Nice Girls Endure by Chris Struyk-Bonn

Apr 27, 2016 Cristina Monica rated it liked it · review of another edition

Shelves: bullying, high-school, weight

Enduring is never the right choice.

It kills you from the inside in a painstakingly slow manner. It can kill your self-confidence, your appetite, your hopes, your dreams, your passions and, even, your reason for existing. Bullying is not something I’m unfamiliar with… so when I say that keeping it all in and just letting it all resolve itself is the worst possible thing, I mean it.

Fortunately, this book’s message is not to let the aggressors win, though there are moments when you will want to sh ...more

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Aug 17, 2016 Kelly added it

Shelves: read-in-2016, ya-fiction, could-not-finish

This is not a fat girl book, and those who are bothered by any discussion of body image, of weight, of raw numbers, will certainly be triggered by a girl who is bullied, harassed, and assaulted (!!!!) because she's obscenely fat at 5'6" and 175 pounds.

It is inauthentic, hurtful, and makes a bit of a mockery of humans who are fat. Like, actually fat. I am shocked this book got published and cannot believe that, in a space where there is so much conversation about this very topic and how terribly ...more

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Apr 26, 2016 Sara (Freadom Library) rated it liked it · review of another edition

Shelves: standalones, contemporary, coming-of-age, read-2016, mental-health-neurodiversity, realistic-fiction, netgalley, 2016-releases

Actual rating 3.5 stars

This review was originally posted at https://freadomlibrary.wordpress.com/

I received an e-ARC of this book from Capstone and Switch Press via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review. Thank you!

Critically
Plot – 3 out of 5 stars
This is a contemporary, coming of age story that follows a young teenage girl in her day to day life. I had a hard time getting into the story at first but once I was through the first quarter, I became invested in the main character and her life. Actual rating 3.5 stars

This review was originally posted at https://freadomlibrary.wordpress.com/

I received an e-ARC of this book from Capstone and Switch Press via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review. Thank you!

Critically
Plot – 3 out of 5 stars
This is a contemporary, coming of age story that follows a young teenage girl in her day to day life. I had a hard time getting into the story at first but once I was through the first quarter, I became invested in the main character and her life. This story is all about family, friendships, coping with and having anxiety, body acceptance, self-esteem and being honest with the world and with yourself. I think it can be a very powerful book for someone.

Writing Style – 3 out of 5 stars
The writing style turned me off at first. It’s simple and the sentences as well as the chapters are really short. I found it jarring sometimes but once I got used to the main character’s thought process it was easier to see the benefits of the writing style. While it reads very young and sometimes immature and childish, it’s also really easy to read. There are parts that are really endearing and as a whole has a very powerful message.

Characters – 3.5 out of 5 stars
There’s quite a few characters in this book but the main character Chelsea is definitely the focus of everything. I didn’t like her at first as was the case with most of the book. She was quiet, shy and anxious. Supposedly she was accepting of herself but not enough to stand up against the people who weren’t. However, as the story goes on, she grows and matures in different ways. She’s passionate about the things she loves and honest and open. While her journey was a little rough, I really like her character development and the culmination of her story. All the side characters are special in their own way, whether that’s in a good or bad way. But I felt that most of them were there to help Chelsea through her journey and their presence wasn’t as organic as I would’ve liked. However, they were likable and endearing and sometimes even funny and entertaining which I appreciated and made my enjoy the story a lot more than I probably would have otherwise.

Emotionally
(view spoiler)[I was immediately turned off when I started reading this book, everything about it was off putting but it slowly won me over.

The plot is honest. We follow Chelsea, a sixteen year old whose been told throughout her life that she’s fat and that that is something she has to change even though she doesn’t want to. First thing I want to say is that this book is not for me. I know that and I accept that, and it’s probably why I didn’t enjoy it as much. I have the kind of body the body positivity movement skips over. The kind of body that the majority of YA protagonists have and that is a subject of disdain from a lot of people because of that fact. So I didn’t expect to connect which Chelsea whose story is all about accepting her size. And yet I still managed to do it. Because believe it or not, skinny girls sometimes hate their bodies too. And I might not have connected with how Chelsea’s life is (because mine has never been as hard) or with her personality (because I may be shy in the beginning but I have a hidden extrovert who comes out to play a lot) but her journey resonated with me. The journey she embarked on to learn not only to accept herself but to be proud of herself too. To stand up for yourself because you deserve to be respected and accepted just as you are. I’m still learning that lesson, I’m still learning that lesson, and while it’s a lot harder than this book meant it to be, Chelsea’s story inspired me to work a little harder at being happy with just how I look, with just how I am, and with just how I live.

I wanted to talk about something that made me a little uncomfortable and that was the use of anxiety medication that Chelsea had. There’s nothing wrong with seeking medication from those kinds of issue though I’ve made a personal choice against it in my case for different reasons, but the way she used it made me uncomfortable. It was almost like a crutch for her and though it got straightened out, I wish it would’ve been handled a different way.

I really loved Chelsea’s character development. At first I found her annoying. She had a tendency to judge the people around her. Whether or not they were good or bad people doesn’t really matter, judging someone by their looks is what she wants people to stop doing to her so I didn’t think it was okay for her to do it to someone else. And she had always asked why people criticized her weight, she explained how she was comfortable with it, but never stood up to people and told them exactly that. It was so incredibly frustrating. But she improved, she developed, she grew. She learned to open up and trust people. She learned to express herself and to do the things she loved to do without caring about anyone else. And she learned to be honest and to stand up for herself the only way she knew how, creatively. And I loved that.

I wanted to talk about the side characters briefly because although they don’t have a big spotlight in this book, they are important in Chelsea’s life. Melody is Chelsea’s first friend ever it seems and I absolutely loved her. She’s hyper and honest and genuine and just accepting of Chelsea and of herself. It’s kind of like their set backs balance each other out and I love how their friendship was developed and portrayed. Chelsea’s Dad was also amazing. The guy whom she gets her thicker genes from, he loves her just as she is and is kind of like her best friend and biggest supporter. I love their relationship though it had its ups and downs. When it comes to her Mom however, I just felt a lot of pity. That woman has so much more going on inside herself and she tries to fix the outside to make the inside feel better and it’s so sad. I’m glad Chelsea wasn’t sucked in completely by that mentality but there were moments when I just wanted to wrap her mom in a hug. Trevor makes a very small appearance in the general sense of things and I’m glad because the story wasn’t about him and Chelsea, it was just about her. Nice tidbit to add but not completely necessary. I felt like the bullies in her life were bullies for the sake of being bullies, all except for one. And while there are cases like that, most of the times I think of bullies as people with their own struggles who are not how to deal with them and they project those onto other people. Their motivation was very simple yet effective.

Overall, I liked the book a lot more than I thought I was going to. I still feel like this kind of story is not for me, but for someone who can relate to Chelsea’s life a lot more, it may leave them with a powerful and intense message. I loved her character development and the journey which she went through even there harsher moments. The writing style is very short and simple but once you become accustomed, it makes it easy to connect with the main character. The side characters could’ve been more fleshed out but they served their purpose. I would definitely recommend this book to people who enjoy coming of age stories. (hide spoiler)] ...more

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May 23, 2016 Irene (thefictionthief) rated it liked it · review of another edition

Shelves: arc-reviews

*I received this ARC via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review*

Actual rating: 3.5/5 stars

Wow okay. Look. This was not a fun book to read. This book was awful and sad and made me angry. But it was important. It's a really important book. So here are my thoughts.

1. Finally, a fat protagonist. In an entire WORLD filled with skinny beautiful-but-somehow-doesn't-know-it female leads, we finally have a big girl heading her own story.

2. She doesn't completely hate herself. For once, this is not *I received this ARC via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review*

Actual rating: 3.5/5 stars

Wow okay. Look. This was not a fun book to read. This book was awful and sad and made me angry. But it was important. It's a really important book. So here are my thoughts.

1. Finally, a fat protagonist. In an entire WORLD filled with skinny beautiful-but-somehow-doesn't-know-it female leads, we finally have a big girl heading her own story.

2. She doesn't completely hate herself. For once, this is not the tale of a fat character who hates herself so incredibly much that she loses all her weight and learns to love herself because she is thin and becomes popular because everyone could tell how beautiful she is now that the weight doesn't hide her personality or some shit like that. No. She knows she is beautiful. She doesn't want to lose weight. She's just tired of being bullied mercilessly by just about everyone she's ever met. And that's perfectly understandable. She loves herself, she just wishes society could too.

3. Honestly, my bone to pick- she is not THAT fat. Okay let me be straight with you. I am fat. In fact, the main character and I are around the same weight. And maybe things are different in America, I don't know. But I don't think I have ever really been bullied to my face about my weight or appearance. Sure, people have almost definitely said things behind my back. And I am a little paranoid, so a lot of the time I feel like people are making comments about me or judging me etc. But I have never experienced any of what happens to the main character in this book. Bot at the weight we both share. I also haven't been worried about not fitting into chairs or behind tables or any of those things. We are not excessively obese. We are not so huge that people should stare at us as we walk past or any of that sort of nonsense. So I'm disappointed that the author has decided to go down the path of assuming someone my size and weight (I'm an Australian size 16, I don't have to go to plus sized stores, I have cute clothes thanks) is somehow seen as unable to do the same things and go the same places that thinner people go to.

4. The ending is so so important. You don't need to lose weight to be happy. Yes there are shit people, but there are also wonderful people out there. Trying to be more confident will make things better in the long run- fake it til you make it. If you think you are beautiful, allow yourself to feel that- others will notice too. High school is not something that matters in the long term honestly. Even if you are not okay now, that's alright. Everything you do is alright. ...more

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Jun 18, 2016 Cynthia (Bingeing On Books) rated it really liked it · review of another edition

Shelves: arcs, great-friendships

I received this ARC from NetGalley in exchange for my honest review.

So for the first part of this book, I wasn't sure I liked it. I thought it was going to be a two or three star book. The plot started out as kind of blah and I didn't necessarily like Chelsea at first. For the first part of the book, Chelsea basically spent the entire time complaining about her weight. I don't know why this irritated me so much because I do the same thing. Maybe I just related to her too much. Her mom insists on I received this ARC from NetGalley in exchange for my honest review.

So for the first part of this book, I wasn't sure I liked it. I thought it was going to be a two or three star book. The plot started out as kind of blah and I didn't necessarily like Chelsea at first. For the first part of the book, Chelsea basically spent the entire time complaining about her weight. I don't know why this irritated me so much because I do the same thing. Maybe I just related to her too much. Her mom insists on putting her on diet after diet and everyone in her family and everyone at her school seems to love calling Chelsea names and telling her how fat she is. It's heartbreaking and kind of uncomfortable to read about. I also hated how Chelsea just smiled through all the bullying. I just wanted her to DO SOMETHING. But that's easier said than done because I was bullied in high school and said nothing. Apparently, I have higher expectations for fictional characters than myself. Take from that what you will. Now as much as I love fat representation in books and as important as I think it is, I wasn't really sure what the plot was and I guess I was anxious for something to happen. I was also afraid that this would be one of those books where the girl meets a guy and loves herself when a guy starts to or maybe she would only love herself once she started losing weight. I didn't want either of those things to happen.

But then something started happening about midway through the book and I slowly started to fall in love with Chelsea. I felt so bad for everything that she was going through and I hated that everyone in her life (except her wonderful father) was determined to make Chelsea feel bad for who she was. Chelsea always had perfect feet and she adored musicals and she was such a sweet girl. So why wasn't that enough for people? One thing that did help propel Chelsea's character development was the friendship of a wonderfully eclectic girl named Melody. Melody was hyper and intense and so wonderful to Chelsea. She really encouraged her to come out of her shell and develop some more confidence. And for the first time ever, there was someone who needed Chelsea as much as she needed them. I absolutely loved their friendship. There need to be more books with great friendships like that. Yeah, there was a guy that Chelsea was crushing on but he wasn't the one who inspired change and there wasn't a focus on romance at all. I loved that.

This is a very empowering story and is worth the read. ...more

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Apr 18, 2016 Megalion rated it really liked it

Shelves: ypub-2016, netgalley, year-read-2016, young-adult, ypub_aug-2016, theme-coming-of-age, theme-bullying, year-goals-finished-2016, theme-self-acceptance, pub-switch-press

Starting out, this book really reminded me of Judy Blume's Blubber. About a grade school obese girl who is viciously bullied and ostracized for her weight.

Chelsea also is oversized. But at least she has beautiful feet. As most bullied students do, she keeps to herself and tries to fly under the radar and avoid the attention of the worst bullies.

She is blessed with very loving parents who clearly contribute to her ability to bear the cruelties outside the home.

To her dismay, a girl named Melody t ...more

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Jul 14, 2016 Melinda Howard rated it really liked it · review of another edition

Shelves: arc-off-netgalley, coming-of-age, contemporary, sorta-romance, school, music, best-book-i-have-read-2016

*This book was received via Netgalley in exchange for an honest review*

This was a great book that had a realistic and honest main character. It was quite powerful and moving as it detailed the struggles of many overweight people in a society that only values those people who are skinny through the eyes of a sixteen year old girl struggling with her own weight. I think that although Chelsea didn't report Nick for what he did, and this will probably earn the book some negative reviews as no one sh ...more

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Aug 14, 2016 Lauren Elizabeth rated it it was amazing

Shelves: creative-humor, own-it, loved-that-characters-o-so-much, arcs

This book is just... So much more<3 Check it out! ...more

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Dec 29, 2015 TJL rated it did not like it

Shelves: pander-a-little-harder, preaching-was-totally-unnecessary, shitty-parenting-gone-wild, this-book-made-me-angry, reviewed, this-book-irritated-me, preachy-af, i-wanted-to-slap-the-main-character, i-knew-it-would-piss-me-off, insulting-sexist-preaching

I walked into this.

I did.

I looked at the title and said "INMH, don't do it. Don't do it. You know there's gonna be whining about women and weight in here. You know it. Don't go there."

But what can I say? I like reading stories about weight issues, and that means occasionally encountering stories that preach a load of crap.

Let's start off with the stereotyping. Of course- of COURSE- Chelsea's mom is a stereotypical weight-obsessed bitch who has control issues. Of course. Because if she wasn't, th ...more

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Jun 26, 2017 Diana Prince rated it it was amazing

Shelves: young-adult, teen-contemporary, rating-4-to-5-stars, book-reviews, arc-netgalley, gross-ugly-sobbing, exceeded-expectations, standalone, 2017, diverse-reads

Check out my FULL REVIEW here!

Thanks to NG for the early copy of this book; I'm only sorry I didn't read it sooner. I was honestly afraid to read this book when I first got wind of it. Most of the stories I’ve read with fat main characters have been single issue stories, and are typically doused in either wish fulfillment fantasies or horrible (and extremely triggering) descriptions of eating disorders and abuse. I understand that those are stories that need to be told, but seeing a positive re ...more

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Jun 27, 2017 Anne rated it liked it

Shelves: psc-reviews, realistic-fiction, young-adult, 2017

Chelsea has perfect feet. And a beautiful singing voice. But that's not what other people notice about her. All they seem to notice is that she is fat. Things are starting to change for the better when she meets Melody who always dresses in the most amazing outfits and encourages Chelsea to join choir. However, all this is subverted by bully Nicholas Dunn and his nasty friends. Chelsea has always been told that she has to be nice - but she also realizes that at some point she needs to stand up f ...more

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Jul 01, 2016 Ola rated it it was ok

Shelves: in-english, 2016, netgalley-edelweiss, young-adult, female-author, fiction

"My parents tell me all the time that I should enjoy my teenage years, that these should be the happiest, most carefree days of my life, that this is the time for me to become independent and figure out who I truly am. You know what I have to say to that? What a bunch of crap."

Easy to say that to your teenage daughter. But what it this girl is overweight? What is she has to struggle with being and overweight girl in our society everyday? What if she has to listen to kids at school

"My parents tell me all the time that I should enjoy my teenage years, that these should be the happiest, most carefree days of my life, that this is the time for me to become independent and figure out who I truly am. You know what I have to say to that? What a bunch of crap."

Easy to say that to your teenage daughter. But what it this girl is overweight? What is she has to struggle with being and overweight girl in our society everyday? What if she has to listen to kids at school calling her fat and bullying her, what if she has to listen to some perfect looking girls chanting songs that undermine her. What if her mother only sees the fat on her and wants her thinner no matter what? How that supposed to be the happiest, joyous and carefree days of her life?

Chelsea is a teenage girl who loves to sing, musicals and is tiny bit obsessed with her feet and shoes. She is also overweight which is the only thing people see about her and the only thing they base their whole judgment of her. She is trying to work in this world the best she can, she is trying to make her invisible, she is not making friends, she is not raising her hand in classes and she spends her times with her father watching musicals and singing. Special school project about filming your autobiography is a pivotal point of her teenage life. She makes a friend, a friend that sees her, not her weight.

This book sounds very inspirational - story about a fat, insecure girl who turns her world around. But the whole story felt like a description of a movie, a nice to watch, feel-good Hollywood movie. This felt nothing like a real world. I'm not saying that the idea that an overweight, insecure teen girl is changing her life is impossible and some kind of fantasy. It definitely can happen, and I know something about that. What feels like a fantasy is the way the whole story is flattened to a cliché and an easy scenario for a happy end. I felt that Chelsea's insecurities and problems were dismissed to quickly, as if we don't focus on them much we could erase them quicker. Chelsea's thoughts about how she might be perceived by others were bordering on a stereotypes and clichés. And what is even worse, they didn't seem to be true to the character, it didn't work for the character.

" 'You know, if the world around me wasn't fixated on weight, I wouldn't be either,' [...] 'The world around me needs to change, not me.'"

The easy way to happy ending that really irritated me was part about medication that Chelsea got for her worsening anxiety after a horrific event on the school dance. She was given some magic yellow pill that cured her whole insecurities and bumped up her self-esteem in just an hour. I am not an expert on anti anxiety medications, but what I know is that they do not work like that. You have to wait for effects of the medications for weeks. They don't make you brave and confident in an hour...

I think the main reason I didn't enjoy the book is that I'm not in a target group of teenage girls - I'm older and I know more now than few years back. Probably back then, when I was this fat teen girl I would look at this book completely differently. Now I see too many easy ways into creating an inspirational book with a movie worth happy ending. But if you have no idea what overweight people have to deal with - this book might open your eyes on this issue a little bit. Or if you are a parent of an overweight teen - I think that Chelsea's feelings towards her parents and how they react to the 'fat issue' will be really helpful. For sake of a mental well-being of your child - read this book.

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Sep 05, 2016 Abby rated it liked it

Shelves: recommended-to-me, advanced-copy, young-adult, contemporary, diverse-reads

Chelsea Duvay is a high school student who prides herself on her perfectly manicured feet and musical repertoire, but is also quiet and isolated, opting to spend her free time watching musicals with her father. Not having friends isn't her choice-- it's just what happened because it seems that the only thing people notice about her is her weight. She is mercilessly taunted by her classmates and made to feel abnormal and shamed by her own mother. So she's learned to live with her head down, not s Chelsea Duvay is a high school student who prides herself on her perfectly manicured feet and musical repertoire, but is also quiet and isolated, opting to spend her free time watching musicals with her father. Not having friends isn't her choice-- it's just what happened because it seems that the only thing people notice about her is her weight. She is mercilessly taunted by her classmates and made to feel abnormal and shamed by her own mother. So she's learned to live with her head down, not speaking unless absolutely necessary, finding solace in loneliness. At the start of a new school year, Chelsea is forced to face herself and her lack of self confidence when a new friendship, new bullies, and new weight concerns enter into her life.

I wasn't sure what to expect going into this book. My friend Sara recommended it to me, so I decided to give it a go. I ended up enjoying it for the most part-- there were some definite holes in the plot line and aspects that bothered me, but overall it was a quick, touching read that I finished in one sitting.

Pros:
-The character development: The protagonist, Chelsea, is loveable and endearing and grows immensely throughout the course of the book. I felt my heart soar when she was happy and come to a halt when she was put in some awful situations. But she grew into a character that I know will stay with me for a long time. Not only did the protagonist find growth, but so did the other side characters-- for example, her mother and her new friend Melody both found profound growth within the novel.
-Touching on sensitive topics: Nice Girls Endure touched on some incredibly serious issues-- body image, bullying, and assault (more on the topic of assault in the Cons section). The writing didn't sugar-coat anything and put words to what so many teenagers (and hell, even adults) have to endure daily.
-Fast-paced, riveting writing: As I previously noted, I finished this book in one sitting, which is quite out of the normal for me. The writing engaged me in a way that made me feel as though I needed to find out what was going to happen!

Cons:
-Lack of trigger warnings: A fairly graphic assault occurred within this book, but was not alluded to in the description of the book. When I got to this part, I was completely thrown off-guard and thrown into a bit of a PTSD episode from my own assault. Had I known that an assault of some sort would have occurred within the book, I would have been prepared and would not have had such a harmful reaction. I posted about this on Twitter and got a lot of great responses about how books should include trigger warnings. So, if you're planning on reading this book, know that it deals with assault and sexual violence.
-Psychiatric medication inaccurately used as a quick fix. Won't get into detail about this because of spoilers, but you'll understand when you get to that point in the book.
-Too fast to truly get to the core of the serious issues it touches on: While I listed touching on important issues and its quick nature as Pros in the previous section, both aspects together turned me off quite a bit from this book. Because it was so short, there seemed to be a rush towards the end to tie up the loose ends without actually giving the issues and plot the time they deserved.

Overall, a fast-paced, enjoyable read. That being said, the cons definitely affected my rating on this one. 3 stars.

Note: I was given a digital copy of this book in exchange for an honest review. ...more

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Oct 22, 2019 Destiny rated it it was amazing

Nice Girls Endure

By Chris Struyk-Bonn
The book Nice Girls Endure by Chris Struyk-Ben is a very powerful and engaging book. This book was about bullying and being confident with yourself and having respect for each other. It’s a story that a lot of people relate to and go through in the real world and half to face these challenges.

This book is about a girl named Chelsea Duvay a sixteen year old girl is a sophomore in high school. All her life Chelsea loved herself and was happy with herself and h Nice Girls Endure

By Chris Struyk-Bonn
The book Nice Girls Endure by Chris Struyk-Ben is a very powerful and engaging book. This book was about bullying and being confident with yourself and having respect for each other. It’s a story that a lot of people relate to and go through in the real world and half to face these challenges.

This book is about a girl named Chelsea Duvay a sixteen year old girl is a sophomore in high school. All her life Chelsea loved herself and was happy with herself and her perfect feet but people didn’t see that they only saw what they wanted to see and that was her weight all her life she has been bullied from elementary school to high school and even by her own mother. Being bullied really held Chelsea back from having friend’s keeping quit having anxiety and causes her to break out in a rash. Then one day she meets a girl named Melody at first she thought it was nothing and they would never talk or hang out again but they became really close to each other Melody helped Chelsea come out of her shell and getting Chelsea out of the house. Chelsea started to take medicine to help with her anxiety and it made her a whole different person she started to not care and not break out so bad and stand up for herself and have confidence.

I really liked this book because it had a strong message to it showed to not care what others think of you and the only thing that matters is what you think about yourself and that was Chelsea. She was very quiet and kept to herself she didn’t have any friends didn’t go out and have fun stayed home with her dad and watched movies then as the story went on Chelsea started having confidence and made a film about herself and her life and what she went through in her everyday life. I really recommend this book to kids who are going through the same things Chelsea had to go through it will show you to have confidence in yourself and to not care what others think about you, this is why I enjoyed this book so much.

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Sep 27, 2018 Pages For Thoughts rated it it was amazing

Shelves: young-adult, inspirational, realistic-fiction

This book is raw and powerful, exposing unfortunate truths about the world and how we view others. The tricky part for most is registering that what they say, do, and act hurt others, and accepting that they are wrong. Nice Girls Endure teaches about body image and themes of acceptance of loving who one is on the inside, not the lie on the outside. Chelsea shows a positive representation and makes readers feel hope. There is a recurring message of not enduring, and not to let them get away with ...more

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Aug 24, 2016 zainab rated it really liked it

Shelves: review-copies, netgalley, contemporary

**Thanks to the Publisher for providing me the eARC of this book via NetGalley**

Chelsea is an overweight girl who is taunted all of the time by almost everyone because of her weight. Even her mother pushes her to lose weight without asking if Chelsea wants to or not. Everything she goes through is horrible and the fact that it is only because of her physical appearance is sick and terrible! The result is; she has developed social anxiety. She thinks that everyone will judge her and criticize her **Thanks to the Publisher for providing me the eARC of this book via NetGalley**

Chelsea is an overweight girl who is taunted all of the time by almost everyone because of her weight. Even her mother pushes her to lose weight without asking if Chelsea wants to or not. Everything she goes through is horrible and the fact that it is only because of her physical appearance is sick and terrible! The result is; she has developed social anxiety. She thinks that everyone will judge her and criticize her, and because of the fear of the negative judgments, she doesn't even try to make friends. Even her talents are overlooked because of her appearance. All she wants from everyone is to acknowledge the talents, the good parts of her despite her flaws. But, instead, she's humiliated, tortured and physically and verbally abused every single day.

This book is really honest. It gives you an insight on what's exactly going on in an overweight person's mind and how they are handling all the bullying and the impacts of the bullying and humiliation. I think that there should be more books like this one where you can read more about how a person with any disability - I'm not calling fat a disability - suffers every day.

The writing style is commendable. I admire the way the author has captured everything in a delicate way. If you want to know how is it like to be an overweight person, you should read this book because it states everything clearly.

I felt like crying while reading the book because of everything Chelsea was going through. It's horrible how much a person is taunted and teased by everyone because of their physical appearance. If I could, I would have eradicated bullying from the world. I don't how these assholes sleep at night knowing that a person went through so much because of them.
One of the reasons why I admire this book a lot is because I also went through the same phase. Alhamdullilah, I wasn't bullied a lot but I was teased a lot. I wasn't an extremely overweight person, but, I weighed more than my class fellows and even then, my weight was joked around a lot. Even my friends joked about it and they never thought about me being embarrassed or humiliated. I'm really a carefree and happy person now, Alhamdullilah but that doesn't mean that I don't remember all the insults and cruel judgments that were passed around.

People are cruel. They like to make fun of others just because it makes them feels superior but it's never right to hurt someone's feelings. It's never right to point out someone's physical flaws. You never how insecure they are and how much they already doubt themselves. Don't give them the reason to feel worse than they already do.

I love this book so much and I'd definitely recommend it to you because people should know how it feels to be an overweight and tolerate all the insults. ...more

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Jun 21, 2016 Lindsey Gilbert rated it it was ok

Shelves: young-adult

Nice Girls Endure focuses on Chelsea Duvay, an overweight high school girl who feels isolated by her weight and her social anxiety. The story chronicles her journey of self-acceptance, as she deals with violent ‘bullies’ and learns to build healthy friendships through a video autobiography assignment.

It is difficult to write a proper review for this book, because I wanted so much to like it....but was so disappointed. I was absolutely thrilled when I received my advance reading copy from Net Ga Nice Girls Endure focuses on Chelsea Duvay, an overweight high school girl who feels isolated by her weight and her social anxiety. The story chronicles her journey of self-acceptance, as she deals with violent ‘bullies’ and learns to build healthy friendships through a video autobiography assignment.

It is difficult to write a proper review for this book, because I wanted so much to like it....but was so disappointed. I was absolutely thrilled when I received my advance reading copy from Net Galley because here was a young adult novel that was going to give us an amazing, fat protagonist in Chelsea Duvay. Body positive teen lit? Yes!

Unfortunately, one of the problems with this book is that according to the facts given about her size, I really have to suspend my disbelief about the level of malicious bullying she receives about her weight. According to the book Chelsea is 5 foot 6 inches and 175 pounds. I understand that our society considers this "plus-sized" and her BMI would put her in the overweight category according to the CDC. I also understand that body shape and bone structure go a long way in determining how you look to the outside world. All those things considered, it’s difficult for me to believe that Chelsea is the kind of fat that everyone would attack the way they do in this book. I mean, I’m ten pounds heavier and three inches shorter and was never singled out so much for my weight in middle school, high school, or college.

The real problem with this book is the treatment of Chelsea’s sexual assault . I add the emphasis because the actions that are described very vividly in this book are assault, not bullying. Reading that chapter was jarring. It was raw and emotional and painful. And I assumed it would change the tone of the book so far. However, I was wrong. The author treats this as if it’s bullying and fat-shaming, just like the little girls singing “fatty, fatty, two by four…” or suggesting she needs a special reinforced bike. But it’s not. It’s not the same at all. She never tells her family. Her mother and father think she was raped and yet as the story progresses they seem to forget all about it. And in the end she ‘stands up to her bully’ by letting him harass her on camera. Reporting is difficult. But if this is a story of a young woman gaining courage and learning to stand up for herself then really have her do it. Let Chelsea be a what she had the potential to be, a character that can help teens gain the same kind of self-confidence and courage that it takes to deal with these issues.
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Oct 10, 2016 Stacy Fetters rated it really liked it

"I was able to step outside and past my deficiencies and show the world my true self. This is me. All of me. And that may involve being overweight, but I'm more than a number on a scale. I'm more than a sum of my parts.....And that's what truly matters."

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Heartbreakingly beautiful. My heart aches in my chest for Chelsea. Bullying is a powerful disaster that needs to be stopped and this book will lead that in the right direction.
Chelsea is large "I was able to step outside and past my deficiencies and show the world my true self. This is me. All of me. And that may involve being overweight, but I'm more than a number on a scale. I'm more than a sum of my parts.....And that's what truly matters."

Received an arc from Capstone at BEA Chicago 2016!!!

Heartbreakingly beautiful. My heart aches in my chest for Chelsea. Bullying is a powerful disaster that needs to be stopped and this book will lead that in the right direction.
Chelsea is large and in charge. She is kind of short and has a few love handles to spare. The kids in school definitely let her know that too. This sets her anxiety into high gear, along with the rash that follows.
With the cruel torment of her fellow evil classmates, she feels that she will never belong. Until Melody sweeps her up in her arms and gives her courage.
They start with doing a school project together to hanging out almost every day and being the wind beneath their wings for each other.
Raising money for a new camera for film class, she decides to help with the annual school dance. And the unthinkable happens that sends her into a tailspin. That devastatingly destroys her.
What she focuses on is her amazing beautiful toes and her love of the musicals, but is that enough to satisfy Chelsea in her life as an overweight beauty with an even bigger voice?
This book was tremendously overwhelming. With the bullying and what those boys did to Chelsea just breaks your heart.
Growing up, I was a bigger girl and no one seemed to bug me about it. Well, that could be because people were afraid of my friends and I. The kids these days are ruthless and have no morals when it comes to bullying.
I think all bullies and people affected by bullies need to pick this up. This will open your eyes on how people are really treated.
Before you open your mouth, maybe you need to ask questions and get to know that person. and most of the time people belittle others just to make their lives feel better. when you're down, you bring everyone else down with you and that needs to stop.
Before you bully anyone, just imagine someone saying these awful things to someone you love. It doesn't feel great now, does it?
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Dec 30, 2016 Kristi rated it it was ok

Shelves: ya, realistic-fiction

I deal with pretty severe anxiety and have bounced back and forth between being overweight and not for most of my adulthood, so I was eager to read this one. I can't say I absolutely hated this book - Chelsea was an endearing character and I liked her new friend Melody who deals with ADHD - but it has a lot of problems as well. Some of Chelsea's inner judgments of other students, while probably realistic to what a bullied teen would think, are unfair, and they go mostly unquestioned in the text. I deal with pretty severe anxiety and have bounced back and forth between being overweight and not for most of my adulthood, so I was eager to read this one. I can't say I absolutely hated this book - Chelsea was an endearing character and I liked her new friend Melody who deals with ADHD - but it has a lot of problems as well. Some of Chelsea's inner judgments of other students, while probably realistic to what a bullied teen would think, are unfair, and they go mostly unquestioned in the text. Characters outside of Chelsea and a couple of others are broad stereotypes of "typical" high school types, and some of the school scenes just don't read very realistically to me.

Also, as someone who's dealt with anxiety and depression and is on medication for both, I was really bothered with the way the "fix" to Chelsea's social anxiety is portrayed. Her doctor prescribes her a pill which magically starts working the first day she takes it, and she suddenly has the courage to speak up in class and confront some of her bullies. Let's get this straight: medication for mental illnesses DOES NOT work that way. I am grateful every day for the medication that allows me to live my life, but it isn't a cure-all, and it sure as shit didn't work perfectly the very first day I took it, with no side effects. It's irresponsible to portray it in this way.

But my biggest problem with this book comes early on, when it's mentioned that Chelsea is about 5'6" and weighs around 170 pounds...uh, that isn't fat. Not even close! (I'm 5'3" and at my heaviest I weighed more than that, and if anybody even noticed my extra weight they would have thought I was slightly chubby, not the whale Chelsea keeps getting compared to) Yet the book has her constantly getting stuck in chairs and other people noticing and commenting on her weight. There's a need for overweight and yes, FAT characters to be shown in a positive light in YA, but claiming that someone like Chelsea is huge isn't going to make anyone larger than her feel good about themselves. ...more

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Jun 19, 2016 Erin rated it liked it · review of another edition

Shelves: netgalley

"Nice Girls Endure" probably should come with a warning label. Warning:This will cause you to flashback to your bullied past. As a person who had very low self confidence regarding my size in high school. I really could relate to Chelsea and the feelings of inadequacy that she struggles with. However ,even I did not suffer quite the cruelty that she endures during the course of this story.

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Jun 14, 2016 CeeMarie rated it liked it · review of another edition

Shelves: net-galley-arcs-reviewed

This review has been hidden because it contains spoilers. To view it, click here. Okay, I think the writer has a wonderful way with words and story. This was a powerful story. It deals with teenage insecurities and being overweight. It deals seriously with bullying and harassment. I feel this can be compared in some ways to another YA book that deals with an overweight main character, Dumplin. I think this is better done by far.

I would have given this 4 stars except for two things. I did not like how Chelsea deals with the serious incident in the book and think there should ...more

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May 01, 2016 Jenefer R rated it liked it · review of another edition

Shelves: 2016-read

Title: Nice Girls Endure
Author: Chris Struyk-Bonn
Genre: YA Contemporary
Publication Date: August 1, 2016
Format: E-ARC
Rating: 3.5 Stars

I received an e-ARC of this book from NetGalley for my honest review.

I requested this book entirely on the aesthetic of the cover. Sometime it happens, we've all been there I'm sure...right? The colorful flower and the title intrigued me. I dove in head first with no idea what I was reading.

Chelsea Duvay is a girl who just wants to enjoy the things she loves and s ...more

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Mar 23, 2016 Julie (Bookish.Intoxication) rated it it was amazing · review of another edition

Shelves: netgalley, loved

I received this novel from NetGalley.

This novel was something completely unexpected, but wow was it amazing. I love the plot, the characters, the writing style and the issues this novel faces head on.

The relationships 'Chelsea' has with her family, and friends, mainly 'Melody' and her dad, are amazing, they feel real. Those connections are what makes this novel what it is. The relationship with her mum is completely original too, not forced, an honest representation of a relationship that is str ...more

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Jul 28, 2016 falling asleep reading rated it really liked it · review of another edition

This book was pretty good. If you have issues with body image you might even find this triggering. The bullying throughout this made me REALLY uncomfortable and the way Chelsea's mom treated her was extremely relatable on a personal level. I liked the way Chelsea dealt with her anxiety and body image.

Things I didn't like:

I have to say that the whole thing with Chelsea having nice feet was super weird. So. Weird. And it was mentioned way too often. People generally hate feet. I don't get why the ...more

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Aug 03, 2016 Forever Young Adult added it

Shelves: reviewed-by-mandy-c, contemporary

Graded By: Mandy C.
Cover Story: Sketchy
BFF Charm: Meh
Swoonworthy Scale: 2
Talky Talk: Missing the Point
Trigger Warning: Near-Sexual Abuse
Bonus Factors: Keith Mars Award for Awesome Dadhood, Musical Love
Factor: Foot Fetish
Anti-Bonus Factor: Fat Shaming
Relationship Status: Here For You, But ...

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Mar 31, 2016 Megan rated it it was ok · review of another edition

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Overall: Definitely not one of my favorite books that I've read, but it could be a good read for someone younger or closer to high school age. ...more

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Feb 27, 2017 Hello Coffee Corner rated it really liked it

Shelves: 2017

I’ve never been overweight, but I have been underweight. And even though the main character struggled with being overweight, I could still relate. Her problem wasn’t that she didn’t love herself, it was that she didn’t feel accepted by anyone other than her dad. Everyone else just saw an overweight girl and assumed that if a girl is overweight it means she must really hate herself. But on the contrary, Chelsea loved and respected herself because she knew who she was underneath those excess pound I’ve never been overweight, but I have been underweight. And even though the main character struggled with being overweight, I could still relate. Her problem wasn’t that she didn’t love herself, it was that she didn’t feel accepted by anyone other than her dad. Everyone else just saw an overweight girl and assumed that if a girl is overweight it means she must really hate herself. But on the contrary, Chelsea loved and respected herself because she knew who she was underneath those excess pounds. I loved how she admired people’s feet instead of admiring their eyes. It was really symbolic because everyone always tells you to look up instead of down. But when Chelsea decided to look down, she noticed that her best feature were her feet and that made her love herself even more. Chelsea’s list of “decent people in this world” shows how self-conscious she really was. But it surprised us both when she finally made a friend her age and added her to that list. I loved how her new friend, Melody, didn’t expect much from Chelsea because she knew how shy she was. I loved how she told her that she had a great voice because she would always listen to her sing in their film class. It shows how much she Melody cares about the little things. By making this new friend, Chelsea becomes less self-conscious and it makes her stronger as well. It helps her grow as a character and makes her do things she would have never done in a million years. I also loved how Chelsea came up with comebacks but didn’t say them out loud. It added some much-needed humor to the story. Chelsea goes through something that no 16-year-old girl should ever have to experience. SPOILERS: After her school dance, Chelsea is pressed up against a brick wall and is assaulted by her bully, Nicholas Dunn. He yanks off her shirt and bra and takes a picture of her boobs. Not only that, but he punches her in the stomach and Chelsea is left there, gasping for air and throwing up. Chelsea is never the same after that. END Her incident changes her in ways that break and also make her. Chelsea’s friendship with Melody grows beautifully throughout this book. And although Chelsea’s new-gained confidence was because of the yellow pills she took, I’d like to believe that some of it was because of Melody too. Speaking of which, I had a very hard time accepting that Chelsea was taking these yellow pills. I had an issue with them because I felt like the author romanticized the idea of taking drugs to make you feel better. And although that was not the main focus of this story, it still took away from the rest of this story. Chelsea’s character also grew beautifully through this book as well. Her “incident” changed her in more ways than one, such as opening up to Trevor Laats and taking control of her life. She gained a lot of strength and courage, although most of it was because of the yellow pills. Her perspective on life towards the end was very different from the beginning of the book. She finally realized that she’s “more than a number on a scale and a BMI measurement.” She’s Chelsea Duvay. A girl who loves musicals and singing has friends that accept her for who she is, and has beautiful feet. “And that’s what truly matters.”

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Nov 07, 2018 Ann Ta rated it really liked it

The book Nice Girls Endure by Chris Struyk-Bonn is a very engaging and intelligible story. It displays a sense of acceptance in who one is on the inside, rather than what lies on the outside. It’s a story that a lot of people can relate to when dealing with lack of self love, and really gets people motivated to do great things.
This book is about Chelsea Duvay, a sixteen year old girl in her junior year of high school. Chelsea has many wonderful qualities that make her special, from her love for The book Nice Girls Endure by Chris Struyk-Bonn is a very engaging and intelligible story. It displays a sense of acceptance in who one is on the inside, rather than what lies on the outside. It’s a story that a lot of people can relate to when dealing with lack of self love, and really gets people motivated to do great things.
This book is about Chelsea Duvay, a sixteen year old girl in her junior year of high school. Chelsea has many wonderful qualities that make her special, from her love for musicals and singing to her beautiful, perfect feet. However, despite all these traits, people only notice one thing about her. They only notice her weight. Throughout her entire life she had to endure comments from bullies, taunts from the neighborhood girls, and even judgement of her own mother. As a result, she tells herself to keep smiling, be quite, and don’t draw attention. Then one day a class project pushes a friend into her life, the energetic Melody. Although their friendship might seem unlikely, they end up fitting together like yin and yang. This newfound friendship helped Chelsea start enjoying her life. Yet even with this new friendship, the bullying and judgement didn’t stop. As people try to ruin everything she worked hard for, Chelsea must find a way to show the world that she can overcome the obstacles in her journey.
I really like this book because the message of the story is insightful and intuitive and it is shown through the strong character development of Chelsea Duvay. In the beginning of the book Chelsea stayed low and didn’t want anyone to notice her, but as the story progressed Chelsea gained confidence and even made a film revolving around all the hardships she had to endure in her everyday life. Chelsea showed people that loving yourself is important and everyone should understand that as well. In the book Chelsea went to a calorie counters meeting to help her diet and lose weight, but after awhile she realized that she didn’t hate that she was overweight. In fact she loved who she was, it was just everyone around her who couldn’t accept that. As she understood more about how she felt she came out of her shell and became an advocate for overweight people. The film she made to portray the difficulties of her life helped people understand that loving yourself can be hard when others constantly put you down. Chelsea really took a big step in life and changed the world, just a little bit, and I think the message Chelsea displays throughout this book is something to really admire. ...more

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Mar 31, 2019 Grace Cho rated it liked it

The book Nice Girls Endure by Chris Struyk-Bonn is about a sixteen year old girl named Chelsea Duvay who is a great singer and has perfect feet but most people at her school only notice the extra weight she has on her body and nothing else. They don't see the personality, the fun and the love she has but instead bullies bully her for what she looks like on the outside. Her mom wants her to lose the weight but her dad just wants her to just live her life. I enjoyed this book because it was very The book Nice Girls Endure by Chris Struyk-Bonn is about a sixteen year old girl named Chelsea Duvay who is a great singer and has perfect feet but most people at her school only notice the extra weight she has on her body and nothing else. They don't see the personality, the fun and the love she has but instead bullies bully her for what she looks like on the outside. Her mom wants her to lose the weight but her dad just wants her to just live her life. I enjoyed this book because it was very powerful, it showed the struggles of what people go through. Throughout the story the audience learns to love yourself no matter what, to love you for you.

This book is about an overweight sixteen year old high school girl who has a big passion for singing and is in love with her perfect feet. With her mom worrying about her daughter getting bullied for her weight at school she takes her to something called Calorie Counters. Chelsea is fine with the way she is but her mom urges her to go and participate, she has no will and no determination to lose the weight so she ends up just quitting. At school a boy named Nicholas Dunn likes to tease her about her weight calling her Chubby Chelsea. Her one and only genuine friend that she met in class Melody, encouraged her to go to their all school dance where she then saw Nicholas. Nicholas and his little group of friends corner Chelsea and forces her to take off her shirt to take pictures of her and expose her. Chelsea doesn't budge and tries to fight their power but in the end they won and took all pictures of her body. In the end she learns she needs to stand up for herself, find the self confidence and loves her for her.

One thing I didn't like about this book was how her family specifically her mom and her grandpa just shames her for her weight instead of giving her love and supporting her, but I felt this on a totally relatable level. I enjoyed that the book telling us that we don't have to change but the society, the world around us does and that no one should get treated like Chelsea did. Another reason why I really liked this book because I feel like those who have gotten bullied or fat shamed can maybe read this book and gain more confidence in themselves, see that they are worthy. Lastly I enjoyed how the author didn't sugar coat the topics the book mentioned, letting the readers know what people, mostly teens go through making people aware.
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Jan 07, 2017 Sharon rated it liked it · review of another edition

Shelves: netgalley, young-adult, realistic-fiction

Switch Press and NetGalley provided me with an electronic copy of Nice Girls Endure. This is my honest opinion of the book.

Being an overweight teenager can make high school mostly unbearable. When Chelsea Duvay meets Melody Smiles, however, her life starts to change in both positive and negative ways. Having been the one to stick mostly to the shadows, Chelsea ends up getting some unwanted attention. Being bullied almost daily is one thing, but the event that occurs after the school dance is mor ...more

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