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The Uncontrolling Love of God: An Open and Relational Account of Providence

3.93  ·  Rating details ·  118 ratings  ·  30 reviews
Rarely does a new theological position emerge to account well for life in the world, including not only goodness and beauty but also tragedy and randomness. Drawing from Scripture, science, philosophy and various theological traditions, Thomas Jay Oord offers a novel theology of providence essential kenosis that emphasizes God's inherently noncoercive love in relation to c ...more
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Published November 9th 2015 by IVP Academic
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Michel Weatherall

I will begin this book review with a spoiler.
Sometimes we hold onto something so tightly, we cannot ever let it go. We become blind and forget we are even desperately clinging onto it. These are blind Sacred Cows.
I believe many religious traditions are guilty of this and thus struggle with the theological problem of pain, suffering, and evil.

The answer is simple but heretical.
God cannot be both omnibenevolent and omnipotent.

Either God is All-Powerful,
John Martindale
Jan 01, 2017 rated it it was ok
Thoughtful Christians often grapple with how to make sense of the gratuitous evil in our world in light of the claim that God is perfectly loving and all powerful. Many have suggested that God, desiring beings who could truly love and be loved, chose to give genuine freedom to mankind which resulted in the possibility of evil. Secondly, some suggest that God chose for the earth to be governed by natural law and not directly controlled by God. Yet the problem of course is there are examples in sc ...more
Chris Baker
Dec 03, 2015 rated it it was amazing
"We all want to make sense of life..." So begins Dr. Oord's "The Uncontrolling Love Of God". Dr. Oord provides an intriguing look at how we might make sense of chance, evil, miracles, and provision, all in light of a good God of love. Where others have tried to make love the defining characteristic of God only to let other characteristics take control, Oord consistently keeps love at the center. The result is a new model for the providence of God-at the heart of which is noncoercive love.

After s
Apr 08, 2018 rated it really liked it
Summary: Proposes a way of addressing God's goodness and providence in the light of randomness, pointless suffering, and genuine evil by arguing for uncontrolling love as the cardinal attribute of God.

Random accidents where a tumbling rock kills a motorist. Terrible suffering that results from a random genetic mutation. Genuinely evil actions resulting in injury and death with no evident intervention of God. It is often said that as difficult as these things are to understand, they are all part
Buford Edwards
Nov 06, 2015 rated it it was amazing
Recommends it for: Anyone
Recommended to Buford by: Thomas Oord
Why is there evil in the world? Why do tragic events occur? Why do the young die? As Christians we often hear and respond to these questions with responses such as “God is in control,” “God’s ways are not our ways,” “We cannot see and know what God sees and knows.” While we will offer these types of responses in an effort to provide comfort to the suffering and to attempt to make sense of the events we see going on around us, when things hit home these explanations seem less than satisfying. Do ...more
Logan Bennett
Oct 08, 2018 rated it did not like it
I give one star because no stars is not an option. A "Christian theologian" who does not argue from the Bible and rarely interacts with it. This book is dangerous and thoroughly unbiblical.
John Culp
Oord explains God’s action in the world in a way that acknowledges human freedom without limiting God’s ability to provide salvation. The Uncontrolling Love of God presents a succinct and non-technical application of Oord’s earlier and more technical works on his theology of love. He accomplishes his goal of making “sense of randomness and evil in light of my conviction that a loving and powerful God exists and acts providentially” (19).

Uncontrolling Love of God masterfully considers complex sc
Robert D. Cornwall
Who is God? If you believe in God, as do I, what characteristics do you apply to this God? What is God’s identity? Depending on whom you ask you might hear that God is distant and capricious. Or you might say that God is loving and gracious. How you choose to live in relationship with this God may depend on your vision of God. If God is angry and capricious you likely will live in fear (and I don’t mean reverence). If you believe God is loving and gracious you may seek to draw close. There is an ...more
Oct 31, 2015 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
The Uncontrolling Love of God is an accessible, logically-developed and engrossing look at God's providential working in history, nature, and humanity from the perspective that His essential nature of love is something He cannot contradict. Coming from deep roots in the Wesleyan-Arminian stream of Christianity myself, with charismatic leanings, and now having joined an evangelical church influenced by Reformed theology, I came to this book with questions about providence, free will, making sense ...more
Ryan Dunbar
Oct 18, 2015 rated it it was amazing
In Thomas Jay Oord's latest book; "The Uncontrolling Love of God: An Open and Relational Account of Providence"; he offers a very plausible answer to the age old question of; "Why does God allow evil to occur". To answer this difficult question he begins by laying a strong foundation built on different scientific, philosophical, and theological concepts. Tom's defense of why God does not prevent evil is fully explained in the idea of Essential Kenosis, and how it relates to all of creation.
As a
Stephen Case
The world of Nazarene higher education was rocked not long ago by news of the controversial dismissal of Thomas Jay Oord from his teaching position at Northwest Nazarene University. Though I don’t know Oord personally, I know he was generally regarded as a respected and active theologian inside and outside the denomination and someone who was doing important work. He also had a certain amount of controversy about him, primarily as he was considered a leader in the field of process theology.

Not k
Ben McFarland
Aug 31, 2017 rated it really liked it
I'm faced with a dilemma: how do I interact on a deep level with a book that challenges a central tenet of theology when I listened to the book as a free audiobook? One thing's for sure: I'm not going to be able to give a coherent contribution to this debate, so I'll settle for bullet points! Better yet, listen to Thomas Oord read his own book for free by downloading the book, then join the conversation.

-- When I met Tom, I knew right away that he was a theologian to take seriously, because his
John Kight
Dec 27, 2015 rated it liked it
The Uncontrolling Love of God: An Open and Relational Account of Providence by Thomas Jay Oord (PhD., Claremont) is an attempt to propagate a logical explanation for randomness and evil in light of divine providence. The Uncontrolling Love of God seeks to wrestle with two weighty and important questions: (1) if a loving and powerful God exists, why doesn’t this God prevent genuinely evil events?, and (2) how can a loving and powerful God be providential if random and chance events occur? (p. 16) ...more
Oct 27, 2016 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: theology
Why do bad things happen? Why do bad things happen to good people nonetheless? Christian clichés are often less than helpful in response to evil events and atrocities. Oord proposes an intriguing, Biblically tested model on the sovereignty of God that settles somewhere between hotly debated sides. God neither wills, nor allows genuine evil through controlling presence. God is also not a distant spectator refusing to be involved in creation. In Oord's model of open and relational providence (Esse ...more
Sep 01, 2018 rated it it was ok
This was a book group choice. I am not convinced by a long shot. Oord strikes me as yet another human who is trying too hard to explain vexing theological questions, and to explain how God works in our lives. I believe that topic is bigger than any of us mere mortals.

I don't disagree with the ideas of randomness and regularity, or that humankind has free will. I do disagree that some of the examples Oord puts forth to define evil are really evil. Oord's overall argument for why God does not pre
Sep 02, 2018 rated it liked it
Not sure how to feel about this book. On one hand, the theodicy it presents is more satisfying and seemingly rigorous than most others I've heard. And yet, there seems to be this big hole in it...there is no mention made of how the fall of man or the fallen state of the world plays into anything; neither is there any mention of heaven and whether things might even be any different there than they are now. The author seems to suggest, like Leibniz, that we live in the best of all possible worlds. ...more
Tim Soper
May 04, 2017 rated it it was amazing
I absolutely LOVED the theology of love that Tom Oord presents with his Essential Kenosis model of Providence. My experience as a newer believer has always been that God is a loving being, and Mr. Oord has developed a theology that matches my experience. If you are from a Holiness or Wesleyan tradition and are open minded about about an open & relational God then The Uncontrolling Love of God will be a comfortable fit. Additionally, although Mr. Oord tackles some high level theological and p ...more
Craig Dove
Nov 08, 2017 rated it it was ok
I think the best thing I can say about this book is that I was not its intended audience. I agree with the general principle here - and I might enjoy his sermons. However, the arguments for what I might call specific philosophical positions - that we have free will, that God causes miracles that somehow do not involve the exercise power over something else (and does not involve the suspension of natural law) - are all pretty weak at best.
Janyne McConnaughey
Oct 28, 2018 rated it it was amazing
This book changed my understanding of God's role in my childhood abuse. I absolutely recommend it to all who are searching for an understanding of God which doesn't conflict with who Jesus is and the life he lived. It is accessible and practical theology!
May 03, 2018 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I read this book for a class, and I found it difficult but worthwhile.
Jul 17, 2017 rated it liked it
Thought provoking discussion.
Jimmy Reagan
Dec 14, 2015 rated it really liked it
This book tackles a subject that everyone thinks about at times–how to think about God in a world of profound hate and senseless tragedy. While the author, Mr. Oord, takes us beyond the hard feelings of questioning faith to the theology that can tries to answer the question, he even goes to science and philosophy along with the Bible. Without any fluff at all he takes us on a journey that demands we decide what we believe about the providence of God.

Mr. Oord brought out a potpourri of emotions i
Rick Quinn
Feb 17, 2016 rated it really liked it
The Uncontrolling God is a great example of how thought provoking theology in deep conversation with Christian scripture, the theological tradition, philosophy and contemporary science can result in a credible and honest response to the dilemma of God's care for creation and the presence of evil. I won't summarize the argument in detail because I encourage you to read it. The key to Oord's argument is the focus on understanding God's essential nature as uncontrolling love. Oord makes a compellin ...more
Jan 02, 2017 rated it liked it
Shelves: theology
Listened to the audiobook, which maybe have impacted how much I liked it. Having gone to a reformed seminary definitely impacted how much I like it too. First two chapters are really basic: "heres all the problems and questions with reconciling evil/human action/divine action!" The middle chapters were probably the best because Oord gives several typologies for thinking about these issues. My main issue is that Oord seems to set things up a particular way: "EITHER God controls everything, OR hum ...more
Joel Wentz
Jan 27, 2016 rated it really liked it
This is a surprisingly small book, considering the nature of the topic Oord tackles. Even more surprisingly, he manages to offer a robust theology, which takes into consideration philosophical, scientific, religious and textual concerns, all in such a small package. Personally, I really appreciate theologians who are well-versed and conversant in each of these areas, as this buttresses the argument very effectively.

Regarding the merits of Oord's argument itself, there is much to consider here. I
Dustin Ragland
Jan 01, 2016 rated it liked it
Great writer, though the filter of answering "life's meaning" via theology of providence felt a little pat, or pop-theological. Interested in essential-kenosis as God's self revealing, kenosis being an essential part of providence imho- but not sure that it simply works as a position as opposed to how it can bump against more heavy positions (determinism/Calvinism, process, barth, etc). Great overview of contemporary perspectives on providence just wanted it to have more teeth.
Allen Knight
Jan 23, 2016 rated it really liked it
Okay, those of us who have had our concerns on how theodicy might converge with God's providence should read this book. Greg Boyd and Robert Capon have helped me on this journey, so the addition of Oord's take is an important step. It very well will be for you. Agree or disagree with his thesis, but you will pause to consider how history, both world and yours fits into this scheme.
Steve Earl
Jul 28, 2016 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Things I have long thought but could adequately defend

This book puts into words and coherent thought many of the ideas that have caused me much concern in my walk of faith. This is a book that I'll continue to think about for a long time.
Heidi Baeza-Rivas
rated it it was amazing
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“the standards of morality and regularities of existence derive from God’s loving nature. God’s nature is eternal, without beginning or end. God did not create or choose the attributes of the divine nature. And God cannot change them because the divine nature is immutable.” 0 likes
“A God worthy of our worship cannot be Someone who causes, supports or allows genuine evil. In fact, I believe it is impossible to worship wholeheartedly a God who loves halfheartedly. We might fear a God who helps sometimes but other times chooses not to, but we cannot admire this God unreservedly.” 0 likes
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