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If You're So Smart, Why Aren't You Happy?

3.86  ·  Rating details ·  501 ratings  ·  71 reviews
Could the same traits that drive your career success also be keeping you from being happier?

Fifteen years after getting his MBA, Raj Raghunathan spent some time with his old classmates. He noticed that though they’d all done well, there didn’t appear to be much correlation between their academic success and career success. What Raj found even more curious was the even smal
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Hardcover, 352 pages
Published April 26th 2016 by Portfolio (first published June 2nd 2015)
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Angelo
Apr 01, 2016 rated it really liked it
I like this book. The title is very captivating and that's the main reason I choose to read it. I didn't know anything about related Coursera courses and that there was actual research on happiness.
I really enjoyed reading the book, because it is really straightforward and helped me to acknowledge a new and interesting world.
I liked when the author showed how happiness can be defined (not relying only on abstract concept) and I also liked how he addressed the problems (sins) and the viable solu
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Tom Quinn
Jan 03, 2019 rated it liked it
Clichés be damned – I'm kicking off the New Year with a self-help book. Like most titles in the burgeoning "happiness research" genre there is no silver bullet to feeling good all the time to be found here. But I was pleased to see a lot more research cited than simple gut-level feel-good philosophy. Dr. Raghunathan seems like a warm and wise fellow who'd be fun to talk with, and his personality helped buoy this book up above my expectations going in.

Still, like every self-help book out there th
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Mike
May 05, 2016 rated it really liked it
A Business school professor examines happiness, with some interesting conclusions.

Strongest impressions from the book: first 2 chapters about how people devalue happiness and focus on the activities that they think will bring them happiness. Often we do this because happiness is hard to measure (unlike money, for example). Define what happiness is for you and make choices to prioritize it.

Other strongest takeaway - that people, even strangers, are more deserving of trust than almost anyone giv
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Rachel Blom
Jun 24, 2016 rated it really liked it
I'm reading multiple books on the topic of happiness at the moment and this was one of them. It's a solid, research-based approach to what makes us happy. Every chapter is divided into two parts: first a research based analysis and then a more practical exercise to put theory into practice. I didn't follow the recommendation of doing a chapter each week or so and doing the exercises, since I just wanted to read the whole book first. Not everything the author offers is new or groundbreaking, but ...more
Evan
Apr 27, 2016 rated it liked it
Shelves: first-reads
I received an advance reading copy of this book, for free, through Goodreads First Reads program in exchange for my honest review.

If You’re So Smart, Why Aren’t You Happy?, by Raj Raghunathan, seems like your run-of-the-mill, depression, self-help book. What differentiates this one from the others is that the author is not an M.D., nor does he have a background in psychology. Instead, Raghunathan is a business professor who sets out to find how people who are both smart and successful, can still
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Mick Larouche
Apr 01, 2019 rated it really liked it
The field of self-development book is a clutter. There is so many of them and so many different ideas about personal development that it is hard to find the really good ones out there. Personaly, I have read enough articles to understand that everyone has their opinion on the subject, on what makes this life purposeful and what happiness is. It is easy to get lost in a perpetual journey into self-development, with stones on the road and detours, left-turns, right-turns, etc, that left you cluele ...more
Valia Dankova
Dec 30, 2017 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
За разлика от по-голямата част от останалата литература по въпроса, книгата отговаря на въпроса КАК?
Много ми допада в книгата практичният подход на преподавателя по маркетинг, Радж Рагунатан. Радж разполага с необходимата академична подготовка в областта на психологията (доктор по психология и маркетинг), но също така и с приложния поглед на специалиста по маркетинг. Той не само прави преглед на изследванията в областта (докъдето се ограничават много голяма част от авторите), но също така ни пос
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Jurgen Maerschand
Oct 03, 2016 rated it it was amazing
No spectacular new findings but an impressively well researched round-up with practical to do's. Make yourself happy and go for it.
Candle
Apr 10, 2018 rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
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so happy professor Raj shows us The reasons
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The most thing I like in this book is the exercise,
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In general , Each time I read A help_self book I recognized Why I don’t like this subject, And in each new
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Justin Jackson
Jul 04, 2016 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: favorites
Raj Raghunathan does a fantastic job of hitting home on the root causes of our unhappiness. Through the use of interesting and eye-opening case studies backed by rigorous testing and research, 'If You're So Smart, Why Aren't You Happy?' is no doubt one of the best science-backed resources to help you start prioritizing happiness released this year.

Each chapter provides VERY practical exercises in combating the 'deadly happiness sins' as Raghunathan likes to call them.

Deadly Happiness Sins:
1. De
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Daniel
May 02, 2016 rated it it was amazing
This book is awesome! I've read a zillion happiness books (and sort of heart them all), but what sets this one apart is that it's both a review of the literature (in a fun, anecdotal way) and also a little guide book: Seven happiness killers and seven happiness exercises.

SUPPOSEDLY there's a Website that has the exercises and little assessments and such, along with a free Coursera course, but I finished this like 5 days after he launched his Web site, and it was performing crash/craptastically.
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Ryan
Mar 29, 2016 rated it really liked it
Shelves: giveaways
I received this book through a Goodreads giveaway. I enjoyed the approach of the book where the author lays out happiness killers and then presents approaches to overcome our own roadblocks. I thought the book was insightful and realized I am guilty of several of these happiness killing habits. I felt all the recommendations were practical and achievable. Definitely worth reading.
Sambasivan
Jun 04, 2016 rated it it was amazing
The author has put in six years of work and this essentially reaffirms the behaviour one needs to cultivate to live a happier life. Giving and mindfulness are the key takeaways for me. Great effort.
Lavanya
Apr 23, 2016 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: to-reread
To re-read in October 2016.
Carol Radovan
May 11, 2016 rated it it was amazing
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Bret Jarvis
Apr 26, 2016 rated it it was amazing
Wonderful advice. Well written. Truly helpful. Won courtesy of goodreads giveaway
Andrew Ma
Oct 20, 2017 rated it it was amazing
Brilliant. I began this book because I was curious about an analysis and theories of the conditions that bring about unhappiness/happiness. So an academic kind of interest.

However not long after starting I realised that many of the strategies or choices that Raj describes that contribute to unhappiness are strategies that I have instinctively adopted in my life. So I'm perhaps not as happy as I thought I was - and I considered myself pretty happy.

From time to time, the book can get a little too
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T
Jun 03, 2016 rated it really liked it
I mostly liked this book. And that's noteworthy because for large parts of it I didn't like the book. Particularly in the early chapters, many sections seemed like broad sweeping statements based purely on in-class quizzes that the author gave his students over the years to build up this edifice of logic about how to be happy across a variety of factors. Much of that edifice felt poorly grounded and I don't buy the full validity of his in-class sampling as research.

That said, the end results of
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Jeannette
Aug 23, 2016 rated it liked it
This book is directed at the working stiffs who need to unbend or tighten up as the author determines which attitude or practice will achieve happiness. A do it yourself, pep up yourself book with lots of quizzes, scorings and suggestions. A bit tedious and self important at times but would have been useful to me at a younger age. Too happy to really find it useful now, but one special thing this book offers and made me admire and like the author is that he offers the book on line, even has a pa ...more
Jodi Leunissen
Sep 24, 2016 rated it it was amazing
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Een nieuwe favoriet. Dit is weer zo'n boek dat onderdeel van je leven gaat worden. Heel interessant om erachter te komen waarom je nou (on) gelukkig bent en hoe dat te veranderen / verbeteren. Redelijk zware kost, maar het is het zeker waard. Nogal wetenschappelijk benadert de schrijver alle aspecten en worden vele onderzoeken aangehaald. Maar elk aspect wordt terug gebracht naar de praktijk en omgezet in oefeningen of vragen waar je uren over kunt nadenken. Ik zou geen reden kunnen bedenken waa ...more
Chandrahas Dayal
Happiness; all its aspects, are examined and analysed in detail, in a scientific manner, fortified with the results of a host of experiments carried out by the masters of the subject. At many points, readers are asked to participate in exercises, for them to know, how their own minds work in connection with one or the other aspect of happiness. The book certainly contributes to the reader's quest for happiness. The book is for serious reading, and will be revisited by a serious reader.
Terrence
Jul 16, 2016 rated it really liked it
Shelves: personal-dev
I enjoyed this book. A great read for those who rely heavily on logic and reasoning in making decisions. The book has 7 sections in which you can apply changes, and one of them is overthinking choices. The author argues in depth in one of the sections that relying on your gut instinct can save you time and increase happiness on choices that is not measurable. Good actions steps and guides to apply to your life. Also, there is a coursera course to go along if you need extra guidance.
Alexey Indeev
Jun 21, 2016 rated it it was amazing
I heard about the book from the Art Of Charm podcast series and was captivated by the research and ideas right away.

Such a good compilation of research and interesting finding combined with exercises on how we can improve our own happiness. Definitely recommend this book!
Daniel
Aug 30, 2016 rated it really liked it
Why are smart people not happy? Because they don't actually choose happiness, but often chooses money and fame instead. The author listed many practical ways to increase our happiness level, such as finding flow, get connected, be trusting, help others Etc.
Jenifer
Aug 20, 2016 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
A most informative and well researched book. This book highlights how something that make us smart and successful can undermine our happiness. Hearty Thanks to iMusti.
Danni
Jul 20, 2016 rated it it was amazing
I took his class and it was excellent. I hope to refer back to this book.
Domantas
Aug 13, 2016 rated it it was amazing
A really good book about human behavior and meta-cognition. Highly recommend it to all interested in psychology, behavior and self-analysis.
Wouter
Mar 01, 2018 rated it really liked it
A nice summary of lots of different research topics on happiness jammed into one book. This actually accompanies his lectures at Coursera and includes (too) many references and links to it. It contains personal tales, theoretical info on why something works a way and practical bits and pieces on how to improve your happiness on each chapter. Like another reviewer said, it's actually nothing new, but the more I read books like this, the more the concepts are printed into my brain. Altruism, minim ...more
Anna
Jul 05, 2017 rated it really liked it
I bought this book after taking the free Coursera course, A Life of Happiness and Fulfillment, by the author. It makes a good reference but was not as easy to work through as the course. I think this is due to more info provided. Not a bad thing but it can be a challenge to process.

Usually, with books like this, there's a lot of fluff and unrealistic approaches to the challenges of life. This book actually has legit psychological info and practical steps-- not touchy-feely fluff that may or may
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Jason Ong Wicky
Mar 22, 2019 rated it liked it
The book can be boring and quite long. There's also a lot of survey questions which I skip as the questions seem to be for primary school students.

The book focus on the negative and tell us to avoid them. Not bad but kind of boring and long winded.

Define what is happiness and find happiness in everyday situations.

Don't devalue happiness. Make happiness your priority.

Don't compare ranks. Pursue your flow.

Don't be desperate for love or full control.

Don't be too distrust in. Don't over think.

Mast
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