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The Dear One

3.93  ·  Rating details ·  368 Ratings  ·  63 Reviews
Feni is furious when she finds out that her mother has agreed to take a fifteen-year-old pregnant girl into their home until her baby is born. What kind of girl would let herself get into so much trouble? How can Feni live under the same roof with someone like that? Her worst fears are confirmed when Rebecca arrives: she is mean, bossy, and uneducated. Feni decides she wil ...more
Paperback, 144 pages
Published January 19th 2004 by Speak (first published January 1st 1991)
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Eh this was a really difficult one for me to like. I didn't really relate to the main characters and by the time that I got to the end when they made a change I was pretty much over them and the book. I though Woodson did a great job handling a difficult topic from the perspective of a child; however, this definitely isn't one of my favorites by her. I'll have to give it more thought before I finish my full review. If you've read this book let me know what you thought of it.
Apr 23, 2017 rated it it was amazing
I swore I was not going to cry this time and I damn near made it. Then like all of her other books a flood of lost memories poured out at the most inopportune time. I wept in public, again, for the days and roads gone forever and the fading memories of carrying my baby around in her Bjorn reading and vacuuming, the nights she still fit and fell asleep on my chest and the countless times I calmed her down swinging her in my arms and singing, "The vagabond who's rapping at your door. Is standing i ...more
Jul 19, 2009 rated it liked it
"You can't always be pushing people away. Someday nobody'll come back."

—Rebecca, "The Dear One", P. 117

"You have those walls up all around you...Come a day you gonna want to tear them down brick by brick and gonna find that the cement is all hard. What you gonna do then?"

—Rebecca, P. 64

Jacqueline Woodson's quiet lyricism never fails in the creation of any of her new books.
"The Dear One" tackles a variety of thorny issues head-on, including teen pregnancy, adoption, and complex living scena
Stephanie Kenner
Dec 10, 2009 rated it it was ok
Teen Pregnancy

Afeni is twelve and lives with her mom in Seton, Pennsylvania. She lives a pretty spoiled life and wouldn't have it any other way. Rebecca is a pregnant teenager who comes from less fortunate circumstances, and when she comes to live with Afeni and her mother until her baby comes, Afeni is furious. She doesn't want to have anything to do with Rebecca at first and doesn't like anything about her. Rebecca feels the same way about Afeni. The girls are forced to share the same house, e
Feb 29, 2008 rated it it was amazing
This excellent YA novel concerns Afeni, who is twelve years old and lives with her mother. Her parents are divorced, and her mother is a recovering alcoholic, but things have been stable for Afeni and she and her mother certainly don't lack for anything -- her mom is also a bit of a workaholic. Afeni's world gets shaken up when her mother decides to take in Rebecca, the pregnant fifteen-year-old daughter of an old college friend. Afeni is most certainly NOT happy about this; she doesn't want to ...more
Feb 23, 2009 rated it liked it
Shelves: 3rd-quarter
i must say this book was not one of my favorite ones but i did enjoy the story.It all starts with a young girl named rebecca.Rebecca is fifteen and pregnant and poor. Afeni is twelve, wealthy, spoiled, and doesn’t care to have a pregnant girl living in her house even if the girl is the daughter of her mother’s best friend from college.Rebecca starts off being ratty and mean to afeni because she is jeaolous of afenis richness and at the fact that she gets everything. From day one, the girls hate ...more
Jun 10, 2010 rated it really liked it
Shelves: ya
Twelve-year-old Feni protests against her mother allowing a fifteen-year-old pregnant girl live with them until the baby arrives. Yet, her mother insists on doing a favor for an old friend. Feni and her single mother live an upper class neighborhood while Rebecca’s family struggles to make ends meet. When Rebecca first arrives, Feni finds her rude and obnoxious. Rebecca views Feni as a sheltered rich girl who has everything she wants. In the beginning, they clash and exchange some harsh remarks ...more
ShaNell Carter
Nov 07, 2010 rated it it was amazing
This book was really good considering that I don’t really read book like this. I only read books like this for school. This book was about: a twelve yea old girl name Afeni and a fifteen year old girl named Rebecca. Rebecca is pregnant and poor. Afeni is wealthy, spoiled, and doesn’t care to have a pregnant girl living in her house even if the girl is the daughter of her mother’s best friend from college. In the beginning of the book Afeni and Rebecca hated each other and must figure out how to ...more
Oct 27, 2009 rated it it was amazing
the plot in this book is about a girl named Afeni she was a bit spoiled. and she doesn't want this girl Rebecca to come live in there house. becuase she got pregant at the age of 15 and she was living there until the baby was born. and after a while of Rebecca and Afeni getting in to drama. they became friends and now Afeni doesn't want Rebecca to leave.
i can connect to this book becuase near the end when Rebecca was telling her grade on a test. it reminded me of me and my friends how we try t
May 31, 2010 rated it liked it
Shelves: ya
I think what always amazes me about Jacqueline Woodson's books is that I like them, a lot, even when it feels like nothing much is happening in them. Not in that 'no action, boring' sense, but in that the stories are very internal or very dialogue-driven. Somehow, I still want to read them and I still feel like I get pulled into their worlds.
'The Dear One' had a few clumsy spots where I think Woodson wrote too little, either in terms of description or reaction. But I really enjoyed the contrast
 Imani ♥ ☮
Not one of Woodson's best but it was still okay. I think it may have been a bit too short and I kind of lost the story in a few places. And the plot was a bit cliche'. What's that girl's I know it means "Dear One" in Swahilli or something so we'll call her that. So "DO" has this cousin who she doesn't really talk to who got pregnant. Her and her mom live in this really fancy neighborhood or whatever(although "DO" doesn't really fit in because she thinks they're stuck up). ...more
Kayla Grant
Feb 23, 2014 rated it it was amazing
The Dear One was a great story that made me want to read more. In this book it taught me that you should never judge someone unless you get to know them.
Feni is not with her life, her working mother is never home and to make matters worse Feni has to share a room with a guest she doesn't like. Rebecca is temporarily moving in with Feni and her mother as she waits to give birth. Feni is not thrilled at Rebecca's bossy attitude but is curious about her life. soon Rebecca lets down her tough shel
John Wetterholt
Sep 23, 2014 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: young-adult
At first Feni and Rebecca seem, and believe themselves to be, as different as can be. Feni lives in a well-to-do neighborhood and leads a comparatively sheltered life. Rebecca is from Harlem and is street smart and pregnant at fifteen. Their mothers are old friends, and when Rebecca comes to live with Feni and her mother until the baby is born, neither girl wants to get along with the other. Gradually they come to realize that they have a lot more in common than they think and their adversity is ...more
Sep 27, 2016 rated it liked it
This is the first book I've read by Jacqueline Woodson. The author managed to work in nearly every politically correct topic in the book's 144 pages: alcoholism, divorce, single parenting, blended families, same sex relationships, economic privilege vs white privilege, teen pregnancy, open adoption, dysfunctional parents, elective mutism AND throws in a sentence about drug use. Whew. Aside from the occasional over reaching to hit all the points it is a warm story of two girls, in very different ...more
Brittany Christensen
Dec 09, 2009 rated it it was ok
Shelves: english-420
Genre: Teen Pregnancy / Friendship
In this story twelve year old Afeni must learn to live with and get along with fifteen year old, pregnant Rebecca. While dealing with the all too recent death of her grandmother and divorce of her parents, Feni is sure she will have nothing in common with the new girl in her house. But after getting past the initial negative impressions, the girls come to rely on each other and to learn from each other as well. Although the plot is not very exciting or even some
Nov 05, 2008 rated it really liked it
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Nov 14, 2007 rated it it was amazing
Recommends it for: readers interested in dramatic books
I absoulutly love this book. It teaches lots of life leasons. I don't remember alot about thid book, but I do remember that it's about a girl named Lena, and her 15 year old cousin, Rebecca, moves in with her and is giving her a really hard time. Rebecca is pregnet so her mother desides to let her move in with her sister(Lena's mother), because all of her brothers and sisters would stress her out during the pregnancy. So, anyways to make a REALLY long story short Rebecca was a snob and disrespec ...more
Apr 08, 2010 rated it really liked it
he plot in this book is about a girl named Afeni she was a bit spoiled. and she doesn't want this girl Rebecca to come live in there house. becuase she got pregant at the age of 15 and she was living there until the baby was born. and after a while of Rebecca and Afeni getting in to drama. they became friends and now Afeni doesn't want Rebecca to leave. this book can connect to a lot of us because there are always those friends we have where at first we really did not like them then later on you ...more
May 27, 2008 rated it really liked it
Recommends it for: teen girls
Afeni (which means "the dear one" in Swahili) is a 12-year-old girl dealing with the tragic death of her beloved grandmother and her parents' divorce.

When Rebecca, the daughter of her mother's childhood friend, comes to live with Afeni and her mother, Afeni is not pleased. Rebecca, 15, is pregnant, and Afeni is sure they will have nothing in common.

At first, the girls clash, but they slowly become friends. Through a cast of strong female characters, Woodson takes on such weighty issues as teen
Nahla Reid
Dec 03, 2014 rated it really liked it
I did not like the main character because she is fifteen and pregnant. I did not like the fifteen year old who's name is Rebecca because she is bossy mean and uneducated.I did not like that the mother lets a girl who is a stranger that they do not know into their house that her daughter Feni does not like.

i could relate to the character feni because she is the only child and she is spoiled but when the fifteen year old named Rebecca came everything changed .The plot moved vey fast cause it was r
Jun 08, 2010 rated it it was amazing
teen at 15 pregnant must suck. Feni knwos all about it a perfect girl mean pretty than gets this turned to her. has an attitude, and hates the world. feni trys to welcome her but the girl could care less. she wishes she were never born. ANd her parents support heer.

i can not connect to this at all. This is because i didnt have this experience. In anyway, neither did any of my friends/
i give it 5 stars because it gives you lessons. that are good . i recommed this to anyone who wants to make sure
Oct 15, 2009 rated it really liked it
This Book The Dear One was a nice book to sit back and read. i found it Interested becuase I was reading along I wanted to know how this lillte girl, well, pre-teen was feeling when her mother had told her she was going to have to share the house with another person and it kind of reminded me of myself. The title of the book made me wonder that it stood for a baby and not someones name. Aferni means Dear One thats why her grandmother named her that.
Ella DGB
The Dear One is a very good book. It is eyeopening on the differences in people. Feni is a 12 year old girl who lives in a big house with only her mother. They are wealthy and Feni is very spoiled. Her mother agrees to have 15 year old Rebecca come live with them for a couple of months. Rebecca is pregnant and needs somewhere to go besides her house with her crazy mom and her siblings. They do not get along at first but become very close friend. It is a very good book.
Aug 11, 2011 rated it it was amazing
A very fast, but impacting read. The book highlights some of the emotional difficulties of teenage pregnancies, of the teenager herself and those around her. Throughout the whole book, I wanted to hate Feni for being such a bitch, but I couldn't bring myself to it. I actually found myself rooting for her instead of Rebecca, when it should have been the other way around. It has a good grasp on the true meaning of friendship, and one of Woodson's best.
Jun 11, 2009 rated it really liked it
this is about a girl named feni. feni's mom welcomes a 15 year old pregnantt girl in their home. this girl is mean, has an attitude, and hates the world. feni trys to welcome her but the girl could care less. she wishes she were never born.
i could connect this book to real life because girls get pregnant early these days then soon regret it!
i gave this book 4 stars because i enjoyed it and i suggest people who love books based on true story should read this book.
Read  Ribbet
As I move through Jacqueline Woodson books, I read the 1991 YA novel The Dear One now published int he Penguin Speak collection. With teenage pregnancy as its central focus, the Dear One stay more innocent in the eyes of the young narrator and focuses on the importance of friendship and support during difficult times. It is an affirming novel of the women characters -- young and old -- come together to help each other.
This is a really good book about grasping onto a friendship. Its really sad, since Rebecca is pregnant at 15, a VERY young age. I feel bad for Rebecca, but I know and am very sure that she will never forget Feni and Her mom. And the couple Marion and Bernadette (those very... Interesting times that she had to witness...). This book is EXTREMLEY good, so I hope that you will have a chance to read this. Thanks
I've decided I don't really care for the open-ended conclusions Woodson leaves in all her books. They all feel like they could be marvelous if they were just a smidgen longer. I did think this book was better fleshed out than I Hadn't Meant to Tell You That . The characters had depth and the story felt more real but I still felt like it was somewhat shallow in areas.

My favorite of her books is still the very first one I ever read. Beneath a Meth Moon
Nov 11, 2013 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
When I picked up this book I thought well I'll give it a try. When I read the first page. I thought to my self wow this is really detailed. When I finished the book. I went and checked out some the other books she wrote. All I'm saying is read the other books to there as good!! Like ( the house you pass on the way.. And behind you) those were the other ones I read.
Nov 17, 2008 rated it really liked it
Like I said before this book looks good because a lot of things happened in chapter one. I would recommend this book to anyone that has problem with a 15 year old girl that is pregnant living in your house. It would be fun if our E.L.A teacher Ms.Erickson would read it because it would expire some girls why they shouldn't have kids at an early age
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