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181 pages, Kindle Edition
First published August 25, 2015

Anyhow, men who whine about their wife being "the boss" are mostly gammas and low deltas. The only time a man takes orders is if you are a) at work, b) joining the priesthood, or c) in the Army.

“I'm afraid we've had a complaint about an incident that appears to concern a violation of the company's Code of Conduct last month,” he says. “By you.”
The Code of Conduct? What the Hell? You're vaguely aware that the company has one; you even read it for laughs one slow afternoon, so you know it's nothing but two pages of meaningless feel-good blather. Equal opportunity, be nice, be respectful, don't discriminate, don't kill anyone, yada yada yada. You're not even sure how anyone in your position could violate the Code of Conduct if he tried, short of stealing something from the company or punching somebody in the face. It's not like you have the power to hire or fire anyone.
I have never subscribed to the myth that ten percent of the population is gay. First, because I don't trust round numbers. Second, because of the thousands of people I've met over time, far fewer than 10 percent of them were not normally oriented despite the fact that I was acquainted with a lot more gay men and bisexual women than nearly anyone else I knew.
And, of course, no one could ever provide a credible citation. I've always assumed the correct number was around 2 percent, which appears to be more in line with the statistical reality. The fact is that gays tend to lead very troubled lives, not because of homophobia or the contempt of the normally-oriented as many would like to believe, but because abnormality of any kind is not easy. Gays do not deserve approval for their inclinations but neither do they merit contempt. I think the correct response to someone announcing they are gay is "I'm sorry", not because homosexuality is hateful, but because it's not an easy journey through life.
John Scalzi's first response was to attempt to distract everyone by disqualifying the individual whose uncomfortable questions were threatening the perception of his massive popularity with the public. He did this by pointing to a single controversial comment I had made on my blog in response to a vicious and unprovoked attack by one of his allies, and using it as an excuse to force the SFWA board to choose between me and two of the most influential people in science fiction.
At the time, John Scalzi was the organization's outgoing three-time president, and Patrick Nielsen Hayden was the Senior Editor and Manager of Science Fiction at Tor Books. Both leading SFWA members, they stopped paying their membership dues that summer and threatened to leave the organization if the Board did not vote to expel me, which it obediently did on August 2013.
