardness, humor, cynicism, belief in fai ...more
Nika
Jan 02, 2019 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: have-it, 2018
Ох, яка цікава і довга подорож! Беззаперечно, рекомендую до прочитання, як мінімум через те, щоб відкрити в собі англійця. І зрозуміти що ж таке з тими англійцями? 😅 Авторка провела колосальну наукову роботу - спостерігаючи за своїми співгромадянами намагалася крекнути код та пояснити всі особливості та причинно-наслідкові залежності поведінки. Вийшло - просто, науково+ з гумором.
Simon
Dec 07, 2012 rated it liked it
Shelves: non-fiction
This started well enough, with some amusing and perceptive points about how the English greet each other (or rather, don't) and converse. But it soon falls into the typical trap for this kind of book, and one which Fox herself warns against in her own introduction: generalisations. Time after time she'd assert that English people do X, to which I'd reply in my head "Well, no, I don't".
She's also obsessed with class. She claims that all the English are, but she seems to think about it an awful lo
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Sarah Clement
Jul 26, 2015 rated it it was ok
I am the type of person that likes to learn everything about whatever new endeavour I've taken up, so the intended purpose of reading this book was to learn more about my new country. Although the book had its moments - discussions of queuing, pub etiquette, social dis-ease food, and the weather were among the highlights - I found the obsession with class deeply off-putting. Fox is clearly from the upper-middle or upper class, and most of her discussions of 'distinctive' English characteristics ...more
Rebecca
Feb 04, 2012 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: nonfiction
At its worst, anthropology can be extremely condescending, analyzing other cultures as if they were animals. But at its best, the discipline explains the very meaning of what it is to be human and live in human society. Fox neatly sidesteps the first to embrace the second by turning her trained gaze on her own culture.

And so we get an examination of why one doesn't speak to fellow commuters, the English substitution of home pride for social skills, the liminality of the pub, and pea-eating's rol
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Kirsty
I feel I have something of a love-hate relationship with this book. It's clever, insightful and funny, and yet I couldn't help feeling frustrated the further into the book I got. At one point, Kate Fox mentions that she's never criticised for being overly negative, only for being deemed to be too complimentary to the English. However, in an obvious attempt to avoid being `too complimentary', it seems she's gone too far in the other direction. I feel she's excessively critical of the English, ref ...more
Adina
Jun 27, 2016 rated it liked it
Read it around 10 years ago after my first visit to UK. Maybe I should read it again and try to find an explanation for what happened last week.
Jasmine
Jul 25, 2009 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: british
I read this book because an english person came into the store and bought it, and I figured, I wouldn't buy a book like this on america so it must be good. Now it certainly didn't hurt that John is also English and that Barsby yelled at me for commenting that he sounds like Ringo star (I hold fast he does, this is not a british thing on the basis that I do not think any other people sound particularly like Ringo star,only Barsby). Moving on, basically I read this book and I was vindicated, the b ...more
Josh Friedlander
I'm South African, meaning warmer than the English and nicer than the Australians, or so I always thought. Reducing whole nations to a few characteristics is a dangerous game, but never feels more right than when done by Kate Fox, an anthropologist whose keen intellect shines through this book, despite her commendable repudiation of academic jargon and pretension. With typically English humour and modesty (or so her book would have it) she explains her project, an anthropological survey of domes ...more
Sarah
Nov 20, 2012 rated it really liked it
I found this fascinating. Full disclaimer -- though I think I pretty much read the whole thing, I absolutely did not read it in the order that it is written, but rather in chunks over a few days. As someone who grew up raised in Canada by English parents, with regular-ish trips to the UK to visit family, I found this indispensable. It explained and put words to so much that I have observed and felt over my lifetime. It also helped me to understand the madness that is the English class system muc ...more
Jafar
Dec 05, 2008 rated it really liked it
I probably should have read this book sooner. I learned a lot about the Englishness from this book that I hadn’t noticed personally – but that just could be because of my lack of real immersion in the English culture. If you work for a high-tech company and live in London, you won’t necessarily see many English people around . In spite of my limited interaction with the English, this book should still be very useful to me. Next time that an English coworker of mine takes off a week from work to ...more
Dimitri
Jul 03, 2018 rated it liked it
Shelves: great-britain
A charming yet misfigured look at English social codes.

The peculiarities of English behaviour are so greatly extrapolated that the other side of the Channel sounds almost like a different planet. In practice, a basically well-mannered & polite foreigner with an erudite dash of Anglophilia feels welcome.

Some sections are hard to follow unless you are English. Many habits come off as small town/suburb ideals that don't hold up in the inner big city. And just as many are unfortunate reminders
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Anna
I have a confession to make - am an anglophile, and on top of that, an anthropologist at heart, so I could have given this book five stars only for the title…But it has so much more to offer then the title.

The author, Kate Fox, started her professional training earlier than most. In her own words:
‘My father - Robin Fox, a much more eminent anthropologist - had been training me for this role since I was a baby (...). I was only five, but he generously overlooked this slight handicap: I might be
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Geraldine
Feb 08, 2016 rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: abandoned
This was obviously a good idea formulated in a pub. I will go so far as to say it would have made a fascinating 'long read' magazine feature. Or perhaps a *short* book.

But it went on too long and the joke wore thin, and then ran out of steam.

In fairness, she did caveat several of her observations, and did remark at length on class differences - too much length.

Sure I recognised the characteristics she described. But there were so many broad brushed generalities that didn't really stand up. Or a
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Jenny Sparrow
Jul 26, 2011 rated it really liked it
Будучи страстной поклонницей Англии и всего английского, я просто не могла пройти мимо книги Кейт Фокс "Наблюдая за англичанами. Скрытые правила поведения". Долго вылавливала ее в интернете и наконец купила! (кстати, это была первая книга, купленная мною через интернет-магазин). Переплатила наверняка, ну да не жалею ни капли!

Кейт Фокс - потомственный антрополог, взявшая на себя трудную задачу - определить скрытые правила поведения и особенности национального характера англичан, так называемую "г
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Sunny
Jan 31, 2015 rated it it was amazing
I thought this was excellent. The book is about the English and some of the foibles you may have taken for granted. It really helps to understand why you may act in a certain way in certain situations and say things in a certain way. It explains why the English tend to be slightly reserved and lots of other peculiarities. It’s a must read for anyone new to the country who will be working here or living here for a certain period of time. Some of the areas it talks about are: conversation codes, c ...more
April
Aug 28, 2017 rated it really liked it
Shelves: british
A great book to pick up and put down during my first months abroad. Much of being English seems to have to do with a fair amount of bumbling around and apologizing. No wonder I'm fitting in so beautifully.
Alexander Temerev
May 14, 2018 rated it it was amazing
This is an excellent and comprehensive work of a brilliant anthropologist; it is both immensely and immediately useful, depicting a method of dissecting and presenting cultural codes in general, and entertaining as it provides a beautiful reference and observation point for the world of Englishness. I had been somewhat an Anglophobe before that book; now I understand the English better and learned to love the culture.
Samantha
Aug 21, 2018 rated it really liked it
jesus, who am I that it takes me nearly a month to read a book? my reading habits have changed considerably this year. anyway, one of those weeks I was on vacation, mostly staying in a hotel, with a tv, and my daughter made us watch cooking competition shows and catfished, so I did very little reading.

despite my slow progress, 20 minutes at a time at lunch, I loved this book. I am a displaced english person who was brought up by english parents in the US, so I have read several books about engl
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Lizzy
Jan 15, 2013 rated it it was amazing
I've read this book first of all as an anthropologist and a follower of New Ethnography paradigm. But the hidden reason for reading this book was that I really love english people and I wanted an insider opinion of their culture and manners. Fox's attempt to free anthropology form Academia is a successful enterprise of humor and professional behavior and skills, well managed in the midst of collateral damages due to her position of 'native' as well as 'outsider ethnographer'.
I really enjoyed th
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Kate Fox is a social anthropologist and Public Relations director. She is the director of the Social Issues Research Centre (SIRC).

Fox is the daughter of an anthropologist Robin Fox (not to be confused with the famous historian Robin Lane Fox). As a child she lived in the UK, the United States, France and Ireland. She studied for an undergraduate degree in anthropology and philosophy at Cambridge
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