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Čaj s nápadníkem

3.97  ·  Rating details ·  3,174 ratings  ·  477 reviews
Mína, která právě oslavila pětadvacáté narozeniny, strávila dětství v Íránu, než její rodina v roce 1979 emigrovala po islámské revoluci do New Yorku. O kulturních rozdílech mezi Východem a Západem by tedy něco mohla vědět. Jenomže co je to proti tomu, co dennodenně zažívá doma s matkou? Zatímco ona, ač je rodinou nucená studovat něco „praktického“ – tedy ekonomii –, tíhne ...more
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Published 2014 (first published 2013)
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Jun 23, 2013 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Going into this book I was expected a cute chick lit with a matchmaking mother, and a daughter wanting to find love on her own. That's the type of book I enjoy, and would have been perfect for the beach (which is where I was when reading). Except, I was pleasantly surprised and am happy to say this was so much more than that.

The first part of the novel takes place in 1996 when Darya and her 20-something daughter, Mina, both reach the decision that the need to go back to Iran in order to move for
Jul 20, 2013 rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: middle-east
A great story. The history of Iran before, during, and post Revolution (in this book, immediately after and then years later, in 1996) is fascinating. As the author points out throughout the book, the media here often paints a one-sided picture of Iran due to its government and in doing so, ignores the people actually living there, many of whom have progressive beliefs but are completely silenced by the government. I was glad to get some insight into what daily life is like for Iranian citizens. ...more
This wonderful debut novel might be classified as "chick lit", however that does not have to be a bad thing. The feeling is light, but not fluffy. I would suggest this book to people who like Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni, as both authors write about relationships between mothers and daughters, as well the immigrant experience. I would also recommend it to people who liked Persepolis.
Being of mixed ancestry, born in one place, living in another, these kind of books resonate with me. There are great
Marcy prager
Dec 10, 2013 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
What a wonderful story! It begins in America, where Darya, a caring mom, tells her 25 year old daughter, Mina, that she found a wonderful man she wanted her to meet. He was one out of dozens that Mina had to meet with her mom and dad present...

Darya grew up in Iran, where her own mother arranged her marriage to Parviz, a kind, generous man, a doctor. Darya and Parviz married and had three children, two boys and Mina. Life was good for the family until Sadaam started bombing Iran, and war was upo
📚Linda Blake
The thing I liked most about this book was learning about Iranian culture and how it humanized the Iranian people. The romance plot line was weak. The description of food was almost obsessive.
Feb 25, 2021 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Am just so glad I picked this book..
It just warms the heart.
It gives you a peek into a culture and traditions.
Melissa Stacy
The domestic fiction/women's fiction novel, "Together Tea," by Marjan Kamali, published in 2013, is an absolutely wonderful book. Warm, heartfelt, and delightful. I really enjoyed it.

"Together Tea" centers on the bond between a mother and daughter named Mina and Darya. In 1981 (about a year after the start of the Iran-Iraq War), their immediate family leaves Tehran, Iran and moves to New York City, where they eventually become permanent U.S. residents. In 1996, Mina and Darya journey back to Teh
May 21, 2013 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This was an easy and quick read that caught me by surprise and with a few tears also. This is the story of an Iranian family that immigrated to America in order for their children to have freedom and to live without fear. I loved Mina (the daughter), Darya (the mom), and Parviz (the dad). I found myself easily sucked into turning the pages and the world around me disappeared as I read to find out what was going to happen next. My heart was touched both when the family left Iran and when Mina and ...more
May 11, 2013 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Full disclosure: Marjan Kamali is a writing friend. I loved this book from page one to the end because the characters were so engaging - and real. Some might call this a light summer read, but I believe it's a witty, humorous book with incredible poignancy and depth.

Marjan, who is an Iranian American, gives readers a sense of what it was like during the Iranian revolution in the 1970s. She also takes us into the modern lives of Iranians both in Iran and in America.

It's a story about a mother-da
Aug 31, 2017 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
A perfect novel. The characters are so well drawn yet the writing is very tight; not a word wasted. Under the guise of a light, almost romantic comedy, this book examines some serious themes: the plight of the immigrant (in this case Iranian-Americans but really all immigrants anywhere) and the lives of modern Iranians. It has all the elements of a classic novel including the ending (which I of course won’t reveal here). Highly recommend to all.
Feb 18, 2020 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: best-of-2020
Beautifully told audio book. 🎧
I loved it !
The entire time I read this book, I was homesick for Fataneh, a neighbor from years ago with whom I bonded. She and her family upgraded our everyday, plain-old neighborhood to something much more exotic. They were from Tehran. A family of mom, dad and girls the same ages as mine, but very shy and covered. Fataneh invited us over and we reciprocated, and worked on canning, jamming and sewing together. She taught us about Ramadan, adding rose water / flavors to just about everything, having halvah ...more
Kanchana Bandara-Coore
Oct 14, 2018 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: luanne francis, janaki bandara, marcelle smart
Shelves: books-read-2018
"She [Mina] knew how to swing her legs on that hyphen that defined and denied who she was: Iranian-American. Neither the first word nor the second really belonged to her. Her place was on the hyphen, and on the hyphen she would stay, carrying memories of the one place from which she had come and the other place in which she must succeed."
As a child immigrant myself, these words resonated deeply with me, as I too know the feeling of living on the hyphen, and especially one like Mina's which separ
Oct 04, 2018 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: audiobook, 2018
I loved this book, which focuses on the lives of Mina and her mom Darya, immigrants from Iran. The book begins with Darya setting up Mina with a potential husband, but the story becomes much more than that as they talk about their experiences in Iran when the Iraq/Iran war broke out, and their experiences in America when they first arrived. I love the books exploration of immigrants not feeling part of one culture or the other, where they feel like they are part of the hyphen between the two wor ...more
Elisa Waingort
Jun 28, 2014 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Loved it! I have good Iranian friends and based on conversations with them, the historical aspect of this novel rang true to me.
The conflicts experienced by immigrants are personally familiar to me, as well.
I could easily connect to Mina, the main character.
Highly recommended
Kathryn LeConey
Feb 18, 2021 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I love Marjan Kamali's writing; it feels just as comforting as the tea she so lovingly describes. I enjoyed this book more than The Stationary Shop, but I think the story just resonated with me in a different way. ...more
Jul 01, 2020 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Found this book and enjoyed it so much. Together Tea is about family. It mainly revolves around female protagonists, Darya and her daughter Mina who decide to travel to their home and relatives in Iran after years. Despite this being a story about an Iranian family who immigrate to America during the Iran-Iraqi war, there were many heartwarming and funny instances to relate to. Written so perfectly by @marjankamali7 there is never boring word or a misplaced scene. Thanks to Together Tea, I know ...more
Apr 11, 2014 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
A wonderfully written story. I loved the family, Mina, Darya, Baba/Parviz and all the other colorful,secondary characters. The story starts with the Rezayi family living in Queens, NY. They have come over from Iran during the Revolution and Mina and her brothers have spent most of their teens/early adulthood in America, but none of them have forgotten where they come from. Mina feels unhappy with the path her life seems to be taking. She's doing her Masters in business, but really thinks she wan ...more
Janice Liedl
Apr 15, 2014 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I really liked this - a fun, multi-generational story that focuses on an Iranian-American family, particularly the mother and daughter, who're both unsettled about what they're doing in their western lives long after fleeing Iran soon after the Revolution. That their answers require them to return to Iran might surprise readers - but Kamali does a great job of showing how their lives are so much affected by the past in Iran, its joys and its heartbreaks. Well-written, engaging and joyful despite ...more
Jan 13, 2021 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Together Tea follows similar themes to The Stationery Shop: immigration, relationship between mother and daughter, and more. I really enjoyed this one and can definitely see the maturity of her writing with her sophomore book.

I could definitely feel the heart in this book. Adapting, homesickness, exploring the new. Every immigrant will find something they relate to in this novel.

This novel just made my heart warm. There’s nothing too serious happening. It’s a story of reminiscing on the past and
Arielle Masters
This was mostly a light romance - well, a book about a young woman seeking romance and about her loving mother's different views on what she should look for in a life partner - and a story about being true to your interests and your personal needs, not just to what you *need* to do in life to be successful. It also contrasted life in semi-contemporary New York City with life in pre-revolutionary, early revolutionary, and 1990s post-revolutionary Iran.

I liked that the family was basically happy
Apr 01, 2020 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I would probably not have picked this book up on my own. This book was chosen as part of a virtual book club I’m participating in. It was an excellent choice.
This is a moving story about a Persian family attempting to adjust to American life. When Darya and Mina went back to visit their home country, I felt their fear in the airport. By reading this book, I had an inside perspective to a world that I have never considered before. It was beautiful, heartbreaking, and inspiring all at once.
I wou
Jun 24, 2013 rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
In 1978, Mina's family left behind the tragedy and turmoil of Iran to start fresh in America. Since then, Mina has always felt like she wasn't either fully Iranian or fully American, but rather something in the middle. She's given up her passion for art in exchange for getting her MBA and she's suffered through enough awkward teas with possible marriage matches to last a lifetime. Then one day, Mina figures it out. She wants to return to her roots and visit Tehran.

Her mother, Darya, is surprisi
Mina is a 25-year old woman living in New York, working on her MBA despite the fact she would rather be pursuing artistic dreams. She immigrated to America when she was 15, when her family had to escape the war in Iran. She has become “American” in the ten years that she’s lived in New York, but finds that she still lives under the Iranian family rules of her parents. What drives her crazy, in particular, is her mother’s determination to find her the right man to marry. Shortly after a particula ...more
Jan 09, 2020 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
What a lovely find! A beautiful, heartwarming story of an Iranian- American family. Just what I was looking for right now. Something about Iran but not a heavy read. In the midst of current political chaos, with all the tensions brewing up between Iran and America; this book felt like a gush of cool air.

Though fictional, the story is very well written with beautiful, memorable characters. The synopsis of the book says that it is about a mother-daughter relationship and finding love, but I truly
Holly (2 Kids and Tired)
Tired of her mother's matchmaking attempts and wanting to know who she is and where she came from, Mina returns to Iran after immigrating 15 years ago.

I found the historical aspect of this novel fascinating. My knowledge of Iran-American relations is spotty and comes mostly from the media, which we all know isn't to be trusted completely. I remember the hostage crisis in 1979-1981. Here, I loved the perspective of a young woman who grew up in Iran and immigrated to America in the early days of t
Sep 15, 2018 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: 2018-bookshelf
I found this book a charming and refreshing perspective on a contemporary Iranian family who left Iran during their revolution in 1978 and are now living in New York. The book goes back and forth between remembering what it was like when they left Iran and their life in NY now. I found all the characters very likable. There were no heroics going on in the story, just a loving family who were going through the normal struggles of life and trying to reconcile their Iranian background while still b ...more
Jennifer S. Brown
This story is a romance taken to a new level. Yes, there's a woman whose mother wants to make her a match, using her Excel spreadsheets for find the perfect man. And the beginning is light and fun and easy to read. But part way through the novel, Mina and her mother Darya, return to their native country, Iran, and at this point, the story becomes much richer as we explore modern-day Iran through the eyes of the two women (especially in comparison to their memories of the country pre-revolution). ...more
Jun 16, 2013 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Book #51 Read in 2013
Together Tea by Marjan Kamali

Mina, her parents and her two brothers head to America from Iran during the Iran-Iraqi war. This book talks about Mina's assimilation to American life, how her mother is still trying to arrange a husband for her, and on the return visit that Mina and her mother take to Iran when Mina is in college.

This book does a nice job describing the difficulty of fitting in to a new country, and fitting in when visiting the old country. The characters are i
Jul 16, 2014 rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
A heart-warming, poignant, and funny story about an Iranian family who immigrates to the United States. The story centers on the mother and daughter, Darya and Mina. Mina and her mother have different expectations about Mina’s future career and approach to finding a suitable husband. During a return trip to Iran, Darya and Mina strengthen their bond, and they make peace with their struggle of living between two cultures. What I loved most about this book is the view into Iran's political atmosph ...more
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Marjan Kamali, born in Turkey to Iranian parents, spent her childhood in Kenya, Germany, Turkey, Iran, and the United States. She studied English Literature at UC Berkeley and received her MBA from Columbia University and her MFA from New York University.

The Stationery Shop is a Boston Globe best-seller, a Publishers Weekly best-seller, an Indie Next Pick, Amazon Best Book of the Month, Editor's

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“She knew how to swing her legs on that hyphen that defined and denied who she was: Iranian-American. Neither the first word nor the second really belonged to her. Her place was on the hyphen and on the hyphen she would stay, carrying memories of the one place from which she had come and the other place in which she must succeed. The hyphen was hers-- a space small, and potentially precarious. On the hyphen she would sit, and on the hyphen she would stand, and soon, like a seasoned acrobat, she would balance there perfectly, never falling, never choosing either side over the other, content with walking that thin line.” 5 likes
“I'm not scared. The only thing that scares me is God. And guess what, Mina? God is not a fanatic.” 4 likes
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