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The 30 Secrets Of Happily Married Couples

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A completely revised and updated blueprint for happier marriages!

It's better--and easier--to change your relationship than it is to change your partner. Based on Dr. Paul Coleman's experience with thousands of couples, this groundbreaking guide shows you thirty proven ways to do just that. In this comprehensive all new edition, Dr. Coleman offers fresh insights for a happy marriage, such

With The 30 Secrets of Happily Married Couples on your bedside table, you can make your marriage stronger and happier--whether you've been married for five days or fifty years!

256 pages, Paperback

First published June 1, 1994

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October 11, 2018
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كتاب مفيد الجميل فيه الاختبارات التي توضع في بداية بعض الفصول بعض الأسئلة عميقة فعلاً وتجبرك على التصارح مع نفسك وإعادة التفكير في طريقة تقبل الأمور لأن الهدف هو رفع مستوى السعادة والاستقرار الزوجيين اللذين بتحققهما يكتسب المجتمع كله فائدة لا توصف
الكتاب أيضاً يؤكد على أهمية الجانب الروحي في الحياة والصداقة بين الزوجين وتقبل عائلتيهما ووضع الحدود في العلاقات مع الآخرين ابتداءً بالأهل وحتى زملاء العمل
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July 27, 2016
This book is full of very helpful advice and attitude adjustments that allow you and your partner to develop a fulfilling and happy marriage. One of the most common things that people that are thinking about getting married are told is that "Marriage isn't a 50/50 deal; it's a 100/100... that you have to put in as much effort as you can." While that's wise, it also skips over exactly how you're supposed to do that. This book is a wonderful guide to improving your relationship in very specific ways. The scenarios discussed are realistic and pointed, without getting bogged down in context and clutter.

I highly recommend this book for anyone in a relationship, whether you believe your marriage is as happy as can be, or if you are struggling. This book will give you ideas on how to communicate effectively with your spouse, and will be a wonderful guide whenever you are feeling down and hopeless.
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July 2, 2008
I'm on the search to round up clues to how people develop the happiest relationships. There are some useful nuggets in here I'd recommend to anyone who wants to improve their relationship. For example, one myth this book busts is the old myth: "major differences in personality account for why some couples are unhappy together" to new finding: "Personality differences do not predict marital success or failure. It is each partner's perception and interpretation of those personality traits that make the most difference."

The book also offers suggestions to improve nurturing, attentiveness, benefit of true friendship, encouraging dreams, affection, being optimistic, supersizing intimacy, having "wow" sex, finding a sacred purpose, boosting commitment, and removing obstacles that damage relationships.
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January 16, 2009
Seems totally obvious but I still feel the urge to read in case there is some big secret to it all :)
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January 5, 2010
great book!! gave me a little insight on my marriage and how to make it better!!!
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