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Redenen om te blijven leven

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Op zijn vierentwintigste stort het leven van Matt Haig volledig in. Hij ziet geen enkele uitweg, geen reden meer om te bestaan. Dit is het verhaal van hoe hij zijn depressie overwon, een ziekte die hem bijna vernietigde, en hoe hij opnieuw leerde met volle teugen van het leven te genieten.
Paperback, 200 pages
Published October 8th 2015 by Lebowski Publishers (first published March 5th 2015)
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Maxine (Booklover Catlady)
FINALLY! A book about depression that makes sense, that those with depression will read and sit nodding their heads and agreeing all the way through it. No psychobabble here (from Psychologists who have never experienced depression) - just real raw telling of Matt Haig's journey with the dreaded black dog. This book should be given or bought by EVERYONE battling depression, or has a loved one battling it. It's everywhere you know.

Matt so simply explains how it feels, he is so darn honest and al
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Es Summer
Jun 23, 2016 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition

If you are doubting to read this book, read this quote:

"The world is increasingly designed to depress us.
Happiness isn't very good for the economy. If we were happy with what we had, why would we need more? How do you sell an anti-ageing moisturizer?
You make someone worry about ageing.
How do you get people to vote for a political party?
You make them worry about immigration.
How do you get them to buy insurance?
By making them worry about everything.
How do you get them to have plastic surgery?
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JV
"I hate depression. I am scared of it. Terrified, in fact. But at the same time, it has made me who I am. And if – for me – it is the price of feeling life, it’s a price always worth paying. I am satisfied just to be."
2018 — The demon came. 'Twas the year I lost a part of myself. My soul wept and mourned for that someone I once truly cherished — the previous me. Looking into the mirror, I saw nothing but hopelessness, worthlessness, and sadness in those eyes — bereft of joy and love. The demon
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Lotte
4.5/5 stars. If you've suffered from depression and/or anxiety yourself at some point in your life or you know someone that has (and it's very likely that you do) this book is an absolute must-read.
April (Aprilius Maximus)
Beautiful. Informative. Powerful.

Around the Year in 52 Books Challenge Notes:
- 34. A book about mental illness
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One of the most beautifully written books I have ever read. Inspiration almost drips off the pages. It's honest and vivid enough to make difference even for people who have done no personal trips to the hellish planet of Depression.
And the imagery! Don't get me started on it or I won't get any sleep today! I love when concepts are mixed with guidelines and wisdom of someone who has been there and done all that.
I can't imagine why I never knew about this author before! It's a sure must read and a
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||Swaroop||
Nov 24, 2018 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: favourites
"Words, just sometimes, can set you free."

'But in the end one needs more courage to live than to kill himself.'
~ Albert Camus, A Happy Death

This book has been an incredible read. I am not sure if there is an ancient saying about this, but this book surely appeared when the reader needed it. Matt Haig's Reasons To Stay Alive is just wonderful. It brought many bright rays of hope and sunshine, at a time when life's become so very uncertain and it seems to be all about getting through one day at a
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Imane
“How to stop time: kiss.
How to travel in time: read.
How to escape time: music.
How to feel time: write.
How to release time: breathe.”
― Matt Haig, Reasons to Stay Alive


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This was OK ! There were some bits i related to, others not so much. However, the writing style was simple and accessible, the paragraphs; short and concise. This is a good read if you're beginning your journey of learning about depression :)
Hattie Grünewald
I won this proof on twitter from Matt and though I don't often review books here, I thought that probably I owed him that. Not just for giving me a free copy, but for writing the book in the first place.

Let me be honest, I started reading this and thought "This book isn't written for me". But then I thought "There are people I would like to read this, because it feels so familiar to me." I would like to give it to people who are close to people with depression and anxiety, but don't really under
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Joanne Harris
Oct 27, 2014 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I received an ARC of this book from Canongate. My usual technique, when reading an ARC, is to read 5 pages, then take a view as to whether I'm going to actually read the book. With REASONS TO STAY ALIVE, I'd passed the 50-page mark before I remembered to take a view, and by then I was down the rabbit-hole. Matt Haig is a marvellous writer: limpid; tender; passionate. In this memoir (and it's short, barely 200 pages long), he manages to articulate, both the bleakness of depression and the means o ...more
Thomas
"Now, listen. If you have ever believed a depressive wants to be happy, you are wrong. They could not care less about the luxury of happiness. They just want to feel an absence of pain. To escape a mind on fire, where thoughts blaze and smoke like old possessions lost to arson. To be normal."

A meaningful book about depression, anxiety, and creating reasons to stay alive. Like a modern day William Styron, Matt Haig shares his experience with depression and anxiety and how he fought to overcome su
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Whitney Atkinson
4.5 stars

If you’re easily triggered by descriptions of other people’s mental illnesses, I would advice against reading this during low points. There’s some very in-depth descriptions of his dark thoughts and the panic and depression he felt, and it was really uncomfortable to confront. I think the title misled me because I picked this book up on a bad night hoping it would be uplifting, but I almost immediately had to put it back down when I realized it wasn’t going to help at all, just add to m
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Emma
Dec 24, 2015 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
So good that it should be required reading. In schools. For GPs. Everyone. Haig says that each mind breaks differently, but I think his heartfelt words will say/mean something to anyone who has felt anxiety or depression. Some sections were so real that I had to put the book aside for a while.

It's brilliant and hopeful. My thanks to Matt Haig for sharing so much of himself. It's not something most of us are able to do.
Nat K

5**** plus.

”You are going to go mad. Like Van Gogh. You might cut off your ear.”

Whether you have a large black dog lumbering behind you, or a playful puppy bounding by you side, your mental health is one of your greatest assets. It is more delicate than the most intricate Swiss watch. We often don’t think of it too much, until things go skewiff. It’s something we take for granted, like the sun rising and setting.

”Life is hard. It may be beautiful and wonderful, but it is also hard. The way peopl
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Vanessa
Mar 02, 2018 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: favourites
Wow. Wow. Wow. What an absorbing and powerful read. This was a book I purposefully set out to read slowly and in snippets mainly because many of the books themes took me to places too familiar and disturbing but I also couldn’t look away instead I devoured this in almost one sitting. Like a tragic car accident you can’t help staring at, I couldn’t stop reading. There’s times this book felt suffocating and uncomfortable like reliving a past nightmare. I even felt while reading this book a resurfa ...more
Amy | shoutame
Apr 17, 2015 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: non-fiction
Not too long ago I was approached by Canongate about this book. They had seen that I made a recommendation video on my YouTube channel for books relating to mental health and because of this they thought I would enjoy this book. Mental health awareness is something I consider to be of the utmost importance - having suffered with depression and anxiety from a young age this is definitely a topic I hold dear to my heart.

Now I have to be honest - I'm not one for reading non-fiction, in fact last ye
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Sarah
Jan 05, 2016 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: z2017, ebook, nonfiction
3.5 stars.

I enjoyed reading this. It was such an honest and personal account of what Matt Haig went through. I could really relate to this but reading some parts were hard because of that. I kind of wish I read this when I was in a better mental space because I might have gotten more out of it but I think he did a really good job. I especially liked a passage that I have highlighted below about depression (I marked it with a * to differentiate it from the other quotes).

I hope more people come f
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Julie Eilén
I feel like this book is a friend I very much needed.
Annika
Mar 09, 2016 rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: mental-health
I'm so conflicted, and I feel really bad rating this two stars. Maybe it's more like a 2.5 for me?
I do genuinely appreciate a lot of things about this, but at the same time I just couldn't connect. Honestly, if you're planning to read this - my lack of enjoyment over this book is probably a 'me-problem' and you should just go for it. I'm just not one of the people who 'get' this book, I guess.

Just to jot things down quickly(ish):
Things I enjoyed about this:
- Matt Haig brought up books a lot. I u
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Liz Barnsley
Feb 19, 2015 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
A fuller review MAY follow but my initial reactions to this book, just after finishing it, you can find here.



It is ironic (is that the right word I wonder?) that the author who gave me my first reason to stay alive, at a time when I struggled to find one - with his previous novel, The Humans - then went on to write openly, elegantly and with no holds barred, about his own experiences of depression and anxiety. And called it "Reasons to Stay Alive" If I was better with words myself I could probab
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Antonia
Aug 25, 2016 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
“Wherever you are, at any moment, try and find something beautiful. A face, a line out of a poem, the clouds out of a window, some graffiti, a wind farm. Beauty cleans the mind.”

This was really good. I almost read it in one sitting, every time a 'chapter' ended, I wanted to continue. I got this for christmas and, as I am dealing with an anxiety disorder and depressive episodes, I wanted to read this for quite some time but I didn't know what to expect. And even now after reading it, I can't pro
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Sonya Serial Reader
Wait about my video about mental illness, this book made me decide to do it, to come out and dare to say it outloud, yes I have depression and anxiety disorder, I am fighting them everyday, and I relate to every single thing in this book (even though there are some differences). Gonna talk to you soon about it all. till then, keep fighting, keep hoping. Life is not as bad as it may seem some days!
Ryan
May 13, 2015 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Talking about depression is something we should do more of. I want to see the shift in thinking and mental health be accepted as the burden that it is. There's some great stuff in this book, an example of which is the idea that physical illness Is something you have, mental illness becomes something you are. There's no detaching from it.

I think trying to talk someone about of depression with rational reasons is a big waste of time. They've probably tried and failed themselves a thousand times. T
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Leilah Skelton
Nov 08, 2014 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Reasons to read this book:

1) You have suffered/ are suffering depression and/or anxiety.
2) You know someone who has suffered/ is suffering depression and/or anxiety.

If you’re asking the question “Is this book for me?”, then the answer is simply, statistically speaking, that this book is for everybody. There isn’t a single person who wouldn’t benefit from the candid insights and sincerity it contains. Matt Haig has given us a book that is half memoir, half life raft, spoken with a voice that com
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BookwormDH
Jan 14, 2017 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This is a fantastic book. I've been meaning to read it for a long time, but it was certainly worth the wait! I suffer from the illness myself, and this book is so much better than most self-help books.

Travelling through, Matt Haig's journey and experience with severe anxiety and depression, this account manages to portray an understandable and readable insight into the illness. If you suffer from this or know someone who does, this book is an essential read. Even if you don't, it still makes for
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Nicola Gipson
May 03, 2018 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Anyone who suffers from anxiety and depression will understand just how horrific and truly debilitating it can be . This book is excellent for anyone who has no idea how a family member or partner suffers. Hope you are still doing well Matt and what an absolutely fantastic supportive wife you have.
Melina Souza
Uma leitura extremamente necessária tanto para quem sofre com depressão quanto para quem não consegue entender o que é essa doença.
Depressão não é frescura nem fraqueza.
Depressão é algo sério e que precisa ser compreendido e visto com carinho e amor.

Depressão é difícil, muito difícil, mas, como diz Matt Haig, "a depressão é menor que você. Sempre, ela é menor que você, mesmo quando parece enorme. Funciona dentro de você, não é você que funciona dentro dela. Pode ser uma nuvem negra passando pelo
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Evelyn (devours and digests words)
'When you are depressed you feel alone, and that no one is going through quite what you are going through. You are so scared of appearing in any way mad you internalise everything, and you are so scared that people will alienate you further you clam up and don't speak about it, which is a shame, as speaking about it helps. Words - spoken or written - are what connect us to the world, and so speaking about it to people, and writing about this stuff, helps connect us to each other, and to our tr
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madamescozycorner
May 05, 2016 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Right now, I don't want to give a rating. Reason? Because I listened to the audiobook for the first half and only for the Second half accompied by having the physical book with me. This resulted in me often being very tired while listening to it on audible, thus feeling I was more awake and more noticing what I read in the second half. (And I don't know if only because of that, I liked the Second half way more.)

What I generally can say: this book is something you should give your parents, sibli
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Ammara Abid
Dec 03, 2016 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Rightly mentioned in the book,
"The fame and money do not immunise you from mental health problems"

Depression sucks. It deteriorates you internally and keep on spreading like a virus without causing any prominent symptoms. Once you get dwell in this deep lethal sea of darkness i.e.,Depression, it's hard to overcome, one feel helpless, lonely, sad, lost, purposeless life, few make suicidal attempts but one should live, cope up from this & survive from the lethal sea by finding reasons to stay
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Matt Haig was born in Sheffield, England in1975. He writes books for both adults and children, often blending the worlds of domestic reality and outright fantasy, with a quirky twist. His bestselling novels are translated into 28 languages. The Guardian has described his writing as 'delightfully weird' and the New York Times has called him 'a novelist of great talent' whose writing is 'funny, rive ...more
“How to stop time: kiss.
How to travel in time: read.
How to escape time: music.
How to feel time: write.
How to release time: breathe.”
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“THE WORLD IS increasingly designed to depress us. Happiness isn’t very good for the economy. If we were happy with what we had, why would we need more? How do you sell an anti-ageing moisturiser? You make someone worry about ageing. How do you get people to vote for a political party? You make them worry about immigration. How do you get them to buy insurance? By making them worry about everything. How do you get them to have plastic surgery? By highlighting their physical flaws. How do you get them to watch a TV show? By making them worry about missing out. How do you get them to buy a new smartphone? By making them feel like they are being left behind. To be calm becomes a kind of revolutionary act. To be happy with your own non-upgraded existence. To be comfortable with our messy, human selves, would not be good for business.” 385 likes
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